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Ephesians Bible Study Lesson 17


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00:00:00.000 | Good evening, Church family.
00:00:07.320 | Hope you had a good week of rest.
00:00:12.000 | Tonight we're going to be continuing our study of Ephesians.
00:00:14.760 | And we're going to go through chapter 5 and 6 in this series.
00:00:17.760 | This is the second half.
00:00:18.760 | Tonight we're going to be tackling the first paragraph of chapter 5.
00:00:22.740 | Let's take a moment to go before the Lord as we engage the scriptures.
00:00:26.800 | Our God, we thank you so much for your grace.
00:00:29.760 | And God, we thank you over and over again that you are teaching us through your scripture.
00:00:34.720 | God, we recognize that these truths you give to us are not things that we figure out on
00:00:38.800 | our own.
00:00:39.800 | Our Father God, these are revealed to us by your grace and mercies.
00:00:44.520 | And you show us things, Father God, in the spiritual realities, things that, Father God,
00:00:50.080 | many people do not understand.
00:00:52.120 | And I pray that with gratitude and sincere appreciation, we would long for and we would
00:00:57.420 | desire all the more to heed your commands, to listen to, Father God, your wisdom, and
00:01:02.640 | all the more apply unto our lives.
00:01:04.880 | We thank you so much for your grace and pray now that you would grant to us understanding
00:01:10.640 | and conviction.
00:01:11.640 | It's in Christ's name we pray.
00:01:12.640 | Amen.
00:01:13.640 | Okay.
00:01:14.640 | Well, since we did take just a short break, it's good to review.
00:01:19.680 | And so if you recall, chapters 1 through 3 of Ephesians was a lot of the theology and
00:01:25.520 | the groundwork of how God has blessed us and how in the gospel, God has elected.
00:01:33.240 | He is the one who is effecting salvation.
00:01:36.680 | And the contrast between what we were and who we are now was so evidently displayed
00:01:41.720 | in chapters 1 through 3.
00:01:43.400 | And then in chapter 4 is here began the application for us.
00:01:47.760 | Now here, oh, sorry.
00:01:51.040 | Here in chapter 4 verses 1, it says, "I implore you," and I gave you some blanks just to test
00:01:56.520 | if you guys recall, "to blank in a blank blank."
00:01:59.920 | Right?
00:02:00.920 | Take a moment to think about that.
00:02:02.000 | What is the command there?
00:02:04.180 | And the command was for us to walk in a manner worthy of the calling with which you have
00:02:08.640 | been called.
00:02:09.640 | Okay?
00:02:10.640 | Now, within the beginning portions of chapter 4, there was a huge challenge for us to seek
00:02:15.040 | unity.
00:02:16.040 | And there had to be this unity.
00:02:17.900 | So he says that we have to have humility, gentleness, patience, showing tolerance for
00:02:22.120 | one another in love, being diligent to preserve the unity of the spirit and the bond of peace.
00:02:27.800 | So we talked a lot about that.
00:02:29.880 | And then in the middle of chapter 4, Apostle Paul says, "So this I say and affirm together
00:02:33.960 | with the Lord, that you no longer walk just as the blank."
00:02:38.920 | What's the blank here?
00:02:39.920 | It starts with the G. The word is Gentiles.
00:02:44.640 | He talks about how the, within this passage, he talks about how the Gentiles walk in the
00:02:47.720 | futility of their mind, in ignorance, right?
00:02:50.000 | In the callousness of their heart.
00:02:52.400 | And then he goes on in verse 23 and says, "But that you be renewed in the spirit of
00:02:57.120 | your mind and put on the blank blank."
00:03:01.240 | That blank blank is a new self, which in the likeness of God has been created in righteousness
00:03:07.640 | and holiness of the truth.
00:03:10.160 | So we are challenged.
00:03:11.940 | These commands are really again, broad pictures of what we're supposed to be doing.
00:03:16.960 | We're supposed to be regularly putting a sign, the kind of ignorance, the kind of stubborn
00:03:21.960 | callousness that we have, and to be regularly putting on the likeness of God, right?
00:03:27.440 | That is something that we're regularly engaged with.
00:03:29.160 | And so one of the challenges that I gave in the previous study was that we as believers,
00:03:33.240 | we are always changing in that we're always maturing.
00:03:36.480 | And the scripture's admonition to us was that we're supposed to be changing in every aspect
00:03:42.660 | unto Christ.
00:03:43.660 | Okay?
00:03:44.660 | Every aspect unto Christ.
00:03:45.960 | So we're going to be ever growing.
00:03:48.140 | Tonight there's a continuation of the application.
00:03:51.100 | The application that we are supposed to be seeing the ramifications of the gospel applied
00:03:56.980 | into our lives.
00:03:58.500 | And for that, we go to this passage, chapter five, verse one through six, which says, "Therefore
00:04:03.580 | be imitators of God as beloved children, and walk in love just as Christ also loved you
00:04:09.060 | and gave himself up for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God as a fragrant aroma.
00:04:15.980 | But immorality or any impurity or greed must not even be named among you as is proper among
00:04:21.100 | saints.
00:04:22.460 | And there must be no filthiness and silly talk or coarse jesting, which are not fitting,
00:04:27.660 | but rather giving of thanks.
00:04:29.660 | For this you know with certainty that no immoral or impure person or covetous man who is an
00:04:34.620 | idolater has an inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God.
00:04:39.040 | Let no one deceive you with empty words for because of these things, the wrath of God
00:04:42.700 | comes upon the sons of disobedience."
00:04:45.700 | Okay?
00:04:47.140 | Now this passage, I think breaks down nicely into three sections and it's two verses each.
00:04:53.300 | We're going to begin with the first section, which I like to call the commands.
00:04:57.700 | So Paul clearly gives us two emphatic commands in this first portion of the passage.
00:05:03.940 | Let's read it again and says, "Therefore be imitators of God as beloved children, and
00:05:08.420 | walk in love just as Christ also loved you and gave himself up for us, an offering and
00:05:14.220 | a sacrifice to God as a fragrant aroma."
00:05:17.340 | Okay?
00:05:18.840 | When you look at that passage to be truthful, the commands aren't necessarily confusing.
00:05:24.060 | Neither are they hard to incorporate.
00:05:25.900 | They're pretty clear.
00:05:27.500 | And I just want to give a tip of advice.
00:05:29.420 | I know sometimes when you think about Bible study, if you're doing everything about outlining,
00:05:33.780 | observations, asking questions, then you do word studies.
00:05:37.660 | And then you do X, Y, and Z, like the interpretation and then your own applications.
00:05:42.060 | You don't have all the time in the world to do all of it.
00:05:45.700 | Okay?
00:05:46.700 | So a lot of times what I do is I read the passage first, just run through and then start
00:05:50.780 | kind of deciding, is this a passage where I have to do a lot of word studies because
00:05:54.620 | there are unique words or words that aren't so commonly seen?
00:06:00.220 | What's more, other times like this when there's clear commands, what I like to do is actually
00:06:05.140 | take time to meditate.
00:06:07.060 | I want to give you an example of that.
00:06:09.540 | For example, if I'm just simply doing my devotions, I would take the first top two verses as opposed
00:06:14.020 | to all six, and then I would start asking immediately questions about what I understand
00:06:18.540 | about this.
00:06:20.100 | For example, in an interpretive way, you would ask the question, "Therefore be imitators,"
00:06:24.140 | and you would ask, "What does it mean to imitate?"
00:06:27.060 | What's the Greek word for that or something like that?
00:06:29.540 | But another way you can do it by meditation is asking, "Is this the way I'm thinking
00:06:32.980 | about my life circumstances?"
00:06:35.180 | A lot of times when we look at a life circumstance, let's say difficulty, stress, or hardship,
00:06:40.300 | I'm more so asking the question, "How do I get out?"
00:06:43.980 | Am I asking the question, "How do I be like God in this?
00:06:47.220 | How do I be godly?"
00:06:49.580 | What's more, as beloved children, meditate.
00:06:52.500 | What difference does it make that I'm a child of God in this expectation to imitate God?
00:06:56.580 | What difference does it make?
00:06:57.980 | As opposed to saying, "Imitate God as a slave.
00:07:00.980 | Imitate God as somebody who was once far and now close."
00:07:04.500 | What difference does that make for me?
00:07:06.660 | What's more, to walk in love.
00:07:08.780 | I have to ask myself, in my current concept of God's expectation for me to be loving,
00:07:14.820 | what is the picture?
00:07:17.100 | What is a specific example?
00:07:18.740 | What's more, I have to ask myself the question, "Am I walking in love according to all the
00:07:23.940 | stuff that I've learned in Ephesians, or is my normal pattern of life marked by fear?
00:07:29.540 | I'm walking in suspicion.
00:07:30.940 | I'm walking in doubt.
00:07:32.540 | Maybe I'm even walking in self-righteousness or even hatred."
00:07:36.940 | Another question, "Just as Christ also loved you and gave himself up for us, it's very
00:07:40.980 | clear really quickly that Jesus is the example and the model."
00:07:43.980 | Yes.
00:07:44.980 | But what is a case example of a specific application of this?
00:07:50.020 | Another one, "An offering and sacrifice to God as a fragrant aroma.
00:07:53.580 | Meditate, how is God seeing my actions?
00:07:57.340 | If my actions follow Christ's model, how is he seeing me?"
00:08:02.900 | Those are all questions to be really reflected.
00:08:05.300 | I'd recommend just journaling all that.
00:08:07.540 | Okay?
00:08:08.540 | Now, for our purposes, we're going to tackle the main commandments and ask the question,
00:08:12.300 | "What are they?"
00:08:13.300 | And the two of them I've already highlighted for you there.
00:08:16.500 | Let's tackle the first about being imitators of God.
00:08:19.940 | Now, in terms of the term, I'll identify that the Greek word is to essentially mimic.
00:08:27.180 | And we are talking about, in the Greek, it's used sometimes of impersonating an individual.
00:08:32.820 | So an actor who is not necessarily pretending, but behaving and mimicking another person.
00:08:39.460 | So when you think about this, we have to ask the question, just simply, "Okay, I am supposed
00:08:44.580 | to actually reflect God in many different ways."
00:08:48.900 | And so by way of meditation, you should be thinking about, "Okay, if I am thinking about
00:08:55.900 | being like God, do I have the categories in my head, whether it be stressful moments or
00:09:00.580 | circumstances of my life, that I want to be walking according to his pattern?
00:09:06.100 | That I'm walking according to the things that I already understand and know about him, his
00:09:10.060 | character traits?"
00:09:11.580 | You see, to us, we believe that God is an incredibly consistent individual.
00:09:16.020 | So consistent, he's predictable.
00:09:17.500 | What do I mean?
00:09:19.580 | You guys recall Jonah.
00:09:21.660 | Jonah knew that God was so predictable.
00:09:24.940 | He said, "If I go into that city of the Ninevites and I preach judgment and they repent, I know
00:09:30.460 | what's going to happen.
00:09:31.460 | I knew it," he said, "you're going to show mercy."
00:09:35.900 | In that way, do we know enough about the patterns of God and his character that I can also be
00:09:41.600 | consistent in that fashion?
00:09:43.500 | I need to be like him in his pattern of faithfulness, his truthfulness, his love, and so on.
00:09:49.500 | Now the emphatic commandment and expectation is there, but there's something also interesting
00:09:54.540 | to observe, which is, he says, "As beloved children."
00:09:58.220 | What is this?
00:10:00.000 | As I looked at it, I observed that this is an incredible motivation for us to be imitators
00:10:04.140 | of God.
00:10:06.220 | Now you could think of this and say, "No, our child relationship, that relationship
00:10:10.860 | is the foundation by which we imitate God."
00:10:13.580 | True, but when you think about what it is that children do, we realize it's an incredible
00:10:19.140 | motivation.
00:10:20.140 | I want to show you a passage from 1 John 3 that talks so much about the connection between
00:10:25.700 | our relationship as children and then also then our mimicking God's character.
00:10:30.820 | So here, let me take a moment to read to us this passage.
00:10:33.500 | "Beloved, now we are children of God, and it has not yet, oh sorry, not appeared as
00:10:39.100 | yet what we will be.
00:10:40.940 | We know that when he appears, we will be like him because we see him, we will see him just
00:10:45.580 | as he is.
00:10:46.980 | And everyone who has this hope fixed on him purifies himself just as he is pure.
00:10:53.260 | Little children, make sure no one deceives you.
00:10:56.700 | The one who practices righteousness is righteous just as he is righteous.
00:11:01.640 | The one who practices sin is of the devil, for the devil has sinned from the beginning.
00:11:06.740 | The Son of God appeared for this purpose to destroy the works of the devil.
00:11:10.800 | No one who is born of God practices sin because his seed abides in him, and he cannot sin
00:11:16.420 | because he is born of God.
00:11:18.940 | By this, the children of God and the children of the devil are obvious.
00:11:22.700 | Anyone who does not practice righteousness is not of God, nor the one who does not love
00:11:27.140 | his brother.
00:11:28.680 | For this is the message which you have heard from the beginning, that we should love one
00:11:32.880 | another."
00:11:35.000 | That there is an incredible motivation for you to have this mentality, "I need to be
00:11:41.020 | like God."
00:11:42.020 | Why?
00:11:43.020 | Because you're of him, you're his child.
00:11:45.240 | The identity that you are his, you reflect him.
00:11:49.080 | Essentially, it's like you look like him.
00:11:52.280 | No, that's gotta be his son.
00:11:54.920 | Look at it.
00:11:55.920 | God has nose, God has ears, God has eyes.
00:11:59.520 | Our reflection of God shows us who we are.
00:12:03.960 | So with that thinking, I want you to just to think about the connections there.
00:12:08.800 | What a privilege.
00:12:11.040 | What a unique privilege to be called son of God.
00:12:14.680 | So essentially, God has already established that foundation.
00:12:18.120 | God has already given us that motivation, given us the entire context by which we're
00:12:22.840 | supposed to be then walking according to his pattern, to his model, to everything that
00:12:28.080 | he's shown us about himself.
00:12:30.320 | And I just want to say that's something to us like a massive privilege.
00:12:35.480 | For God to want us to be like him, to emulate him, that to us is a massive grace to us.
00:12:44.040 | And we should have an attitude of thankfulness as we think about that.
00:12:48.520 | But again, in way of meditation on that, is this the way you're thinking intentionally?
00:12:54.760 | Meaning when was the last time you were specifically in a scenario and you intentionally thought,
00:13:00.520 | you know what?
00:13:01.600 | I need to be more like God here.
00:13:04.080 | I need to be more like my father.
00:13:06.320 | And that's the challenge I want to give to you.
00:13:08.240 | Again, within specific moments of stress, hardship, or difficulty, it is in our fleshly
00:13:13.800 | nature to say, how do I best escape this?
00:13:18.320 | How do I eliminate the threat?
00:13:20.280 | That's just a typical rationale of somebody living in this world.
00:13:25.320 | But for us who know the father, the passage in John tells us that we need to be thinking
00:13:29.560 | differently.
00:13:30.560 | What's more, the passage commands us to walk in love.
00:13:35.000 | Essentially, a primary way by which we reflect God and show his character is by loving.
00:13:42.200 | And so much so, remember the scriptures in 1 John teach us that if you're not loving,
00:13:47.220 | that means you probably haven't seen God.
00:13:49.080 | You probably don't know God because he is love.
00:13:53.240 | It goes hand in hand.
00:13:54.280 | If we've seen him, if we've actually experienced him, then we would also then emulate.
00:14:00.080 | But what's more, I want to challenge us by doing this.
00:14:03.340 | In the book of Ephesians especially, we have seen so many aspects of God's love.
00:14:08.520 | And if we're saying we're supposed to be walking in that, and we're supposed to be imitating
00:14:13.080 | that, do you recall, are you able to put a picture to the kind of love we're supposed
00:14:17.880 | to express?
00:14:20.800 | Really briefly, you don't have to write all these down.
00:14:22.720 | Maybe even just jot down the things that I've bolded for you here.
00:14:25.600 | Number one, remember that in chapter one, Apostle Paul said, "God has blessed you with
00:14:31.380 | every spiritual blessing in the heavenlies in Christ."
00:14:35.080 | He's lavished us.
00:14:36.480 | But what's more, in chapter one, Apostle Paul taught us that God's love is so purposeful.
00:14:43.120 | It's so intentional and it's so personal.
00:14:47.720 | God is not just generally saying, "I pray for you all.
00:14:50.280 | I have good thoughts.
00:14:51.280 | Sending my thoughts your way."
00:14:53.520 | His plan is so meticulous.
00:14:56.640 | It's so intentional and wanting our good, and wanting us also to experience his glory.
00:15:03.520 | And then it's tied with also his wisdom.
00:15:06.560 | It's tied with his insight.
00:15:08.620 | It's not just, "You know, I'm just going to give you, give you, give you, whether it hurts
00:15:11.240 | you or not, whether you get fat or whatever it may be.
00:15:13.320 | I'm just going to shove it in your mouth."
00:15:14.960 | That's not what he's doing, is it?
00:15:16.320 | It's in accordance with all of his wisdom.
00:15:19.240 | It's in accordance with all of his strength.
00:15:21.000 | It's in accordance with all of his might.
00:15:22.920 | What's more, chapter two taught us that although we were dead in our transgressions and sins,
00:15:27.600 | he was so rich in his mercy.
00:15:31.400 | The chapter two in Ephesians is so beautiful in how it contrasts.
00:15:36.160 | There was such darkness and you walked accordance to this, but he was so rich in his mercy.
00:15:40.600 | What's more, it says, "You were so far.
00:15:42.960 | You were so far.
00:15:43.960 | You had no hope.
00:15:44.960 | You had no God.
00:15:45.960 | You were separated from the commonwealth of Israel, but he has brought you near."
00:15:50.080 | What's more, in chapter three, scripture says that he has shared his promise with us.
00:15:55.760 | God has shared his inheritance.
00:15:58.560 | It was a mystery, he says.
00:15:59.800 | And this mystery, people did not understand, but it's being revealed that we, the Gentiles,
00:16:04.640 | get to be fellow heirs, fellow partakers of the promise.
00:16:09.700 | That is so crazy.
00:16:11.560 | What generosity of God's love.
00:16:14.720 | What's more, chapter four says that we ought to be humble.
00:16:18.040 | Our love should be unifying.
00:16:20.840 | Scripture commands us that we are designed to be a household of God and our love for
00:16:25.380 | one another should pretty much draw us together in Christ.
00:16:30.660 | And then chapter four ends by saying, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving
00:16:34.880 | each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you."
00:16:39.360 | It is a forgiving kind of love.
00:16:42.960 | Now within this passage, it shows us more.
00:16:47.240 | It shows us more in the expectation set by Christ's model, which also is to us the motivation.
00:16:56.460 | That this love that Christ showed to us is incredibly sacrificial.
00:17:01.080 | Jesus has shed his blood.
00:17:03.400 | Jesus sacrificed his life voluntarily.
00:17:07.200 | See, I think in our day, we, you know, just by force of habit, use the love, use the term
00:17:14.880 | love very flippantly as things pertaining to the things that just make us happy.
00:17:20.360 | And that's not bad because love has with it the thought of things that are satisfying,
00:17:26.000 | things that are so delightful.
00:17:27.760 | And so the things that really bring joy to our heart, we say, "I love that."
00:17:31.920 | But the thing is, we say stuff like, "I love food.
00:17:34.900 | I love material things.
00:17:37.000 | I love to be here.
00:17:38.000 | I love to be there."
00:17:39.000 | And all of those things are not wicked and sinful because there is within things that
00:17:43.360 | we love, things that bring us pleasure.
00:17:46.960 | But here, Christ's love transcends because his love leads him to bear cost, to bear a
00:17:55.040 | burden all for our benefit, all for our good.
00:17:59.900 | And so within that, scripture says he is challenging us to do a kind of love that is sacrificial
00:18:06.640 | like his, which ultimately becomes an offering and a sacrifice to God as a flagrant Roma.
00:18:13.960 | We're thinking about motivations here.
00:18:16.340 | And one of the greatest motivations that we have for doing anything is that it pleases
00:18:20.400 | our Father.
00:18:21.560 | It pleases our God.
00:18:23.320 | Think about how illustrative and descriptive this is.
00:18:26.640 | That when God sees us empowered by the sacrificial love of Christ, being strengthened to be able
00:18:33.440 | to love beyond reason, beyond just logistics and practicalities and to sacrifice things,
00:18:39.280 | time, energy, money, whatever it may be, to love other people.
00:18:45.360 | God sees that as a pleasant aroma.
00:18:48.480 | Now I was thinking of like analogies for this, but I didn't know if it was appropriate because
00:18:53.560 | I'm trying to picture God being pleased by his children loving one another, loving others.
00:19:01.760 | I can't use just the analogy that I thought was of like coffee.
00:19:05.320 | Like when I smell coffee, it's just, even the smell wakes me up.
00:19:09.600 | It doesn't do justice.
00:19:11.680 | It doesn't compare.
00:19:14.280 | Probably best way to think about it is when you're a parent and you see your siblings,
00:19:19.720 | what frustrates you is not, "Oh, you didn't do your chores."
00:19:23.400 | When the siblings fight, when brother and brother hurt each other, it's enraging.
00:19:29.160 | How dare you?
00:19:30.840 | But when they are taking care of each other, when a child is trying to actually help the
00:19:37.080 | other person, maybe even say, "Oh, here, you take this first," right?
00:19:41.400 | You just, it brings you joy.
00:19:44.160 | It doesn't necessarily do anything for you.
00:19:45.760 | You're not like receiving the benefit of that, but it just brings you joy.
00:19:49.600 | That's our father.
00:19:50.600 | A father seeing the children love one another.
00:19:53.520 | All right.
00:19:54.880 | We spent some extra time on that and let's move to point number two.
00:19:58.820 | Point number two, if the first two verses was the command, the next two verses, verses
00:20:03.720 | three and four is the rationale, right?
00:20:06.480 | And what he tells us is you need to behave that way because that's appropriate for you.
00:20:11.720 | But the other things of the world, immorality, impurity, and greed, these, it is absolutely
00:20:17.320 | inappropriate.
00:20:18.320 | And so I've entitled it, "It Doesn't Fit At All."
00:20:22.600 | What he says is, "But immorality or any impurity or greed must not even be named among you
00:20:27.720 | as is proper among saints.
00:20:30.080 | There must be no filthiness and silly talk or coarse jesting, which are not fitting,
00:20:34.800 | but rather giving of thanks."
00:20:37.320 | What I'd like to highlight for you by way of observation first is not the contents of
00:20:43.080 | the immoral stuff, but actually the strength of the prohibition.
00:20:48.120 | What I mean by that is, look how emphatic this is.
00:20:50.760 | He says, "Of these things, they must not even be named among you."
00:20:56.680 | That's really strong, as is proper among saints.
00:20:59.680 | So essentially saying this is not proper for the saints.
00:21:02.520 | He says, "There must be no filthiness and silly talk or coarse jesting, which is not
00:21:07.000 | fitting."
00:21:08.000 | It doesn't fit.
00:21:09.000 | I like the way NIV says, it says, "But among you, there must not even be a hint of sexual
00:21:16.320 | immorality."
00:21:17.320 | Right?
00:21:18.320 | "Your name and this stuff shouldn't even be in the same sentence.
00:21:22.640 | It shouldn't be mentioned among you guys," essentially what it's saying.
00:21:26.280 | And so when we look at this strong exhortation, the strong commandment, we have to appreciate
00:21:33.240 | this extreme measure, so to speak.
00:21:36.680 | Because within our framework of mind, we have a gauge.
00:21:41.000 | Every single one of us exercises a kind of bar, a standard.
00:21:45.520 | And I'm going to ask you this question.
00:21:47.000 | Have you adopted this measure or have you set the bar wherever you're comfortable?
00:21:54.320 | What is your comfortable, like a, sorry, what to do, what degree are you comfortable with
00:22:00.240 | this stuff is the question, right?
00:22:02.920 | What am I saying?
00:22:05.400 | I think in this generation, people definitely, I mean, this is my opinion, but I think most
00:22:10.760 | of you guys will probably agree with me that in this generation, we live in a very permissive,
00:22:16.800 | excuse-oriented generation.
00:22:20.000 | And given that, the bar in terms of what is appropriate, what is fitting, constantly moves.
00:22:27.640 | And if you talk to anybody in the previous generation, they're like, "Oh my goodness,
00:22:31.040 | we would have never even done that.
00:22:32.360 | We would never even, that would have, people would have been ashamed of that kind of stuff,"
00:22:35.600 | right?
00:22:36.600 | There's talks like that.
00:22:37.600 | And the thing about it is, in this generation, not only are we like that, but we're defensive
00:22:43.200 | and we're sensitive.
00:22:44.200 | If someone says, "Hey, that's not right," it's like, "Who are you to tell me what's
00:22:46.360 | not right?"
00:22:47.360 | "Hey, that's inappropriate," like, "Inappropriate?
00:22:50.280 | What do you mean inappropriate?
00:22:51.280 | That sounds like," and then they get all defensive like that.
00:22:55.040 | But for us, we have to make sure we're not setting the bar by what you're comfortable
00:22:59.160 | with because we believe in God.
00:23:02.480 | Our Father sets what we should be comfortable with.
00:23:06.320 | And what he says here is a measure that says it should be way over here.
00:23:10.040 | There must not even be a hint of sexual immorality or any kind of impurity in you.
00:23:15.560 | Have you adopted that?
00:23:17.680 | Now, this being said, I want to move to thinking about this with the categories that he says,
00:23:25.400 | that there should be no immorality, impurity, or greed.
00:23:28.280 | There shouldn't be any filthiness, silly talk, or coarse chesting.
00:23:31.760 | If you even take a moment to think about these two categories, and these two categories I
00:23:35.240 | asked for DC themes, and yes, there is.
00:23:37.680 | Immorality, impurity, and greed, essentially it is talking about that kind of lustfulness,
00:23:42.920 | passions, maybe sexual pleasures.
00:23:46.160 | And so essentially what you have is this self-oriented input.
00:23:50.120 | And then with filthiness, silly talk, and coarse chesting, you have output, the stuff
00:23:53.840 | that comes out of your mouth.
00:23:55.880 | Both ways it should be pure, right?
00:23:57.980 | It should be pure.
00:23:58.980 | But we are talking about the degree of purity, and I'm emphasizing that more because I want
00:24:03.400 | you to think about this.
00:24:04.680 | To what degree and measure did Christ expect when he was teaching the disciples about our
00:24:09.200 | purity?
00:24:10.880 | He says, when you even look at that woman, and you sit in your heart, you have an adulterous
00:24:15.760 | heart, right?
00:24:18.200 | He wanted purity even right up here.
00:24:21.280 | He wanted purity even in the fantasy lands of our mind.
00:24:24.400 | He wanted purity even of our speech.
00:24:25.880 | He said, if you call your brother a fool, you're going to be condemned.
00:24:30.120 | I want us to think about that.
00:24:32.200 | Now because you guys have done your own study, I'm going to leave this to you to discuss
00:24:37.240 | to what degree we should be fighting these things.
00:24:40.040 | How can we even raise our standards, especially personally for ourselves, to what measure
00:24:45.880 | are we striving now?
00:24:48.480 | So moving to the next part, section three.
00:24:53.840 | I'm sorry, I should have edited that.
00:24:56.280 | It should say point three versus five and six.
00:24:58.780 | So if the first two verses was commands, the second two verses is going to be the rationale.
00:25:03.480 | It doesn't fit at all.
00:25:05.220 | And this last section is called the sobering reality, verses five and six.
00:25:10.080 | Let me read for us what the sobering reality is.
00:25:12.520 | There it is.
00:25:13.520 | Okay.
00:25:14.520 | He says, for this you know with certainty that no immoral or impure person or covetous
00:25:19.600 | man who is an adulterer has an inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God.
00:25:24.240 | Let no one deceive you with empty words for because of these things, the wrath of God
00:25:27.880 | comes upon the sons of disobedience.
00:25:31.200 | Okay.
00:25:32.400 | So notice how he says for this, you should know with certainty, you should already know
00:25:37.620 | this stuff and you should already know this stuff.
00:25:40.280 | Well, what should we know?
00:25:42.440 | Well, if we summarize those two sections, it can be summarized this way, which is first
00:25:48.520 | that immoral, the immoral person who practices immorality, impurity, and greed, that kind
00:25:54.840 | of selfishness will go to hell.
00:25:58.300 | That is a massive category in our minds.
00:26:01.860 | That's a massive gospel truth.
00:26:03.420 | What's more, it says God's wrath is coming upon the disobedient, right?
00:26:08.740 | God's wrath is coming upon disobedient.
00:26:11.400 | I want to share this with you guys that it is so important for us to have the proper
00:26:17.300 | worldview, not as how the rest of the world sees it, not as how some people, some pockets
00:26:24.220 | of individuals sees it, but as God is teaching you, this is how you should see this generation.
00:26:31.820 | It's a perverse generation.
00:26:34.700 | And this perverse generation without Christ is going to go to hell.
00:26:39.640 | And as we think about that, I want you to realize that where you stand versus where
00:26:43.720 | a non-Christian stands, there is a massive line.
00:26:47.160 | It's a huge gap.
00:26:49.000 | That line is eternal.
00:26:52.920 | Think about that.
00:26:54.880 | So this should completely inform us in terms of how we react to things in life, how we
00:27:00.400 | see our decisions, and especially when we have the temptation to live according to the
00:27:04.840 | world, to think like the world, these truths should affect us.
00:27:09.600 | We know that this world is going to experience the wrath of God.
00:27:15.560 | What I realize is as I'm thinking about this, sometimes you have individuals who just, they
00:27:20.840 | love the world.
00:27:22.360 | And they say like, you know, I just can't help myself.
00:27:24.480 | I just keep looking at this stuff on the internet and I want it.
00:27:27.960 | I want to buy it.
00:27:28.960 | I want to have it.
00:27:30.520 | You know, now I can sit there and instruct them, what you got to do is turn off the TV.
00:27:35.080 | What you got to do is turn off the internet.
00:27:38.320 | But it's not so much the specific instructions.
00:27:40.200 | They have to have a correction on the whole world view.
00:27:45.560 | What you think is so lovely is going to be judged by the wrath of God.
00:27:51.640 | Even now, right now, there's so much turmoil, people fighting each other.
00:27:56.520 | Now there are so many things in terms of injustice that we should care about.
00:28:01.120 | And of injustice, there are things that we have to take actions for.
00:28:04.640 | However, when Christians start saying, you know what, I hope for a world, I hope for
00:28:08.600 | a generation.
00:28:12.200 | I wonder if they're buying into a vision of the world that's ungodly.
00:28:17.240 | Ungodly, not because it's like vile and sinful, but ungodly because it's so limited.
00:28:24.040 | I want you to look at something here.
00:28:26.920 | The world view that is wrong for the individual within this first sentence, the immoral and
00:28:32.440 | impure person or a covetous man, you know why his world view is wrong?
00:28:36.800 | Because his God and his world view is wrong.
00:28:40.040 | His God is an absolute fake.
00:28:43.200 | It's an idol, right?
00:28:45.160 | And typically when you practice idolatry, you're practicing an idolatry where you are
00:28:49.240 | at the center of the world.
00:28:51.120 | Your world view needs to be radically shifted.
00:28:54.600 | But what's more, take a look at this.
00:28:56.000 | Let no one deceive you with empty words.
00:28:59.120 | What are empty words?
00:29:00.760 | Let me tell you what are empty words.
00:29:03.000 | What are empty words?
00:29:04.000 | Are words like, you got to do what makes you happy.
00:29:07.300 | You know, something as innocent as YOLO.
00:29:09.040 | Now, I'm not saying you could never say that.
00:29:11.320 | Say it.
00:29:12.320 | You know, like you only live once.
00:29:13.320 | It's kind of a joke, right?
00:29:14.960 | But what is that motto used for?
00:29:17.560 | Motto is used for live it up.
00:29:19.320 | YOLO is used for, I know this is stupid, but I'm just going to do it because you only live
00:29:22.440 | once, right?
00:29:24.880 | Those are empty words.
00:29:26.240 | You know why?
00:29:27.240 | Because those words are rational when you live only this life.
00:29:32.760 | And what Apostle Paul says, what King Solomon says is when your rationale is limited to
00:29:37.600 | this generation, it is fleeting, it is temporary, and therefore it is empty.
00:29:42.040 | It's vain.
00:29:43.600 | It's weightless.
00:29:45.600 | Our rationale has with it eternity.
00:29:48.640 | We reason with Christ in mind, God with mind, eternity in mind, and heaven in mind.
00:29:53.360 | We're not looking for better days here.
00:29:56.120 | This world, God is not going to salvage and make better.
00:29:59.880 | He says sin is going to get worse.
00:30:02.000 | Sin is going to inspire more sin.
00:30:03.840 | The love of most will grow cold.
00:30:05.480 | It's going to get hostile.
00:30:06.840 | You'll be persecuted and it's going to be difficult to live in this land.
00:30:11.280 | And when it's ripe for judgment, God is going to bring this wrath and burn it.
00:30:16.720 | Why are we talking like the rest of the world hoping just for better days here?
00:30:22.960 | We can't think like that.
00:30:25.320 | We've got to be thinking more in line with the gospel truths.
00:30:30.600 | We're not just waiting for new policies, new governors, and new presidents.
00:30:35.280 | That's not where our hope is.
00:30:37.840 | For us, we're eagerly anticipating the return of our King.
00:30:42.040 | And so our rationale and our words are waiting.
00:30:46.760 | This is the way that we need to respond.
00:30:49.640 | So as we take a moment to think about these things, to me, these things are sober realities
00:30:56.840 | that not only dictate how we respond to current events and life situations, these things also
00:31:03.440 | dictate our specific momentary decisions.
00:31:07.600 | As I experience temptation, what should I be thinking?
00:31:12.600 | I should be first thinking I should be more like my God, my Father.
00:31:17.040 | I should be thinking I should be living and walking in love and not in selfishness.
00:31:22.080 | I should not have impurities, lusts, and greeds.
00:31:24.320 | I should not have gross things coming out of my mouth, but rather I should be a pure
00:31:28.520 | light in this generation because I'm living with an unshakable hope in God.
00:31:35.400 | That's the way my mind should work.
00:31:37.280 | And so by way of conclusion, I want to say we have received some really broad exhortations
00:31:43.040 | and commandments today to imitate God and to walk in love.
00:31:47.800 | But just remember, we have to make sure that we take these broad commandments that encapsulate
00:31:51.680 | everything that we're doing.
00:31:53.320 | And you have to be the one that takes case examples and apply specifically.
00:31:58.600 | How am I going to walk in love here?
00:32:01.640 | How am I going to show up into this scenario and exercise the kind of sacrificial, giving,
00:32:08.040 | lavishing love that God exercises with me?
00:32:11.800 | This is to you the kind of intentional, purposeful living that we want to do before the Lord.
00:32:17.040 | And that we know is going to be pleasing to God.
00:32:19.760 | Let's take a moment to pray.
00:32:24.480 | Heavenly Father, we thank you so much.
00:32:27.800 | Lord God, we pray.
00:32:29.400 | We pray for the people around us.
00:32:32.880 | We want people to have hope in Christ, not to place hope in this world.
00:32:38.600 | This world, Lord God, is ready for judgment.
00:32:41.840 | This world, Lord God, you say is getting filled.
00:32:45.480 | It's getting filled to the brim.
00:32:47.880 | And I pray, Father God, that we would then now have even a greater urgency to be lights,
00:32:53.480 | placing our hope and our trust and our confidence in our God.
00:32:57.920 | I do thank you so much, Lord, for your gospel truth that empowers us and shapes our thinking.
00:33:03.640 | I do pray, Lord, that we would be all the more renewed.
00:33:07.600 | And I also pray, God, for our church, that there would be such a sobriety then in realizing
00:33:15.560 | that as we perhaps even are thinking more now about the end times.
00:33:20.720 | It has been long and people have been waiting.
00:33:24.000 | And Lord, we want to say, God, that we eagerly await your return.
00:33:28.320 | We thank you, it's in Christ, and we pray.
00:33:29.880 | Amen.
00:33:30.200 | (fork clinks)