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2:47 Chris & Brad's FI Journey
4:18 Difference Between Financial Independence & FI/RE
7:17 Why You Shouldn't Only Focus On The RE
9:32 The Different Types of Financial Independence
12:7 Lean & Fat FI/RE
17:51 Coast FI/RE
22:44 Tackling The 4% Rule
28:42 Tools To Track Your Fi Journey
41:19 Taxable Brokerage Accounts
46:22 Learning The Skill of Spending
51:24 Embodying the Die With Zero Mentality
56:42 Health & Longevity: Hiring A Remote Personal Trainer
62:51 Cold Plunges & Saunas
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I'm going to run through types of financial independence. 00:00:02.080 |
Traditional FIRE is have enough money to quit your job and never work again. 00:00:06.080 |
Lean FIRE, which would be the retiring early, but bringing your expenses way down. 00:00:10.560 |
Coast FIRE, it's saving up enough money so that you can stop contributing towards retirement. 00:00:16.080 |
Barista FIRE, which is you could choose to just have a side job that only covers the expenses. 00:00:21.280 |
And then the last one that I'll mention is... 00:00:23.520 |
Most people, if they had the wherewithal to reach financial independence, 00:00:30.640 |
They're going to do interesting and varied things. 00:00:33.840 |
What I actually would care about more than quitting my job is having the flexibility to work, 00:00:39.600 |
but also I would like to save up enough money so that I'm not beholden to a job, 00:00:45.920 |
I want to be able to go on really nice vacations, 00:00:48.000 |
eat at whatever restaurants and spend money and live in a nice house. 00:00:51.360 |
Can you give a little more detail on that, how people are doing this? 00:01:01.360 |
I always love chatting with you, whether online or off. 00:01:07.280 |
Well, first one was many years ago on your podcast. 00:01:10.480 |
Yeah, you first joined me on April for what became episode two of All The Hacks. 00:01:20.000 |
And we talked a little bit about FIRE at the beginning. 00:01:24.400 |
But I think both you and I have had an evolution of perspective on financial independence. 00:01:33.920 |
I found out that I didn't even know what "coast fire" was. 00:01:37.360 |
And it turns out that that's actually the thing I'm probably most in tuned with myself. 00:01:42.400 |
So lots of stuff to talk about when it comes to financial independence 00:01:52.880 |
So that was almost six years ago when we recorded this. 00:01:55.680 |
I think, yeah, unquestionably, both of our perspectives have changed significantly. 00:01:59.920 |
And I think, frankly, changed for the better in a lot of senses 00:02:06.720 |
I think both of us probably veered a little bit too much towards the frugality 00:02:12.880 |
and over-optimizing at the expense of maybe enjoyment of life sometimes. 00:02:18.080 |
And I think there's been an evolution, certainly for both of us, clearly. 00:02:24.880 |
But I think, frankly, in the greater financial independence world. 00:02:28.800 |
And this is one of the very few things that I will 00:02:31.520 |
pat ourselves on the back for at Choose FI is, I mean, we, for a very large degree, 00:02:37.280 |
and we have really been the center of the FI world for, I mean, the last handful of years. 00:02:44.080 |
And we have made this very strongly anti that, like the miserliness, 00:02:51.600 |
the just, "Hey, let's race to some number at the expense of life." 00:02:56.800 |
And I think we've tried really, really, really hard to make it about, 00:03:01.040 |
"Hey, what are you running towards, not what are you running away from?" 00:03:04.880 |
And I think just that little shift in orientation 00:03:09.200 |
has made a big difference in a lot of people's lives. 00:03:11.920 |
Now, for anyone who didn't listen to the hundreds of episodes you've done, 00:03:17.440 |
the few we've done, hasn't ever introduced themselves to FIRE, 00:03:22.720 |
So briefly, briefly, since you're the pro, for anyone out there, 00:03:26.400 |
how would you just define financial independence 00:03:28.560 |
and the difference between financial independence and FIRE? 00:03:35.360 |
So, okay, FIRE, the definition, so we're financial independence, retire early. 00:03:41.760 |
And now that was en vogue certainly five to 10 years ago. 00:03:50.960 |
And frankly, Chris, it's that cute little acronym, right? 00:03:58.720 |
But honestly, there was so much overemphasis on the retire early 00:04:05.280 |
that it just became this horrible distraction. 00:04:09.360 |
And there are just people really just crapping on, 00:04:14.400 |
hold on, I don't want to say this, Andrew, cut that. 00:04:16.720 |
And there are just people who love to rip on the FIRE movement 00:04:26.160 |
And it really takes away from people who are pursuing 00:04:30.880 |
financial independence to live a better life. 00:04:33.440 |
And that is how I see, I see financial independence as a universal good 00:04:38.800 |
in that people are resting control of their lives back from this elusive they, right? 00:04:46.160 |
Like you always hear the doom and gloom of you can never retire. 00:04:59.520 |
As opposed to reorienting around what can you control? 00:05:05.040 |
And you, to a large degree, can control your expenses. 00:05:08.960 |
And now, again, this is probably where people overemphasize just the cutting. 00:05:13.840 |
And Chris, obviously we'll talk about that in depth here today, 00:05:16.800 |
but you can control what does your life cost? 00:05:20.720 |
And then essentially you can say, okay, I take, what does my life cost per year? 00:05:34.640 |
That's your five number, your financial independence number. 00:05:38.960 |
Because I think many of us, most of us have heard of the 4% rule 00:05:42.880 |
where we're not going to get into this really in-depth here today. 00:05:46.400 |
But in essence, you can pull 4% out of your investable assets. 00:05:52.640 |
So again, we'll turn it around and say that $2 million times 0.04 is $80,000, right? 00:06:00.000 |
So it's just the inverse of where we started at 80,000 for the expenses. 00:06:05.360 |
So that $2 million can spit off 80K to cover your living expenses. 00:06:11.760 |
Now it is indexed for inflation, normal inflation, not the inflation we've seen recently. 00:06:17.120 |
So there are some potential adjustments, but I think some people have some people adjust 00:06:22.320 |
for that is say, okay, maybe I want to be a little more conservative and make it 30 times 00:06:27.680 |
my expenses or 33 times something, something like that. 00:06:31.360 |
So you can, you can play with this at the margins, because I think really the essence 00:06:36.960 |
of it is you actually have some degree of certainty and you have something to shoot 00:06:44.720 |
And it's not just this doom and gloom of, oh, you can never do this. 00:06:49.440 |
There's some elusive day that's going to impact you. 00:06:54.160 |
So yeah, how does that sound for a rough definition? 00:07:00.240 |
And I will come back at some point to the 4% rule because I have some thoughts. 00:07:05.120 |
But, you know, when I think about financial independence on one perspective, it doesn't 00:07:13.280 |
It's, you know, you could have a large emergency fund and that's a form of financial independence 00:07:18.800 |
because it gives you time to look for the right job. 00:07:21.680 |
You know, every bit of savings that gives you some flexibility is layering in financial 00:07:29.040 |
And sure, when you get to the point that your savings can cover your entire life and you 00:07:33.520 |
can choose not to work, to work, to work for free, obviously, you know, that's even more 00:07:39.520 |
And if you truly could replace your entire income, then yeah, you could retire early 00:07:44.740 |
The irony is that most people end up using their free time to do things that very much 00:07:50.640 |
resemble work and very often generate income and they're not truly retiring early. 00:07:55.200 |
But I think that's why it's actually helpful. 00:07:59.520 |
As much as I thought it was confusing that there are many different types of fire, it 00:08:04.480 |
was actually helpful to look at them and talk about what they are because it gave some perspective 00:08:10.400 |
to the concept that it's not all about one particular style, which I think historically 00:08:17.840 |
It's always been saving up enough money so you have 25 times your income and don't think 00:08:27.120 |
And that is why that caricature existed, right? 00:08:31.280 |
It's like this was for a very specific type of person is what it seemed like high income, 00:08:37.360 |
maybe in a tech job, maybe a white guy in his 30s, right? 00:08:40.880 |
Because some of the very famous early fire bloggers, I guess I even have a hard time 00:08:46.640 |
saying it at this point, Chris, the early fire bloggers were fit that caricature, right? 00:08:52.960 |
So I agree with you that A, nobody that I know of actually just sits on their butt and 00:09:01.440 |
Most people, if they had the wherewithal to reach financial independence at some fairly 00:09:06.480 |
early point or expedited time, they are going to do fantastic things. 00:09:12.320 |
Like you said, they're going to earn money somehow. 00:09:16.720 |
They're going to do interesting and varied things. 00:09:20.800 |
And to imagine this again, you can tell I get bothered by this, right? 00:09:24.640 |
So like that, they're just going to sit there and do nothing and sip umbrella drinks. 00:09:29.120 |
It's like, it's just so silly and laughable, which is why like to focus on the RE makes 00:09:34.480 |
And then, like you said, the power starts accruing essentially from day one, right? 00:09:40.400 |
It's like that first time, if you're living paycheck to paycheck and you're now all of 00:09:45.680 |
a sudden you found out about ChooseFI and you're pursuing financial independence, 00:09:50.960 |
okay, maybe it's not going to take you 10 years to get to five. 00:09:56.160 |
Maybe it's going to take you how many every year? 00:09:59.440 |
But your life is vastly better that first time you have $5,000 saved up. 00:10:07.040 |
Like, Chris, how many people live paycheck to paycheck and think that an emergency is 00:10:12.320 |
a $200 expense that came out of the blue, but was perfectly foreseeable in a given year? 00:10:27.280 |
But man, that first time they have $1,000 saved up, $5,000 saved up, like their life 00:10:38.000 |
And I think that power starts accruing from day one. 00:10:41.280 |
And I think it really radically transforms people and their entire mindset. 00:10:45.680 |
Yeah, I think a handful of people I knew, myself included, probably went off the deep 00:10:52.240 |
I'm going to run through because there's an unlimited number of types of financial 00:10:57.360 |
They're ones that I will leave off and maybe they're ones you're excited about. 00:11:00.800 |
But I'm just going to share a few of the ones. 00:11:03.200 |
I wrote down a couple quick definitions, because I think having a few options of what 00:11:08.640 |
financial independence could be actually gives you more flexibility. 00:11:15.200 |
So the one we talked about, just traditional fire is have enough money to quit your job 00:11:24.080 |
So I'm going to talk about first with lean fire, which would be the very tight end of 00:11:29.280 |
the spectrum, which is retiring early, but bringing your expectation for expenses way 00:11:35.200 |
down, really tightening your belt so that you can do it even earlier. 00:11:38.640 |
And I would say this one probably gets a lot more flack than practically shows up. 00:11:45.280 |
But this is I am going to change where I live, change what I eat, change the activities I 00:11:54.160 |
I'll run through them all and we can talk about them. 00:11:57.200 |
The next one, which is interesting, is kind of coast fire. 00:12:02.240 |
And it's most interesting to me because I didn't really actually understand what it 00:12:05.780 |
I thought it was a version of fire for people who live on the coasts where cost of living 00:12:12.080 |
But it turns out it's actually instead of focusing on saving up enough money so that 00:12:17.520 |
you can stop working, it's saving up enough money so that you can stop contributing towards 00:12:24.480 |
retirement, whatever time in the future that might be. 00:12:27.840 |
So let's say you're fine working till you're 65, fill up your retirement accounts enough 00:12:34.000 |
early on so that all of your income each year can just go to life and not go towards savings, 00:12:40.960 |
which dovetails into another option, which is called barista fire, which is... 00:12:45.120 |
And then you could choose to make a lot of money and spend a lot of money, or you could 00:12:49.680 |
choose to just have a side job that only covers the expenses because you don't need to contribute 00:13:01.040 |
And by the way, this is all a spectrum, right? 00:13:03.600 |
If in order to meet your retirement needs, you need to save $30,000 a year, it's not 00:13:14.000 |
And then the last one that I'll mention is Fatfire, which has a wonderful Reddit community 00:13:19.840 |
and Facebook group, which is really just not sacrificing, right? 00:13:25.040 |
It's like, "I would like to save up enough money so that I'm not beholden to a job. 00:13:33.440 |
I want to be able to go on really nice vacations. 00:13:35.600 |
I want to be able to travel around the world, eat at whatever restaurants I want to and 00:13:40.720 |
spend money and live in a nice house and choose to live in the Bay Area, even if I'm not working 00:13:46.400 |
So I think that's like, "I want to live whatever life I want on my savings and not 00:13:53.280 |
And I don't know, I'm curious what you think when you hear all of these things, whether 00:14:02.880 |
And like you said, there are a lot of these different ones. 00:14:04.960 |
I think these are the four probably main ones that I've heard of. 00:14:08.000 |
I suspect there are some that you and I have never even heard of at this point. 00:14:11.440 |
But yeah, I think, like you said, lean fire is probably the one that appeals to me least. 00:14:30.880 |
It's like essentially how little could you humanly spend more or less to live? 00:14:37.360 |
And then have you achieved FI based on probably the 25 times rule based on that? 00:14:45.200 |
So let's say your life, maybe just your actual structural expenses and some food to get by 00:14:54.720 |
Well, okay, then your lean FI is $750,000, which is very doable for a lot of people. 00:15:00.880 |
I mean, Chris, I can't imagine that sounds like a very appealing life to either me or 00:15:06.400 |
you, but I can understand why people potentially pursue this. 00:15:10.800 |
What I think is interesting, and it's something I've actually said a lot, and I guess maybe 00:15:15.360 |
I've been describing lean fire, is that it's helpful for me to have the security to know 00:15:21.840 |
that I've saved enough money, that there is a lifestyle I could live, especially once 00:15:28.160 |
If you have that $750,000, and something happens, you lose your ability to work. 00:15:35.120 |
Knowing that there is a place in the world that you could live, maybe even in the US, 00:15:40.800 |
maybe even nearby, there is an ability to buy food, feed your family. 00:15:50.000 |
It gives you the flexibility to do a lot of things in your life and be a lot less worried. 00:15:55.040 |
Now, it's not enough money to live in a major city and go out and take expensive vacations, 00:16:03.520 |
I think the challenge is, when you get to the point that you hit it, do you really want 00:16:07.680 |
to stop, do nothing for the rest of your life, and live that life or keep going? 00:16:11.840 |
So to me, there are stops along the journey that start with being out of debt, start with 00:16:17.920 |
being able to pay off... Well, let's skip that. 00:16:21.760 |
It starts with being out of debt, building up savings and whatnot. 00:16:25.120 |
But I think what I've seen in my life, leaving to start this podcast, my wife leaving to 00:16:30.480 |
join me, those were things we were able to do because we have savings. 00:16:34.960 |
Do we have enough savings that we could live off of it in our current lifestyle with zero 00:16:40.640 |
But do we have enough savings that we could adapt our lifestyle, move somewhere else and 00:16:49.360 |
I mean, there's a real allure to that, certainly. 00:16:51.840 |
And I don't think any of these are all or nothing, I mean, especially something like 00:16:57.520 |
So I mean, I can use the example of my brother and his wife and family. 00:17:02.160 |
They, I mean, maybe you could call it a mini-retirement, but there's some intersection of a mini-retirement 00:17:10.800 |
and LeanFi in that they just had a daughter and she's a year old now. 00:17:18.480 |
And basically, he was staying home to raise her for the first year. 00:17:24.160 |
And then his wife, Kristen, realized, "Hey, I don't want to miss this time. 00:17:32.560 |
We're not at Fi, but we're certainly at a LeanFi number where we could easily live off 00:17:44.320 |
So they wound up almost doing exactly what you described, Chris, which was, "Hey, maybe 00:17:48.960 |
you could even do this within the United States." 00:17:54.400 |
They bought a condo, don't have a mortgage on it. 00:17:59.040 |
And they're living for a year or two or maybe even more in this LeanFi style. 00:18:05.680 |
But the benefit they're getting is they're seeing those first formative years of their 00:18:15.040 |
And the three of them are there every single day. 00:18:17.040 |
So you talk about security, but you also talk about benefits of something. 00:18:23.840 |
And I mean, I don't know precisely what's going on in their lives, but are they going 00:18:31.040 |
No, but man, they're there with their daughter every single day. 00:18:36.400 |
And that's an astonishing, astonishing thing. 00:18:39.280 |
I think you could choose what you want to do with your financial independence. 00:18:45.760 |
But let's come back to CoastFi because it's the most interesting one to me because it 00:18:49.760 |
feels like what I'm interested in and what I actually would care about more than quitting 00:18:54.400 |
my job is having the flexibility to work, but also save. 00:19:02.160 |
So it's funny, actually, that today is the day you found CoastFi, right? 00:19:06.320 |
And you realized, oh, wow, this is interesting to me. 00:19:10.640 |
And yeah, I mean, I think this has a real appeal to a lot of people. 00:19:15.760 |
This is maybe one of the newer of these flavors of Fi, but it was one of those aha moments 00:19:21.360 |
for a lot of people in that, yeah, I mean, essentially, and Chris, obviously, there's 00:19:25.840 |
the intersection of like the rule of 72 and compounding money. 00:19:30.480 |
So just to take a quick sidebar and explain that is I think most people understand that, 00:19:35.920 |
okay, you have some investable net worth saved up, right? 00:19:40.160 |
And while we can't guarantee what a stock market return is, I think you have a general 00:19:55.760 |
So using what's known as the rule of 72, and I don't want to get in the weeds here, but 00:20:00.880 |
this is actually a really useful and pretty easy thing to figure out is it basically tells 00:20:06.080 |
you how long it'll take for your assets to double based on a certain rate of return. 00:20:14.080 |
So more or less, you just take the number 72 and then divide by your expected rate of 00:20:21.080 |
If we're saying 8%, so 72 divided by 8 very simply is 9. 00:20:25.120 |
That's the number of years it'll take your money to double. 00:20:27.920 |
So that's really, really important for CoastFi in that basically how CoastFi works is let's 00:20:34.960 |
say you've saved up, I don't know, 300,000, let's start there. 00:20:39.520 |
Something that's reasonable and is certainly a nice net worth, but is not going to get 00:20:46.680 |
So you've saved up 300,000 and now you want to not save any more money. 00:20:56.520 |
You're not saving additional money into your, hold on, sorry, let me say that again. 00:21:01.840 |
So that's the point where coasting comes in is essentially your money is working for you 00:21:06.200 |
in the background and you are not adding anything to those assets. 00:21:11.440 |
You are either earning less and spending it all or potentially spending more money, right? 00:21:18.600 |
Or potentially spending more money and just increasing your lifestyle to meet where your 00:21:27.640 |
And basically using that rule of 72, let's say your actual fine number was, I don't know, 00:21:37.160 |
So that 300,000 will double to 600,000 in nine years. 00:21:42.960 |
And then that 600 will double again to 1.2 million in 18 years total. 00:21:49.080 |
So 18 years from now, if you had a $300,000 net worth, again, in theory, we're not saying 00:21:54.280 |
this is a guarantee, but assuming an 8% annual return, it would be 1.2 million in about 18 00:22:02.720 |
So you're more or less coasting into it based on the work that you've done previously by 00:22:09.040 |
saving in this concerted manner to get your current net worth. 00:22:13.080 |
And yeah, I mean, Chris, I think there really is a great allure to that. 00:22:17.560 |
I know, again, this is something that you're thinking about in your own life, right? 00:22:22.160 |
You clearly have a nice net worth, but I think you are not at fi as you would traditionally 00:22:29.640 |
I mean, it's funny because 10 years ago, I probably would have said yes. 00:22:33.640 |
Then you have children, you move into the Bay Area, and you spend a lot... 00:22:37.560 |
You realize how much more money you're spending and you come out of it. 00:22:40.280 |
So it's like you can come into it, you can come out of it. 00:22:42.760 |
For me, I think we've saved enough that it'll cover retirement if it continues to grow. 00:22:49.400 |
And that we can not focus as much on saving in the short term. 00:22:53.840 |
But we do need to focus on covering our expenses. 00:22:56.080 |
And so that's where I think it seems like, "Oh, I could do whatever I want." 00:23:02.640 |
Still need a reasonably high pre-tax income to cover where we live and how much we spend 00:23:11.320 |
But in a strange way, for me, it's weird to ever withdraw money from your savings. 00:23:19.760 |
So for me, the money we put away in our brokerage account, our retirement accounts, that's for 00:23:29.440 |
The strange thing in this new kind of Coast Fi world that I'm hours into is this idea 00:23:35.520 |
that, "Well, maybe it makes sense to withdraw some of it so that we can put other money 00:23:43.560 |
So I could actually see a start to draw down on our long-term savings, which for us is 00:23:48.700 |
in our Wealthfront account, so that we can increase our solo 401(k) contributions because 00:23:56.080 |
there's just a more tax advantage to doing that. 00:23:59.020 |
That's something that we'll probably still do. 00:24:00.720 |
So we're still going to save, but we're going to also withdraw at the same time, which I'm 00:24:06.240 |
sure will make some financial model confused. 00:24:12.960 |
It feels like the first time I found a part of the FIRE movement, if you will, that I'm 00:24:20.200 |
And I think a lot of people I talk to don't want to quit their job, or at least don't 00:24:25.880 |
And so the one nuance to calculating this is thinking, "When do I want to stop working?" 00:24:32.160 |
Work backwards from there to figure out how much you need now. 00:24:35.940 |
So like you said, if you want to stop working in 18 years, I'm a bit more conservative. 00:24:45.380 |
So if you're cool with a 65-year retirement age, and you want to work backwards, by 40, 00:24:53.520 |
you need one-fourth of what you think you need to live on in retirement. 00:24:56.800 |
So if that number is $1 million, you need $250 because you're not going to touch it. 00:25:08.500 |
I will say, I will just take a quick tackle on the 4% rule because I went down the Early 00:25:15.620 |
Retirement Now website, which had this great whole thing on safe withdrawal rates and sequence 00:25:25.240 |
It was like a 60-part blog post series, which I will just say is a lot. 00:25:29.480 |
I'll link to the first one in the show notes. 00:25:32.720 |
But I think the 4% rule often gets misinterpreted because it was truly built for a 30-year cycle 00:25:41.940 |
And so if you're using the 4% rule, starting at age 30, the certainty with which it has 00:25:49.300 |
worked in the Trinity study that it was based off of would have only gotten you to age 60. 00:25:54.700 |
However, if you look at a lot of the calculations and the Early Retirement Now blog actually 00:25:59.100 |
has a lot of them, you'll notice that if you just reduce it to 3.5% or even 3%, it works 00:26:08.460 |
So if you want to be really safe, which is what I do in all my projections, I use the 00:26:16.300 |
I'm also not factoring in Social Security or anything else. 00:26:20.900 |
But that's where I come out with on the 4% rule. 00:26:24.740 |
I think for a handful of reasons, it's probably both too aggressive to be certain and too 00:26:31.140 |
conservative for what I imagine we will see with returns. 00:26:38.540 |
So listeners of ChooseFI will be very familiar with Karsten from Early Retirement Now. 00:26:47.100 |
And yeah, like you said, if you're looking to dive deep on safe withdrawal rates, his 00:26:51.020 |
60-part series, it's almost laughable to say 60-part series out loud, but yeah, it is amazing. 00:26:57.740 |
And by the way, each part is not like three paragraphs. 00:27:03.060 |
Thousands of words and graphs and charts and stuff. 00:27:07.580 |
I think on our show, he basically has said it's almost a guarantee, and he would never 00:27:12.180 |
use the word guarantee, but in every Monte Carlo simulation he's come up with, that 3.25% 00:27:19.220 |
will get you there in virtually every single scenario. 00:27:22.060 |
So like you said, using a 3% safe withdrawal rate is very, very conservative and not including 00:27:28.740 |
I mean, we're all, I think those of us that are inclined to think that way, and I am as 00:27:36.380 |
So that's the 3% rule, 33 times your annual expenses. 00:27:41.140 |
I think we all understand we're being ultra, ultra conservative, but again, a lot of this, 00:27:51.220 |
And I think if that helps you sleep well at night, because again, that word security, 00:28:01.460 |
And if that helps you sleep well at night, then so be it. 00:28:05.020 |
Like, but you have to understand like, what's the opportunity cost, right? 00:28:07.900 |
So the opportunity costs potentially are years of your life that you're working. 00:28:14.020 |
Now, if like you, you're doing something that you love, and again, I just wrote down as 00:28:19.780 |
you were talking, like, who says you have to stop working as if you need to stop working 00:28:25.240 |
to be part of the fire movement or something like that nonsense is gone. 00:28:31.940 |
Like, that's not a prerequisite to being a member of the financial independence movement, 00:28:38.700 |
That's the whole beauty of this, Chris, right? 00:28:40.340 |
Like, you have the freedom to do what you want in life. 00:28:43.020 |
And if that means you want to work because you love it, then do it. 00:28:49.660 |
So I think, again, we're being a little conservative, but that's okay. 00:28:55.660 |
Again, understanding what's the opportunity cost and for people who are working in jobs 00:28:59.860 |
that they don't love, and that it's that one more year syndrome, how many people fall prey 00:29:08.500 |
What if I need the 2.5% safe withdrawal rate? 00:29:13.660 |
And I don't think Social Security is going to be here. 00:29:15.980 |
You know, you can come up with all of this stuff that will keep you working in a job 00:29:25.340 |
So clearly, I'm kind of setting up almost like a straw man ridiculous argument here, 00:29:31.020 |
But like, but maybe not, because I fear there are people that could fall prey to that. 00:29:37.300 |
I think the one thing that you got to remember is that it's not binary. 00:29:41.800 |
If you have a job you hate, you don't have to just quit that job and never work again 00:29:46.860 |
and be able to replace your income for the next 30 to 60 years. 00:29:52.220 |
If you build up enough to get you by for a year, then you can go try to find another 00:30:00.700 |
And it turns out, if you love it more, you might be able to advance better, negotiate 00:30:06.820 |
You might end up making more money in the long run. 00:30:09.140 |
I know a lot of people that find themselves sometimes in their career not happy with their 00:30:14.520 |
And if I look back now that I've kind of had the professional experience, most of them 00:30:17.920 |
found other things pretty quickly that they loved. 00:30:22.940 |
So a lot of them worried that they couldn't quit their job because they needed enough 00:30:27.060 |
money, millions of dollars to cover their income forever. 00:30:32.540 |
But I quickly found other things that I loved. 00:30:35.780 |
And so, put together, that's more of an emergency fund issue than a financial independence issue. 00:30:42.180 |
You don't need to have your entire life covered in costs before you can take time to find 00:30:52.340 |
He knew he was ready to find something new and knew that it might take a year and had 00:30:59.060 |
Didn't think he needed financial independence, retire early money. 00:31:02.960 |
And about six months in, he found a thing that he's really, really excited about. 00:31:06.720 |
And it took time, but he's going to be much happier. 00:31:09.540 |
And I think his career will flourish because of it. 00:31:12.360 |
So I don't know, that's just one perspective I have. 00:31:16.720 |
I mean, that resonates with me in my own life, frankly, and you as well, right? 00:31:21.920 |
We both did this with our own entrepreneurial ventures. 00:31:27.920 |
And I think that's what pursuing FI gives you. 00:31:31.000 |
It gives you options that if, I mean, for me, if I didn't have any type of side business 00:31:37.640 |
and I was just, I mean, I was a middle manager at doing corporate state tax returns. 00:31:45.480 |
I was still a number of years away and I had built businesses on the side. 00:31:50.920 |
I mean, Chris, they weren't bringing in a ton of money, but it was something that like 00:31:56.880 |
And I said, Oh, if I could actually do this full time, maybe I could turn this into something. 00:32:01.760 |
And it's, you know, in the points and miles world, you didn't even realize, I don't think 00:32:05.760 |
all this time that we've known each other, that that was really my first foray into entrepreneurship 00:32:15.600 |
I was helping people get to Disney world, take Disney world trips, not first class on 00:32:22.520 |
But literally trips to Disney world, because I figured if they were, if I, if I could save 00:32:28.720 |
$4,000 for my family, there were millions of other families who want to go to Disney 00:32:35.360 |
Is that super attractive to a 24 year old kid who's looking to fly first class and, 00:32:42.560 |
But is that appealing to tens of millions of families who want to go to Disney world? 00:32:46.720 |
And then I kind of scaled that with my next business travel miles one-on-one and, and 00:32:50.680 |
it was just, I wouldn't have had that opportunity. 00:32:52.720 |
I wouldn't have had the guts, frankly, to leave my job, my nice safe job when I had 00:33:00.360 |
If I didn't, if I wasn't pursuing fine, if I wasn't 80% of the way to my fine number, 00:33:05.840 |
it was that, that security blanket, it made a massive difference, you know? 00:33:14.240 |
I downloaded Karsten's toolkit, which is a spreadsheet that I didn't even... 00:33:21.080 |
I spent about 20 minutes on it and I made it about 10% or less the way there, which 00:33:27.280 |
But I think there's a world where you can go down a lot of rabbit holes. 00:33:30.280 |
So just to be clear, his tool is incredible, especially when it comes to modeling a lot 00:33:35.440 |
If you want to nerd out, I'll also link to that in the show notes. 00:33:39.320 |
But high level, what are the tools you're using on a daily basis to kind of manage your 00:33:43.440 |
money and track your financial independence journey? 00:33:49.160 |
Well, you, the AllTheHacks guy, are going to be very disappointed in me. 00:33:52.960 |
I am as low-key and low-tech with this as one could possibly be. 00:33:59.000 |
I still use the Excel, Microsoft Excel spreadsheet that I've been using for like my entire FI 00:34:08.240 |
I have it literally quarter by quarter saved, my net worth saved for the last 10 plus years 00:34:16.920 |
And which is actually a really cool exercise. 00:34:18.200 |
I just love, and I know our good friend Paula Pant does this as well, just loves really 00:34:23.920 |
getting into the nitty gritty of like, I know it sounds silly, but entering those numbers 00:34:30.720 |
into the spreadsheet, there's something really visceral about it that is better for me personally 00:34:38.220 |
than using some fancy tool or some fancy projection software. 00:34:42.280 |
And I know you've dove into a whole bunch of these things. 00:34:46.200 |
So I want to get back to you on this because you have a better answer. 00:34:49.200 |
But yeah, I mean, I very simply, I have my CPA's brain. 00:34:53.120 |
So I've come up with like income statements and net worth statements that I just track 00:34:59.280 |
And I basically maybe spend an hour every month just kind of really tying everything 00:35:04.680 |
out to, I run everything through my checking account. 00:35:09.000 |
So I use that as the account that I run everything off of and then any transfers into other accounts. 00:35:14.920 |
And then obviously increases or decreases in the account balances at Vanguard or Fidelity 00:35:21.040 |
or Schwab or Wealthfront or wherever it may be. 00:35:27.480 |
So basically I'm doing this probably, like I said, about an hour a month, give or take 00:35:35.200 |
And then at the end of every quarter, I spend probably no more than 30 minutes logging into 00:35:41.280 |
every account that I own, that I have assets at and just jotting down in this Excel spreadsheet 00:35:49.520 |
So it ultimately then ties out to my, I get my net worth. 00:35:53.120 |
So it's been, yeah, I know it sounds like a lot of work. 00:35:57.480 |
And there's something, there is something fun about it. 00:36:02.680 |
But yeah, tell us about where the rabbit holes you've dove down. 00:36:07.740 |
Obviously I took a more tech forward approach than a spreadsheet, although I used the spreadsheet 00:36:13.800 |
But I just found that if I didn't update it for 6 months, it was just a lot of work. 00:36:19.600 |
So I think that for everyone, there's 2 to 3 tools. 00:36:24.760 |
And I think for a lot of people, it can just be 2. 00:36:27.680 |
And all of the stuff we've talked about this entire episode really comes down to knowing 00:36:32.880 |
It's knowing how much you're spending and knowing how much you have. 00:36:37.520 |
And I guess knowing how much you make also, but that's usually a lot easier number for 00:36:43.380 |
And so it's how do you track your spending and how do you track your net worth? 00:36:47.920 |
And how do you project from that would be the third piece of the puzzle. 00:36:52.800 |
I used to try to track spending in Mint along many years ago. 00:36:58.120 |
I've done an entire episode where I broke down... 00:37:03.520 |
Mint, YNAB, Monarch Money, Copilot, the one that Quicken launched, Simplify, and a couple 00:37:13.840 |
I synced all my 2022 transactions, looked at everything. 00:37:18.700 |
And the end goal was like, "I'm going to pick the best one." 00:37:23.660 |
But at the end of the day, I went with Copilot. 00:37:26.200 |
I think it's for anyone who's on Apple products, it's the best. 00:37:31.380 |
If you're on Android or Windows, it's an iOS, Mac, iPad-only adventure. 00:37:38.320 |
But for me, it almost makes it so easy and fun and simple and that's just what I've chosen. 00:37:48.000 |
Right after I reached out to them and I was like, "Hey guys, I've been pitched by a handful 00:37:52.460 |
of companies in this space to work with them as sponsors of the podcast. 00:37:57.200 |
But at the end of the day, I want to work with the products I use." 00:38:01.200 |
And that's how I've actually done most of the sponsorships we have. 00:38:05.120 |
So full disclosure, they are a partner of the show. 00:38:07.840 |
And if you go to allthehacks.com/copilot, you'll get a discount. 00:38:11.640 |
But I think that is how I manage how much I spend. 00:38:16.080 |
I did a whole episode on all that, so I'm not going to go down that rabbit hole. 00:38:19.760 |
Then for how much money I have generally, Wealthfront has a free version of linking 00:38:25.800 |
your accounts, seeing how it's going, doing some light projections. 00:38:29.520 |
I'd put it in the "I don't want to play around a lot. 00:38:32.640 |
I want you to give me best practices on everything." 00:38:37.820 |
What I think goes a step further than that is a product called Kubera, which I first 00:38:43.640 |
heard about at FinCon, when they presented on stage, I later started using. 00:38:49.760 |
And then later, I would say partnered with, they're not a sponsor of the show. 00:38:54.800 |
But we worked together on the All The Hacks membership. 00:38:57.240 |
So All The Hacks members get their first year of Kubera free. 00:39:10.320 |
But I think Kubera is like, imagine if someone wanted to build the website version of the 00:39:17.120 |
spreadsheet you have, where you can put it in categories, you can look at... 00:39:22.040 |
Especially on the investment side, you can look at cost bases or IRRs. 00:39:30.440 |
And then they just launched recently this fast forward feature, where you can put in 00:39:34.160 |
a set of simple rules in multiple scenarios and be able to just see what happens. 00:39:39.240 |
So this isn't the full on financial projection tool that you could go down every rabbit hole 00:39:49.980 |
It's like, let's say my assets grow by 3% factoring in inflation. 00:39:56.320 |
Let's say my salary continues for this many years. 00:40:01.420 |
Let's say I have a future expense for college starting in this year, lasting for 4 years. 00:40:09.240 |
And it'll project forward and say, "Here's your net worth in a year, 5 years, 10 years, 00:40:13.880 |
20 years, and what that will generally look like." 00:40:19.000 |
I've abandoned my spreadsheet for Kubera for tracking net worth and everything. 00:40:26.520 |
The thing that I think has always been the problem is there are a handful of providers 00:40:31.560 |
of linking services, meaning where you'd log into your bank account and they'll pull data 00:40:38.920 |
And most apps use one and Kubera works with 2 or 3 of the top ones. 00:40:43.820 |
So they know that if you're trying to sync that obscure Vanguard, a census retirement 00:40:49.600 |
account that I have, they know to make sure you use Yodlee instead of Plaid because it 00:41:00.440 |
And then the third one is one that I recently started playing with after a bunch of listeners 00:41:05.960 |
emailed in and said, "Hey, you haven't included Projection Lab." 00:41:12.960 |
I'll make sure at some point to go look into it." 00:41:16.560 |
And I had a call actually with Kyle, the CEO or the founder of this company. 00:41:22.520 |
I think if you're the kind of person that wants to model out a lot of scenarios, toggle 00:41:26.960 |
things on and off, look at the tax implications, look at the flow of capital on a year-by-year 00:41:37.160 |
I will say, I think jumping into it, it's not going to be the "I want to set up 3 simple 00:41:43.600 |
There's an onboarding and you walk through a lot of stuff. 00:41:46.480 |
But once you're done, the flexibility you have is really cool. 00:41:50.360 |
And you can define steps along the way like, "I want to get to... 00:41:53.840 |
When will I get to financial independence at 33 times income? 00:41:58.520 |
When might I get to fat fire at 50 times income?" 00:42:01.760 |
You can set these milestones and see these projections. 00:42:04.480 |
So I would say if someone needs an app to track their spending, I'm a fan of Copilot. 00:42:11.560 |
If someone wants to track their net worth, I'm a big fan of Kubera. 00:42:15.760 |
And if you're an All The Hacks member or want to be, it's free for your first year, which 00:42:21.240 |
And then finally, I would say if you want to go really deep in the weeds, you can use 00:42:27.480 |
And I don't say "deep in the weeds" like it's not interesting for most people. 00:42:31.760 |
You're going to spend more time on it and if your money is important. 00:42:37.200 |
But if I'm trying to figure out big decisions, I like having all the data. 00:42:45.800 |
If we ended up paying for college or doing private school, what are those huge costs 00:42:53.080 |
And I think those are really interesting questions to ask. 00:42:56.960 |
And when you want to factor in the taxes of it, and you want to factor in required minimum 00:43:00.760 |
distributions from retirement accounts, it's pretty interesting. 00:43:04.680 |
Yeah, you showed it to me right before we jumped on. 00:43:11.640 |
I mean, clearly, I think we are the spectrum here of mine is aside from people who aren't 00:43:17.360 |
tracking anything, which please, please, please, please track something. 00:43:20.880 |
You just need to at the very least, what do you spend? 00:43:26.360 |
Up to you who are trying out all these different tools and want to get it. 00:43:32.560 |
I would say by any measure, you are being more accurate than I am, right? 00:43:36.520 |
And having these major expenses, like just seeing that, "Oh, hey, from, in my case, 2026 00:43:44.400 |
to 2034, I'm going to have college for each of my daughters. 00:43:49.760 |
It's going to be eight straight years of college." 00:43:52.760 |
That clearly needs to be factored in somehow, right? 00:43:55.760 |
And if I was earning $0, then we would potentially have an issue. 00:44:02.560 |
And I think it's an interesting thought experiment in my case, but for a lot of people, hey, 00:44:08.520 |
if you've "reach phi" and you're not, maybe you're earning a fraction of what you were, 00:44:15.120 |
and you have these massive expenses coming up that you haven't modeled, well, there are 00:44:24.560 |
I've just loosely seen those in the past, but yeah, this Projection Lab looks amazing. 00:44:30.240 |
And just to be clear, normally when I want to do an episode on this, I'll go play with 00:44:35.060 |
And so Projection Lab does not get the seal of, "I have gone and played with every tool." 00:44:41.700 |
But I just got so many emails from listeners to check it out. 00:44:44.240 |
And many of those people have gone and played with every tool that I thought it was worth 00:44:48.680 |
But honestly, I say that because I enjoyed spending an afternoon going to enter it in, 00:44:55.880 |
but I equally enjoyed, on Kubera, creating 4 or 5 or I guess 6 rules. 00:45:02.040 |
It's like "To college", "Growth", "Inflation", "When does my income end?" and "How do my 00:45:07.840 |
And just having a very simple form of "How do things project out to the future?" 00:45:12.200 |
So I care more about people being aware of the circumstance than I do about them going 00:45:21.120 |
But those are the 3 tools that I say all of my financial life lives through. 00:45:28.840 |
There's quick books for business and all that stuff. 00:45:30.840 |
But for me, it's those 3 tools are how I'm doing almost all the tracking. 00:45:36.840 |
And we'll see where Projection Lab fits in, in the long run, whether it's a thing I check 00:45:41.360 |
every month, every year, or whether it's a thing I use to make big decisions. 00:45:47.640 |
And Chris, I actually wanted to double back to something you said before, because I think 00:45:51.480 |
there might be some people who are looking for some additional clarity on this. 00:45:57.920 |
You were saying that you were potentially going to be taking money out of some accounts. 00:46:04.040 |
It sounded like your taxable brokerage account, but you're going to be putting money in also 00:46:09.320 |
into let's say, solo 401(k) or some other pre-tax options. 00:46:15.960 |
And I always love to close the loop on things. 00:46:20.400 |
Because I think there are going to be a lot of people who are like, "Chris, I want more 00:46:23.880 |
Like the real nuts and bolts of how people are doing this. 00:46:27.800 |
I mean, I think I did some aggressive saving early on and built up a good taxable brokerage 00:46:35.920 |
Now, we could have a whole conversation about what was the deprivation of skipping dinners, 00:46:43.120 |
not ordering appetizers, like was all that worth it? 00:46:50.040 |
So now, most of my savings is non-retirement savings. 00:46:58.840 |
And right now, with Amy leaving her job to work on all the hacks, I would say our income 00:47:06.120 |
Twelve months ago, we had two jobs and a podcast and now we have zero jobs and a podcast. 00:47:11.240 |
And so, we just frankly do not have the income right now to both live and contribute to retirement 00:47:27.860 |
It's just if you look practically at the dollars coming in, all the expenses we have related 00:47:32.600 |
to the podcast, employee, we have a full-time employee, all this stuff, practically, we 00:47:40.400 |
want to cover our expenses and there's just not a big buffer left over to fund retirement 00:47:46.560 |
However, there are a lot of great options, whether it's Backdoor Roth IRAs, or Solo 401Ks, 00:47:54.480 |
I just got this cool email about this option that I'm not entirely sure how it works, but 00:48:00.800 |
something that goes one step even further than just Solo 401Ks, it was called a Cash 00:48:12.620 |
This is an advanced retirement plan for business owners that are making mid-hundreds of thousands 00:48:17.260 |
of dollars a year in profit and want to put away more than the $66,000 a year Solo 401K 00:48:23.840 |
It costs considerably more to set up, about $2,000 to set up and maintain each year. 00:48:29.560 |
But it's unparalleled in the size of the benefit, and it can be combined with the Solo 401K. 00:48:37.200 |
When I read this, I wasn't thinking, "This is for me." 00:48:39.240 |
I was just thinking, it made me realize that there are a lot of things as a business owner, 00:48:45.520 |
or even if you were just an employee, that you could use your money to be more tax-efficient 00:48:52.160 |
But if you don't have the spare cash, what do you do? 00:48:55.540 |
It's always been crazy for me to think, "Let's withdraw from our long-term savings." 00:48:59.780 |
If you look at our wealth front balance for the last, I don't know, 5 years, it has not 00:49:10.760 |
But now I'm like, "Psychologically, I'm talking about pulling money out of it so that I can 00:49:15.700 |
take income somewhere else and put it somewhere else." 00:49:18.500 |
Which in turn might mean investing my savings into the business, and then the business contributing 00:49:27.900 |
It's a little complicated and we're working with our accountant to make sure we don't 00:49:34.140 |
But it's just something that we're considering right now in that interim stage. 00:49:39.380 |
Once you go full, quit your job, financial independence, you tap into your savings all 00:49:44.380 |
But now that I'm living this "Coast Five" thing, which is so funny to say, having misunderstood 00:49:52.220 |
what it even meant as early as this morning, it's like, "Well, I don't want to touch my 00:49:57.620 |
Even though I had that attitude, now I have a name to define why I'm not touching that 00:50:02.620 |
And then almost immediately, I'm like, "No, no, no. 00:50:04.060 |
I'm going to touch it, but I'm going to replenish it through another door." 00:50:09.580 |
You are, in essence, you're netting to zero in the sense that you would be pulling money 00:50:15.180 |
out of your taxable brokerage account to cover your life expenses, but also contributing 00:50:21.100 |
to retirement accounts, whatever they may be, whether it's this crazy cash balance thingamajig 00:50:28.980 |
But in essence, what you're doing then is getting the tax benefit from those contributions. 00:50:34.060 |
Yeah, it's like I'm basically shifting my after-tax, subject-to-tax-in-the-future investments 00:50:42.560 |
to tax-advantaged investment accounts, which will reduce my income and give me more growth 00:50:54.060 |
It's actually a net positive sum other than the short-term capital gains hits of selling 00:51:00.580 |
my portfolio, which fortunately, because we've been keeping this money and wealth front for 00:51:05.220 |
a while, we built up a ton of tax loss harvesting. 00:51:07.760 |
So I think I can actually mitigate most of the capital gains with built-up capital losses. 00:51:18.020 |
And for anyone listening, I think, "Look, you might not be a business owner. 00:51:21.320 |
You might not be in a situation in any way similar to Brad or mine. 00:51:25.480 |
But if you work at a company, and you're not maxing out your 401(k) because maybe you just 00:51:30.840 |
had two children and you decided to quit one of your jobs, and you're in a situation where 00:51:35.200 |
cash is tight, but you do have savings in a taxable account, just a standard brokerage 00:51:41.800 |
account, I'm not going to talk about what you should do. 00:51:45.060 |
I'm not going to give personalized financial advice, but definitely worth considering using 00:51:50.620 |
some of your long-term savings to live on so that you can put some of your income into 00:51:54.900 |
a more tax-efficient vehicle for long-term savings. 00:51:58.700 |
And it's important just for people to be cognizant of just this concept. 00:52:02.520 |
So yeah, it's very cool that you're doing this in real life. 00:52:10.260 |
So one thing we haven't touched on, now that we've evolved our thinking on financial independence 00:52:15.480 |
over the course of, for you, probably a decade, for me, probably a handful of years, I'm curious 00:52:24.060 |
I think we both kind of went from more deprivation, less spending, to training ourselves to spend. 00:52:33.540 |
So I'm curious if you could talk a little bit about how did you learn this skill of 00:52:36.380 |
spending and what have you been using it for? 00:52:38.580 |
Yeah, the skill of spending is such a great way to put it and yeah, Mr. Money Mustache 00:52:43.300 |
had come up with this earlier in the year as a phrase that really just appeals to me. 00:52:48.500 |
I think a skill of spending on the front side of FII is largely, okay, you do have to be 00:52:54.860 |
more optimized, especially if you're living paycheck to paycheck or getting into debt 00:52:59.260 |
Okay, you have to cut, you have to be a little more efficient. 00:53:02.140 |
And that doesn't mean deprivation necessarily, but it means being smarter with your money. 00:53:06.380 |
But yeah, Chris, you and I are now at points where I think we've evolved the other side 00:53:10.740 |
of the skill of spending is learning how to spend for life benefit, for memory dividends, 00:53:19.220 |
for just enjoyment and for connection, for what we talked about last time, something 00:53:25.060 |
that you're working on is trying to buy back your time in a lot of senses, right? 00:53:29.580 |
Like there's lots of ways to spend and to spend well that can really help your life. 00:53:34.980 |
So yeah, I mean, I am really thinking about this in a lot of ways. 00:53:38.420 |
There's certainly spending to get time back just in little ways. 00:53:43.500 |
Even something like that is very obvious to most people, getting a cleaning service at 00:53:48.580 |
our house, which we never did forever, spending more on food now than we ever have because 00:53:55.900 |
we just spend a lot of time cooking and cleaning and it doesn't really make that much sense 00:54:03.380 |
I think we're at a point in our lives where, okay, the ease, especially with having two 00:54:08.260 |
daughters now in middle and high school, and we're driving them all over the place and 00:54:13.940 |
to spend an hour cooking and 20 or 30 minutes cleaning up, it just, it doesn't make any 00:54:23.020 |
I mean, Chris, the biggest thing is like experiences. 00:54:26.780 |
I think this is something that I've been honestly like really proud of myself this year. 00:54:32.580 |
And this also comes back to like the memory dividends and Die With Zero and Bill Perkins. 00:54:41.360 |
And this is like a part of my life that has really not been an important part of my life 00:54:46.220 |
for the last 10 years because I've let it kind of fall by the wayside. 00:54:51.060 |
And I think in a lot of senses, like since my daughters were born, like I lost myself. 00:54:58.260 |
Might be hyperbolic, but I lost myself in a lot of like the things that I love doing. 00:55:02.100 |
I used to love watching like the English Premier League on Saturdays and going to concerts 00:55:07.500 |
and doing just like a lot of fun stuff that I just had let, like I said, slip away. 00:55:13.300 |
And this year I challenged myself to really make moves on this and see what I can do. 00:55:19.140 |
And I actually planned like an impromptu last minute solo trip to New York City to see Bono 00:55:28.620 |
So he was doing this like really small concert at the Beacon Theatre that was partially a 00:55:37.180 |
So it was like half one-man show, half book tour/concert. 00:55:44.580 |
But I bought tickets on StubHub, bought flights, got a hotel, and it was like the week before. 00:55:50.940 |
And I just, I'm like, this is the coolest thing ever. 00:55:54.800 |
And it was, I mean, Chris, it was really awesome. 00:55:57.420 |
And that is something I never would have done in my entire life before reorienting this, 00:56:04.060 |
before reorienting this, this skill of spending. 00:56:08.700 |
Because I think I'm not, I'm not quite there yet. 00:56:12.300 |
What do you think changed that made it possible now when it wouldn't have been possible in 00:56:23.100 |
And maybe that's that I'm 44 years old and not getting any younger and my kids are growing 00:56:31.780 |
And like I said, I might have, you know, lost some part of myself over the last 10 years 00:56:38.380 |
where I haven't focused on, on things that bring joy. 00:56:49.340 |
It was just understanding that you got to do it. 00:56:55.420 |
You can't be worried about saving money all the time. 00:56:59.140 |
And even just little challenges, Chris, like as silly as this sounds, like the Richmond 00:57:04.040 |
airport is like, it's not very expensive long-term parking or even like the short-term parking. 00:57:08.460 |
But I was like on this trip to New York city, I'm like, what would, what would doing this 00:57:15.500 |
And it was almost like a Ramit Sethi kind of thing. 00:57:21.280 |
It was parking in the daily lot that was right there. 00:57:26.540 |
It was like, and Chris, this cost me like nine extra dollars because I was, it was 24, 00:57:31.860 |
So this is not that big of a deal, but, and it might've even been less than that, frankly, 00:57:40.620 |
And it was like, okay, how can you find these little things that actually make a difference? 00:57:45.020 |
And going back to the food, it was like, we get these amazing, hold on, let me say that 00:57:52.500 |
And going back to the food, like we're now getting these amazing meals brought into the 00:57:56.140 |
house and it's like, it's just a couple of dollars more, but it's just reorienting to 00:58:02.940 |
So it's like this valuist play is like this term valuist is how I've always, I've talked 00:58:08.380 |
about this on the podcast for so many years, but I never really embodied it in, in actuality. 00:58:15.940 |
I think I did to some degree, but I didn't get there. 00:58:18.820 |
And now it's just, all right, look, like I said, and I know it sounds a little morbid, 00:58:23.300 |
but I, but I think it's important is understanding the finite nature of your life, right? 00:58:28.980 |
And like the finite nature of seasons of your life. 00:58:32.500 |
You know, I, I took a trip to see Taylor Swift to in Pittsburgh with my older daughter and 00:58:38.540 |
we bought very, very expensive tickets on, on secondary and man, Chris, we had the time 00:58:45.660 |
And like that we'll, we'll be talking about that 30 years from now, it was amazing. 00:58:50.860 |
And I don't regret any single one of those dollars I spent on that trip. 00:58:57.620 |
And I think it's, I I'm just, I'm really fortunate to be in this position, but I'm really proud 00:59:03.340 |
of myself that, that I've made these changes in that shorter period of time. 00:59:08.380 |
I mean, a lot of the language you're using, memory dividends, seasons of life were, were 00:59:14.620 |
languages from Bill Perkins' book, Die With Zero. 00:59:18.500 |
I know, you know, I had him on for, I want to say episode 91, but I can't quite remember 00:59:34.620 |
And it was just the, the conceptual framework. 00:59:37.140 |
And I mean, Chris, I knew all this stuff, right? 00:59:39.740 |
Like sometimes it just crystallizes and hits in a moment when it matters. 00:59:46.340 |
And I think that's, what's also interesting about taking in a lot of different content. 00:59:51.300 |
Like I probably listen to way more podcasts and read more books than I, than I probably 00:59:55.940 |
But like, but sometimes you just, you hit on something like this, where it is just a 01:00:02.700 |
And I, and I don't know what it was, but, but again, like I'm even doing like little 01:00:08.380 |
Like I went to a yoga and meditation retreat last month that like, that's something I never 01:00:15.660 |
I never would have had the guts to like, just go off for two days by myself and just be. 01:00:27.220 |
I'm like, again, just trying to build these things into life. 01:00:30.700 |
Like I'm part of a mastermind group where it's about 24, 25 of those guys. 01:00:38.140 |
And now we're trying to do more in-person events and like, Chris, I always had an excuse. 01:00:43.180 |
I always had, it was always like, oh, it's too far. 01:00:45.780 |
Oh, I need to be home for the weekend with my wife and my daughters. 01:00:51.780 |
Like that's how, this is the script that I always had running in my head. 01:00:55.460 |
Like it's selfish to leave, but you know, it's really important to take care of yourself 01:01:03.060 |
And like, we had this day of fun at one of my buddy's house, 12 of us kind of converged 01:01:09.900 |
And we had like eight hours of playing like this, like Olympics of games. 01:01:14.700 |
And it was just, cause it was the most fun I've had in years. 01:01:17.700 |
And like one of the guys cooked this amazing like Michelin star-esque dinner. 01:01:22.580 |
It was just like one of those days I'll remember forever. 01:01:25.380 |
And like, I know I could tell you for certain a year ago, I would have said no to that weekend. 01:01:36.700 |
So I think, yeah, I mean, a lot of things have changed in my life and I think they've 01:01:42.180 |
I don't think it's selfish to take care of yourself. 01:01:44.140 |
I think it's selfish if you don't encourage your partner to also do the same. 01:01:53.140 |
I had a similar moment, which was more serendipitous in that it wasn't something I would have said 01:01:59.300 |
But we had this moment where we invited some friends up to a house we were staying at in 01:02:06.220 |
And for like two hours, we were all just playing outdoor volleyball, probably getting sunburned. 01:02:16.260 |
And I just had this moment where I was like, "Wow, this is... 01:02:21.020 |
And the downside is that with kids and stuff, you have to really plan them. 01:02:25.100 |
You can't just expect to text five friends and be like, "Hey, do you want to go do this 01:02:34.160 |
Maybe when I get a little older and my peers and friends or kids are a little older and 01:02:38.740 |
easier to travel with, maybe it'll get a little better. 01:02:41.620 |
But you have to plan ahead and you have to commit earlier. 01:02:45.340 |
And I think I'm still learning, but you've got a couple years on me and your kids do 01:02:53.260 |
But I had the same impact when I talked to Bill Perkins and I made that episode. 01:02:58.460 |
And we actually planned a trip to London and Paris. 01:03:01.860 |
I talked about it in the episode and then we just booked it. 01:03:06.800 |
And in a weird way, we stopped tracking our net worth after that episode. 01:03:12.340 |
And we started focusing on "Do we just have enough now? 01:03:20.340 |
And for us, now we've both found something we like doing. 01:03:27.980 |
I encourage anyone to go pick it up and read it. 01:03:30.140 |
Or if you want a preview, the hour version, I interviewed him in episode 91, which we 01:03:39.660 |
And we started spending a little bit more on things that some have an ROI, some don't. 01:03:46.880 |
But I actually am surprised at how much we've been able to accomplish with the podcast, 01:03:54.980 |
now that we have a little more free time, because we've spent a little bit of money 01:04:01.600 |
Whether that's someone to clean or someone to help with food, or that's hiring an assistant 01:04:10.040 |
These things that felt like they were big expenses we were nervous about. 01:04:15.740 |
But now that we have them, they've unlocked a little bit more creativity, a little bit 01:04:21.080 |
And we've been good in our career at turning that into opportunity. 01:04:31.000 |
A Taylor Swift concert is probably not one that's going to make you more money in the 01:04:35.160 |
But it's certainly one that's going to give you memories that far exceed that. 01:04:39.400 |
And whatever version of that exists when our daughters are a little older, I'm very excited 01:04:49.040 |
And I think just it being in your mind and like you said, going back and listening to 01:04:53.360 |
that episode 91 of All The Hacks, that episode was more impactful to me than the book was, 01:05:02.960 |
So yeah, I think that's a perfect starting point for people. 01:05:08.240 |
Well, to go back to the Early Retirement Now blog, he gave a review of that book. 01:05:15.560 |
And what was interesting was, he justifiably said, "A lot of these things aren't new." 01:05:21.640 |
And I think the thing that Bill Perkins did was he took a bunch of concepts that we've 01:05:28.080 |
We've all known that experiences are valuable. 01:05:30.840 |
We all know that money diminishes or health diminishes. 01:05:36.840 |
But if you could package it in a good way, ultimately, a lot of things are just storytelling. 01:05:41.660 |
And I will say that when it comes to telling a story about money, most people aren't that 01:05:47.120 |
It's something that a lot of people get bored with, aren't interested in, and Bill Perkins 01:05:50.320 |
weaves a story around it that I think just comes alive when you hear him talk more than 01:05:59.840 |
You'll hear a reminder if you go listen to it. 01:06:03.520 |
It is not an episode to listen to with young children in the room. 01:06:14.960 |
And yeah, I mean, even like you said, talking about health and longevity and vitality, spending 01:06:24.080 |
I think we both have become a little more cognizant of that. 01:06:27.600 |
I know this year I hired a personal trainer who I met through Twitter, actually, which 01:06:35.560 |
But that again is something I can guarantee you two years ago, there was no chance that 01:06:45.600 |
And it has been the best money I've ever spent on my health in my entire life. 01:06:50.280 |
I was watching this video that a past guest of mine, Nisar Yasin, Nas Daily made. 01:06:56.320 |
And he hired a personal trainer in India from this company called Fitter. 01:07:01.920 |
I haven't pulled the trigger on this service yet. 01:07:04.480 |
But I was thinking about it and I want your perspective. 01:07:15.180 |
Is there a reason that they need to be in the US? 01:07:19.680 |
Because if you look at the cost of living around the world, if someone could motivate 01:07:24.040 |
you just as well, but in India, they can certainly live on less. 01:07:29.000 |
And by the way, I have no connection to this company. 01:07:33.280 |
But I was looking at it and the personal training sessions were like $5 a session. 01:07:39.440 |
And you could do it in 5 days a week, monthly for like $100 a month or something in that 01:07:46.440 |
I don't want to quote the prices because I'm not an expert here. 01:07:50.240 |
And then it just got me thinking there are some services and practices that are really 01:07:57.220 |
Hiring a tax accountant, you want someone who's really familiar with the rules and the 01:08:01.140 |
But I was like, "Ah, personal trainer, someone to just throw on a tripod and motivate me 01:08:07.620 |
to work out and whatnot, live video sessions every time. 01:08:13.860 |
So I want to hear your perspective on whether you think that you could get a similar output 01:08:22.900 |
And if so, how does that change your thinking? 01:08:29.320 |
I definitely think that you could hire someone from anywhere in the world. 01:08:34.820 |
So it depends what you're looking for, right? 01:08:38.700 |
So how you described it, if you're looking for somebody to be there with you or just 01:08:46.020 |
create a video or whatever, 5 days a week, motivation, a little accountability, absolutely. 01:08:52.700 |
Yeah, my guy, Dean Turner is my personal trainer. 01:09:01.900 |
Deanturnertraining.com is where he's located. 01:09:04.380 |
But, you know, he's in Philadelphia, which is not that far from me, but I'm never going 01:09:12.500 |
So yeah, he could be in India, he could be in Australia, it would make no difference 01:09:16.420 |
I am paying for his expertise though, not for the motivation. 01:09:23.140 |
So yeah, clearly, if I was paying for motivation, I would move to that service you just mentioned. 01:09:33.980 |
I suspect a lot of people would benefit from them. 01:09:37.260 |
You could probably find Dean and be like, "Help me come up with the curriculum." 01:09:45.380 |
This is my big challenge with a lot of services is that you want to pay for experience and 01:09:54.540 |
And you can't get good experience without paying for it. 01:10:00.500 |
People charge a lot more for their time when they have experience. 01:10:03.160 |
But then it doesn't make sense to pay for the execution also. 01:10:06.700 |
And I think about this with financial planning, right? 01:10:08.620 |
Like a human financial planner will give you a better financial plan that connects your 01:10:14.740 |
And I'm not against people paying a fixed price for that. 01:10:19.380 |
It's just if you then on top of that tack on an ongoing 1% of your assets forever fee 01:10:25.020 |
to manage the investments, that's where I'm like, "Oh, I don't know." 01:10:29.460 |
So I wonder if there's a hybrid approach here where I think it's totally fine to pay financial 01:10:34.120 |
planning fixed fee annually, and then a much smaller fee for investments. 01:10:39.740 |
Is there a Dean Turner + fitter super combo where you get daily motivation and workout 01:10:46.720 |
regimens following the curriculum of someone who has a lot more experience and personalization? 01:10:54.660 |
So this now is turning into a business lesson for Dean, I think. 01:10:59.220 |
So because, yeah, I wonder if he could scale his business more that way, if he used his 01:11:06.260 |
expertise to create the programming, but then he found these people wherever they may be, 01:11:16.380 |
And he could then potentially outsource part of the day-to-day with knowledgeable people 01:11:31.020 |
Dean, if you're listening, at a minimum, if you go down this path, I'd love to give it 01:11:39.580 |
So yeah, to be continued on that, but yeah, I think accountability is important. 01:11:46.420 |
I think that's why people like group exercise classes also, right? 01:11:51.300 |
Everybody else is waiting for them, whether it's CrossFit or yoga or whatever it may be, 01:11:58.220 |
When you have people waiting for you and, oh, they text you when you're not there, why? 01:12:02.360 |
It's so easy to fall out of an exercise routine. 01:12:05.660 |
And I think, to me, accountability and motivation are really, really important. 01:12:11.300 |
That's why I thought this was so interesting, because I was like, you know what, I would 01:12:19.300 |
I might have gotten comfortable in my life spending money, but I have not gotten comfortable 01:12:26.380 |
It seems so much harder to be comfortable just giving up money, even though you probably, 01:12:34.180 |
So in this particular case, I'm like, it would almost be worth it just to say, "I'm going 01:12:38.180 |
to work out 3 days a week from 8 to 8.30 and I'm going to book it with a person, just any 01:12:45.260 |
I'm like, I'm going to pay this money and my wife gets to throw it, light it on fire 01:12:51.500 |
But even better if you have someone that can sit there and motivate you along the way. 01:12:57.720 |
Anything else you've been doing in health that's worth covering? 01:13:00.060 |
I know the last time you were on, you said 2023 is going to be your year to get healthy. 01:13:06.700 |
It's definitely, yeah, my bold move was healthiest year ever. 01:13:10.500 |
So yeah, I mean, a lot of it has, I talked last time, last episode about DNS that I have 01:13:19.140 |
been doing to kind of maybe deal with some nagging shoulder and hip issues that I had. 01:13:28.980 |
I think I've just been much more open again to spending money on massage. 01:13:38.980 |
I don't know if you've ever seen that on swimmers at the Olympics. 01:13:44.100 |
I found something in a Tony Robbins book that he was talking about this thing called fascial 01:13:50.420 |
counter strain, and it's like a massage slash fascial release, which I really, really enjoy. 01:13:57.340 |
It winds up, what's so funny is the guy who owns the business here in Richmond is in the 01:14:05.260 |
He's like, "Are you by any chance Brad from choose a vibe?" 01:14:15.400 |
So I've been really focusing and trying to dial in in my sleep a lot. 01:14:22.420 |
I think I mentioned to you that I bought a hot tub and I just bought a cold plunge, but 01:14:28.740 |
it was actually not one of those super duper expensive ones. 01:14:32.180 |
One of our listeners, a guy named Mitch, reached out to me and told me about this thing called 01:14:38.140 |
Oh, I thought you were going to go down the path of the ice barrel, but the ice pod. 01:14:50.940 |
I mean, honestly, Chris, it's nothing special. 01:14:53.660 |
It's just kind of like an insulated little... 01:14:56.700 |
If you've ever seen one of those like blow up hot tubs that cost like 500 bucks. 01:15:02.100 |
This is something similar for cold plunge, but the last handful of nights, we just got 01:15:09.380 |
My two daughters and I have gone out after dinner. 01:15:13.500 |
It's getting dark now because it's getting later in the year. 01:15:16.740 |
So darkness, we go out, go in the hot tub, go in the cold plunge, back in the hot tub. 01:15:21.820 |
And it's just like this cool little experience together. 01:15:25.740 |
And I mean, this cold plunge thing, like I said, it was like 150 bucks. 01:15:29.780 |
So even if we don't use it much beyond the next month or two, it would be well worth 01:15:36.060 |
So, yeah, just all these little things that I'm just trying to add to my life. 01:15:39.580 |
And some of the stuff is really cool, like these experiences that I'm having now with 01:15:46.980 |
One of ours will be a sauna, which is days from now, we're getting added on, which will 01:15:52.680 |
finally, I think, get our cold plunge more usage. 01:15:55.660 |
For as much as I enjoy hot tubs, I enjoy saunas a lot more. 01:16:05.860 |
I've been working with this company that I'm not ready to share. 01:16:14.860 |
They might be like the best sauna makers in the U.S., at least making it accessible. 01:16:21.740 |
So it's kind of a much more finished sauna experience. 01:16:25.180 |
I went really deep down the rabbit hole of saunas. 01:16:29.700 |
And there's this Trumpkin guide to saunas, which is like this crazy guide. 01:16:43.420 |
And I actually met someone who's like, "No, no, no. 01:16:45.300 |
I'm building this company and we're going to make the best saunas. 01:16:48.900 |
And we're going to do it in a way that is modular and easy for people to order and set 01:16:52.660 |
up at their home and build something really nice." 01:16:58.500 |
But this is like a proper finish sauna style experience that gets hot. 01:17:05.740 |
And so, I don't know, Amy and I are very excited to add this to our routine. 01:17:10.700 |
And ideally, it'll be like, put the girls to bed and have a little time together in 01:17:14.860 |
the sauna, dip out to the cold plunge, finish off in the sauna and sleep better. 01:17:27.100 |
Maybe the fourth edition of Brad and Chris record a podcast together. 01:17:32.940 |
If you make it out to the West Coast, we can see if the audio equipment handles the heat. 01:17:38.540 |
Might not be a video version, but you know... 01:17:46.540 |
The emails I got after the last time we did it, I think I got 20 emails that were just 01:17:52.780 |
So for the 20 people who wrote in asking for more Brad, here you are. 01:17:57.100 |
Hopefully, there was at least a more Chris email in your inbox too. 01:18:02.940 |
I copied you on all the responses, so you know they came in. 01:18:10.300 |
I hope you finish it out strong and we'll chat soon. 01:18:16.100 |
As always, it's good to chat with you and yeah, until next time.