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Berean Community Church Sunday Service 11-22-2020


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00:00:00.000 | ♪ From the cross into eternity ♪
00:00:03.500 | ♪ Your grace finds me ♪
00:00:08.500 | ♪ Yes, your grace finds me ♪
00:00:14.380 | ♪ There in the darkest night of the soul ♪
00:00:23.500 | ♪ There in the sweetest songs of victory ♪
00:00:28.700 | ♪ Your grace finds me ♪
00:00:33.700 | ♪ Yes, your grace finds me ♪
00:00:39.540 | ♪ Your great grace ♪
00:00:44.880 | ♪ Oh, such grace ♪
00:00:47.960 | ♪ Your great grace ♪
00:00:51.160 | ♪ Oh, such grace ♪
00:00:56.200 | ♪ The same for the rich and poor ♪
00:01:01.200 | ♪ The same for the saint and for the sinner ♪
00:01:07.500 | ♪ And not for this whole wide world ♪
00:01:13.200 | ♪ Your great grace ♪
00:01:16.360 | ♪ Oh, such grace ♪
00:01:23.500 | ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh ♪
00:01:28.500 | ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh ♪
00:01:34.660 | ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh ♪
00:01:41.000 | ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh ♪
00:01:47.160 | ♪ So I'm breathing in your grace ♪
00:01:51.960 | ♪ I'm breathing out your praise ♪
00:01:54.960 | ♪ I'm breathing in your grace ♪
00:01:58.540 | ♪ Forever I will be ♪
00:02:01.380 | ♪ Breathing in your grace ♪
00:02:04.380 | ♪ I'm breathing out your praise ♪
00:02:07.540 | ♪ I'm breathing in your grace ♪
00:02:11.080 | ♪ Forever I will be ♪
00:02:13.960 | ♪ Breathing in your grace ♪
00:02:16.960 | ♪ I'm breathing out your praise ♪
00:02:20.160 | ♪ I'm breathing in your grace ♪
00:02:23.800 | ♪ Forever I will be ♪
00:02:26.540 | ♪ Breathing in your grace ♪
00:02:29.540 | ♪ I'm breathing out your praise ♪
00:02:32.340 | ♪ I'm breathing in your grace ♪
00:02:36.340 | ♪ Forever I'll go ♪
00:02:41.340 | ♪ The same for the saint and the sinner ♪
00:02:49.540 | ♪ The same for the saint ♪
00:02:54.540 | ♪ Your great grace finds me ♪
00:03:01.040 | ♪ Your great grace finds me ♪
00:03:05.720 | (audience cheering)
00:03:11.540 | (audience applauding)
00:03:14.700 | (upbeat music)
00:03:24.120 | (upbeat music)
00:03:26.700 | ♪ Praise to the Lord, the Almighty ♪
00:03:49.120 | ♪ The King of creation ♪
00:03:54.120 | ♪ Oh my soul praise Him ♪
00:03:59.120 | ♪ For He is thy health and salvation ♪
00:04:04.120 | ♪ All ye who hear ♪
00:04:11.120 | ♪ Now to His temple draw near ♪
00:04:16.120 | ♪ Praise Him in glad adoration ♪
00:04:20.120 | ♪ Praise to the Lord ♪
00:04:32.120 | ♪ Who all things so wondrously made ♪
00:04:42.120 | ♪ Shelters thee under His wings ♪
00:04:45.120 | ♪ Yeah so gently sustained ♪
00:04:50.120 | ♪ Hast thou not seen ♪
00:04:56.120 | ♪ How thy desires have been ♪
00:05:01.120 | ♪ Granted in what He ordained ♪
00:05:05.120 | (upbeat music)
00:05:07.700 | ♪ Praise to the Lord ♪
00:05:17.120 | ♪ Who doth prosper thy wicked defending ♪
00:05:22.120 | ♪ Show His goodness and mercy ♪
00:05:30.120 | ♪ Here daily attend ♪
00:05:35.120 | ♪ Ponder anew ♪
00:05:41.120 | ♪ What the Almighty can do ♪
00:05:46.120 | ♪ If with His love you befriend ♪
00:05:50.120 | (upbeat music)
00:05:54.700 | (upbeat music)
00:05:57.280 | ♪ Praise to the Lord ♪
00:06:13.700 | ♪ Oh let all that is in me adore Him ♪
00:06:20.700 | ♪ All that hath life and breath ♪
00:06:23.700 | ♪ Come down with praises before Him ♪
00:06:28.700 | ♪ Let the amen sound from His people again ♪
00:06:34.700 | ♪ Let it be full I be adored ♪
00:06:42.700 | ♪ Praise to the Lord ♪
00:06:46.700 | ♪ The Almighty ♪
00:06:50.700 | ♪ Praise Him praise Him ♪
00:06:55.700 | ♪ The Almighty ♪
00:07:00.700 | ♪ Praise Him ♪
00:07:15.200 | (upbeat music)
00:07:17.780 | ♪ I was an orphan lost at the fall ♪
00:07:30.700 | ♪ Running away when I hear you call ♪
00:07:34.700 | ♪ Father you worked your will ♪
00:07:39.700 | ♪ I had no righteousness of my own ♪
00:07:43.200 | ♪ I had no right to draw near your throne ♪
00:07:46.700 | ♪ Father you loved me still ♪
00:07:51.700 | ♪ And in love before you laid the world's foundation ♪
00:07:56.700 | ♪ You predestined to adopt me at your own ♪
00:08:02.700 | ♪ You have raised me up so high above my station ♪
00:08:10.200 | ♪ I'm a child of God by grace and grace alone ♪
00:08:15.200 | ♪ You blessed the home you seek out the lost ♪
00:08:32.700 | ♪ You knew the grave and terrible cost ♪
00:08:36.700 | ♪ Jesus your face was set ♪
00:08:41.700 | ♪ I worked my fingers down to the bone ♪
00:08:45.200 | ♪ Nothing I did could ever atone ♪
00:08:49.200 | ♪ Jesus you paid my debt ♪
00:08:53.700 | ♪ By your blood I have redemption and salvation ♪
00:08:58.700 | ♪ Rose you died and I'm the rose you have sown ♪
00:09:06.200 | ♪ You rose and I'm a new creation ♪
00:09:11.200 | ♪ I am born again by grace and grace alone ♪
00:09:17.200 | ♪ I was in darkness all of my life ♪
00:09:22.200 | ♪ I never knew the day from the night ♪
00:09:26.200 | ♪ Spirit you made me see ♪
00:09:31.200 | ♪ I swore I knew the way on my own ♪
00:09:34.700 | ♪ I'm a temple of rocks a heart made of stone ♪
00:09:38.700 | ♪ Spirit you moved in me ♪
00:09:43.700 | ♪ Let your touch my sleep your spirit was my waking ♪
00:09:48.700 | ♪ All my darkness parted the light of the cross you shone ♪
00:09:54.700 | ♪ Caught into a kingdom that cannot be shaken ♪
00:10:01.700 | ♪ I will stand in sin by grace and grace alone ♪
00:10:06.700 | ♪ To a stand in faith by grace and grace alone ♪
00:10:12.700 | ♪ I will run and rage by grace and grace alone ♪
00:10:18.700 | ♪ I will slay my sin by grace and grace alone ♪
00:10:25.700 | ♪ I will reach the end by grace and grace alone ♪
00:10:31.700 | (audience applauding)
00:10:37.700 | (gentle music)
00:10:50.700 | ♪ Come behold the wondrous mystery ♪
00:10:55.700 | ♪ In the dawning of the king ♪
00:11:00.700 | ♪ He the theme of heaven's praises ♪
00:11:05.700 | ♪ Robed in frail humanity ♪
00:11:10.700 | ♪ In our longing in our darkness ♪
00:11:16.700 | ♪ Now the light of life has come ♪
00:11:20.700 | ♪ Look to Christ who condescended ♪
00:11:25.700 | ♪ To thorn flesh to ransom us ♪
00:11:30.700 | ♪ Ransom us ♪
00:11:32.700 | (gentle music)
00:11:36.700 | (audience applauding)
00:11:39.860 | - All right, good morning, church family.
00:12:03.700 | Happy Lord's Day.
00:12:04.700 | It is a wonderful privilege and a joy to come together
00:12:07.700 | to worship our God and to give thanks to him.
00:12:10.700 | So this morning we will begin with singing Psalm 103,
00:12:14.700 | "Bless the Lord."
00:12:15.700 | (gentle music)
00:12:21.700 | ♪ Bless the Lord ♪
00:12:32.700 | ♪ Bless the Lord ♪
00:12:34.700 | ♪ Oh my soul ♪
00:12:35.700 | ♪ Oh my soul ♪
00:12:37.700 | ♪ And all that's within me praise him ♪
00:12:43.700 | ♪ Bless the Lord ♪
00:12:45.700 | ♪ Bless the Lord ♪
00:12:47.700 | ♪ Oh my soul ♪
00:12:48.700 | ♪ Oh my soul ♪
00:12:50.700 | ♪ And forget not all he's done ♪
00:12:57.700 | ♪ He forgives all your iniquities ♪
00:13:03.700 | ♪ And he heals all your infirmities ♪
00:13:10.700 | ♪ He redeems your life from the pain ♪
00:13:16.700 | ♪ And crowns you with mercy ♪
00:13:24.700 | ♪ As far as the east is from the west ♪
00:13:30.700 | ♪ So far have you taken our sins from us ♪
00:13:36.700 | ♪ And as high as the heavens are over the earth ♪
00:13:43.700 | ♪ So great is your steadfast love ♪
00:13:50.700 | ♪ And your torture is our salvation ♪
00:13:56.700 | ♪ So bless the Lord ♪
00:14:04.700 | ♪ Bless the Lord ♪
00:14:05.700 | ♪ Bless the Lord ♪
00:14:07.700 | ♪ Oh my soul ♪
00:14:09.700 | ♪ Oh my soul ♪
00:14:11.700 | ♪ And all that's within me praise him ♪
00:14:16.700 | ♪ Bless the Lord ♪
00:14:19.700 | ♪ Bless the Lord ♪
00:14:20.700 | ♪ Oh my soul ♪
00:14:22.700 | ♪ Oh my soul ♪
00:14:24.700 | ♪ And forget not who he is ♪
00:14:29.700 | ♪ As the Father shows compassion ♪
00:14:37.700 | ♪ To his beloved children ♪
00:14:44.700 | ♪ The Lord shows compassion to us ♪
00:14:49.700 | ♪ To those who fear him ♪
00:14:54.700 | ♪ And as far as the east is from the west ♪
00:15:03.700 | ♪ So far have you taken our sins from us ♪
00:15:11.700 | ♪ And as high as the heavens are over the earth ♪
00:15:17.700 | ♪ So great is your steadfast love ♪
00:15:22.700 | ♪ So great ♪
00:15:24.700 | ♪ So great is your steadfast love ♪
00:15:30.700 | ♪ Torah ♪
00:15:33.700 | ♪ Torah ♪
00:15:40.700 | ♪ Torah ♪
00:15:42.700 | - All right, good morning, Marine Community Church,
00:15:54.700 | and also those of you who are online.
00:15:57.700 | I wanna just highlight a few announcements
00:16:00.700 | before we get started.
00:16:01.700 | First of all, the Christmas outreach program
00:16:05.700 | that the sisters are doing,
00:16:06.700 | they're still taking sign-ups for that,
00:16:08.700 | so if you are interested in getting involved,
00:16:10.700 | just reach out to one of them
00:16:11.700 | or go on our Facebook, our website,
00:16:13.700 | and they'll give you more information about that.
00:16:15.700 | Also, on December 13th at 1.30 p.m.,
00:16:19.700 | our welcome group is having a welcome event
00:16:23.700 | that's taking place,
00:16:24.700 | and so if you are interested in visiting
00:16:27.700 | and getting more information about what the church is about,
00:16:30.700 | you can email welcometeam@briancc.com,
00:16:33.700 | and again, all this information is on the Facebook
00:16:35.700 | or on the app, or you can just ask one of the welcome team members,
00:16:39.700 | and they'll give you direction on that as well.
00:16:41.700 | Before we get started, I just wanna clarify,
00:16:43.700 | 'cause, you know, because of what's going on
00:16:45.700 | with the COVID and the new different guidelines
00:16:49.700 | that are coming out,
00:16:50.700 | we've gotten a lot of emails and questions
00:16:52.700 | about what we are planning to do going forward.
00:16:55.700 | Again, we just wanna clarify,
00:16:58.700 | we're not gonna go into too much detail,
00:16:59.700 | but nothing at the church is really gonna change.
00:17:02.700 | We are, again, this is an essential part
00:17:06.700 | of what it means to be a believer
00:17:07.700 | and to corporately gather together,
00:17:09.700 | and so we're gonna do our best to keep the church safe.
00:17:12.700 | We're gonna do all the sanitation,
00:17:13.700 | ask you guys to keep your masks on,
00:17:15.700 | and the COVID is spreading.
00:17:18.700 | You know, the numbers are going up.
00:17:19.700 | We can actually see that that's what's going on,
00:17:22.700 | so we wanna be as careful as possible,
00:17:24.700 | and we want to encourage you to be responsible
00:17:27.700 | and do as much as you can.
00:17:29.700 | If you are uncomfortable,
00:17:31.700 | you are more than welcome to be outside.
00:17:33.700 | We'll try to set up more chairs outside if we need to,
00:17:36.700 | and so we're gonna try to accommodate that,
00:17:37.700 | but as far as the ministry is concerned,
00:17:39.700 | we're gonna continue what we're doing.
00:17:41.700 | Again, as we said, it is not wise
00:17:44.700 | for the non-believing world to tell us
00:17:47.700 | what is and is not essential,
00:17:49.700 | to have the entertainment industry
00:17:51.700 | to be declared that it's essential,
00:17:53.700 | to say Planned Parenthood is essential.
00:17:55.700 | There's certain gatherings
00:17:57.700 | that the world think is important,
00:17:58.700 | but because they're non-believers,
00:18:00.700 | what we are doing is not essential.
00:18:02.700 | So it's understandable that the non-believing world
00:18:04.700 | will say, "Since this is just superstition,
00:18:07.700 | "this is just for your peace of mind,
00:18:09.700 | "so you guys can handle not having it,"
00:18:11.700 | but we believe that what we are doing
00:18:14.700 | is not only important,
00:18:16.700 | but it is at the core of who we are,
00:18:18.700 | and so we're gonna continue to do what we are doing,
00:18:20.700 | and as things progress,
00:18:22.700 | we're gonna try to do our best
00:18:24.700 | to take care of our church,
00:18:25.700 | but again, as far as the programs and what we're doing,
00:18:28.700 | we're gonna just take more caution,
00:18:30.700 | but as far as what we're doing,
00:18:32.700 | things aren't going to change,
00:18:33.700 | just kind of keeping that in mind, okay?
00:18:36.700 | If you have any further questions on that,
00:18:38.700 | and you want more clarity,
00:18:39.700 | you can come and ask us,
00:18:40.700 | and we'll talk to you directly,
00:18:41.700 | but outside of that,
00:18:42.700 | that's what we're gonna be going,
00:18:44.700 | that's the principle that we're gonna be working toward
00:18:46.700 | as we go forward, okay?
00:18:47.700 | So at this time,
00:18:48.700 | we're gonna take a time of offering.
00:18:50.700 | Again, just give you a minute to do that,
00:18:52.700 | and then physical offering,
00:18:53.700 | box will be in the back.
00:18:55.700 | All right, let's pray.
00:18:57.700 | Heavenly Father,
00:18:59.700 | we want to continue to give you praise
00:19:01.700 | and thanks for who you are.
00:19:03.700 | We pray that in our giving,
00:19:06.700 | that we would give truly as an act of worship.
00:19:09.700 | Help us to be good stewards as leaders in the church.
00:19:13.700 | Help us, Lord God,
00:19:15.700 | to use it in a way that honors and glorifies you.
00:19:18.700 | I pray that those who give may give, Lord God,
00:19:22.700 | trusting in your sovereignty,
00:19:24.700 | that it may be multiplied for your use.
00:19:27.700 | We pray, Father God, that our worship truly,
00:19:30.700 | whether it's financial, whether it's word,
00:19:32.700 | whether it's fellowship,
00:19:34.700 | may be given to you with a cheerful heart,
00:19:36.700 | not grudgingly.
00:19:38.700 | May it be an act of worship that honors and glorifies you.
00:19:41.700 | In Jesus' name we pray, amen.
00:19:45.700 | (soft piano music)
00:19:48.700 | (soft piano music)
00:19:52.700 | (soft piano music)
00:19:55.700 | (soft piano music)
00:20:04.700 | (soft piano music)
00:20:16.700 | (soft piano music)
00:20:19.700 | As we continue our worship, let us stand together.
00:20:29.700 | (soft piano music)
00:20:38.700 | (soft piano music)
00:20:41.700 | ♪ As the deer panteth for the water ♪
00:20:54.700 | ♪ So my soul longeth after thee ♪
00:21:03.700 | ♪ To you alone are my heart's desire ♪
00:21:08.700 | ♪ And I long to worship thee ♪
00:21:14.700 | ♪ You alone are my strength, my shield ♪
00:21:22.700 | ♪ To you alone may my spirit yield ♪
00:21:32.700 | ♪ You alone are my heart's desire ♪
00:21:37.700 | ♪ And I long to worship thee ♪
00:21:43.700 | ♪ You're my friend and you are my brother ♪
00:21:51.700 | ♪ Even though you are a king ♪
00:22:00.700 | ♪ I love you more than any other ♪
00:22:05.700 | ♪ So much more than any king ♪
00:22:11.700 | ♪ You alone ♪
00:22:14.700 | ♪ You alone are my strength, my shield ♪
00:22:19.700 | ♪ To you alone may my spirit yield ♪
00:22:29.700 | ♪ You alone are my heart's desire ♪
00:22:34.700 | ♪ And I long to worship thee ♪
00:22:39.700 | (soft piano music)
00:22:46.700 | (soft piano music)
00:23:11.700 | ♪ I want you more than gold or silver ♪
00:23:16.700 | ♪ Only you can satisfy ♪
00:23:22.700 | ♪ You alone are the real joy giver ♪
00:23:30.700 | ♪ And the apple of my eye ♪
00:23:36.700 | ♪ To you alone ♪
00:23:39.700 | ♪ You alone are my strength, my shield ♪
00:23:44.700 | ♪ To you alone may my spirit yield ♪
00:23:50.700 | ♪ You alone are my heart's desire ♪
00:23:59.700 | ♪ And I long to worship thee ♪
00:24:08.700 | ♪ And I long to worship thee ♪
00:24:13.700 | (soft music)
00:24:35.700 | (upbeat music)
00:24:38.700 | ♪ Your thanks to the Lord, God and King ♪
00:24:59.700 | ♪ As love endures forever ♪
00:25:03.700 | ♪ He is good, he is above all things ♪
00:25:07.700 | ♪ As love endures forever ♪
00:25:10.700 | ♪ We sing praise ♪
00:25:14.700 | ♪ We sing praise ♪
00:25:18.700 | ♪ With a mighty hand ♪
00:25:21.700 | ♪ And a stretched arm ♪
00:25:23.700 | ♪ As love endures forever ♪
00:25:27.700 | ♪ And for the life that's been reborn ♪
00:25:31.700 | ♪ As love endures forever ♪
00:25:35.700 | ♪ We sing praise ♪
00:25:39.700 | ♪ We sing praise ♪
00:25:42.700 | ♪ We sing praise ♪
00:25:43.700 | ♪ We sing praise ♪
00:25:47.700 | ♪ We sing praise ♪
00:25:51.700 | ♪ Forever God is faithful ♪
00:25:55.700 | ♪ Forever God is strong ♪
00:25:59.700 | ♪ Forever God is with us ♪
00:26:03.700 | ♪ Forever ♪
00:26:07.700 | ♪ From the rising to the setting sun ♪
00:26:11.700 | ♪ As love endures forever ♪
00:26:15.700 | ♪ By the grace of God we will carry on ♪
00:26:19.700 | ♪ As love endures forever ♪
00:26:23.700 | ♪ We sing praise ♪
00:26:27.700 | Sing prayer, sing, sing prayer.
00:26:39.700 | Forever God is faithful.
00:26:43.700 | Forever God is strong.
00:26:47.700 | Forever God is with us forever,
00:26:53.700 | forever, forever.
00:26:57.700 | Forever God is faithful.
00:27:00.700 | Forever God is strong.
00:27:04.700 | Forever God is with us forever,
00:27:10.700 | forever, forever.
00:27:14.700 | [MUSIC PLAYING]
00:27:29.700 | Sing praise, sing praise.
00:27:37.700 | Sing praise, sing praise.
00:27:43.700 | Oh, sing praise, sing praise.
00:27:49.700 | Sing praise, sing praise.
00:27:57.700 | Sing praise.
00:28:01.700 | Forever God is faithful.
00:28:05.700 | Forever God is strong.
00:28:09.700 | Forever God is with us forever,
00:28:15.700 | forever.
00:28:17.700 | Forever God is faithful.
00:28:21.700 | Forever God is strong.
00:28:25.700 | Forever God is with us forever,
00:28:33.700 | forever.
00:28:34.700 | [MUSIC PLAYING]
00:28:54.700 | And at this time, parents who have children in seeds,
00:28:57.700 | you are dismissed.
00:29:03.700 | [MUSIC PLAYING]
00:29:23.700 | Crest the shore in steady anchor, in the fury of the storm.
00:29:32.700 | When the waves of doubt blow through me,
00:29:37.700 | and my sails have all been torn.
00:29:42.700 | In the suffering, in the sorrow, when my sinking hopes are few,
00:29:51.700 | I will hold fast to the anchor.
00:29:56.700 | It shall never be heavy.
00:30:00.700 | Crest the shore in steady anchor,
00:30:13.700 | while the tempest rages on.
00:30:17.700 | When temptation claims the battle,
00:30:22.700 | and it seems the night has won.
00:30:27.700 | Deeper still than goes the anchor,
00:30:32.700 | though I justly stand accused, I will hold fast to the anchor.
00:30:41.700 | It shall never be removed.
00:30:46.700 | [MUSIC PLAYING]
00:30:52.700 | Crest the shore.
00:30:53.700 | Crest the shore in steady anchor,
00:30:58.700 | through the floods of unbelief.
00:31:02.700 | Oh, but somehow, oh, my soul now, lift your eyes to Calvary.
00:31:12.700 | This my baddest of assurance, see his love forever grow.
00:31:22.700 | I will hold fast to the anchor.
00:31:26.700 | It shall never be removed.
00:31:30.700 | It shall never be removed.
00:31:37.700 | Oh, never be removed.
00:31:41.700 | [MUSIC PLAYING]
00:31:47.700 | Crest the shore in steady anchor,
00:31:52.700 | as we face the wave of death.
00:31:57.700 | When these trials give way to glory,
00:32:02.700 | as we draw our final breath.
00:32:06.700 | We will cross that great horizon,
00:32:11.700 | cross behind the life so pure.
00:32:16.700 | And the cause will be the better for the souls that we endure.
00:32:25.700 | Crest the shore of our salvation,
00:32:30.700 | ever faithful, ever true.
00:32:35.700 | We will hold fast to the anchor.
00:32:41.700 | It shall never be removed.
00:32:45.700 | And now you may be seated.
00:32:50.700 | All right, good morning.
00:32:58.700 | We're going to take a break from the study of Hebrews.
00:33:02.700 | And we're going to be jumping into Philippians chapter 2,
00:33:06.700 | verse 14 to 18.
00:33:07.700 | Philippians chapter 2, verse 14 to 18.
00:33:13.700 | Reading out of the NASB.
00:33:17.700 | Do all things without grumbling or disputing,
00:33:19.700 | so that you will prove yourselves to be blameless and innocent.
00:33:23.700 | Children of God, above reproach in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation,
00:33:27.700 | among whom you appear as lights in the world,
00:33:30.700 | holding fast the word of life, so that in the day of Christ,
00:33:33.700 | I will have reason to glory, because I did not run in vain, nor toil in vain.
00:33:38.700 | But even if I am being poured out as a drink offering upon the sacrifice and service of your faith,
00:33:43.700 | I rejoice and share my joy with you all.
00:33:46.700 | You too, I urge you, rejoice in the same way and share your joy with me.
00:33:50.700 | Let's pray.
00:33:51.700 | Heavenly Father, we ask for your guidance.
00:33:58.700 | Let your word go forth and nothing else.
00:34:02.700 | Help us, Lord God, to be discerning hearers,
00:34:05.700 | that we would test the scriptures, Lord God,
00:34:09.700 | and make sure that it is your voice that we hear.
00:34:13.700 | So we pray that you would protect our pulpit,
00:34:16.700 | that you would protect the hearers,
00:34:18.700 | that all that we believe and all that we apply,
00:34:22.700 | that it may be coming with your authority and your word.
00:34:25.700 | In Jesus' name we pray, amen.
00:34:28.700 | Well, Merry Thanksgiving, everybody.
00:34:31.700 | So, did you know Thanksgiving is this Thursday?
00:34:36.700 | You would never know by what's going on,
00:34:39.700 | because less and less, every single year we hear less of Thanksgiving.
00:34:43.700 | There's already talks of Christmas.
00:34:45.700 | You know, previous years, Christmas lights and Christmas trees
00:34:49.700 | don't get put up until after Black Friday.
00:34:51.700 | But I've heard more about Black Friday this year than I've done Thanksgiving.
00:34:56.700 | Have you heard of Thanksgiving?
00:34:58.700 | I'm trying to look for who's actually talking about Thanksgiving.
00:35:01.700 | All I've heard is what you can't do on Thanksgiving.
00:35:04.700 | You're not supposed to do this, you're not supposed to do that.
00:35:07.700 | But Thanksgiving is a uniquely Christian holiday,
00:35:10.700 | and I think part of the reason, it may not be all the reason,
00:35:13.700 | but part of the reason why Thanksgiving is kind of slowly dying out
00:35:16.700 | is because I don't think the secular knows what to do with this,
00:35:20.700 | because it's a unique holiday that was set apart for worship,
00:35:24.700 | to give thanks to God for what God has done.
00:35:27.700 | And I think it's important for us as Christians that, again,
00:35:30.700 | not just once a year, but celebrating Thanksgiving is a reminder to us
00:35:34.700 | that this is something that we ought to be doing regularly, all the time.
00:35:39.700 | You know, before we even jump into that, I want to get some stuff off my chest,
00:35:43.700 | because before we get into Thanksgiving, I want to share with you
00:35:46.700 | some of the things that's been bothering me, okay?
00:35:49.700 | Just this week, you know, I got new neighbors.
00:35:53.700 | We're living in a cul-de-sac, and before they moved in,
00:35:56.700 | we had the reign of parking in our cul-de-sac.
00:36:00.700 | And so we're able to park anywhere we want, and then all of a sudden,
00:36:03.700 | this--it looked like some kind of daycare center moved in,
00:36:06.700 | because they got all kinds of cars sitting outside.
00:36:09.700 | Now whenever we park, we have to maneuver with them, you know?
00:36:13.700 | So we have to have a strategy.
00:36:15.700 | When you come home, park your car, and if we park on the street first.
00:36:19.700 | So we're going to dominate this, and then park.
00:36:22.700 | So every time I come out, I check the city, and it's like, "Oh my gosh,
00:36:25.700 | they got like five cars out here," right?
00:36:27.700 | Anyway, I'm getting some of that off my chest.
00:36:30.700 | Ever since the pandemic, some of you guys know,
00:36:32.700 | we live right by the train station, and then behind there's like a walkway.
00:36:36.700 | And usually it's not used well, but ever since the pandemic,
00:36:40.700 | people have been exercising there, hanging out there.
00:36:43.700 | The teenagers are riding their skateboards up and down,
00:36:47.700 | and so it's always busy.
00:36:49.700 | So every morning, I'm doing quiet time reading the Bible,
00:36:51.700 | and I hear them yelling and screaming.
00:36:54.700 | Anyway, I'm getting some of that off my chest, okay?
00:36:56.700 | So this is what's been going on in my life.
00:37:00.700 | You know, this week, I was driving from--
00:37:04.700 | I went to Carl's Jr. to pick a hamburger for lunch,
00:37:08.700 | and I asked them to give me extra lettuce on my Famous Star,
00:37:13.700 | and by the time I got back, instead of giving me extra lettuce,
00:37:16.700 | they gave me a lettuce wrap.
00:37:20.700 | I've never eaten lettuce wrap before.
00:37:22.700 | I was thinking, if I wanted salad, I would have ordered salad, right?
00:37:26.700 | And so that same day, I was coming back from Carl's Jr.,
00:37:30.700 | you know, it was like a right turn right off of coming into,
00:37:34.700 | I think, Red Hill in--what is that?
00:37:36.700 | Red Hill in Maine, and, you know, I'm making a right turn,
00:37:40.700 | but you know one of those people that always like--
00:37:42.700 | they're kind of--they're intending to go straight,
00:37:44.700 | but they park right in the middle?
00:37:47.700 | You know what I'm talking about?
00:37:48.700 | You guys know what I'm talking about.
00:37:49.700 | You know how frustrating that is?
00:37:51.700 | They're not trying to make a right turn.
00:37:52.700 | They're going to go straight, but they're taking up both lanes.
00:37:54.700 | So this guy--I was about to make a right turn,
00:37:56.700 | and then he wouldn't budge.
00:37:58.700 | So I said, "Okay, I'm a pastor, so I better--"
00:38:01.700 | So I just sat there waiting for the red light to turn,
00:38:05.700 | but he looked, and we made eye contact,
00:38:08.700 | and the first thing I see, his middle finger goes up.
00:38:11.700 | And I said, "What did I do?"
00:38:13.700 | And he said, "Yeah, I don't have a pleasant resting face."
00:38:17.700 | So maybe he looked at me, and he thought I was angry,
00:38:21.700 | and he just flipped me off.
00:38:22.700 | He's like, "Wow."
00:38:23.700 | And that's with the lettuce wrap in the car,
00:38:26.700 | which I didn't know.
00:38:28.700 | And then here's the worst.
00:38:31.700 | So I've been trying to deal with something
00:38:34.700 | that's been going on with Amazon.
00:38:36.700 | They said that I owed back taxes
00:38:38.700 | for something that happened on Amazon,
00:38:40.700 | and so I've been on the phone with them
00:38:42.700 | for the last three days for hours and hours,
00:38:45.700 | and I've talked to them over 10 people,
00:38:47.700 | and I've been trying to contact them through the phone,
00:38:49.700 | through the internet, I've gone to Amazon.com,
00:38:52.700 | and only time they'd give any kind of response
00:38:55.700 | is if I put something on Amazon.
00:38:57.700 | So I was on the phone that day with Amazon
00:38:59.700 | going back and forth to the callers in India,
00:39:02.700 | to America, back and forth, back and forth,
00:39:05.700 | and then I just was so tired,
00:39:07.700 | and I was on the phone for about two hours,
00:39:10.700 | and during the two hours, there's long breaks in between.
00:39:12.700 | So I said, "Wait a second, let me look this up.
00:39:14.700 | "Let me look this up."
00:39:15.700 | And I've already gone through hours of this,
00:39:17.700 | and this is the ninth or 10th person,
00:39:19.700 | and so as I was grumbling inside,
00:39:21.700 | I was preparing this sermon about not grumbling.
00:39:25.700 | All right?
00:39:26.700 | So I just wanted to get this off my chest
00:39:28.700 | because when I think about Thanksgiving,
00:39:31.700 | it's like, what are you thankful for?
00:39:34.700 | Every year during Thanksgiving,
00:39:35.700 | tell me, what are you thankful for?
00:39:37.700 | Thank you for the family, thank you for this job,
00:39:39.700 | thank you for salvation,
00:39:40.700 | and we have this road thing that we go through.
00:39:43.700 | And I'm like, "Oh, I should be thankful for that."
00:39:45.700 | And they said, "So what's bothering you?"
00:39:48.700 | That's a much easier question to answer.
00:39:51.700 | What's bothering you?
00:39:52.700 | For most people, it doesn't really take long.
00:39:55.700 | We have to force ourselves.
00:39:56.700 | Like, "I'm gonna be thankful, I'm gonna be thankful."
00:39:59.700 | But what's bothering us is like
00:40:01.700 | always sitting at the tip of our tongue,
00:40:04.700 | and the application, right?
00:40:06.700 | We always have to apply,
00:40:07.700 | say, "Oh, I'm gonna be more positive.
00:40:08.700 | "I'm gonna be more thankful."
00:40:10.700 | But our heart condition naturally is to grumble.
00:40:14.700 | Our natural condition is naturally to be grumbled.
00:40:17.700 | Today's sermon is about grumbling, right?
00:40:21.700 | The opposite of Thanksgiving, it's about grumbling.
00:40:23.700 | So I'm gonna be grumbling about grumbling this morning, okay?
00:40:26.700 | So the text that we're looking at,
00:40:28.700 | Apostle Paul is writing,
00:40:29.700 | even though he's writing this letter of joy,
00:40:32.700 | if you study Philippians well enough,
00:40:35.700 | you know that at the end of Philippians,
00:40:36.700 | he's asking because there's a division
00:40:38.700 | that's taking place between these two prominent sisters.
00:40:41.700 | Say, "Hey, can you guys please help them out?"
00:40:44.700 | And obviously that theme of division in this church,
00:40:47.700 | if you restudy the book of Philippians,
00:40:50.700 | even though there's a larger theme of rejoicing the Lord,
00:40:53.700 | but the reason why he keeps reminding them to rejoice
00:40:55.700 | is because there's an underlying division
00:40:57.700 | that's taking place in the church.
00:41:00.700 | And if you go back and study Philippians,
00:41:02.700 | you'll see that that's kind of what he's touching upon,
00:41:06.700 | and then he brings the main point at the end.
00:41:08.700 | "Please help these sisters to get along."
00:41:10.700 | That's why he writes Philippians chapter one,
00:41:12.700 | chapter two, "Don't be selfish.
00:41:14.700 | "Look up for other people.
00:41:15.700 | "Consider them better than yourselves
00:41:17.700 | "and have the attitude of Jesus."
00:41:18.700 | All that is written, not randomly,
00:41:21.700 | just so that we can understand Christianity,
00:41:24.700 | is because there was an underlying division
00:41:27.700 | taking place in the church.
00:41:29.700 | And it is in that context, after he says,
00:41:32.700 | "Look at the example of Jesus Christ,"
00:41:34.700 | and then he says in verse 14,
00:41:36.700 | "Do all things without grumbling or disputing."
00:41:39.700 | And the reason why he's saying that
00:41:41.700 | is because that was the underlying reason
00:41:43.700 | why there was division in the church.
00:41:46.700 | "Do all things without grumbling or disputing."
00:41:48.700 | The word for grumbling, another word is murmuring.
00:41:53.700 | All the times grumbling is just, "Ugh!"
00:41:57.700 | You know, you don't like something,
00:41:58.700 | and if you're an extrovert,
00:41:59.700 | you'll articulate what you don't like.
00:42:01.700 | "I don't like this 'cause of that.
00:42:02.700 | "I don't like this 'cause of that."
00:42:03.700 | If you're an introvert, there's, "Ugh!"
00:42:06.700 | Right?
00:42:07.700 | And that's the sound that you hear internally.
00:42:09.700 | "Ugh!"
00:42:11.700 | You don't like something, it's, "Hmm."
00:42:14.700 | So that's what this means.
00:42:16.700 | "Do not grumble or murmur."
00:42:17.700 | 1 Peter 4:9,
00:42:19.700 | "Be hospitable to one another without complaint."
00:42:23.700 | Right?
00:42:24.700 | If you're complaining, why would you be hospitable?
00:42:27.700 | See, he's talking about Christians
00:42:29.700 | who are trying to live their Christian life,
00:42:31.700 | but they're doing it grudgingly.
00:42:34.700 | That's why he says, "Be hospitable without complaining."
00:42:37.700 | Do what you're supposed to do without murmuring.
00:42:41.700 | Israelites, the 40 years out in the desert,
00:42:44.700 | if there's one characteristic about the Israelites
00:42:46.700 | that's highlighted, is their grumbling.
00:42:49.700 | They had problems with idolatry.
00:42:52.700 | They had all kinds of problems during the 40 years.
00:42:54.700 | In fact, they got into, one tribe, the Simeonites,
00:42:57.700 | got into idolatry and sexual immorality.
00:43:00.700 | The half of their tribes get wiped out
00:43:02.700 | out of judgment of God.
00:43:05.700 | But instead, the primary sin that is pointed out
00:43:08.700 | in 1 Corinthians 10, 10-11,
00:43:10.700 | is that they were constantly grumbling.
00:43:13.700 | And it was their grumbling that led to the judgment of God.
00:43:17.700 | When we think about grumbling,
00:43:19.700 | usually if we have all the list of sins
00:43:22.700 | that we should be concerned about,
00:43:23.700 | sexual immorality, murder, slander,
00:43:26.700 | you've got a bunch of things that we would think,
00:43:29.700 | like these are highlighted,
00:43:30.700 | we wouldn't think murmuring or grumbling
00:43:33.700 | to be one of those things that we should put
00:43:35.700 | on the top of the list.
00:43:37.700 | Yet, when the Bible warns us about
00:43:39.700 | why the judgment came to the nation of Israel,
00:43:42.700 | one of the primary sins that he points out
00:43:44.700 | is that they were constantly grumbling.
00:43:47.700 | In fact, the history of Israel starts with them grumbling.
00:43:51.700 | Where is God? Why they were enslaved.
00:43:54.700 | And they were crying out, and God had mercy on them.
00:43:56.700 | So he sends Moses.
00:43:58.700 | Moses challenges Pharaoh with the miracles,
00:44:01.700 | and because of that, Moses doesn't immediately respond.
00:44:04.700 | And so he makes it even harder for the slaves.
00:44:06.700 | And they start murmuring and grumbling about that.
00:44:09.700 | When God delivers them and takes them to the Red Sea,
00:44:11.700 | it's like, "Whoa, we're trapped.
00:44:12.700 | "Why did he do all of that to bring us out here to kill us?"
00:44:15.700 | And they started grumbling.
00:44:16.700 | So God opens up the sea, and they go to the other side,
00:44:18.700 | they sing and celebrate.
00:44:19.700 | As soon as they get to the other side,
00:44:21.700 | Moses goes up to the mountain.
00:44:22.700 | How come he's taking so long?
00:44:24.700 | He came out here to abandon us?
00:44:26.700 | So they make the golden calf, they start worshiping God,
00:44:29.700 | divides the whole community in half.
00:44:31.700 | And then you would think they learned their lesson.
00:44:34.700 | Soon after--we're talking about days--
00:44:37.700 | they walk out into the desert.
00:44:39.700 | It's like, "I'm so thirsty.
00:44:41.700 | "Why did he bring us out here so that we could die of thirst?"
00:44:44.700 | So they start grumbling.
00:44:46.700 | And then so God gives them water,
00:44:48.700 | and then they move out a little bit further.
00:44:50.700 | It's like, "That's it? Water? What about food?
00:44:52.700 | "We're going to die out here."
00:44:55.700 | So God gives them miraculous bread, manna, from heaven,
00:44:58.700 | literally falling down from heaven.
00:45:00.700 | And they start eating that, and then soon after that,
00:45:03.700 | they're like, "That's it? Bread?
00:45:05.700 | "What about some protein?"
00:45:08.700 | And they start murmuring and complaining about that.
00:45:10.700 | So God gives them quail.
00:45:12.700 | Then after that, it's like, "Okay, we got meat, we got bread,
00:45:15.700 | "we got miraculous water, right?
00:45:18.700 | "And God's in our midst."
00:45:20.700 | And this cycle happened all along the 40 years,
00:45:24.700 | constantly grumbling and complaining.
00:45:28.700 | And the Bible teaches us that that was at the root
00:45:31.700 | of what caused them to seek idleship.
00:45:34.700 | That's a word.
00:45:36.700 | It's the constant grumbling and complaining and murmuring
00:45:40.700 | that caused them to be discontent and covet
00:45:43.700 | what other people had that leads to other sins.
00:45:47.700 | And the Bible says the reason why there's murder
00:45:49.700 | is because there's coveting, and because the coveting
00:45:52.700 | comes from murmuring,
00:45:54.700 | because they're constantly discontent.
00:45:57.700 | In Proverbs 23, 6-7, "Do not eat the bread of a selfish man
00:46:01.700 | "or desire his delicacy," even when he's being generous.
00:46:06.700 | He says, "For as he thinks within himself, so he is."
00:46:10.700 | He says to you, "Eat and drink, but his heart is not with you.
00:46:14.700 | "You will vomit up the more so you have eaten
00:46:17.700 | "and waste your compliments."
00:46:19.700 | He said even if a man who is constantly grumbling
00:46:21.700 | in his heart, he has a selfishness in his heart,
00:46:23.700 | and even when he is being generous, he said, "Don't eat it."
00:46:26.700 | Because that's not really a gift.
00:46:28.700 | It's going to turn out where you're going to end up vomiting.
00:46:31.700 | So when an individual is constantly murmuring
00:46:34.700 | and complaining, it rises up to other sins.
00:46:38.700 | Even his generosity says to question that.
00:46:41.700 | See, an individual who is constantly murmuring,
00:46:45.700 | it leads to disputing.
00:46:48.700 | The word disputing in NIV is questioning, dialoguing.
00:46:51.700 | That's a literal word for that.
00:46:53.700 | Where an individual who is constantly discontent
00:46:58.700 | begins to question everything, and there's a difference
00:47:00.700 | between asking questions and questioning.
00:47:03.700 | Asking questions is trying to figure out what is going on,
00:47:05.700 | why is this happening, versus questioning is,
00:47:07.700 | I know what's right, why are you doing it that way?
00:47:12.700 | And when an individual is constantly questioning,
00:47:15.700 | there is no real answer unless you submit to me.
00:47:18.700 | In Psalm 1 verse 1 it says, "How blessed is the man
00:47:21.700 | who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked,
00:47:24.700 | nor stand in the path of sinners, nor sit in the seat of scoffers."
00:47:28.700 | Do you notice how he says an individual who is walking
00:47:31.700 | according to the principles of this world,
00:47:34.700 | he will eventually be identified with the sinners,
00:47:36.700 | stand in the way of sinners, and then he will seat
00:47:38.700 | in the seat of scoffers, who is constantly questioning,
00:47:42.700 | murmuring, questioning.
00:47:45.700 | In Isaiah 49 verse 5, this constantly murmuring
00:47:49.700 | and questioning eventually rises up to God,
00:47:52.700 | because your circumstance, ultimately God is sovereign.
00:47:55.700 | So if God is sovereign, why is he allowing this to happen?
00:47:59.700 | Why are they the way that they are?
00:48:01.700 | How come these things are happening,
00:48:03.700 | and when we begin to question that, who are we questioning?
00:48:06.700 | The only person who has any control over that,
00:48:09.700 | and it eventually rises up to God.
00:48:11.700 | Isaiah 45 verse 9, "Woe to the one who quarrels with his maker,
00:48:15.700 | and earthenware, vessel among the vessels of earth.
00:48:18.700 | Will the clay say to the potter, 'What are you doing?'
00:48:22.700 | Or the thing you are making say, 'He has no hands.'"
00:48:26.700 | Much of the complaining and murmuring that happens
00:48:29.700 | in our heart is ultimately questioning,
00:48:32.700 | why is God doing this?
00:48:35.700 | Why did God allow this?
00:48:37.700 | Why did God put that guy in my life, or this person in my life?
00:48:40.700 | Why is he doing this?
00:48:42.700 | Because we don't understand.
00:48:45.700 | So therefore, we're not asking, we're questioning.
00:48:48.700 | Sinclair Ferguson, a professor at Westminster Seminary, says this,
00:48:53.700 | "A complaining or arguing spirit is an expression
00:48:56.700 | of ingratitude to God's providence."
00:49:01.700 | Everybody knows how to be happy when God does what we want.
00:49:07.700 | I want this, I want that, and when he answers my prayer,
00:49:10.700 | God is awesome, he's great.
00:49:12.700 | But when it doesn't fit what we think has to happen,
00:49:16.700 | he says it's an expression of ingratitude toward God's providence,
00:49:20.700 | and lovelessness and pride toward others.
00:49:24.700 | It is a denial of grace.
00:49:26.700 | It is working against salvation, rather than working salvation
00:49:29.700 | in the aspect of our lives.
00:49:32.700 | He said all of this.
00:49:33.700 | Again, we wouldn't normally think of murmuring and asking questions
00:49:37.700 | and disputing as a rebellion against God.
00:49:41.700 | But the Bible says that when we question the providence of God,
00:49:45.700 | that's exactly what we're doing.
00:49:46.700 | It rises up, ultimately, to question God.
00:49:49.700 | Why are you doing this?
00:49:52.700 | Even when God asked Adam, "Why did you do that?"
00:49:55.700 | He said, "Well, why did you put the woman here?"
00:49:58.700 | So ultimately, it's your fault.
00:50:03.700 | He says we ought not to do anything without grumbling or disputing.
00:50:08.700 | Because ultimately, that's what identifies as a Christian.
00:50:12.700 | Thanksgiving, thankfulness, is exactly what you and I have been called to be.
00:50:20.700 | In verse 15, he says, "So that you will prove yourselves to be blameless and innocent,
00:50:25.700 | children of God, above reproach, in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation,
00:50:29.700 | among whom you appear as lights in the world."
00:50:33.700 | The Bible describes our rebellion against God as not acknowledging Him
00:50:37.700 | or giving thanks as our Creator.
00:50:39.700 | In Romans 1:21, "For even though they knew God,
00:50:42.700 | they did not honor Him as God or give thanks.
00:50:47.700 | But they became futile in their speculations, and foolish heart was darkened.
00:50:52.700 | And professing to be wise, they became fools.
00:50:55.700 | Exchange the glory of the incorruptible God and an image in the form of corruptible men
00:50:59.700 | and of birds and of four-footed animals and crawling creatures."
00:51:02.700 | You notice here that the downward spiral of mankind's rebellion
00:51:08.700 | begins by not acknowledging and honoring God or giving thanks.
00:51:15.700 | They chose to give thanks to the Creator rather than the Creator.
00:51:21.700 | You know, oftentimes when the Bible introduces God,
00:51:25.700 | they don't start with "He saved us."
00:51:29.700 | Usually when God is introduced, He's introduced as our Creator.
00:51:33.700 | So even before we get to the cross, the fact that He created us,
00:51:39.700 | our natural relationship between the creation and the Creator
00:51:42.700 | is to acknowledge our Creator and to give thanks to Him.
00:51:45.700 | Even before we get to the cross, the cross is that that Creator
00:51:50.700 | that gave us breath, the very reason why you and I are here.
00:51:54.700 | You and I are even able to think and have conversation that Yahweh is our Creator.
00:52:00.700 | And that Creator happens to love us and gave His only begotten Son.
00:52:07.700 | So He says everything that we need to know,
00:52:10.700 | He revealed Himself as the Creator has been given to us,
00:52:13.700 | and mankind rather worship the creation rather than the Creator.
00:52:18.700 | And as a result of that, what happened?
00:52:20.700 | They became futile in their speculation.
00:52:22.700 | Speculation meaning their thinking, in their contemplation.
00:52:27.700 | Because when an individual has a heart that is murmuring and grumbling and complaining,
00:52:32.700 | he says it affects the way that they think.
00:52:35.700 | Their whole perspective is affected.
00:52:38.700 | And their foolish heart became darkened.
00:52:41.700 | Because of their wrong thinking, their hearts became darkened.
00:52:45.700 | They professed to be wise, but they became fools.
00:52:48.700 | You ever meet somebody who is constantly murmuring and complaining,
00:52:51.700 | and their primary thing is that you don't know.
00:52:55.700 | You don't know what I know. You don't think the way I think.
00:52:58.700 | Well, the Bible says the reason why people don't think the way you think
00:53:01.700 | may be because in your constant murmuring and grumbling,
00:53:05.700 | just as the Scripture says, it has affected your perspective.
00:53:10.700 | And your perspective has affected your heart.
00:53:13.700 | And because your heart was darkened and your speculation had become futile,
00:53:17.700 | it says you think you're wise because you know something that other people don't know,
00:53:21.700 | but in reality, you're the one who became a fool.
00:53:24.700 | And it is that all of this downward spiral came because you refused to acknowledge and give thanks to God.
00:53:32.700 | If you want to fit into this world, just be a good grumbler.
00:53:37.700 | If you want to really fit in, right?
00:53:39.700 | Because the world is more united on things that they hate.
00:53:44.700 | You know, we try to have fellowships like what we love,
00:53:47.700 | but you want to see a tight-knit group who's passionate about something?
00:53:51.700 | It's usually about what they hate.
00:53:54.700 | You say, "I hate the Republicans. I hate the Democrats. I hate them.
00:54:01.700 | I hate these people. You too? Oh yeah, you too?"
00:54:08.700 | The world is united by what they hate.
00:54:10.700 | If you have a full-time job, you know, I don't know if you go to water coolers,
00:54:16.700 | I don't know if they have that anymore, or boba shops, wherever you go to congregate, right?
00:54:21.700 | If you want to fit in, just tell them everything that's bothering you.
00:54:26.700 | "Your boss is unfair. You know, the government."
00:54:30.700 | I mean, just start talking about what's bothering you.
00:54:34.700 | Soon enough, people will join in. It's like, "Oh, you too? You too? You too?"
00:54:40.700 | And then you have these people who hate this group on one side,
00:54:43.700 | the other group who hates the other group on the other side,
00:54:45.700 | and then they hate each other, and you sense fellowship.
00:54:51.700 | Because you feel connected.
00:54:53.700 | And the way that you're connected is the things that you hate.
00:54:58.700 | That's how the world functions.
00:55:00.700 | If you want to fit in, keep grumbling, keep complaining.
00:55:03.700 | Let that be the primary thing that you talk about.
00:55:07.700 | But he says we are to be light. Our very identity as a Christian,
00:55:12.700 | he calls us to be a light in this dark world.
00:55:15.700 | Because the world is in rebellion against God, constantly grumbling and complaining
00:55:21.700 | about God, about the world, about politics, about everything.
00:55:25.700 | And yet, there's no Thanksgiving, because at the root of what it means to be a Christian
00:55:31.700 | is to give worship. And at the heart of a person who worships is a thankful heart.
00:55:36.700 | In Matthew 5, 14-16, "You are the light of the world. The city set on a hill cannot be hidden.
00:55:42.700 | Nor does anyone light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a lampstand,
00:55:46.700 | and it gives light to all who are in the house.
00:55:49.700 | Let your light shine before men in such a way that they may see your good works
00:55:52.700 | and glorify your Father who is in heaven."
00:55:57.700 | God said we are the light, and the purpose of why he put us to light is so that in darkness
00:56:01.700 | he may put us on a pedestal and say, "That's what God intended, to give glory to God."
00:56:06.700 | Imagine if we were the light and we sat on the table, and the whole time we're talking about is,
00:56:10.700 | "Those guys suck! They suck, and those people suck, and those people suck too!
00:56:16.700 | And then they suck, and they suck, and then what about these guys?
00:56:19.700 | These guys suck, and they suck too! Believe Jesus with me!"
00:56:26.700 | He says we were made to be the light to give glory to God,
00:56:32.700 | to declare His glory and who He is and what He has done.
00:56:36.700 | And that's why he says as Christians, as a light,
00:56:41.700 | our primary thing that we are to declare to the world is of who He is,
00:56:46.700 | not what the world is not.
00:56:50.700 | 2 Corinthians 4, 15, "For all things are for your sake,
00:56:54.700 | so that the grace which is spreading to more and more people may cause the giving thanks to abound to the glory of God."
00:57:00.700 | Look what Paul says. Paul says the gospel is continuing to go out.
00:57:04.700 | More and more people are converting. For what purpose?
00:57:06.700 | "So that more people may cause the giving of thanks to abound to the glory of God."
00:57:13.700 | So he describes conversion as people who were not thankful to be thankful,
00:57:19.700 | to have thanksgiving in their heart to give glory to God.
00:57:22.700 | If you have a murmuring heart, we're not saying that we should never ask questions,
00:57:27.700 | that we should never have disagreements. That's not what he's saying.
00:57:30.700 | He's talking about a spirit of constantly murmuring.
00:57:34.700 | [Murmuring]
00:57:37.700 | That's the sound. That's the secret sound of a complainer.
00:57:41.700 | Because that's what I hear behind this thing.
00:57:44.700 | I have extra ears.
00:57:46.700 | [Murmuring]
00:57:49.700 | I'll give you an announcement, and I can look at your faces.
00:57:52.700 | Some of you guys are like, "Huh? What's going on?"
00:57:55.700 | I see some of your faces. "Mmmmmmm."
00:57:57.700 | I see it. I may be wrong, but there's constant murmuring.
00:58:05.700 | And he says as Christians, our core being of who we are is to give thanks.
00:58:10.700 | You cannot give thanks. You cannot spend all week just murmuring, complaining,
00:58:15.700 | talking about what's wrong, and then come into worship and say,
00:58:18.700 | "You're so good, God."
00:58:21.700 | You may be saying that, but internally you're saying,
00:58:24.700 | "What's wrong with them?"
00:58:26.700 | That's actually what's going on in your head and your heart.
00:58:29.700 | "What's wrong with these people, Lord?"
00:58:33.700 | At the core of who we are, people who refuse to acknowledge God and give thanks,
00:58:39.700 | that he made us worshipers of God, because he fills our hearts with no other response,
00:58:45.700 | no other logical response, than to give our lives as a living sacrifice.
00:58:50.700 | It's a reasonable act of worship.
00:58:54.700 | But he also says, "If I just said, 'Stop it,' we'd all leave kind of frustrated."
00:59:02.700 | Well, how do we do that? If our natural instinct is to grumble.
00:59:07.700 | I gave you a short list of things that I was struggling with this week.
00:59:11.700 | I could probably fill that page with about three or four pages of problems.
00:59:18.700 | Because it's natural.
00:59:20.700 | If you guys have Thanksgiving dinner, you might sit around and talk about,
00:59:23.700 | "What are you thankful for?"
00:59:25.700 | And then you're just like, "Hmm."
00:59:28.700 | Not just this rote answer, "I'm thankful for my parents."
00:59:32.700 | I'm thankful for what you're really thankful for.
00:59:35.700 | You kind of have to take some time to actually think through.
00:59:38.700 | What's bothering you? How much time you got?
00:59:42.700 | Because that's our natural state. So if we just say, "Hey, stop it!"
00:59:46.700 | We'd leave thinking, "Oh, that was good. Thank you for reminding me."
00:59:50.700 | But then to actually practice that, starting from lunch,
00:59:54.700 | you're going to start feeling guilty.
00:59:57.700 | Until next Thanksgiving, you say, "Hey, stop it!"
01:00:00.700 | Well, he's very practical. He says, "Well, not doing that."
01:00:04.700 | And verse 16, "Holding fast the word of life."
01:00:08.700 | "Holding fast, so that in the day of Christ I will have reason to glory,
01:00:11.700 | because I did not run in vain, nor toil in vain."
01:00:14.700 | What does it mean to hold fast the word of life?
01:00:17.700 | If he doesn't want us to grumble and complain, then that's our natural response.
01:00:21.700 | And the remedy for that is to hold fast the word of life.
01:00:24.700 | 1 Corinthians 15, 1-3,
01:00:26.700 | "Now I make known to you, brethren, the gospel which I preach to you,
01:00:30.700 | which also you received, in which also you stand."
01:00:34.700 | Not only does the gospel justify you,
01:00:36.700 | the gospel is the reason why you're able to stand and be sanctified.
01:00:39.700 | "By which you also are saved, if you hold fast the word which I preach to you,
01:00:44.700 | that you don't drift from that, unless you believed in vain.
01:00:49.700 | For I delivered to you, as of first importance, what I also received,
01:00:53.700 | that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures."
01:00:56.700 | What he is saying is to hold fast to the gospel that you first believed.
01:01:02.700 | And not just to say, "Well, you know what? I was justified, and tell me something more deep."
01:01:08.700 | You know our communion table?
01:01:10.700 | Jesus, very last activity that he had before he went to pray with them,
01:01:14.700 | he says, "Do this in remembrance of me."
01:01:17.700 | And in different places they have different words.
01:01:20.700 | You have the Lord's table, you have the sacrament, you have communion.
01:01:24.700 | But one of the words that is used for the Lord's table is "Eucharist."
01:01:28.700 | Some of you guys may have heard that before.
01:01:30.700 | The Eucharist is literally the word in Greek, "Euchariste,"
01:01:35.700 | which means "giving thanks."
01:01:38.700 | So part of the core meaning of the communion table
01:01:41.700 | is to come and when we receive the elements, to give thanks.
01:01:46.700 | And that's exactly what Paul is trying to get at.
01:01:49.700 | The reason why there is constant murmuring and questioning
01:01:53.700 | is that we have drifted away from a thankful heart for what God has done.
01:01:58.700 | And so we tend to focus on what is not going right,
01:02:02.700 | and we rarely talk about thankfulness of God.
01:02:05.700 | So when you examine your life and your speech,
01:02:08.700 | how often are you genuinely thankful for your salvation and what God has done?
01:02:13.700 | I know we talk about it in Bible study,
01:02:16.700 | we talk about it in a certain given time of fellowship
01:02:20.700 | when you have questions that you have to ask,
01:02:22.700 | but how often when you look at your conversation
01:02:25.700 | are you actually responding to the grace of God?
01:02:28.700 | "Man, I don't deserve this grace. God is so good to me."
01:02:32.700 | How much of your conversation is that, and how much of it is like,
01:02:35.700 | "Yeah, yeah, God is so good. He's so awesome.
01:02:37.700 | But man, what is wrong with this? What is wrong with that?"
01:02:43.700 | That's what he means by "hold fast."
01:02:44.700 | In fact, our whole study of the book of Hebrews,
01:02:47.700 | when it says, "Do not drift,"
01:02:50.700 | he keeps saying over and over again,
01:02:52.700 | "Hold fast, hold fast, hold fast, hold fast, what you profess to believe."
01:02:57.700 | Don't make it just a song that you sing.
01:02:59.700 | Don't make it just a verse that you memorize.
01:03:01.700 | Don't make it just a doctrinal statement that you believe.
01:03:05.700 | He says that's what he means by "hold fast."
01:03:07.700 | May it affect your heart, may it affect your speech,
01:03:10.700 | may it affect everything that you do.
01:03:12.700 | That's what he means by "hold fast."
01:03:17.700 | You know, at the core, when we say, "Hold fast to the gospel that was preached,
01:03:22.700 | that we profess," first, why it deals with our grumbling is,
01:03:26.700 | first and foremost, holding on to the gospel,
01:03:29.700 | holding fast to the gospel,
01:03:31.700 | causes us to remember that we have absolute eternal security.
01:03:37.700 | No genuine Christian is constantly living in nervousness.
01:03:41.700 | "Am I going to make it? Am I not going to make it?"
01:03:43.700 | We're talking about, like, eternal heaven,
01:03:45.700 | like, eternal bliss versus eternal damnation, eternal.
01:03:48.700 | Hell and fire versus euphoria, you know, forever.
01:03:53.700 | Imagine living in between these two things.
01:03:56.700 | Otter poverty and disease for eternity
01:03:59.700 | versus winning the biggest lottery and you're living day to day,
01:04:03.700 | like, "Oh, am I going to get this or am I going to get that?"
01:04:05.700 | He says, "No, the gospel teaches us that we have absolute security in Christ
01:04:09.700 | because we did not earn it, we cannot lose it."
01:04:12.700 | So holding fast to the gospel that we profess,
01:04:16.700 | it gives us a solid ground that can never be shaken.
01:04:20.700 | And so we celebrate what he has done.
01:04:24.700 | We celebrate the eternal security that we have in Christ.
01:04:26.700 | So holding on to the gospel message that we profess
01:04:31.700 | gives us the foundation that we need to build this house.
01:04:34.700 | Secondly, it assures us of his sovereignty,
01:04:37.700 | that no matter what happens, he works all things together
01:04:40.700 | for those who have been called according to his purpose.
01:04:43.700 | So he orchestrated everything to get us here,
01:04:47.700 | and he's also orchestrating everything to make us make sure
01:04:50.700 | that he who began a good work in us will carry it on to completion
01:04:53.700 | in his sovereign hands.
01:04:55.700 | That no matter what may be happening in your life,
01:04:57.700 | no matter what may have happened, no matter how tragic,
01:05:00.700 | no matter how confusing it is, why he is doing what he is doing,
01:05:05.700 | he says, "You are in his sovereign hands."
01:05:07.700 | He who did not spare his own son,
01:05:10.700 | how will he not along with him give all things?
01:05:14.700 | If he loved you enough, if this sovereign God loved you enough
01:05:17.700 | to give his only begotten son, why would he spare what you need?
01:05:22.700 | Why wouldn't he protect you from what harms you?
01:05:25.700 | Why would he allow these things to happen
01:05:28.700 | if he gave the most and most precious thing?
01:05:31.700 | So we believe in his sovereignty,
01:05:34.700 | that despite whatever may be happening in our life,
01:05:38.700 | God is completely sovereign, and we trust him.
01:05:41.700 | And third and finally, the word of truth, the gospel,
01:05:44.700 | reminds us of the reward that's coming in Christ,
01:05:48.700 | that ultimately the gift is not what is external.
01:05:54.700 | You know, very thankful for the families who are adopting children.
01:05:59.700 | Obviously, before they're adopted, they're in foster care,
01:06:02.700 | and you have people who are temporarily taking care of them,
01:06:04.700 | and then when they come to the United States,
01:06:06.700 | or wherever they're coming from,
01:06:08.700 | the home that they go to usually is better.
01:06:11.700 | You have a nice home, you have loving parents,
01:06:13.700 | you have living in Orange County,
01:06:15.700 | you get to come to church and be loved by community.
01:06:17.700 | I mean, it's so much better.
01:06:20.700 | But when the kids come, when they're young,
01:06:22.700 | they may look at the external circumstance
01:06:24.700 | and the food that they have and say, "Wow, this is great!"
01:06:28.700 | But at some point in their maturity, they're going to realize
01:06:31.700 | that the real gift that they have is the parents who love them.
01:06:35.700 | And the reason why they have everything they have
01:06:37.700 | is because they were adopted by these loving parents.
01:06:41.700 | And that the scripture says that the gift of the gospel
01:06:44.700 | is not the external things.
01:06:46.700 | Sometimes we may have it, sometimes we may not have it.
01:06:48.700 | But ultimately, the ultimate gift is Christ himself.
01:06:53.700 | And that's why he means, when Paul says in Philippians 3, 8,
01:06:56.700 | "In view of the surpassing knowledge of knowing Jesus Christ,"
01:06:59.700 | everything else became rubbish in comparison.
01:07:04.700 | So when we hold fast to these truths,
01:07:08.700 | and it affects our heart, and it affects our thinking,
01:07:11.700 | and it affects our words,
01:07:14.700 | it tends to drive out murmuring.
01:07:18.700 | And it causes people to worship.
01:07:22.700 | And so that's what he means by constantly holding fast.
01:07:28.700 | And that's why we have the communion table.
01:07:30.700 | And that's why we sing these songs.
01:07:32.700 | That's why we gather together.
01:07:33.700 | If you have a room full of murmuring people, stay away.
01:07:39.700 | People always say, "Oh, we're not united.
01:07:41.700 | We should have more activities to get people united."
01:07:44.700 | If you have a room full of complaining people,
01:07:47.700 | oh my gosh, don't go there. Avoid that.
01:07:51.700 | Just because you get a lot of people together
01:07:53.700 | doesn't mean there's going to be unity.
01:07:56.700 | You got a lot of people who are discontent with murmuring,
01:07:58.700 | complaining, and questioning,
01:08:00.700 | and you think somehow all of a sudden you're going to go there
01:08:02.700 | and things are going to change.
01:08:04.700 | No, they spread like gangrene.
01:08:07.700 | A murmuring, complaining spirit tends to spread.
01:08:10.700 | And that's why the Bible says to deal with divisive people,
01:08:13.700 | because it has a tendency to spread.
01:08:17.700 | But if you have a room full of people worshiping God,
01:08:21.700 | thankful in their heart--
01:08:23.700 | have you ever had a fellowship,
01:08:24.700 | whether it's four people or five people,
01:08:26.700 | they're just happy to be there.
01:08:30.700 | And you may have had a bad day,
01:08:31.700 | all of a sudden you show up and you just forget.
01:08:34.700 | And you're like, "Oh, wow, that's right. Things are good."
01:08:37.700 | And a fellowship of the church is meant to be a gathering
01:08:40.700 | of people who've been affected by the truth,
01:08:42.700 | who have come to worship God.
01:08:44.700 | So it's kind of like coming to a chiropractor.
01:08:47.700 | Any of you who've had a bad back or something,
01:08:49.700 | you go to a chiropractor and they go, "Click, click, click."
01:08:53.700 | And you say, "Oh, my gosh, that feels so good."
01:08:57.700 | And then you're able to walk, the pain goes away,
01:08:59.700 | and that just felt so good.
01:09:00.700 | See, the gathering of the believers in the corporate body
01:09:04.700 | is kind of like a chiropractor,
01:09:07.700 | because our natural tendency as we walk on this earth
01:09:09.700 | is like, "Oh, my gosh, that guy flipped me off again.
01:09:11.700 | Salad for lunch, come on.
01:09:14.700 | Come on, Amazon, pick up the phone."
01:09:17.700 | And then we gather together to worship.
01:09:20.700 | That's right.
01:09:22.700 | My eternity is secure.
01:09:25.700 | I don't understand what's going on, but he is sovereign.
01:09:28.700 | Oh, my gosh, thank you, Jesus.
01:09:31.700 | That's what the corporate gathering was meant to be.
01:09:34.700 | To recalibrate, constantly recalibrate,
01:09:37.700 | and to give thanks to God.
01:09:39.700 | And that's why he says, "Do not murmur."
01:09:41.700 | It is unfitting for Christians.
01:09:44.700 | But fourth and finally, he says,
01:09:46.700 | we need to learn to be thankful.
01:09:48.700 | That's not something that we just turn on and off.
01:09:50.700 | Verse 17, "But even if I am being poured out as a drink offering."
01:09:54.700 | Let me stop right there.
01:09:56.700 | The book of Philippians is oftentimes titled
01:09:59.700 | as the book of rejoicing, book of joy.
01:10:02.700 | Paul is writing this sitting in prison,
01:10:04.700 | chained to a Roman guard.
01:10:07.700 | And it's not a pleasant place to be.
01:10:09.700 | And he's writing to the people who are sitting on the outside,
01:10:12.700 | telling them to rejoice.
01:10:15.700 | When he says, "I am being poured out as a drink offering,"
01:10:18.700 | drink offering in the Old Testament was kind of like a benediction.
01:10:22.700 | You gave all your burnt offerings, or thank offering,
01:10:26.700 | and guilt offering, and at the very end,
01:10:29.700 | they would give a pour out offering, or drink offering.
01:10:33.700 | Drink offering was kind of like a benediction.
01:10:35.700 | It was the very last thing that they did.
01:10:37.700 | So what Paul means by, "I am being poured out as a drink offering,"
01:10:40.700 | he's facing death.
01:10:42.700 | He said, "I'm sitting in prison, and I could possibly die."
01:10:45.700 | But he says, "Even though I'm being poured out as a drink offering,
01:10:48.700 | upon the sacrifice and service of your faith."
01:10:52.700 | He's not dying because he believed Jesus
01:10:55.700 | and he was quietly trying to take care of his family.
01:10:57.700 | He said, "No, he was risking his life to go to these dangerous places
01:11:00.700 | and preach the gospel."
01:11:03.700 | He's being stoned, he's being beaten.
01:11:05.700 | And in the end, he actually gets beheaded and he dies.
01:11:08.700 | So he recognizes this, and he says,
01:11:10.700 | "Even though I'm being poured out as a drink offering,
01:11:12.700 | for the sake of your faith, I rejoice
01:11:16.700 | and share my joy with you all.
01:11:18.700 | You too, I urge you, rejoice in the same way
01:11:21.700 | and share your joy with me."
01:11:25.700 | I have to be honest.
01:11:28.700 | I mean, I don't know how many times in the years that I've been in ministry,
01:11:32.700 | I've thought to myself inwardly,
01:11:35.700 | "These people don't deserve me."
01:11:39.700 | You can judge me, because I judge myself.
01:11:43.700 | "They don't deserve me, you selfish people.
01:11:47.700 | I don't want to keep doing this.
01:11:49.700 | Why does God save sinners anyway?"
01:11:53.700 | Esther knows, because I usually grumble to her.
01:11:59.700 | The greatest mystery that I have found,
01:12:03.700 | the longer I live, I understand hell.
01:12:07.700 | I really understand hell.
01:12:10.700 | Because we don't deserve it.
01:12:13.700 | I understand why an angry God who is almighty and powerful, who is holy,
01:12:16.700 | would wipe us out and punish us for our sins.
01:12:18.700 | I understand that.
01:12:20.700 | I don't understand why a holy God who doesn't need us
01:12:24.700 | goes through what he goes through
01:12:26.700 | with the constant grumbling and complaining that we do
01:12:29.700 | and is continuing to be patient with us.
01:12:33.700 | I don't understand. I don't get it.
01:12:37.700 | I'm so frustrated with Amazon right now.
01:12:43.700 | I don't know how God is patient with the world for this long.
01:12:48.700 | I don't get it.
01:12:51.700 | I'm being poured out as a drinker. I'm going to die for your faith.
01:12:54.700 | But he says, "I rejoice."
01:12:57.700 | How did you do that?
01:12:59.700 | How did that just happen?
01:13:02.700 | In 1 Thessalonians 5.18, he says, "In everything, give thanks,
01:13:05.700 | for this is God's will for you."
01:13:07.700 | Everything?
01:13:09.700 | Hey, Pastor Peter, you don't know my situation.
01:13:12.700 | You don't know what I've been through.
01:13:14.700 | You don't know the kind of stuff that I've seen.
01:13:16.700 | And you're absolutely right. I don't know.
01:13:19.700 | But the one who wrote this does know.
01:13:22.700 | The one who says this knows who you are.
01:13:25.700 | In fact, probably better than you.
01:13:28.700 | So when he says, "Give thanks for everything,"
01:13:31.700 | he means everything.
01:13:33.700 | Not just for the things that you understand.
01:13:35.700 | Not just for the things that make sense.
01:13:37.700 | Not just for the things that's going to lead to something better.
01:13:40.700 | But he says, "Everything."
01:13:43.700 | Because our salvation is secure, our God is sovereign.
01:13:46.700 | And because Jesus is good.
01:13:49.700 | He says to give thanks.
01:13:52.700 | Philippians 4.11-13, he says, "Not that I speak from want,
01:13:56.700 | for I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am in."
01:14:02.700 | He said, "I learned it."
01:14:05.700 | This is a guy who was handpicked by Jesus.
01:14:09.700 | Supernaturally converted.
01:14:11.700 | Holy Spirit is speaking to him, explaining the gospel to him.
01:14:14.700 | And he's explaining to the rest of the world, writing the New Testament,
01:14:18.700 | about the grace of God, the mercy of God, the love of God.
01:14:21.700 | I mean, this is a guy who was stoned in Lystra,
01:14:24.700 | dragged out of the city, shook off the dust,
01:14:27.700 | went back, and kept preaching.
01:14:31.700 | I mean, this is not a normal human being.
01:14:33.700 | At least, I don't, you know, we hear stories about it.
01:14:35.700 | But this guy literally was stoned and walked back in.
01:14:39.700 | He was ready to die.
01:14:42.700 | And he actually died.
01:14:46.700 | And yet he says, "I learned to be content."
01:14:50.700 | "I learned to be content."
01:14:52.700 | Because that's what sanctification is.
01:14:55.700 | We hear the gospel of Jesus Christ, and we convert it.
01:15:01.700 | We saw the glory of what that is, and we believe, and we convert it.
01:15:05.700 | And then for whatever the reason, we want to be more sophisticated,
01:15:08.700 | and then we want to learn systematic theology,
01:15:11.700 | we want to learn all this stuff.
01:15:12.700 | He's like, "Oh, those were young Christians.
01:15:14.700 | You haven't been a Christian as long as I have.
01:15:17.700 | You haven't read as much, you haven't experienced as much as I have."
01:15:20.700 | But the most mature Christian is the one who is the most deeply affected by the cross.
01:15:26.700 | Not the one who has a PhD in scholarship.
01:15:29.700 | So I'm not saying that none of that is necessary.
01:15:32.700 | The more we learn about Christ, the more we should be affected.
01:15:35.700 | But learning itself doesn't make you mature.
01:15:39.700 | Experience itself doesn't make you mature.
01:15:42.700 | You can have a PhD, and you can bear a lot of fruit,
01:15:46.700 | constantly murmuring in your heart,
01:15:49.700 | and we're not really giving worship.
01:15:51.700 | We're opening up our mouth, we're singing the songs, we're attending Bible study,
01:15:54.700 | but we're not giving worship.
01:15:56.700 | Because worship is something that happens when we're genuinely thankful,
01:15:59.700 | and it's rising up from us.
01:16:02.700 | And it's encouraging to me to hear that Apostle Paul had to learn this.
01:16:07.700 | He learned the secret of being content in every and all situation,
01:16:10.700 | where Christ became more valuable to him as time passed than the beginning.
01:16:16.700 | And that's a challenge that you and I have.
01:16:19.700 | Where we have a tendency to have him be so precious in the beginning,
01:16:24.700 | and then not so much as we go along.
01:16:28.700 | He learned. So we also need to learn to be content.
01:16:31.700 | Not just once a year, but every day.
01:16:35.700 | To learn to be true worshipers in spirit and in truth.
01:16:38.700 | So let me finish with this one story that's always a reminder to me as encouragement.
01:16:43.700 | You know, yesterday we had Ryan and Mel's wedding.
01:16:46.700 | I know that Cindy and Alex also got married in the Valley.
01:16:49.700 | Ryan and Mel, I was intimately involved with that.
01:16:53.700 | And so they were going back and forth, and some of you guys who know the story,
01:16:56.700 | because of the COVID situation, was not able to have their wedding where they originally planned.
01:17:01.700 | And so up until even Saturday morning, like 3 a.m., they were scrambling,
01:17:06.700 | "What are we going to do? What are we going to do?"
01:17:07.700 | I said, "Well, at least maybe just have it at church, you know, and outside."
01:17:11.700 | And so very last minute, they were putting things together,
01:17:15.700 | and so we just kind of did that, and outside for people, the guests to come and to visit.
01:17:20.700 | And so a lot of us were able to come and see them and participate in all of that.
01:17:24.700 | And obviously, you know, I've known Mel since she was a freshman in college.
01:17:28.700 | I've known Ryan since he was a kid.
01:17:30.700 | So, you know, like we're kind of burdened, because I wanted them to have a good wedding.
01:17:34.700 | I don't want the wedding to be something that they're going to look back years later and say,
01:17:37.700 | "Oh my gosh, this COVID ruined our wedding."
01:17:40.700 | So I feel for, you know, many of our members in our church who are going through that,
01:17:44.700 | you know, being concerned.
01:17:47.700 | But those of you guys who participated, I mean, it went well.
01:17:51.700 | And I'm not going into the details of--and I really feel, and I think they would agree,
01:17:56.700 | that it was an answered prayer, because what we really wanted from the wedding
01:18:01.700 | actually benefited from what happened.
01:18:03.700 | Again, I'm not going to go into the details of that.
01:18:05.700 | And I'm just very thankful for what happened.
01:18:09.700 | But, you know, one of the weddings that I always remember,
01:18:12.700 | years ago there was a couple in our church who was getting married.
01:18:16.700 | And it was a disaster from the beginning.
01:18:18.700 | You know, we're doing counseling, you have two parents who were going back and forth
01:18:22.700 | of what they wanted, what venue they wanted.
01:18:25.700 | And they didn't really seem to care, but it was the two parents, you know,
01:18:28.700 | like they have a lot of opinions going back and forth.
01:18:31.700 | And they were deciding to do it at this one venue.
01:18:33.700 | And at the very last minute, they said, "Oh, they didn't like it."
01:18:36.700 | And so they had to change.
01:18:38.700 | So it's like, "Okay, okay, we'll just do whatever you want."
01:18:40.700 | And so the dad of the groom said, "You're going to have it at our church,
01:18:43.700 | but they don't have a nice facility.
01:18:45.700 | Their outside courtyard is uglier than ours."
01:18:48.700 | You know what I mean?
01:18:49.700 | And so that's where they're going to have the reception.
01:18:51.700 | We're going to have--okay, let's just do it.
01:18:53.700 | And so they changed it in the last minute.
01:18:55.700 | And then the senior pastor of the church just decided on his own
01:18:59.700 | to invite the whole church.
01:19:01.700 | So he invited about 250 people, and it must have been like 400 or 500 people
01:19:04.700 | who showed up.
01:19:05.700 | So some of you guys know what I'm talking about.
01:19:07.700 | And so by the time we finished and went out,
01:19:10.700 | the real guest didn't have food to eat afterwards
01:19:12.700 | because after we took the pictures, the church people came out,
01:19:16.700 | and they just happened to have an event that Saturday at church.
01:19:18.700 | So anybody who was there ended up eating all the wedding food.
01:19:21.700 | On top of that, right before they went into the wedding,
01:19:25.700 | the people were supposed to set up a little platform and a cover,
01:19:27.700 | like a canopy.
01:19:29.700 | The people who hired just brought it and just dumped it on the ground
01:19:32.700 | and said, "If you want to set it up, it's going to cost you $500."
01:19:35.700 | So they were blackmailing them.
01:19:37.700 | So they said, "Well, you didn't pay for the setup.
01:19:39.700 | You just paid for the rental."
01:19:41.700 | And so we're about to enter the wedding, you know,
01:19:45.700 | and obviously it's like, "Oh, my gosh," and I was upset for them.
01:19:48.700 | And so what are we going to do?
01:19:50.700 | So he basically got blackmailed, paid him $500 to set it up.
01:19:53.700 | And then right before the wedding started,
01:19:55.700 | one of the moms came up to me and said, "You've got to speak in Korean."
01:19:58.700 | [laughter]
01:20:00.700 | And so I said, "I can speak Korean, but not to that extent
01:20:04.700 | because I just impromptu give a message in Korean,
01:20:06.700 | so I just do what I can."
01:20:08.700 | So I went and I just kind of fumbled through this and that.
01:20:11.700 | I tried to translate what I was saying back and forth.
01:20:14.700 | And I was saying, "Oh, my gosh, this was horrible,"
01:20:16.700 | from the beginning to the very end.
01:20:18.700 | Years later, I was talking to the groom, you know, years later,
01:20:22.700 | and I said, "Hey, what's the happiest day that you remember?"
01:20:26.700 | And he said, "Oh, my wedding day."
01:20:29.700 | I'm like, "Your wedding day? Did you forget?"
01:20:33.700 | You know, I wanted to sit down.
01:20:35.700 | "Did you forget what happened at your wedding?"
01:20:37.700 | And he said, "Oh, yeah, yeah, it was difficult."
01:20:40.700 | I said, "So why do you say that was your happiest day?"
01:20:43.700 | He says, "Because I got to marry my best friend."
01:20:47.700 | And he said, "Man, I was so happy that day.
01:20:51.700 | I was murmuring for him.
01:20:54.700 | I was upset for him. How dare they?"
01:20:58.700 | But he said it was the happiest day of his life.
01:21:02.700 | We get so caught up in the external things,
01:21:05.700 | about the reception, the food, the flowers, and all the stuff.
01:21:09.700 | And sometimes the way that we have weddings,
01:21:11.700 | like that becomes the primary thing,
01:21:13.700 | and the actual marriage becomes a side issue.
01:21:18.700 | That's what we do as Christians sometimes.
01:21:21.700 | We forget what it is that we have in Christ.
01:21:23.700 | We get so worried about church, about our children,
01:21:26.700 | about our plans, our goals, and we get so caught up in this thing,
01:21:31.700 | and then it just sucks us dry in our worship.
01:21:36.700 | So we are busy doing things,
01:21:39.700 | and we're neglecting what's at the core of why he saved us,
01:21:43.700 | so that we would worship him in spirit and in truth.
01:21:47.700 | So this constant murmuring and grumbling
01:21:50.700 | is sucking the Christians dry
01:21:53.700 | for what the church was meant to be, to worship.
01:21:56.700 | So I pray that as we face Thanksgiving,
01:21:59.700 | before Christmas, okay?
01:22:02.700 | We'll give plenty of attention to Christmas after Black Friday,
01:22:06.700 | but at least this week, take some time to consider deeply,
01:22:10.700 | not the external things like, "Oh, I thank you for the job,"
01:22:13.700 | and "God answered my prayer for this,"
01:22:15.700 | but about what we all-- every Christian has.
01:22:18.700 | This God of the universe knows me,
01:22:21.700 | and he loves me, and he saves me.
01:22:25.700 | And the worst possible case,
01:22:28.700 | the worst possible case that you and I can think of right now
01:22:31.700 | is that we get COVID and we die.
01:22:34.700 | I mean, we don't want that,
01:22:36.700 | but it's probably the worst-case scenario.
01:22:39.700 | But even in the worst-case scenario for a Christian,
01:22:42.700 | we get to go home early.
01:22:45.700 | Even though there's sadness,
01:22:48.700 | that's the worst-case scenario for a Christian.
01:22:51.700 | So I pray that that reminder would cause us to worship him
01:22:54.700 | in spirit and in truth. Let's pray.
01:22:58.700 | (footsteps)
01:23:01.700 | Gracious Father,
01:23:04.700 | your goodness is beyond what we could possibly imagine.
01:23:08.700 | I pray that a deeper contemplation
01:23:11.700 | of what it is that we have in you
01:23:14.700 | would cause our murmuring
01:23:17.700 | to be radically changed to thanksgiving
01:23:20.700 | and praise of your name.
01:23:23.700 | I pray, Lord God, that in this thanksgiving season,
01:23:26.700 | we would be able to use your grace to marginalize it more and more,
01:23:29.700 | that as your children help us, Lord God,
01:23:32.700 | that we may be a light to this world,
01:23:35.700 | so that the world may look at us and wonder,
01:23:38.700 | "Why are these people so thankful?"
01:23:41.700 | That you would give us a platform
01:23:44.700 | to share that hope that we have in you.
01:23:47.700 | So we pray for your grace, we pray for your blessing.
01:23:50.700 | In Jesus' name we pray. Amen.
01:23:53.700 | Let's sing our closing praise.
01:23:56.700 | (piano music)
01:24:22.700 | Give thanks
01:24:25.700 | with a grateful heart
01:24:28.700 | Give thanks
01:24:31.700 | to the Holy One
01:24:34.700 | Give thanks
01:24:37.700 | because He's given
01:24:40.700 | Jesus Christ
01:24:44.700 | His Son
01:24:47.700 | Give thanks
01:24:50.700 | with a grateful heart
01:24:54.700 | Give thanks
01:24:57.700 | to the Holy One
01:25:00.700 | Give thanks
01:25:03.700 | because He's given
01:25:06.700 | Jesus Christ
01:25:10.700 | His Son
01:25:14.700 | And now
01:25:17.700 | let the weak say
01:25:20.700 | I am strong
01:25:24.700 | Let the poor say
01:25:27.700 | I am rich
01:25:30.700 | Because of what
01:25:33.700 | the Lord has done
01:25:37.700 | for us
01:25:41.700 | And now
01:25:44.700 | let the weak say
01:25:47.700 | I am strong
01:25:51.700 | Let the poor say
01:25:54.700 | I am rich
01:25:57.700 | Because of what
01:26:00.700 | the Lord has done
01:26:04.700 | for us
01:26:08.700 | Give thanks
01:26:11.700 | with a grateful heart
01:26:14.700 | Give thanks
01:26:17.700 | to the Holy One
01:26:20.700 | Give thanks
01:26:23.700 | because He's given
01:26:26.700 | Jesus Christ
01:26:29.700 | His Son
01:26:32.700 | Give thanks
01:26:35.700 | with a grateful heart
01:26:38.700 | Because He's given
01:26:41.700 | Jesus Christ
01:26:45.700 | His Son
01:26:48.700 | And now
01:26:51.700 | let the weak say
01:26:54.700 | I am strong
01:26:58.700 | Let the poor say
01:27:01.700 | I am rich
01:27:05.700 | Because of what
01:27:08.700 | the Lord has done
01:27:12.700 | for us
01:27:15.700 | And now
01:27:19.700 | let the weak say
01:27:21.700 | I am strong
01:27:25.700 | Let the poor say
01:27:28.700 | I am rich
01:27:32.700 | Because of what
01:27:35.700 | the Lord has done
01:27:39.700 | for us
01:27:42.700 | Give thanks
01:27:46.700 | Now to Him who is able to keep you from stumbling
01:27:54.700 | and to make you stand in the presence of His glory
01:27:57.700 | blameless with great joy
01:28:00.700 | to the only God our Savior
01:28:02.700 | through Jesus Christ our Lord
01:28:04.700 | be glory, majesty, dominion, and authority
01:28:08.700 | before all time and now and forever
01:28:10.700 | Amen
01:28:12.700 | God sent His Son
01:28:17.700 | They called Him Jesus
01:28:22.700 | He came to love
01:28:27.700 | heal and forgive
01:28:32.700 | kneel and die
01:28:37.700 | to buy my pardon
01:28:42.700 | An empty grave is there to be
01:28:47.700 | a Savior in
01:28:51.700 | Because He lives
01:28:56.700 | I can face tomorrow
01:29:01.700 | Because He lives
01:29:06.700 | All fear is gone
01:29:11.700 | Because I know
01:29:15.700 | He holds the future
01:29:20.700 | And life is worth the living
01:29:25.700 | Just because He lives
01:29:30.700 | Amen
01:29:32.700 | Again, if we can have the group on this side to leave that side
01:29:35.700 | and then just give it a minute before we exit to the other way
01:29:39.700 | (footsteps)
01:29:45.700 | (music)