back to indexPlanning Your Best Trip Ever with Brandon Presser
Chapters
0:0 Intro
2:15 Most people get wrong about the way they travel
4:0 What you want to get out of a trip
5:10 Why do you love travel
6:43 Making a meaningful itinerary
11:10 Being generous
14:31 Start with a passion
15:54 Being a fixer in Iceland
16:50 Finding the right hotel
20:3 Tips for finding the right hotel
23:34 How do you determine what is nice
27:31 Best Qtips and Club Sandwiches
28:37 Western Food in Japan
29:39 Japan
30:17 Brandons Favorite Places
31:47 Japan Old
32:54 Explore on your own
34:49 Honshu
35:26 The Lonely Planet
37:33 Take a Break
39:56 Shoes
41:6 Photography
43:20 Sponsor
45:7 Favorite Travel Hacks
47:7 Overspending or Underspending
50:13 Australia
51:19 Where to go in 2022
54:38 Where to go in 2021
56:14 Where to go when
58:15 Trying to go to Angola
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I have been to about 130 countries and I do not want to be accused as a country counter 00:00:12.300 |
I have three trips to the Tahiti plan this year. 00:00:15.960 |
I like to go back to a lot of places that I know and I like to dig even deeper. 00:00:21.960 |
I do try to find opportunities to visit somewhere new, but I want it to be organic. 00:00:28.680 |
I don't want to go somewhere and not have a plan or a point of view or an idea for a 00:00:35.040 |
I like to go everywhere with a mission and I think that's a really good piece of information 00:00:40.320 |
Find a mission for your trip so you don't feel lost. 00:00:43.960 |
My mission tends to be finding information and personalities for an article. 00:00:50.600 |
When things start to bake in those places, I prioritize that new place. 00:00:56.560 |
Hello and welcome to another episode of All The Hacks, a show about upgrading your life, 00:01:02.680 |
I'm Chris Hutchins and I am excited to have you here today because I'm talking with one 00:01:07.040 |
of the most well-traveled people I've ever met, Brandon Presser. 00:01:11.440 |
He's an award-winning travel journalist who's been to 130 countries. 00:01:17.720 |
He regularly contributes to Condé Nast Traveler in Bloomberg and hosted the Bravo television 00:01:24.960 |
But most recently, he released his latest book, The Far Land, and it is a crazy true 00:01:30.160 |
story about 200 years of murder, mania, and mutiny in the South Pacific. 00:01:38.560 |
In our conversation, I'm going to try my best to pull out all the travel tips and hacks 00:01:44.420 |
We'll talk about planning a trip, where to stay, having authentic experiences, how best 00:01:50.220 |
to use reviews and guidebooks, why the type of Q-tip a hotel has matters, and we'll get 00:01:56.580 |
his take on the best places you can go for your next trip, including a few unexpected 00:02:03.380 |
I don't know how we're going to get into all of this in the amount of time we have, but 00:02:18.980 |
Yeah, I am really excited for this conversation. 00:02:21.580 |
I want to jump right in and just ask, what do you think most people get wrong about the 00:02:30.420 |
Over the last 10 years, as we've seen social media really ramp up and we see that everyone 00:02:35.180 |
can post all their experiences and find experiences to cover it on Instagram, travel has become 00:02:46.940 |
And I think that's the biggest pitfall that people make. 00:02:49.700 |
Because if you're seeing travel as a commodity or as you performing in that space, you're 00:02:58.740 |
And so if someone were thinking about how to spend an upcoming trip, they were like, 00:03:05.500 |
What would you tell them to start doing even before they know where they're going to have 00:03:13.460 |
I think the biggest mistake that people make, but when they're about to travel is they pick 00:03:22.140 |
So I would start your trip planning by thinking about what you want to get out of that trip 00:03:27.980 |
and then find a shortlist of destinations and marry that shortlist to the purpose of 00:03:35.420 |
So "I want to go to Italy" might end up being a hollow experience because the thing that 00:03:41.420 |
you actually want to get out of the trip is going to a place where there's not a lot of 00:03:46.540 |
other tourists or going to a place where you really want to have an experience where you're 00:03:53.620 |
Italy is America's favorite destination in Europe. 00:03:57.180 |
That might not happen for you in a one-week trip there. 00:04:01.140 |
And if it would, it probably might not happen in the place that you might by default go. 00:04:05.140 |
You're like, "I'm going to go to Rome and meet people." 00:04:07.060 |
That might not be the easiest spot to blend in. 00:04:12.020 |
And you know, there's nothing wrong with having your bucket list and hearing about a trip 00:04:16.580 |
that someone else took and wanting to go there too. 00:04:18.900 |
Word of mouth is the most powerful tool in travel. 00:04:23.100 |
But if you're just sitting down to say, "I have a week in September and I want to fill 00:04:27.740 |
it," start with how you want to fill it, not where. 00:04:31.660 |
And do you have some examples of things to inspire people about how they could fill it? 00:04:36.700 |
Let's start with something like, is it a trip where you want to expend a lot of energy? 00:04:42.500 |
Do you want it to be physically active, socially active? 00:04:44.940 |
Or are you on super burnout and you need a place where you don't want to talk to other 00:04:50.120 |
people and you just want to be on a beach, in a cabin, on a mountain, in the desert? 00:04:56.920 |
Is this going to be like a big social and physical spend or is this like a reboot? 00:05:04.940 |
Just put the big spend first and put the reboot second, so that you come home fresh. 00:05:13.300 |
I mean, you've done a ton of traveling, you haven't hit the whole world, but you're closer 00:05:23.780 |
Well, I was the kid, the 5-year-old kid that would ask my parents for a trip when they 00:05:32.500 |
were like, "What do you want for your birthday?" 00:05:36.860 |
And I was a kid who had no attention for reading. 00:05:43.340 |
And I think I've had this very ADD brain for years that finds something super interesting, 00:05:49.660 |
jumps on it, learns everything there is to know about that thing, and then jumps to the 00:05:54.860 |
And travel has been the only industry in space that has allowed me to let my ADD free. 00:06:05.860 |
I'm obsessed with learning things about different cultures. 00:06:10.400 |
I think through travel, you ultimately learn a lot more about yourself. 00:06:15.660 |
And so for me, it's about seeing the world in an ordinary way. 00:06:21.700 |
I want to go to places and see what the everyday life is for someone there. 00:06:24.980 |
I don't need to check off the Taj Mahal or the Sydney Opera House off of a list. 00:06:30.300 |
I just want to see how other people are experiencing the world, how other people's minds work, 00:06:36.140 |
what motivates people, what are people's hopes and dreams, and what do we have in common, 00:06:46.180 |
And I feel like the more you travel in general, the more you're able to appreciate that. 00:06:51.340 |
How would you go about making a meaningful itinerary for a trip? 00:06:56.140 |
Well, I think we've come so far away from checklist travel, especially in the American 00:07:09.700 |
Go see them and have a look if that's part of your motivation. 00:07:13.440 |
But I think what you need to be thinking about as well is that it's okay not to have everything 00:07:20.680 |
figured out and not have everything structured. 00:07:23.460 |
I've talked to people who've not been to destinations that they're about to go to, and they're really 00:07:27.740 |
excited for the trip because at 8am, they're doing this and at 9am, they're doing that. 00:07:33.980 |
And it's this whole list of checklist travel in a different way. 00:07:38.100 |
We think of checklist travel as going to see the big ticket, but then people are like, 00:07:41.580 |
"Well, I have my food experience and I have my museum experience and I have it all lined 00:07:46.260 |
So, the best thing about travel and the thing that you will talk about to your friends when 00:07:50.780 |
you get back, I guarantee is not on that list before you travel. 00:07:55.980 |
It's the moment of serendipity where you're at a restaurant and you hit it off with the 00:08:00.740 |
waiter and you all go somewhere after and you're in this cool place that you never thought 00:08:07.340 |
you would be meeting people that you never thought you would meet and you connect on 00:08:17.700 |
Because if you're too planned out, you're not actually piercing the veneer, the tourism 00:08:25.380 |
Are there any great examples from your many travels of letting that happen and what unfolded? 00:08:38.540 |
And it was a great experience because I got to meet a lot of other people. 00:08:43.220 |
I was traveling by myself and we were all doing the surf camp together. 00:08:48.780 |
And then I tacked on a few days in Oslo at the end, just on my own, snooping around. 00:08:52.780 |
And I went to this restaurant, I was just eating by myself and I was looking over to 00:08:57.860 |
these people my age that were sitting next to me. 00:09:01.140 |
And I just turned to them and I was like, "What are you guys up to?" 00:09:03.980 |
And they just seemed like a group of fun friends and they're like, "Oh, we're going to sing 00:09:10.740 |
I had a 7am flight the next morning and they were like, "Go get your stuff. 00:09:19.700 |
We went to these bars that didn't even know existed that were open all night long after 00:09:28.860 |
But it was just such an unexpected experience where I thought I had my built-in friends 00:09:33.420 |
in Northern Norway for the surf camp, but yet the people that I stay in touch with are 00:09:37.740 |
actually these random people I met in a Vietnamese restaurant in Oslo. 00:09:44.540 |
And do you think there's something aside from just leaving space in the itinerary or leaving 00:09:49.980 |
time open that you can do to help make sure experiences like that have a higher chance 00:09:58.140 |
I think solo travel, you have a lot of energy pointed outwards. 00:10:05.740 |
You're open to having someone come up to you and talk to you. 00:10:09.660 |
If you're by yourself on the street, that's usually when someone's like, "Hey, I need 00:10:16.820 |
Keeping that energy open, I know it sounds a little bit hooey, but that's part of it. 00:10:22.580 |
Also, I think because we live so much on our phones, it's really jarring to actually go 00:10:29.700 |
But it's become jarring in a good way at this point where people are like, "Oh, you want 00:10:37.300 |
I think one of the things that I'm always thinking about is generosity. 00:10:42.380 |
When you go to a destination, you come back with stories where you're like, "Oh, this 00:10:47.380 |
I met them and they invited me into their house." 00:10:49.460 |
You can get these Airbnb experiences of going into people's homes and cooking with them 00:10:59.220 |
I think if we think about it in the opposite way, how can we be generous to the people 00:11:05.180 |
I think that you also garner a lot of goodwill in that regard as well. 00:11:09.940 |
Can you give me an example of being generous while visiting? 00:11:14.940 |
I always pack little gifts for people that I've not yet met. 00:11:20.540 |
So it's like a little something from home, like a candy. 00:11:23.660 |
We all have this sentimental feeling about the candy that we grew up with. 00:11:30.220 |
I grew up in Canada and there's candy in Canada that you can't get in the US. 00:11:34.180 |
Candy from where you're from is a really fun thing to exchange with people because it's 00:11:42.580 |
Stuff from where you live, even like a cool postcard. 00:11:46.740 |
I often bring little blank business cards with me. 00:11:51.620 |
If I meet someone really cool, I'll write them a note and leave my email address. 00:11:58.940 |
You can leave them a phone number for WhatsApp if you want to hear from them a lot or Instagram 00:12:06.940 |
Doing things analog, it shocks the system and it starts inspiring devotion. 00:12:13.900 |
I think back to a trip I took to Syria where almost everyone seemed to want to invite you 00:12:21.420 |
I will say my wife and I were traveling together and so it's not just a solo traveler thing. 00:12:28.100 |
Sometimes people can be a little put at ease by having two people. 00:12:31.660 |
They're like, "Oh, this isn't a random dude on the street. 00:12:40.980 |
For some reason, when I was like, "Oh, I guess if I'm paying to go to someone's house, does 00:12:49.740 |
How do you think about trying to make those experiences happen naturally versus maybe 00:13:01.980 |
I've had guides that I've hired to do mountain climbing or to visit a city and I have struck 00:13:13.220 |
So I suppose it's not that different than hiring someone. 00:13:18.820 |
Hiring someone is essentially what it is to be invited into their house and to cook with 00:13:29.780 |
It's just a shame that it has to be so transactional. 00:13:33.340 |
I don't think that there's necessarily a way to have magic happen or have serendipity happen 00:13:46.140 |
One of the things that I'll try to do that feels like a little bit more unscripted is 00:13:51.380 |
maybe try to find a run club in a city that I'm going to. 00:14:02.220 |
And that's always a good opportunity because at least you have something in common from 00:14:09.620 |
And then often, you need to refuel after your run. 00:14:12.420 |
So maybe there's an invite with the person/people that you're with to go for brunch after an 00:14:20.140 |
I would start with something that feels true to you, a passion point of yours, and bridge 00:14:27.180 |
a more organic relationship with someone because you share something that you like. 00:14:33.420 |
And evidently, there's a lot of gamers in Sweden. 00:14:35.700 |
And we walked by a store that had every board game. 00:14:39.020 |
And I couldn't help but think, "My wife and I love board games." 00:14:43.900 |
But your example of a run club could be going to some board game night at a board game store 00:14:53.140 |
I bet there is a group of people that partake in that hobby in most major cities. 00:14:59.140 |
So if you're listening and you don't love running, I'm sure there is another group that 00:15:03.420 |
you can find of people that might become people to hang out with. 00:15:12.500 |
A past version of me used to take different journalists as a fixer, producers, journalists 00:15:21.060 |
to different countries to show them a few cool things. 00:15:23.820 |
Maybe they wanted to use this as a filming location or they wanted to scout a photo shoot. 00:15:28.980 |
And I took an editor from Vanity Fair once to Iceland. 00:15:32.860 |
And I did just that, except it wasn't running. 00:15:41.700 |
And we just hung out with these women knitting for a whole afternoon. 00:15:49.900 |
Find that point in common and start from there. 00:15:55.540 |
Talk a little bit more about being a fixer in Iceland. 00:15:58.500 |
What is that experience like and how would someone who doesn't know anything about a 00:16:02.980 |
country find the person like you in that country to hire to help show them the ins and outs 00:16:12.140 |
I'm guessing you didn't just have a website where you're like, "I'm the Iceland fixer 00:16:21.220 |
But I worked at Lonely Planet for about 7 full years, doing back-to-back guidebooks 00:16:30.880 |
And the cool thing about Lonely Planet is essentially, you just get paid to marinate 00:16:34.700 |
in a destination for a very extended amount of time. 00:16:38.780 |
And every day, you're going out looking for something new and cool. 00:16:42.420 |
And through that, I built a portfolio of destinations where I could consider myself a real expert. 00:16:50.820 |
I think everyone's probably stayed at a Marriott. 00:16:53.780 |
And when you go stay at just a standard Marriott... 00:16:55.940 |
Look, Marriott as a brand has lots of different hotels. 00:16:58.920 |
But just like the standard Marriott, it's hard to not know exactly what you're getting. 00:17:03.800 |
So I could imagine someone being like, "Well, this is 10 stars because I thought it was 00:17:06.600 |
exactly what I wanted and it met the needs, but it certainly wasn't pushing the boundaries 00:17:18.080 |
How do you know if you're planning in advance and trying to pick between 5 hotels? 00:17:24.200 |
You've agreed that the stars don't make sense. 00:17:29.580 |
You had all the data, but couldn't go to the country. 00:17:31.880 |
How would you try to figure out where to stay? 00:17:34.120 |
How would you try to sort through the information that exists to you, knowing that it's imperfect? 00:17:38.960 |
Well, I always say, in learning about other places, you learn a lot about yourself. 00:17:44.240 |
And I think part of that is honing your instinct. 00:17:52.200 |
Marriott requires a lot of big decisions in real time. 00:17:58.160 |
Am I getting on this train to go to Bucharest? 00:18:02.120 |
And I think that trusting your gut when you're reading about places or when you're looking 00:18:13.400 |
And I know that's a bit of a cop-out answer, but you're going to get a vibe when you start 00:18:16.960 |
looking at photos online, when you're reading different things about different properties 00:18:26.200 |
I would use the TripAdvisor to click the user photos because they're not polished. 00:18:34.200 |
I would not be allergic to calling a hotel and/or emailing with a hotel. 00:18:42.040 |
I think a lot of people think that your hotel experience starts the minute you check in. 00:18:51.200 |
If you are booking a hotel, your hotel experience starts the minute you booked it. 00:18:56.760 |
All of these hotels have concierge services at a certain price point, or at least they 00:19:05.560 |
And if you don't want that experience, you can book a home or an apartment rental. 00:19:12.280 |
If you're booking a human to have with your hotel experience, use them. 00:19:17.640 |
People never use the concierges at hotels, or people think that they can only use it 00:19:21.840 |
on Saturday afternoon when they're in their hotel because they're looking for a place 00:19:25.840 |
to eat Saturday or Friday night or 6 hours before they think they need it. 00:19:34.680 |
Email the concierge at the hotel that you're going to stay at a month before you're going 00:19:38.600 |
to stay there and say, "I am really interested in finding a run club, a knitting club. 00:19:45.800 |
I'm really interested in knowing more about your rooms. 00:19:49.360 |
I really am a light sleeper, and I'm a little worried about city noise. 00:19:54.160 |
What are some of the room numbers you recommend so that I won't be woken up in the middle 00:19:59.760 |
It is their job to provide you that service before you've even arrived. 00:20:03.560 |
It's definitely something I think most people don't think about. 00:20:07.760 |
The best hotels I've stayed at have emailed me in advance and said, "Hey, we have a person 00:20:17.240 |
I don't necessarily have any faith that TripAdvisor stars are good, but I think their review content 00:20:25.800 |
In a lot of countries, some hotels have sunscreen just free at the pool and some don't. 00:20:30.560 |
So you could go to TripAdvisor and search "sunscreen" in the reviews. 00:20:34.440 |
One thing I sometimes do is you could just go to Instagram and search for a hotel and 00:20:38.160 |
just look at what people are posting in the hotel. 00:20:44.160 |
I've definitely seen the weird people that like to post photos almost naked in their 00:20:50.440 |
But there's also people that post the vibe of the hotel on a Friday night in the lobby, 00:20:56.120 |
which is probably not something you might see in a TripAdvisor photo. 00:21:05.000 |
I can't remember where, but there was a place I was going and I just didn't know how to 00:21:09.400 |
And I think it was maybe about like, "Is the Wi-Fi reliable? 00:21:12.200 |
Is it fast enough to do some work meetings or something?" 00:21:15.320 |
And I just found people that were there that looked like they would be able to answer the 00:21:19.000 |
question and I just DM'ed them on Instagram and asked them a question. 00:21:28.920 |
So I think social media gives us that channel as well. 00:21:31.560 |
Any other hacks you have for getting knowledge from what I'll call "mediumly reliable sources" 00:21:41.600 |
So one of the big things for me is I'll go on Google Maps or I'll go on Google Earth. 00:21:46.120 |
And I think a lot of people, their eye goes to the stars and the reviews on Google Maps 00:21:52.720 |
What I'm looking at is I'm going to zoom out and I want to see the businesses that are 00:21:58.020 |
So I want to know if it's a city hotel, I want to know what's in the neighborhood. 00:22:02.320 |
If it's a resort on a beach, this is when it's super important. 00:22:07.920 |
For good and bad reasons, you're going to have to take a transfer. 00:22:10.840 |
But also, do you want your relaxing beach resort to have a plane going over your head 00:22:16.920 |
I want to see if there's a pet hospital next to your resort and you're going to be listening 00:22:22.560 |
to barking dogs all night or things like that. 00:22:27.040 |
When I used to teach travel writing, Lonely Planet opened a deli office. 00:22:35.880 |
And they reverse outsourced me to deli to teach upcoming Indian writers how to do a 00:22:43.120 |
Lonely Planet guidebook before the Indian market. 00:22:47.440 |
And I had days of training with them where I'd put up a slide of a hotel room and I'd 00:22:55.760 |
And of course, this was a trap because they would just say like, "Oh, the sheets are red 00:23:01.160 |
and the wallpaper is nice and this looks like this." 00:23:13.440 |
And I think you need to apply that to your hotel choosing, too. 00:23:19.960 |
So one of the ways to see is what's around the hotel, you're going to get a sense of 00:23:27.020 |
This could be a huge deal breaker at a hotel. 00:23:29.400 |
So I want you to think critically about that, also. 00:23:34.560 |
How do you determine what is nice if we've agreed stars and ratings and all those things 00:23:40.400 |
So I have stayed at about 3,000 hotels, which is a bit crazy to think about. 00:23:57.560 |
For Lonely Planet, I was staying in a different hotel every night. 00:24:02.120 |
And we used to get a lot of questions at Lonely Planet. 00:24:04.820 |
How can you tell if a hotel is good if you're only there for a night or this, that, and 00:24:09.920 |
And I would joke that it only takes 18 minutes to suss out a hotel. 00:24:14.720 |
And the things that you're looking for are design and service. 00:24:23.220 |
So you can build a beautiful hotel that has great design. 00:24:26.480 |
But if you can't staff it with individuals, it's going to be a bad stay. 00:24:31.960 |
And vice versa, you can have a hotel that's completely falling apart, that's uncomfortable 00:24:36.360 |
to stay in, and you can have friendly people, and it's still going to be a mess. 00:24:40.780 |
So it's like storytelling, you need a good story and you need to tell it well. 00:24:49.080 |
So the first thing is you want to check those two boxes. 00:24:53.680 |
And design doesn't necessarily mean that it looks good on Instagram. 00:24:58.860 |
A lot of hotel rooms are designed without ever someone staying in them. 00:25:04.380 |
The cord to plug in your phone, it's too far the plug from the bed so you can't look at 00:25:15.720 |
It takes, you know, the room should be intuitive. 00:25:21.200 |
Second, I want my hotel room to make an impact. 00:25:30.800 |
I would like it to embody the destination a little bit. 00:25:35.000 |
It doesn't need to be a Disney-fied version of Italy. 00:25:38.400 |
It doesn't need to look like a cheesecake factory. 00:25:46.320 |
And then I think I want service to be genuine. 00:25:54.240 |
I think that there's a balance to when you want someone for help that they're there to 00:26:03.800 |
I want the hotels to be staffed by people who are knowledgeable that can enhance my 00:26:08.980 |
Otherwise, I'm just going to go stay in an Airbnb. 00:26:11.640 |
I think smaller, I'm looking for cleanliness. 00:26:29.120 |
I want the amenities in the room to be thought through. 00:26:34.480 |
And I don't want people to skimp on a crappy Q-tip. 00:26:52.240 |
You should have your own sliding scale of Q-tip quality metrics. 00:26:56.600 |
For me, it's Q-tips and club sandwiches, because every hotel around the world has both. 00:27:04.040 |
So I want to know if that club sandwich is... 00:27:07.260 |
How well it's going to be served, how well it's cooked. 00:27:10.680 |
I want to know how far the kitchen is based on how warm or cold it is, how fast it comes. 00:27:15.960 |
A Q-tip is the best thing in a room, because everyone knows that they like a nice sturdy 00:27:24.560 |
And if it's flimsy and there's not that much cotton on it, they don't really care about 00:27:36.080 |
I have found, and this is maybe a little bit of French snobbery in me, but countries around 00:27:43.600 |
the world that have been touched by French influence always have it figured out much 00:27:50.760 |
I've eaten an incredible club sandwich in Madagascar, for example. 00:27:57.600 |
So in Tena, in the capital, I stayed at this guest house that had an amazing food, truly 00:28:08.880 |
amazing food, and just the care and that sort of French style of hospitality where every 00:28:21.080 |
And it was only supposed to be kind of like a layover stay. 00:28:24.320 |
I was in the middle of Madagascar on a trip and then had to connect to the capital to 00:28:32.240 |
And I didn't think I was going to get much out of it. 00:28:34.480 |
And then it just turned out to be this wonderful place. 00:28:36.880 |
Okay, you'll have to send us the name of this place and we'll put it in the show notes. 00:28:42.960 |
Any other places known for their club sandwich? 00:28:46.400 |
I've had some of the best Western food in Japan. 00:28:51.960 |
And that is because there's this deep-seated element to Japanese culture where they scout 00:29:00.680 |
the world for interesting things, and then they re-appropriate it and improve it. 00:29:07.880 |
And ramen is the best example of that, Chinese by origin. 00:29:12.720 |
They brought it over to Japan after World War II, it got really popular. 00:29:19.800 |
The broth, four days of pork broth, steeping, and they made it into something that was really 00:29:28.440 |
And I think I see them doing it a lot with baked goods, French breads, different things 00:29:34.480 |
You will have the best pastries of your life in Tokyo. 00:29:39.400 |
There are countries that everyone talks about and are overrated, and then there's countries 00:29:42.400 |
that everyone talks about and you should still definitely go and just keep going. 00:29:46.320 |
And I think Japan is the essence of a country that everyone talks about and you should still 00:29:55.600 |
I think there are places around the world of incredibly wondrous places that everyone 00:30:03.680 |
You don't have to be a contrarian, Machu Picchu. 00:30:06.480 |
It's incredible when the clouds lift off of it in the morning. 00:30:14.360 |
Just because a lot of other people have doesn't mean you should skip it. 00:30:18.200 |
What else is on that list of places that even though everyone seems to go there, you think 00:30:27.480 |
Japan is always at the top of my list when people ask me what are my favorite places. 00:30:33.680 |
I just would encourage people not to treat it totally as this otherworldly thing because 00:30:42.360 |
then you don't have the opportunity to connect and have that meaningful experience. 00:30:50.600 |
There are a lot of things that are similar but improved. 00:30:56.040 |
Like the club sandwich I was mentioning before. 00:31:00.120 |
The attention to detail and care is a different form of hospitality. 00:31:06.400 |
The way that things are presented, the aesthetics. 00:31:08.960 |
I once did a story for Bloomberg where I went to Kyoto and I wrote a whole story about what 00:31:14.520 |
if you did only new things in Kyoto because everyone's hardwired to think Tokyo new, Kyoto 00:31:22.480 |
But what if we flip the script and we did Tokyo old, Kyoto new. 00:31:27.560 |
And I found these incredible photographers, performance artists, people that were changing 00:31:36.600 |
the way sushi is made and it was maybe one of my best four days in Japan ever by doing 00:31:48.000 |
And then Japan old, I mean Tokyo old as well? 00:31:51.640 |
Tokyo old, you can go to the northeast part of the city. 00:31:58.120 |
It was the only area that wasn't really bombed during World War II and it didn't suffer as 00:32:05.160 |
much during the Great Kanto Earthquake in the 1920s. 00:32:12.280 |
Rent a bicycle, go through Yanaka, that neighborhood. 00:32:16.400 |
I wrote The Lonely Planet Guide to Japan and I created a pilgrimage that people do on New 00:32:26.000 |
Years but I created this that you could do at any time. 00:32:29.240 |
And you're looking for seven shrines of seven different deities and it's good luck to do 00:32:37.520 |
But I laid them out in one of the older neighborhoods that you could do it anytime. 00:32:42.960 |
And the point was just getting you through some of these back alleys so that you could 00:32:46.120 |
see some old ceramics shops and I didn't want to name the shop because I wanted you to find 00:32:55.840 |
And do you feel like for someone going on this experience, just walking into the shop, 00:33:00.400 |
you don't need to know which one, you don't need to have a reservation, you can just kind 00:33:05.200 |
Yeah, I think sometimes when there's a really cool neighborhood that you want people to 00:33:10.160 |
check out, it actually doesn't damage to pick the one ramen place in the neighborhood that 00:33:16.740 |
has 10 great ramen places and I've tried all of them and the differences are negligible. 00:33:22.720 |
There's so much joy in the feeling of discovery that I'd rather just lead you to the cool 00:33:28.440 |
neighborhood and then let you figure it out from there. 00:33:30.760 |
And I think that's what actually a lot of people want these days. 00:33:33.960 |
Right now, I'm late for lunch on the West Coast and a bowl of ramen is exactly what 00:33:41.360 |
I know so many people that plan a trip to Japan and it's "I'm going to Tokyo and I'm 00:33:47.120 |
Where would you throw out a few places that someone going to those two cities should tack 00:33:53.840 |
I think if Kyoto is your vibe, and you're a little worried that it's going to be overrun 00:34:01.720 |
In the feudal times of Japan, Kanazawa was the second most powerful area. 00:34:06.920 |
So it's giving you a lot of the Kyoto vibes that you're looking for. 00:34:13.320 |
And right outside of Kanazawa is Kaga and it's a region that has a lot of hot mineral 00:34:21.240 |
So it's one of the most popular onsen destinations where you can go for a soak. 00:34:28.300 |
And this area has some of the coolest ryokan hotels, which are these little inns that usually 00:34:37.240 |
And it's a completely inclusive, immersive stay where you're always wearing your yukata 00:34:44.120 |
robe and you have this set dinner and everything's planned out for you. 00:34:49.120 |
And you're just constantly in hospitality and everything's taken care of. 00:34:52.740 |
I think a lot of people are really into Hokkaido, you know, leaving Honshu, the main island, 00:34:57.600 |
going to Hokkaido, going to Kyushu, Shikoku is often left off of people's itineraries. 00:35:03.880 |
And this is the Japan that hasn't been glamorized. 00:35:08.380 |
There's a lot of really cool inns, Minshuku, where you can stay and you'll have that experience 00:35:15.000 |
where you're going to cook with the person who runs the inn. 00:35:18.120 |
But because they need your help, not because you're paying them to have that commoditized 00:35:27.480 |
We are anxiously awaiting the reopening of Japan for another trip back. 00:35:36.480 |
So hearing you talk about writing The Lonely Planet for Japan, which I imagine was months 00:35:41.500 |
of time getting to explore everything about the country, you know, makes me just think, 00:35:48.800 |
And I'm sure many people listening here would agree from that perspective. 00:35:54.760 |
What's the downside to having a job where you basically get to go live in incredible 00:35:58.480 |
places on someone else's dime, you know, eat at the best restaurants, go, you know, try 00:36:06.540 |
There has to be something that keeps everyone from wanting to do it. 00:36:15.240 |
And I know all of us are pretty stressed by our jobs these days. 00:36:19.960 |
But the pace that you have to go into a destination, try your best to uncover everything that you 00:36:27.560 |
need for your story, and not miss anything, but also not miss your deadline is really, 00:36:34.520 |
And for me, I've had a hard time balancing that at different points in my career. 00:36:39.480 |
And what's funny about travel is that you have to pack every day to move to a different 00:36:50.280 |
And so, you have to be super mindful about the big and the small. 00:36:55.080 |
Travel writing is one of those skill sets that you need to know big picture, you need 00:36:59.760 |
to know your destination, the context, how it sits against other destinations, and paint 00:37:09.600 |
And then you need to know that the bus leaves at 245, so that you don't miss it. 00:37:14.120 |
And that you need to get all the things from your room, so you don't leave a bunch of stuff 00:37:19.120 |
It only exists in the two extremes, and nothing in the middle. 00:37:23.880 |
And I think 99% of careers are sort of in the middle. 00:37:27.920 |
So you have to really hone your ability to think super macro and super micro. 00:37:39.920 |
Well, I've been a freelancer for the last 15 years. 00:37:44.200 |
So every assignment that I've taken at Lonely Planet was for better or for worse. 00:37:49.720 |
I could opt out of something to take a break, or I could always opt in. 00:37:55.160 |
And I think when you're a freelancer, you want to always opt in because you don't know 00:37:58.440 |
when you're going to have to get off the ride. 00:38:01.540 |
You have to make sure to keep it sustainable because you can't let your work and the quality 00:38:09.320 |
You need to let yourself get excited for a trip. 00:38:11.560 |
And I see a lot of journalists on different junkets who are just boom, trip, trip, trip, 00:38:17.760 |
And they're missing the excitement of going on it. 00:38:21.040 |
And so their writing is not imbued with that wonder and that excitement for being there. 00:38:26.840 |
So you mentioned that you're always packing every day when you're writing these books 00:38:34.280 |
I want to talk a little about packing and the hacks around what you bring on a trip. 00:38:39.480 |
Because 3,000 hotels, you've packed your bags more than I think anyone has ever packed their 00:38:47.240 |
You've probably thought about every single item you bring on a trip, every type of clothing, 00:38:53.240 |
What are things you've learned in that process? 00:38:56.920 |
Well, there was a time when I was really into this one particular bag. 00:39:01.600 |
It was called the over/under bag because it was a rolling suitcase that was a bit squishy. 00:39:10.120 |
And it was two different sizes depending on a zipper. 00:39:14.040 |
So going on the trip, it could be a carry on. 00:39:16.840 |
And then if you bought things while you were there, it could expand to a bag that went 00:39:21.360 |
I was really obsessed with this bag for a long time. 00:39:25.100 |
And also, you want to have a soft bag if part of your trip is going to be on a small airplane. 00:39:32.960 |
So it's great to have the Rimowa and those kinds of bags that have a hard shell to protect 00:39:41.240 |
But you can't bring them on safari planes or puddle jumpers in the Caribbean. 00:39:46.180 |
So I would always travel, especially for Lonely Planet, with this squishy over/under because 00:39:51.560 |
I didn't know what I was going to get myself into, but I always was prepared. 00:40:04.200 |
What kinds of things do you bring to make a trip perfect for you? 00:40:09.560 |
If there's one thing that you want to whittle down, it's shoes because they take up so much 00:40:21.000 |
And so if you can have a versatile shoe that can read, you can go to a nice restaurant 00:40:26.400 |
in a certain shoe, but you can also do a really long walk, I would invest in that and invest 00:40:35.860 |
You don't want to fill your bag with five different pairs of shoes. 00:40:38.580 |
Is there a shoe or two you found that do that? 00:40:43.800 |
They're really durable, and I think they were made for the French army using leftover tires 00:41:01.120 |
And they're cool enough looking that you can definitely wear them to a bar. 00:41:13.360 |
Do you try not to take photos and be in the moment? 00:41:18.980 |
Talk about how you balance capturing a trip with really experiencing a destination. 00:41:28.240 |
I think that a lot of people live their lives on social media. 00:41:35.800 |
And when you're in a place, you'll find that people are looking at the destination through 00:41:42.400 |
And for some people that works, that's not really my bag. 00:41:46.080 |
I tend to be very present in what I'm doing, and I forget sometimes to post on social media. 00:41:51.240 |
I'm not huge on social media, but I do enjoy making people jealous every once in a while 00:41:57.880 |
I'll take a lot of photos to jog my memory for when I'm writing up an article after I 00:42:05.840 |
And there have been these moments that I wanted to capture when I see something truly unique. 00:42:11.880 |
And it's usually not the sunset at the Eiffel Tower of which there's already 50 better versions. 00:42:20.880 |
But I like capturing those moments of serendipity. 00:42:24.520 |
The best example I can think of was on a trip to Kyrgyzstan a few years ago. 00:42:36.000 |
And they had a really busted up old car that they were driving around in, and they were 00:42:45.440 |
And we got out of the car, parked, and the father put his eagle on his arm before he 00:42:57.480 |
He's wearing these two thousand skins, the eagle is on his arm, cawing, and there's this 00:43:10.520 |
It's this bizarre moment of juxtaposition and I just had to have it. 00:43:22.940 |
It's trying to find the moments that are really different and something that you'd want to 00:43:30.000 |
Yeah, I don't want a photo that someone's already taken a better version. 00:43:41.360 |
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You've traveled a lot, what are your favorite hacks that we haven't hit on already? 00:45:12.220 |
I really like helping people plan their trips. 00:45:15.440 |
And I know that we touched a little bit on some of the big picture things. 00:45:20.140 |
But one rule that I like to apply to a lot of trip planning is an hour on a plane for 00:45:28.000 |
And you don't have to follow it exactly, but it goal tends a little bit. 00:45:34.120 |
If you're going to fly across the country, across America, and it's going to take 4-5 00:45:38.840 |
hours, try to have 4-5 days, because you're going to spend so much time in transit. 00:45:44.600 |
Flying is tricky, you have to be there early, you're going to be on the flight. 00:45:51.500 |
Bank some time in the destination, or pick a closer destination if you only have 2 days. 00:45:56.920 |
If you're only doing a Friday, Saturday, Sunday, pick a place that's an hour's flight. 00:46:03.720 |
Don't try to go to Paris for 2 days, you're just going to end up tired and not getting 00:46:12.800 |
So one hour in the plane for one day in the destination. 00:46:20.480 |
I would design an itinerary like the way you read a book, like the way you read a fairy 00:46:25.120 |
tale, where it starts off where you're setting the world. 00:46:30.840 |
So you're understanding the world in a broader way, and then there's turmoil. 00:46:36.880 |
And that means a difficult experience, give yourself a challenge, get out of the box, 00:46:44.200 |
It can be a physical challenge, a big hike, an overnight camping, something that maybe 00:46:50.720 |
is a little bit unusual for you, and then have a happy ending. 00:46:54.680 |
So put your best hotel at the end, put your most expensive hotel at the end. 00:46:59.680 |
You don't want everything else to feel disappointing, because it came after the best thing you did. 00:47:07.280 |
Is there a place you think people are overspending or underspending? 00:47:12.400 |
Are they spending too much on food when they travel or hotels when they travel? 00:47:16.080 |
And if they spent their money in a different way, they might have a better trip? 00:47:19.900 |
It's interesting to look at nationalities and how they spend. 00:47:24.480 |
A lot of different cultures will spend way more on hotels and then way less on food, 00:47:32.600 |
But then you see Israelis, for example, actually spend way more on food than they do on hotels. 00:47:41.760 |
So there's a lot of cultural differences that dictate how we're spending our money in our 00:47:49.520 |
Americans really like to have the comfort, they like to have their nice big bathroom, 00:48:00.560 |
And so I can't really judge how people are going to spend their money when they're away. 00:48:05.520 |
But what I can say is that there are a lot of big value destinations, places where your 00:48:11.660 |
dollar is going to go way further than the place you thought you wanted to go. 00:48:16.560 |
I love Iceland, and I'll tell you everything you want to know. 00:48:19.240 |
I've written books about Iceland, but if you're looking for those chiseled fjords and tundra 00:48:26.360 |
and wildlife or, you know, big night skies, and you think that it's going to be Iceland, 00:48:35.720 |
I would challenge you to think of somewhere that might seem less sexy, like Newfoundland 00:48:42.640 |
It looks like it broke off from Iceland, and I think it really did. 00:48:47.480 |
Because all the fjords, you're going to get the whales puffing in the bay, you're going 00:48:52.360 |
to get icebergs floating by, incredible accommodation, incredible food, the fish, oh my God, you 00:48:58.960 |
know, the biggest fishing banks in the world are off the coast of Newfoundland. 00:49:03.680 |
And you're going to spend kroners in Iceland, you're going to spend Canadian dollars, which 00:49:10.560 |
is like monopoly money for an American in Canada. 00:49:15.480 |
Are there other places like that where you'd say, "If this is what you were looking for, 00:49:21.680 |
here's an awesome thing you haven't considered." 00:49:23.400 |
Or just, "Here's an awesome thing you haven't considered." 00:49:28.120 |
If you're thinking about mountains and Alps, and you want to go to Switzerland or France 00:49:33.480 |
or Italy, and you want your Lake Como and you want to have your Heidi experience, go 00:49:48.040 |
You're getting those snow-capped mountains, you're getting the lakes, you're getting food 00:49:56.500 |
You're going into people's homes and they're smoking salamis in their basement, and you're 00:50:00.960 |
having wine that shares veins of loam and soil with some of the most famous Italian 00:50:14.080 |
I'm going to let you keep going because I now have two new places to go on my list. 00:50:21.200 |
I think that people want to go to Australia because they want to see the other end of 00:50:28.080 |
I think the color of the sky in Australia is different than it is in America. 00:50:35.120 |
It's this place of incredible desolation when you get out of the cities. 00:50:40.200 |
A lot of people think that they want to go up the East Coast, Queensland. 00:50:44.960 |
They want to see the Great Barrier Reef, but go to Western Australia. 00:50:50.960 |
Because if you want that orange desert, the Uluru sand, and you want the Turquoise Bay, 00:51:00.960 |
So, if you're on the Ningaloo Reef or you're in Exmouth, Shark Bay, all that bright orange 00:51:09.340 |
sand from Uluru hits the coastline at the clearest water you will ever see halfway up 00:51:24.520 |
You wrote a whole article on where to go in 2022 that I'll link here. 00:51:29.340 |
Any other places to highlight from that list that someone thinking about maybe a trip in 00:51:34.960 |
the fall this year should consider that they probably weren't already thinking about? 00:51:42.280 |
I actually consult on a lot of those lists for a lot of different magazines. 00:51:47.160 |
So, I contributed to a list for Harper's Bazaar this year, and I also contributed to the list 00:51:58.840 |
Bloomberg tends to skew male active, Harper's Bazaar tends to be their mistresses. 00:52:08.000 |
And so, I pick very different places depending on the audience. 00:52:13.000 |
I try to tailor those lists to whoever's paying attention. 00:52:18.320 |
Creating those lists has been hugely difficult for the last few years because of geopolitics 00:52:25.840 |
And I think what we're seeing in travel right now is a return to travel 101, where people 00:52:34.520 |
We're seeing a lot of interest in France, in Italy, in Greece, and the UK, and Ireland. 00:52:44.560 |
Whereas before the pandemic, in the year leading up to the pandemic, I was in Uzbekistan, The 00:52:51.520 |
Gambia, I mean, I was dipping into places that were on the verge of being on our mental 00:53:01.760 |
So I would encourage people to go back to the places that they miss first, fulfill that 00:53:14.800 |
And I know that that's not a super sexy answer, but I think that there's a lot of places that 00:53:23.080 |
are perfectly pronounceable that we should be checking out. 00:53:26.680 |
Next week, I'm going to Madeira, for example, a Portuguese-owned island off the coast of 00:53:32.760 |
And I think that strikes the perfect balance of familiar and new. 00:53:38.200 |
Because Portugal has been trending for a few years now. 00:53:41.040 |
It's the places that everyone in the travel media world has hit. 00:53:47.200 |
It's going to give you that Portuguese sensibility, but you're going to get these volcanic crags 00:53:51.360 |
and you're going to get passing whales, and you're going to stay in a quinta instead of 00:53:56.400 |
You're going to stay in a little inn that's tended to by local individuals. 00:54:02.000 |
And you're going to eat fresh seafood, and you're going to see a different version of 00:54:09.280 |
I think I have whales on my radar, too, this year for another story. 00:54:13.720 |
Again, a slightly off-kilter version of something you probably already know, the UK. 00:54:19.320 |
But we're going to go into little villages and crumbling castles, and there's a huge 00:54:25.880 |
whiskey industry that has really grown over the last 20 years, and now they're ready to 00:54:34.000 |
So it's like, everything is like version 2.1. 00:54:38.640 |
Is there an argument to be made that if the hottest places in travel right now are the 00:54:44.760 |
Spain, the Italy, the France, now is the year to go and go counter, go to Uzbekistan, go 00:54:52.880 |
to the places that no one's wanting to go to. 00:54:55.720 |
Is that where maybe the best deals are to be had in the next year or two? 00:55:01.280 |
I think we're running into something a little tricky, which is that there is this sort of 00:55:06.880 |
latent xenophobia that we're finding because countries are concerned about how other countries 00:55:20.600 |
We're seeing this sort of fake fuel issue, and everyone's sort of girding their loins. 00:55:27.880 |
And what we're going to see is that travel will be easier based on where trade already 00:55:36.040 |
So, Canada, America, Mexico is going to remain a really easy artery to travel within. 00:55:42.160 |
Europe will be easy for Europeans, Asia is sort of multipolar, so you're going to see 00:55:46.680 |
easy travel within the Middle East, easy travel within South Asia, East Asia. 00:55:52.240 |
It's going to remain easier to travel in our regional bubbles, and prices will go up if 00:56:02.160 |
Also if you can find that inexpensive plane ticket to Uzbekistan, seize the opportunity 00:56:09.660 |
because unfortunately, I think that will only get worse. 00:56:14.720 |
So you mentioned Uzbekistan as a great place. 00:56:21.940 |
Are there places that somehow you've just never had the opportunity to go to, but you 00:56:28.960 |
So yeah, I have been to about 130 countries, and I do not want to be accused as a country 00:56:35.760 |
counter because I've been to Iceland 37 times. 00:56:41.560 |
I have three trips to Tahiti planned this year. 00:56:45.520 |
I like to go back to a lot of places that I know, and I like to dig even deeper. 00:56:51.200 |
I do try to find opportunities to visit somewhere new, but I want it to be organic. 00:56:57.920 |
I don't want to go somewhere and not have a plan or a point of view or an idea for a 00:57:05.900 |
And I think that's a really good piece of information for solo travelers. 00:57:09.600 |
Find a mission for your trip so you don't feel lost. 00:57:13.240 |
My mission tends to be finding information and personalities for an article. 00:57:19.480 |
And so when things start to bake in those places, I prioritize that new place. 00:57:26.080 |
I am really interested in countries that are about to pivot from oil to tourism. 00:57:33.160 |
I think a lot of places are just totally off the map because they've never been interested 00:57:44.760 |
So a country like Angola off the coast of Southwest Africa, because they've done so 00:57:53.040 |
much offshore drilling, the interior of their country is pristine. 00:57:59.120 |
And we've seen so many parts of Southern Africa get turned into agriculture or forms of monetizing 00:58:10.260 |
But this is a country that is wild in the interior. 00:58:22.520 |
I physically tried so hard because we were in Namibia and there was a river between Namibia 00:58:28.480 |
and Angola, and we had a hand dug canoe and a guy I had met traveling from Sweden and 00:58:35.920 |
I attempted to row to the other side to go say hi to some people that were in Angola. 00:58:43.980 |
And we literally could not cross the current of the river and we tried so hard. 00:58:48.800 |
So Angola has a special place for me as one of the few countries that I could maybe even 00:58:55.320 |
throw a rock to, but I physically was not able to get myself into. 00:58:59.160 |
Now, I have no idea what the legal ramifications of crossing the border in an unauthorized 00:59:05.000 |
place would have been separate, but was not possible physically. 00:59:08.960 |
I have been on the Kunene River myself and crossed and touched into Angola, but I don't 00:59:14.840 |
count it because I was actually trying to say hi to some people too and crossed, touched 00:59:20.960 |
down, you know, but in my mind, I was like, "Oh, I can't count this as a visit. 00:59:25.360 |
I need to go to Luanda and start from the beginning." 00:59:29.280 |
Do you have a requirement for you to say you've been to a place? 00:59:32.640 |
Obviously, you can't just be touching the ground. 00:59:34.520 |
Do you think you need to spend a night there, a meal there? 00:59:39.320 |
My personal rule is that, first of all, I need to be choosing to go there. 00:59:44.920 |
So a lot of people who've had a layover in a country, they say that they've been to that 00:59:52.720 |
It can be, you know, part of a three-country trip or something like that, but I have to 01:00:01.160 |
It used to be that you had to get a stamp, but you know, so many countries don't use 01:00:05.520 |
So you mentioned you write a lot for Bloomberg now. 01:00:08.200 |
And there is a series of articles --I wish they had a title-- that you've written. 01:00:16.540 |
And I imagine when I start talking about them, people listening will too. 01:00:24.480 |
But best I understand it, you spend a few days to a week doing a hospitality job at 01:00:32.520 |
the intersection of really high-end luxury, and report on the inner workings. 01:00:38.680 |
I read about you working on a private jet at a high-end hotel, being the maitre d' at 01:00:55.360 |
And we did not think it was going to turn into a column. 01:01:03.600 |
And they started long-haul flights between North America and Europe. 01:01:09.840 |
And they were so well-priced, and they were all new planes. 01:01:13.800 |
And even the business class on the plane, the premium economy was pretty comfortable 01:01:32.680 |
And he was like, "Well, what if you worked as a flight attendant on one of our planes?" 01:01:40.040 |
I mean, that sounds cool, but crazy how I'm not trained." 01:01:44.600 |
And it took three months of getting all these different approvals. 01:01:50.720 |
And sure enough, I worked as a flight attendant on a long-haul flight from London to New York. 01:01:58.440 |
And I reported authentically on what it was like to be on that plane. 01:02:07.520 |
We'd never seen numbers like that for a travel story at Bloomberg. 01:02:11.840 |
And then we thought, "What if I did another job?" 01:02:14.640 |
And the next job that I did was I was a butler at the Plaza Hotel in New York City. 01:02:22.660 |
And from then on, in-house, we kind of called it the butler stories. 01:02:27.000 |
"Oh, what's the next butler story that you're going to do?" 01:02:35.960 |
So service heroics is essentially what it is. 01:02:38.840 |
And I go all over the world to the world's most coveted brands. 01:02:52.440 |
So I was a personal shopper at Barney's, I was a maitre d' at Nobu. 01:03:00.240 |
I worked on a superyacht in the Caribbean, a private jet in Texas. 01:03:14.200 |
And that one will be coming out at the end of April. 01:03:18.640 |
Are there some examples of some of the most interesting things you've seen or learned? 01:03:24.760 |
I will fully endorse anyone listening to go read them, but throw out a few of the good 01:03:34.200 |
I think the first thing that comes to mind is what really propelled this into a different 01:03:44.560 |
I was on break and I was chatting with my fellow butlers and I was just like, what's 01:03:50.920 |
You know, there's the Eloise children's book about how she lives in the Plaza Hotel. 01:03:54.280 |
And he was like, oh yeah, you know, it's a really big deal. 01:03:58.320 |
You know, one time a room called and asked for a butler to bring up the Eloise book and 01:04:03.920 |
read them a bedtime story to read Eloise, you know, as the bedtime story. 01:04:12.000 |
And when we got up to the room, there was no child in the room. 01:04:16.000 |
There were four adults in their thirties all in the same bed, like Charlie Bucket's grandparents. 01:04:26.080 |
And they were all like, okay, read us the story now, please. 01:04:29.680 |
And he read them Eloise for like 90 minutes and they were like, hey, thank you. 01:04:38.800 |
That was the perfect amount of quirkiness to launch the series into popularity. 01:04:47.840 |
And every time I do one of these jobs, I'm sniffing around for the Eloise moment. 01:04:53.400 |
I don't need to tell you about the sex, drugs, and rock and roll because yeah, it's a private 01:04:59.280 |
Are you surprised people are doing sex, drugs, and rock and roll? 01:05:03.480 |
Are you surprised that someone is reading for adults, a children's book as a bedtime 01:05:14.840 |
I read that someone had Fiji water installed in their house and including their shower. 01:05:22.400 |
Someone that spent tens of thousands of dollars to raise the height of the sink in their bathroom 01:05:28.420 |
at a hotel, which I think you said they literally needed to involve construction equipment. 01:05:34.880 |
Actually, that is one of the other things that I think about often. 01:05:37.920 |
It was a hotel in Chicago and a couple was going to Chicago for like a three-day weekend. 01:05:44.840 |
And the wife called the hotel and was like, do me a favor, measure how high the vanity 01:05:55.960 |
And she's like, that's not going to do, it needs to be 52. 01:05:59.320 |
And they were like, okay, well, we'll raise it, but it's a marble vanity, so we're going 01:06:05.480 |
to need to get new marble and it'll cost about $55,000. 01:06:13.540 |
She stayed for three nights and that's all she wrote. 01:06:18.400 |
And the reason was she didn't like bending down too far to wash her face. 01:06:29.080 |
The number of vacations you could take for the cost of raising that sink or finding another... 01:06:36.520 |
I don't know why she didn't find another hotel that maybe had a higher sink, seemed cheaper 01:06:42.640 |
You worked as a maitre d at a hot restaurant in New York, you worked at a hotel, you worked 01:06:48.520 |
in a lot of the kinds of places that me, you, people listening will end up going to or wanting 01:06:55.960 |
What did you learn when it comes to ways that we might apply some tricks or some tips or 01:07:02.240 |
some tactics to get the reservation at the hard-to-get-to table or to get the upgrade 01:07:08.440 |
at the hotel or get the good treatment on the plane from the flight attendants or something 01:07:14.960 |
At Nobu, I spent an afternoon with the reservations team because I was really curious how to hack 01:07:25.440 |
And they said that the best time to call is at around 4.15 p.m. because a lot of people 01:07:38.240 |
And they will do it when they see their dinner coming on the horizon, they realize they're 01:07:46.920 |
And that happens before 5.00, but usually a little bit after 4.00. 01:07:52.960 |
They said right in that 4.15 sweet spot was if you called day of, you could probably get 01:07:59.860 |
I've heard a lot of people for everything from restaurant reservations to even daycare, 01:08:05.480 |
where it's like, even though we have a waitlist, we usually just take whoever calls first. 01:08:11.720 |
And so I imagine that was maybe similar at Nobu. 01:08:14.920 |
There might be people that say, "If something opens up, give me a call," but they're going 01:08:18.160 |
to prioritize whoever just calls in the moment. 01:08:21.200 |
I think you can certainly give them a ring and say, "If anything opens up, give me a 01:08:25.920 |
You need to call at 4.20 or 4.30 and say, "I'd really like to come in. 01:08:31.720 |
I think the less constraints you put on that reservation too, the likelier it is that you'll 01:08:40.840 |
Go up to the maitre d' and offer a tip to get a table. 01:08:46.720 |
I think that that's a dated TV show kind of thing. 01:08:52.600 |
I don't think that that's going to work, but they do leave tables open for VIPs. 01:09:03.240 |
If Blake Lively walks in the door and she wants a table, they're going to give her one. 01:09:10.120 |
One thing that you could do -- everyone's going to hate that I say this -- is everyone's 01:09:15.640 |
always thinking about concierges at hotels in the cities that they're going to visit. 01:09:20.880 |
Make friends with a concierge at a hotel in the city you live in because a lot of times, 01:09:27.160 |
what people will do is they will hold tables for concierge friends at Four Seasons or at 01:09:37.640 |
a St. Regis or something like that, so that when they have a big spender come and stay 01:09:43.760 |
at the hotel, they can funnel them a table right away. 01:09:48.260 |
So go to a hotel in your hometown and try to make friends with the concierge there. 01:09:59.580 |
How would you make friends with the concierge? 01:10:01.720 |
I honestly think that you could just go in and ask. 01:10:08.160 |
A lot of times, a concierge will say, "Oh, I'm sorry. 01:10:12.960 |
We only serve people in the hotel," or something like that. 01:10:17.800 |
But a lot of them are really skilled and they're really well-trained in the art of the concierge 01:10:26.920 |
business, especially the ones with the clé d'or, the golden keys that are on their lapel. 01:10:32.520 |
And sometimes they really want something to do that is germane to their skillset. 01:10:40.520 |
And so they will help you because these days, they're underused. 01:10:44.100 |
It's a lot of, "Oh, can you send my bags up to my room?" 01:10:46.800 |
Or the things that they don't get much joy in doing, which is illuminating the destination 01:10:56.360 |
You make a reservation at a hotel restaurant and get there an hour early and spend some 01:11:02.360 |
You mentioned earlier bringing gifts while you're traveling. 01:11:08.120 |
Not tipping, but is there a gift or something nice to bring to service people that might 01:11:17.280 |
All the flight attendants told me that they responded really well to bribery. 01:11:21.080 |
I think you could make an argument that if you learn your server's names and you learn 01:11:27.120 |
your flight attendant's names, that it endears them a little bit more to you. 01:11:35.900 |
They don't get to eat the stuff that's on the flight. 01:11:42.520 |
And there are systems in place where pilots and flight attendants are all eating different 01:11:47.880 |
things just in case the food is bad and everyone gets sick. 01:11:53.240 |
There's always someone on the plane that's able to control the situation. 01:12:01.560 |
It's a lot of easily transportable stuff, bags of chips and things like that. 01:12:07.680 |
So I bet if you brought a healthy snack for a flight attendant, they would really appreciate 01:12:19.160 |
And this is something that I think a lot of people have said before. 01:12:22.520 |
I always wear black on an airplane because if something spills on me, you can't see it. 01:12:40.900 |
And people don't really dress up for plane travel the way they used to. 01:12:46.800 |
And I think if you present yourself more agnostically, your ability to say right before everyone's 01:12:55.720 |
boarding like, "Oh, is there room in Comfort Plus or Premium Economy?" 01:13:00.920 |
They will size you up because if they're moving people to the front of the plane, they want 01:13:08.800 |
Have you been upgraded on a flight in the moment successfully? 01:13:15.800 |
And sometimes it's just asking at the right moment. 01:13:18.920 |
If there's a line and they're servicing 50 people in front of you, there's no chance 01:13:24.840 |
But if no one's there, the plane's boarding, you can tell by... 01:13:31.260 |
Look at the seat plan on your app of how many seats there are. 01:13:34.000 |
If you can tell that it seems like there's not a lot of people boarding, yeah, just ask. 01:13:39.000 |
I mean, especially for something like Comfort Plus on Delta, if there's an empty seat. 01:13:44.680 |
It certainly doesn't hurt to ask if the gate agents are not busy. 01:13:49.580 |
In the intro, I talked about this book you wrote. 01:13:52.560 |
And I want to make sure we touch on it because it's pretty crazy. 01:13:58.520 |
I looked at your Amazon author biography, and it's like 40 Lonely Planets and a book 01:14:10.400 |
And first off, I learned that there's a part of the world I've never even heard of -- the 01:14:15.640 |
Talk a little bit about what drove you to write this book, what it is, who it's for. 01:14:22.640 |
And I talked to my wife about it and she's like, "Can I read that next?" 01:14:25.520 |
So yeah, I'd love you to share a little bit more. 01:14:30.320 |
When I worked at Lonely Planet, we definitely traded in obscure geography. 01:14:34.880 |
We'd all traveled the world and we were all looking for these weird points on the map 01:14:42.600 |
And Picarin was a name that kept coming up because you can't get there using commercial 01:14:48.800 |
But people live on this remote island, and it is one of the most remotely inhabited islands 01:14:58.440 |
It's in the middle of the South Pacific, halfway between New Zealand and Peru, if that gives 01:15:04.840 |
you any sense of how vast and forgotten this place is. 01:15:08.880 |
And the only way to get there is by cargo freighter. 01:15:11.660 |
And a freighter services the island four times a year, once every season. 01:15:15.560 |
And you can travel on the freighter if there's room and you can stay until the next time 01:15:24.680 |
And I had traveled extensively through Papua New Guinea on my own with the help of someone 01:15:35.280 |
And she reached out to me one day a few years later and was like, "There's an opportunity 01:15:38.660 |
to send one journalist to this very forgotten island." 01:15:43.240 |
And I knew it because of my time at Lonely Planet. 01:15:46.480 |
So she arranged for my transfer on the cargo freighter, and I ended up spending some time 01:15:51.520 |
there living amongst these 48 individuals who, of course, there's no hotel because how 01:15:58.960 |
There's no restaurant, so you're just living in these people's homes. 01:16:02.800 |
And I went thinking I was going to write an article for Travel and Leisure magazine, and 01:16:07.240 |
But when I left the island, I was just completely obsessed with everything that I learned while 01:16:14.200 |
I was there about the people who live there today and about the history. 01:16:19.080 |
And usually, when I take on a project for work, I fall in love with the destination, 01:16:24.000 |
I marry it, I make the article, and then I go and fall in love with something else. 01:16:30.160 |
And Pig Heron was this place that I just kept thinking about and thinking about. 01:16:34.020 |
And all the characters involved in the founding of the island and all the characters that 01:16:39.160 |
live there today could all have their own articles. 01:16:43.360 |
And I realized I needed to write like a 100,000 word article, which of course is a book. 01:16:50.840 |
So it wasn't until after I got back from Pig Heron that I was just like, "Okay, I got to 01:17:01.080 |
I need to know all the details about how it was founded 200 years ago and why it's such 01:17:09.320 |
Pig Heron is the kind of place that once you know three sentences about it, you're going 01:17:14.480 |
to be instantly obsessed because the island was founded about 200 years ago when these 01:17:19.200 |
British sailors mutinied against their captain, threw him overboard, stole the ship, and disappeared 01:17:28.680 |
And for 20 years, no one knew where they went. 01:17:31.200 |
They thought the ship had vanished, essentially. 01:17:34.120 |
And then they were discovered living on an island that was previously uninhabited. 01:17:39.840 |
But of all the men and women that went to the island, there was only one man left when 01:17:50.080 |
And it turned out that it was like a real life game of Survivor where they were, instead 01:17:56.640 |
of voting each other off the island, they were murdering each other. 01:18:01.800 |
And there were alliances that formed, there was jealousy and secrets, and one by one they 01:18:10.400 |
When they were escaping an oppressive world, they then created an oppressive world. 01:18:15.160 |
And before they were all murdered, some of them had kids with each other, and then it's 01:18:19.760 |
those descendants, those seventh generation descendants of the original mutineers that 01:18:27.240 |
And they're haunted by the trauma of the island's founding. 01:18:33.440 |
And so my book zippers the two timelines together. 01:18:39.280 |
So it seesaws back and forth, one chapter present day, one chapter 200 years ago. 01:18:45.800 |
And as the story goes on, the two timelines get more and more intertwined, and suddenly 01:18:51.680 |
they're completely overlapping and there's this pendulum swing of cause and effect against 01:18:58.480 |
And, you know, of course, it sort of ends with a bang because, you know, by the end 01:19:02.480 |
of at least the 200 year old timeline, everyone's dead. 01:19:08.800 |
Rarely, if ever, do I know of a book that's like a thriller, mystery, fiction, you know, 01:19:15.440 |
enthralling story, but just also happens to be one of the craziest true stories of all 01:19:21.520 |
And weaves in, you know, a travel narrative as well. 01:19:26.720 |
I could do a whole nother episode about just learning about that island, though I don't 01:19:33.680 |
So to wrap up, you know, we talked about a lot of places. 01:19:37.640 |
I want you to pick one place or two that I want you to pick a place that you feel like 01:19:45.600 |
you're familiar with, which unfortunately, for all the guidebooks you've written might 01:19:48.400 |
be too many and and leave us with a few things, a place, a place or two that people should 01:19:53.320 |
go eat, a place or two that people should get a drink and just an activity that they 01:19:58.440 |
Yeah, you know, and I want this to be really useful. 01:20:04.420 |
And I think I want to pick two places because they're both really popular. 01:20:11.040 |
I want to start with Iceland because I it's really close to the US and to Europe. 01:20:19.120 |
And it's a really big impact destination because once you touch down, it just it looks like 01:20:28.200 |
And you know, I want to tell you, take a month and see all of Iceland. 01:20:32.800 |
So if you have four days, spend one of them in Reykjavik. 01:20:38.680 |
They usually base themselves in Reykjavik and then do one day in the countryside, flip 01:20:42.840 |
the script, stay outside of the city, venture into the city for one day. 01:20:54.240 |
But the reason you're there is not for the urban environment. 01:20:59.560 |
I think you should forget the golden circle, which is just a marketing thing. 01:21:05.920 |
Go your own way up to the Snæfellsnes Peninsula. 01:21:12.140 |
There's really cool places to stay like Hotel Eielson. 01:21:21.940 |
There's a great restaurant right across the street from that hotel. 01:21:28.540 |
I think you should explore some of the public pools. 01:21:32.780 |
There's a lot of Blue Lagoon and all of these commoditized luxury spa experiences. 01:21:39.740 |
The public pools have the same geothermal water and they're $8 rather than $80. 01:21:46.140 |
And that's an opportunity where you get to meet locals. 01:21:48.280 |
People go to the pool every day and they want to talk. 01:21:53.820 |
I think we're all desperate to go back to Japan or go to Japan for the first time. 01:22:11.340 |
I would love for people to focus on Tokyo in the southwest part of the city. 01:22:18.220 |
The Yamanote line is a ring line that goes around the city by rail. 01:22:26.460 |
I would encourage you to get out of it in the southwest quadrant. 01:22:32.060 |
That's the part of the city you want to be in. 01:22:34.400 |
You're going to find super cool neighborhoods out there like Shimokitazawa, Daikanyama, 01:22:42.260 |
Geogauka, these are places that you should just go, put your feet down, walk the streets, 01:22:48.780 |
you're going to find really cool little restaurants, tea houses. 01:22:53.180 |
This is everything that Brooklyn wishes it could be. 01:23:01.340 |
So when you're in Shimokitazawa, for example, what you want to do is you want to go to everyone's 01:23:21.160 |
Everyone in Japan's okay with walking with your beverage now, they used to not be. 01:23:26.020 |
You're going to want to walk through that neighborhood. 01:23:27.860 |
You're going to want to look at the street fashion. 01:23:29.580 |
You're going to want to go into the vintage boutiques. 01:23:33.340 |
You're going to want to see the clothes are just so well-maintained and super stylish. 01:23:38.140 |
If you want to understand what's on avant-garde street style, it's there. 01:23:42.940 |
If you pop over to Daikanyama, it's a little bit more high-end. 01:23:48.620 |
It's three white buildings connected by bridges. 01:23:59.540 |
I mean, there are things that you can bring home and put on your coffee table. 01:24:08.180 |
Before we wrap, where can people follow all the stuff you're doing, writing, posting photos 01:24:21.860 |
I have a link to my book, The Fire Land, there as well.