back to indexLife After the NFL ft. Peyton Manning
Chapters
0:0 Intro
0:30 Where are you now
2:0 Identity Crisis
4:10 How Many More Seasons
6:15 Purpose in Life
8:23 Meeting Ashley
9:37 Social Media
11:19 Growing Up
12:53 Leadership
14:57 Injury
18:29 Gameday routine
20:11 Intentionality
21:36 Post Injuries
23:5 Faith
24:13 Greatness
26:59 Three Plays
00:00:03.240 |
- All right, welcome to another episode of Curious Mike. 00:00:16.040 |
I think I told you this when we met at the arena, 00:00:21.160 |
So before basketball, I was playing football as well, 00:00:24.160 |
playing quarterback, so you were a big part of my childhood. 00:00:30.960 |
- Man, a lot of people know you from being on the court. 00:00:33.400 |
We actually, I saw you at our arena playing with your kids, 00:00:37.680 |
you know what I mean, just shooting around with 'em. 00:00:46.140 |
I've tried to kinda pick, say, maybe kinda one thing 00:00:52.640 |
and then maybe you keep doing it if you like it, 00:00:57.040 |
I haven't really had like this five or 10 year plan. 00:01:00.300 |
You know, when you're playing like football, basketball, 00:01:06.720 |
And that's the biggest change about this next chapter, 00:01:19.240 |
Don't really have a one word job description. 00:01:32.960 |
Eli and I obviously do this Monday night show. 00:01:35.960 |
I do it from Denver, he does it from New Jersey. 00:01:46.480 |
I like my kids seeing me busy, seeing me working, right? 00:01:54.160 |
get to the Nuggets games, get to the Broncos games. 00:01:56.160 |
So I'm busy, but I'm kinda busy on my own schedule, 00:02:11.880 |
or how did you work your way through that time 00:02:16.880 |
going from stardom to kinda being away from the spotlight? 00:02:22.000 |
- There's no doubt it's an adjustment, right? 00:02:26.240 |
Football, you have a schedule all season, all off season. 00:02:37.160 |
and I really got to kinda end it on my terms, 00:02:43.320 |
A lot of times in sports, you don't get to retire. 00:02:54.040 |
So I was grateful for the time that I got to play. 00:02:57.400 |
And so, look, you're always gonna miss your teammates. 00:03:08.320 |
after he retired, great shortstop for the Yankees, 00:03:23.800 |
But staying in touch with my teammates on a text thread, 00:03:28.520 |
You miss the locker room, you miss the plane rides. 00:03:31.360 |
So I was just grateful for the time that I had. 00:03:40.600 |
because I was grateful for the time that I got to do it. 00:03:43.380 |
Our kids had just maybe turned five years old at the time, 00:03:47.800 |
That was a nice kinda timing to kinda be able 00:03:50.880 |
to sorta dive into their lives and everything. 00:04:00.240 |
I went to four University of Tennessee games last year. 00:04:07.960 |
So I still find myself kinda hanging around football. 00:04:15.480 |
if you could parachute into the finals right now, you would. 00:04:18.440 |
But how many more seasons do you think you could've played? 00:04:21.640 |
I mean, I think everybody could probably always 00:04:25.580 |
How well are you gonna play is probably a fair question. 00:04:34.400 |
Like I said, I got to play 14 years in Indianapolis, 00:04:45.880 |
- So how old were you when I was playing for the Colts? 00:04:52.560 |
and a lot of people think that I was born in Missouri, 00:05:10.900 |
- I remember Marvin Harrison and Reggie Wayne. 00:05:12.480 |
And honestly, like, I was a big football fan growing up. 00:05:15.740 |
You know, I paid attention to all y'all's games. 00:05:26.780 |
so kinda like my love for football kinda like went away. 00:05:31.660 |
Like I paid attention to the Colts a little bit, 00:05:33.080 |
but like, I wasn't in the city, so it didn't. 00:05:35.520 |
- Yeah, when there's not a team in your town. 00:05:40.720 |
I was grateful for the time that I got to play 00:05:45.080 |
I just felt like after we just won the Super Bowl, 00:05:48.480 |
it just felt like it was the right time to stop playing. 00:06:10.160 |
- I did not realize it was 18 years that you played. 00:06:13.280 |
How do you feel like your purpose kinda shifted? 00:06:19.080 |
kinda like so much of your focus goes to foot, 00:06:21.760 |
to your sport, for you football, for me basketball. 00:06:27.240 |
from when you were playing to now, what you're doing now? 00:06:31.600 |
being a good dad is kinda my number one, you know, 00:06:36.360 |
priority, you know, being a part of our kids' lives 00:06:54.380 |
and baseball games, and never coached us per se, 00:06:57.660 |
but he'd come and throw passes with us on the weekends, 00:07:04.960 |
I mean, I'll be at a baseball game this weekend, 00:07:07.760 |
I'll be at a volleyball game this weekend, right? 00:07:14.880 |
For the majority, you know, of my football time, 00:07:17.960 |
our kids either weren't born or were quite young, 00:07:20.480 |
so I didn't have that potential decision to make, 00:07:24.280 |
hey, am I gonna go to their, you know, youth football game, 00:07:28.720 |
And so it was nice not to have to choose, right? 00:07:33.760 |
I wanna be a great football player at the same time, 00:07:35.520 |
and so we sort of waited, you know, for that reason. 00:07:39.840 |
Look, I enjoy being an ambassador for the game, 00:07:42.400 |
I enjoy being a resource to young quarterbacks. 00:07:44.640 |
I saw just this past weekend Josh Allen and Justin Herbert, 00:07:49.640 |
and I have their phone numbers, and you know, 00:07:51.960 |
I mean, anytime they wanna reach out to me with a question, 00:07:54.940 |
you know, those guys kinda have it figured out, 00:08:01.160 |
because a lot of people helped me when I was a young player. 00:08:11.000 |
so I feel like that's a kind of a cool hat to wear, 00:08:16.200 |
that you feel like you're still a part of the game, 00:08:18.360 |
not on the field, but you're still helping to grow the game 00:08:23.040 |
- 100%, how did you, so how did you meet your wife? 00:08:30.000 |
- So, you know, we met at, she didn't go to Tennessee, 00:08:39.640 |
and kind of agreed to have kind of a date later in the year, 00:08:52.320 |
but before everything, that's the problem nowadays, 00:08:54.920 |
is like, you make it, and then it's hard to figure out 00:09:00.960 |
No, there's no doubt, everything's changed a lot, 00:09:03.880 |
you know, with, look, I grew up college football 00:09:10.360 |
so you didn't have all the different opinions, right, 00:09:17.320 |
it can affect players, right, they read comments, 00:09:20.000 |
and it affects, you know, kind of how they feel sometimes 00:09:22.960 |
about their playing time or the coaches or whatnot, 00:09:28.440 |
for the majority of my career, kind of without that, 00:09:37.480 |
do you feel like if social media was a big thing back then, 00:09:39.920 |
that would have affected you at all on the field, 00:09:50.280 |
playing in Indianapolis, you know, you grew up there, 00:09:54.480 |
but the media is into it, right, the fans are into it, 00:09:58.000 |
but then, like, my brother Eli goes to play in New York, 00:10:02.640 |
and so Eli was the one that kind of helped me with that, 00:10:07.760 |
like, I used to read the paper after we won, right, 00:10:10.520 |
you know, everybody likes to read, you know-- 00:10:13.880 |
- They're saying good things about you, right, 00:10:15.680 |
but then when, if it didn't go well, you know, 00:10:24.200 |
you don't read the good, you don't read the bad, 00:10:28.360 |
and it just keeps you from going on this roller coaster, 00:10:35.560 |
mood swings and frustrations or whatnot, right? 00:10:38.240 |
Ultimately, as a player, I think the ultimate question is, 00:10:41.720 |
are you doing the job that you're supposed to do 00:10:45.800 |
I mean, really, anybody else's opinion outside of that 00:10:49.320 |
really shouldn't factor in to how you're feeling. 00:10:52.000 |
I always felt like I was my own biggest critic, right? 00:10:54.840 |
If a reporter, you know, criticized me for my play, 00:11:04.080 |
so I didn't feel like that affected me too much, 00:11:11.480 |
especially as you get into big games and playoff games, 00:11:14.400 |
hey, let me just focus in on what I need to do, 00:11:16.640 |
and especially what I need to do for my team. 00:11:20.480 |
How was it growing up with your brothers, Eli, 00:11:26.400 |
and how good would your older brother have been 00:11:30.760 |
- Cooper was an outstanding athlete with the Ole Miss. 00:11:40.120 |
You grew up playing in the backyard with your brother, 00:11:44.960 |
Now you get to play on a real football field with him, 00:11:48.720 |
so I had a neck injury there when he was in two-a-days 00:12:11.600 |
'cause he probably thinks he could do that as well. 00:12:20.920 |
So, it was a fun way to grow up, having two brothers. 00:12:39.760 |
to kinda be able to play one-on-one basketball 00:12:43.880 |
Cooper and I certainly went at it a little more, 00:12:46.080 |
but we always try to get along kind of in the end 00:12:50.680 |
which I think's a good thing to do with your siblings. 00:12:54.200 |
Man, so one thing that I've always admired about you 00:13:27.160 |
And so I kinda learned the hard way in college. 00:13:42.600 |
It's a pretty good lesson that you wanna earn, 00:13:53.880 |
at least I thought I tried to do a good job of, 00:14:00.280 |
If I missed a throw, I would kinda say it out loud. 00:14:13.260 |
"Hey, look, this route needs to be 16 yards, right? 00:14:20.360 |
I wasn't picking on anybody 'cause I was hard on myself, 00:14:23.480 |
and I just believed in getting the little things right, 00:14:26.480 |
that the little details mattered in a football game, 00:14:32.200 |
It might be the difference in the incompletion 00:14:38.120 |
You know, I wasn't gonna ask anybody to do anything 00:14:46.960 |
when I, you know, made a mistake through an interception. 00:14:50.040 |
I thought, you know, I tried to be accountable. 00:15:04.720 |
You got your helmet on, you're watching something. 00:15:13.320 |
- And I wanna know the backstory on that picture. 00:15:15.200 |
- Yeah, I guess it's the all-time multi-tasker. 00:15:33.320 |
and, you know, the quarterbacks have an earpiece 00:15:36.600 |
in their helmets where the coach calls the play 00:15:43.160 |
but I had to do some, yeah, I had kind of foot problems. 00:15:49.080 |
So I had my helmet on where I could still hear 00:15:59.960 |
So, yeah, multi-tasking and camera caught me. 00:16:04.720 |
- When I think of, like, intentionality and, like, focus 00:16:08.720 |
and, like, in the basketball space, you think of Kobe. 00:16:12.360 |
You know, you think of just his intentional detail. 00:16:16.480 |
- And then in football, like, I think of you. 00:16:18.060 |
Was that, besides that level of intentionality, 00:16:26.240 |
Like, what was the main things that set you apart? 00:16:32.280 |
You know, I always felt like sometimes when a teammate 00:16:35.800 |
that played with you also went and played for other teams, 00:16:39.480 |
you know, they could give a comparison, right? 00:16:41.960 |
So I never knew if I was doing anything different, 00:16:49.500 |
Look, I took, I had great respect and appreciation 00:16:57.380 |
or throw it, you know, 80 yards down the field. 00:17:06.860 |
being a, just having the master knowledge of the playbook, 00:17:12.860 |
So when I got out there on Sundays or Saturdays in college 00:17:18.340 |
I felt like I'd kind of out-prepared the opponent, 00:17:21.020 |
whether I had or I hadn't, I kind of told myself that, 00:17:30.300 |
And look, the game of football moves so fast. 00:17:33.200 |
So I don't care how fast you are, how strong your arm is, 00:17:36.480 |
if you don't understand everything about what you're doing 00:17:41.340 |
what the defense is doing, it moves even faster. 00:17:44.680 |
So that's kind of where I felt like I could get an edge 00:17:51.080 |
I felt like I played, you mentioned those guys, 00:18:19.100 |
for a quarterback every single year, that's hard. 00:18:22.280 |
And so I was fortunate, I had great support system, 00:18:33.640 |
like obviously you've got your game day routine. 00:18:37.360 |
I feel like the off days sometimes are the days 00:18:43.260 |
Like how much film and how much of that like mental work, 00:18:46.360 |
I don't know if it was meditation, film work, 00:18:48.160 |
or whatever it was, where you actually like doing? 00:19:00.720 |
but there's no doubt that I was trying to use Tuesdays, 00:19:20.080 |
and get a good feel for kind of who that team was 00:19:34.200 |
I mean, I watched practice hard, watched the game hard, 00:19:37.480 |
watched, we filmed all the individual drills, right? 00:19:42.040 |
hey, let's try to figure out these great plays to run, 00:19:52.000 |
and so it doesn't matter if the play is great 00:20:02.400 |
I think it's important to have a routine, right? 00:20:05.280 |
I mean, to kind of write down what that routine is, 00:20:07.640 |
and not just sort of wing it every single day. 00:20:11.480 |
- Honestly, like for the majority of my life, 00:20:15.160 |
like kind of just like free flow throughout the day, 00:20:17.520 |
and then I've recently understood the importance 00:20:29.240 |
Like, I'll hit you, I'll text you, like, when can we talk? 00:20:37.800 |
- Do you still live with like that same intentionality, 00:20:41.640 |
- Yeah, that drives my family crazy, just so you know. 00:20:44.280 |
So I probably could do a little better on that, 00:20:46.280 |
of being a little more free flowing in this second chapter. 00:20:49.840 |
But I think it's just, you know, like playing football 00:20:53.680 |
those years, I mean, that's how you just kind of get wired, 00:20:55.840 |
that you, like an eight o'clock meeting means 00:20:58.400 |
it's gonna be an eight o'clock meeting, right? 00:21:00.080 |
I mean, football, you do not want to walk into a meeting 00:21:03.480 |
at 8.02, 'cause that's late and everybody's in there. 00:21:06.680 |
So you kind of learn that, so you kind of get on time 00:21:10.880 |
So I feel like it serves you well for the most part. 00:21:15.080 |
Like I said, it can probably, you know, annoy your family 00:21:19.480 |
and annoy your friends on a golf trip when, you know. 00:21:22.840 |
I said specifically, we're gonna have breakfast at 7.07, 00:21:27.840 |
But, you know, look, I think just trying to be, 00:21:32.560 |
you know, goes back to that routine, I think it helps 00:21:37.880 |
I'm super curious about your second Super Bowl with Denver. 00:21:48.480 |
he made it all the way back to Super Bowl status 00:21:52.880 |
Was there like a lot of limitations in your arm 00:21:55.680 |
and how did you kind of like work through that? 00:22:00.240 |
Well, just the fact that, I think when you go through 00:22:21.920 |
So I tried to, you know, have an upbeat attitude. 00:22:26.720 |
I think that probably helped in kind of getting over 00:22:29.240 |
those injuries and kind of healing a little bit. 00:22:33.320 |
teammates supporting me, that made a difference. 00:22:35.720 |
I think you just learn that you can't, you know, 00:22:40.680 |
but you can adjust and still figure out how to do it, 00:22:46.040 |
So, you know, I was fortunate to come here and play 00:22:50.960 |
and like I said, have four years and still continue 00:22:56.160 |
when I got here and had great teammates and coaches, 00:22:59.040 |
but, you know, I think being, learning to adapt to, 00:23:06.320 |
You say you feel like there was a reason for it, 00:23:11.120 |
when things happen to them, they can't figure it out. 00:23:12.760 |
They don't even just, they don't have that faith 00:23:16.000 |
Do you have like a faith, just like in that aspect? 00:23:25.320 |
and I felt like when I went through my injuries, 00:23:31.240 |
that, hey, you know, you're next gonna have some problems 00:23:36.720 |
And so it's a test, it's a test of your faith, you know, 00:23:40.040 |
and to see if you can kind of trust that it's His plan 00:23:52.040 |
overcoming tough times, if you play sports long enough, 00:24:01.600 |
to help you overcome it, you know, is also important. 00:24:06.880 |
and kind of trusting in the man upstairs' plan 00:24:31.920 |
'Cause everyone doesn't have the physical capabilities 00:24:39.600 |
probably never really thought about that as much. 00:24:50.640 |
I played basketball, I played golf with my buddies, 00:25:08.080 |
And I think that's what always just kind of drove me, 00:25:10.680 |
that I knew people were counting on me, right? 00:25:13.160 |
I mean, football, that's your teammates, that's your coaches. 00:25:23.760 |
and they fire the coach, a lot of times they fire, 00:25:26.600 |
you know, a lot of people along with that, right? 00:25:29.400 |
So, yeah, I'm not saying people's jobs were counting on me, 00:25:33.000 |
but I think, you know, people were counting on me. 00:25:35.640 |
Fans, right, they're invested into the team, you know, 00:25:52.040 |
I want to make him proud of his decision to draft me, right? 00:25:56.240 |
- When they draft you, it's not really a reward. 00:25:59.400 |
It's kind of a, hey, we're going to bring you to the team. 00:26:02.680 |
We expect you to do some things for us, right? 00:26:11.600 |
So, I never used the word greatness in describing myself 00:26:19.040 |
I was just thinking about, I wanted to do my part, right, 00:26:26.800 |
to try to do that and whatever came along with that, 00:26:36.360 |
but I think you kind of learn how to handle that 00:26:39.520 |
and maybe you come out of it stronger on the other side. 00:26:45.760 |
Like I said, it means a lot that you would even make the time 00:26:50.080 |
Yeah, I appreciate you getting on the podcast, my man. 00:27:01.840 |
and get Peyton Manning's perspective on these plays. 00:27:16.720 |
These guys got Marcus Pollard was a good teammate of mine, 00:27:24.560 |
Usually you call it a play to try to get a completion, 00:27:29.200 |
at the perfect time called and he took it for 80 yards, so. 00:27:56.880 |
But yeah, that was just a go-route to Demarius Thomas 00:28:10.240 |
My guess is throwing it up to him, letting him, 00:28:32.000 |
broken that record several times since then, so. 00:28:41.960 |
But what I liked about it is that we won the game. 00:29:02.720 |
So we broke the record and kind of got that over with 00:29:16.720 |
And Bears actually kind of screwed up the coverage. 00:29:23.160 |
It was a matter of kind of getting to him, so. 00:29:29.320 |
It was, you know, first championship for the Colts.