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2020-02-23 To Know Him and Make Him Known, Pt 3


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00:00:00.000 | All right, if you could turn your Bibles with me to Matthew 22 verses 36 through 40.
00:00:11.400 | I think initially when I started this I said I'm going to give me a couple weeks and we're
00:00:14.440 | going to jump into Hebrews chapter 7.
00:00:18.400 | I don't think so, not yet.
00:00:19.400 | Okay?
00:00:20.400 | So you're going to have to give me a couple more weeks.
00:00:22.880 | So actually I started this sermon this morning thinking that I'll be done with this and I
00:00:26.400 | have one more sermon next week but I didn't get through the sermon first service.
00:00:30.800 | Okay?
00:00:31.800 | So I'm going to try to wrap it up next week so we can jump into Hebrews the following
00:00:37.600 | week after that but no guarantee.
00:00:41.720 | All right?
00:00:42.720 | We'll see what happens.
00:00:43.720 | Okay?
00:00:44.720 | But again, I believe that this is so important.
00:00:47.280 | I don't want to rush through any of this.
00:00:48.880 | Matthew 22, 36 to 40.
00:00:51.320 | "Teacher, which is the great commandment in the law?"
00:00:53.640 | And he said to him, "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your
00:00:57.440 | soul and with all your mind."
00:00:59.360 | This is a great and foremost commandment.
00:01:00.680 | The second is like it.
00:01:01.760 | "You shall love your neighbor as yourself and on these two commandments depend the whole
00:01:05.280 | law and the prophets."
00:01:06.760 | Let's pray.
00:01:08.760 | Heavenly Father, what an awesome and gracious and loving God you are.
00:01:16.440 | Help us, Lord God, to have a soft heart that is you are the powder and we are the clay.
00:01:23.920 | We desire to be molded, Lord God, into your image and what you desire us to be.
00:01:29.620 | I pray that the power of the cross would convict us, remind us, refresh us, renew us that we
00:01:37.160 | truly may be new creatures, Lord God.
00:01:41.040 | That we may be people who worship you in spirit and in truth.
00:01:44.080 | May your word goes forth and will not return until it has accomplished the purpose that
00:01:49.960 | you have ordained it.
00:01:50.960 | In Jesus' name we pray, amen.
00:01:54.500 | Have you ever said in any point of your Christian life, "I love Christ, but I don't love the
00:02:02.840 | church."
00:02:05.720 | Or have you ever tried to invite somebody to church and they said to you, "I love the
00:02:10.440 | gospel.
00:02:11.440 | The messages that you're sharing with me, it's an awesome message about the love of
00:02:15.200 | Christ, but I don't believe the church."
00:02:19.920 | Maybe you've thought that at some point and maybe you're trying to share the gospel.
00:02:22.640 | Maybe there's somebody in your life right now who's professing to be a believer of Jesus
00:02:26.740 | Christ, but he says, "I love Christ, but I can't stand the church."
00:02:35.160 | So now, especially with all the technology, there's more options to stay at home and just
00:02:39.640 | kind of video stream live services.
00:02:43.840 | And he said, "I want the message, I want the love of Christ, I want the scriptures, but
00:02:47.960 | I don't want to be around people."
00:02:49.480 | You know, the message that we've been talking about, the two greatest commandments, to love
00:02:55.600 | the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength, and love others as yourself,
00:03:00.160 | are the two central commandments according to Jesus that wraps up every other commandment.
00:03:05.600 | So what he's saying here is not one of many important things that we need to get right.
00:03:11.600 | It is the central thing, and if you don't get this, then he says, "You missed the whole
00:03:17.040 | point of Christianity."
00:03:20.280 | You know, whenever we talk about agape love, it is easy to talk about.
00:03:26.280 | I don't know if ever in my years of preaching that I've ever had a hard time preaching about
00:03:33.480 | agape love.
00:03:34.480 | Agape love, I can preach this until I retire every single Sunday, because the whole Bible,
00:03:41.160 | from Genesis to Revelation, is filled with teachings and examples, after examples, after
00:03:47.600 | examples about agape love.
00:03:49.960 | And whenever agape love is preached, people are encouraged, people are enlightened.
00:03:57.000 | And it's like, thank you for preaching that.
00:03:59.640 | And it's not difficult to preach about agape love, because who wouldn't?
00:04:04.960 | The Son of God who died for us, who are undeserving while we were yet blaspheming, while we were
00:04:11.280 | yet sinners, he loves us.
00:04:12.920 | And even after we convert, even after we swear, as long as we repent, he accepts us.
00:04:18.240 | He made us adopted children.
00:04:20.940 | Who wouldn't want to hear that message?
00:04:23.840 | It is easy to preach, but it is the most difficult thing to practice.
00:04:32.640 | It's something that we admire from a distance.
00:04:35.840 | We want to talk about, we want to memorize scripture about the agape love.
00:04:39.960 | But as soon as we get to the therefore, therefore, considering all that he has done, therefore,
00:04:47.960 | live up to the calling of that gospel.
00:04:51.800 | And even that sounds beautiful, great to memorize.
00:04:56.760 | But as soon as we begin to practice this, we realize how impossible it is to do.
00:05:06.500 | You have memories of specific people in your life who have hurt you deeply.
00:05:12.040 | Some of you have some horrendous experiences in church.
00:05:19.560 | Maybe even by your small believers, maybe even by your pastors.
00:05:24.120 | Some of you have been slandered deliberately, maybe have been targeted and somebody betrayed
00:05:28.920 | you.
00:05:29.920 | And you have, if you've been a Christian or if you've been a human being for any length
00:05:32.680 | of time, maybe even have been physically assaulted.
00:05:39.280 | So when we talk about God loving us unconditionally, it's a beautiful story that we're all attracted
00:05:46.600 | to, but as soon as we get to therefore, therefore, you practice the same.
00:05:56.520 | How do you do that?
00:05:59.720 | How do you do that?
00:06:00.720 | How do you practice this agape love?
00:06:03.760 | There's four things that he mentions here that I want to highlight.
00:06:07.520 | And again, I don't want to skim through it because there's so much to unpack here.
00:06:11.800 | He says that the second commandment is like it.
00:06:16.540 | So that's the first part that we're going to unpack.
00:06:18.980 | What does that mean that the second commandment is like it?
00:06:22.320 | And then, probably next week, he said the target of these people, of this agape love,
00:06:28.720 | is our neighbors.
00:06:29.720 | And we'll unpack that again next week.
00:06:32.560 | And then he says to the degree that we are to love them is to love like we are to love
00:06:36.760 | ourselves.
00:06:39.720 | And then he says, finally, all of this fulfills the law.
00:06:45.620 | All of the law, whole of the law is summarized in these two commandments.
00:06:51.540 | So this morning, I want to first, and then we'll see how far we get, but the first one
00:06:54.780 | that we want to look at, and he says, after we're talking about the high view of loving
00:06:58.500 | God with all our hearts, all mind, and strength, and he says the second to love others is like
00:07:02.940 | it.
00:07:04.280 | What does that mean that it is like it?
00:07:07.180 | Now you don't get this in the English, but in the Greek, it's really important that we
00:07:11.520 | understand the word that he's using here.
00:07:14.180 | Because this word, misapplied, at one point in church history, could have completely divided
00:07:21.220 | the church.
00:07:23.020 | One of the first theological debates that the church debated over, I mean, almost to
00:07:28.780 | death, and I'm not exaggerating, there was a guy named Arius who came out and he said
00:07:33.980 | that Jesus is homoousius.
00:07:37.220 | Homoousius.
00:07:39.220 | Again, I know this means nothing to you now, but give me a second.
00:07:44.940 | And then Athanasius came out and he said, no, he's not homoousius, he is homoousius.
00:07:50.980 | And the difference between the two words is homoousius means that he is similar to God
00:07:56.620 | in substance.
00:07:58.620 | Homoousius means that he is the same in substance.
00:08:03.500 | So Arius was arguing to convince the whole church, and at one point he was very successful,
00:08:08.860 | that Jesus is not the same as God.
00:08:12.620 | That Jesus is similar in substance.
00:08:14.620 | So Jesus is elevated to a God status, but there was a time when Jesus did not exist,
00:08:21.660 | so he is not the same.
00:08:24.260 | The doctrine that you and I profess to believe is that Jesus Christ is homoousius, he is
00:08:29.500 | the same.
00:08:30.500 | He is the third person of the triune God.
00:08:33.660 | So this little iota, this little I made the difference between embracing the true God
00:08:39.620 | and the false God.
00:08:41.740 | And Athanasius at one point in church history, by himself, risking his life, he said this
00:08:48.740 | is not what the scripture teaches.
00:08:50.340 | Again, part of the reason why I believe that the canon was available commonly to many people
00:08:55.020 | at the time is because of this doctrine.
00:08:57.200 | And he was able to argue scripturally that Jesus Christ is homoousius, not homoiousius.
00:09:04.300 | Now even if all of that went over your head, it's a very, very important part of church
00:09:10.060 | history.
00:09:11.940 | But the point that I'm trying to make, that this little iota, this little I, makes a difference
00:09:18.100 | between is he saying it is the same or it is similar?
00:09:23.340 | And let me tell you, the word that he is using here is homoious, not homoous.
00:09:29.620 | That it is like it, that it is not the same.
00:09:34.800 | Now why is that important?
00:09:37.660 | The application of that is that you can love people and not love God because it is not
00:09:46.500 | the same.
00:09:48.940 | You can be committed to social justice and not love God.
00:09:54.300 | You can be a good mother, good father, you can be a good person, a good neighbor, and
00:10:00.060 | not love God.
00:10:02.060 | You've probably met many people who are not believers in Christ who are very generous.
00:10:08.100 | They feed the homeless, they fight for certain social justices.
00:10:12.580 | And all of these things are great.
00:10:13.740 | The Bible tells us that if we say that we love God and we don't love our neighbor, it's
00:10:18.580 | fake.
00:10:19.820 | So it is a quality that God desires.
00:10:21.380 | But loving our neighbors doesn't equal loving God.
00:10:26.420 | But the Bible also says that you cannot love God and not love your neighbor.
00:10:35.740 | You can love your neighbor and not love God, but you cannot love God and not love your
00:10:39.540 | neighbor.
00:10:40.800 | So for somebody to say that I love Christ, the head, but I can't stand the body.
00:10:48.500 | That's no different than if a husband or wife is getting married and the husband says, "You
00:10:51.620 | know what?
00:10:52.620 | I want to marry your head, but the rest of your body, I'm not ready."
00:10:56.860 | I like this part of you, who you are, right here, the head.
00:11:00.500 | I like your lips, I like your nose.
00:11:02.780 | But from here down, I don't want to make a covenant relationship.
00:11:07.880 | So when I put a ring on you at the wedding ceremony, I'm going to put it on your nose,
00:11:10.700 | not your finger.
00:11:12.700 | Ridiculous.
00:11:14.380 | You cannot have a covenant relationship with your wife with just the head.
00:11:19.200 | Because the Bible describes Christ the head and the church is the body of Christ.
00:11:24.100 | So this word is significant because you can love people without loving God, but you cannot
00:11:30.140 | love God without loving people.
00:11:33.820 | In fact, the Bible tells us that the central identifying mark of a Christian is this love.
00:11:43.500 | John chapter 13, 34 to 35, Jesus says, "A new commandment I give to you that you love
00:11:47.940 | one another."
00:11:48.940 | Let me stop right there.
00:11:51.020 | If you read any part of the Old Testament, you already know that this commandment to
00:11:55.160 | love your neighbor is not new.
00:11:58.340 | He mentions it in many places in the Old Testament.
00:12:01.100 | He told the nation of Israel to love your neighbor.
00:12:04.060 | But Jesus says, "This is a new commandment that I give to you that you love one another."
00:12:08.060 | And he qualifies it, "Even as I have loved you."
00:12:13.060 | He wasn't just talking about this generic love to love people because most people that
00:12:18.220 | I know, Christian or non-Christian, practice some level of love with somebody.
00:12:26.860 | Between husband and wife, most parents I know love their children.
00:12:30.980 | Most parents.
00:12:33.260 | Most people that I know have somebody that they love.
00:12:36.700 | He's not talking about the practice of just any kind of love.
00:12:39.860 | He's talking about this agape love, "Even as I have loved you, that you also love one
00:12:44.920 | another."
00:12:45.920 | He says, "By this."
00:12:48.780 | This is the identifying mark of a Christian.
00:12:51.020 | "By this, all men will know you are my disciples if you have love for one another."
00:12:55.900 | Let me take a step back and unpack this.
00:13:00.180 | Because when we typically think of a good Christian, we think of right theology.
00:13:06.600 | We think of church attendance.
00:13:09.020 | Maybe generosity.
00:13:11.020 | Maybe faithfulness to church.
00:13:13.420 | And there's many things that we can look at.
00:13:15.180 | Maybe certain kind of morality.
00:13:16.700 | Maybe you don't do certain things and you do certain things.
00:13:19.140 | And so we look at all these external things and all of these things are qualities that
00:13:22.100 | the Bible says that a Christian should have.
00:13:24.980 | But above all of that, above all of that, Jesus himself said, "But the central identifying
00:13:32.340 | mark of a genuine conversion is agape love."
00:13:38.620 | Again he says in 1 John 3, 14, "We know that we have passed out of death into life because
00:13:44.340 | we love the brethren."
00:13:46.860 | He doesn't say, "We know that we are saved because I confessed the right doctrine."
00:13:51.980 | Even though it is central to our faith.
00:13:54.620 | If you confessed Christ, the wrong Christ, the wrong doctrine of the gospel, you can't
00:14:02.420 | be saved because your faith is defected.
00:14:04.920 | Out of all the things that could be highlighted, he says, "The central thing that causes me
00:14:10.020 | to know that I have passed from death to life is this agape love.
00:14:14.760 | He who does not love abides in death."
00:14:19.020 | So the love that he is referring to is not just this any kind of love because anybody
00:14:23.560 | who practices love, "Oh, I love my kids so I must be a Christian.
00:14:27.280 | And I'm pretty generous to my neighbors so I'm a good Christian.
00:14:30.600 | I support compassion so I give to orphaned kids so I must be a Christian."
00:14:36.960 | Well that's not what he's referring to.
00:14:38.720 | He said very specifically, "As I have loved you."
00:14:45.120 | Loving people that you would not normally love if it wasn't for Christ.
00:14:53.680 | In fact, it's spelled out for us.
00:14:56.360 | Jesus spells it out in Luke chapter 6, 32 to 35.
00:15:00.500 | If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you?
00:15:06.960 | Because this is the love that you and I know.
00:15:12.320 | Even now, think about the friends that you have.
00:15:16.360 | Think about the social group that you belong to.
00:15:18.760 | Why are you in that social group?
00:15:22.840 | You don't need to tell me because I already know.
00:15:26.120 | It's because those people love me back.
00:15:30.080 | Those are easier people for me to love.
00:15:33.820 | If we were non-Christians, and we don't care what you think, because if you're hard to
00:15:40.920 | love, why pour any energy into that?
00:15:44.720 | I don't have anything restraining me from shunning that person, maybe even slandering
00:15:48.960 | them.
00:15:49.960 | In fact, the Bible tells us eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth, to restrain us from taking
00:15:54.180 | vengeance because he understands our natural inclination is if somebody tries to hurt me,
00:16:00.040 | that I don't just turn the other cheek, I take vengeance.
00:16:05.120 | But we're Christians.
00:16:07.600 | We're more savvy than that.
00:16:10.400 | Our church is watching, especially if you're a pastor preaching every Sunday.
00:16:14.560 | You know what I mean?
00:16:16.600 | I got to fake it good.
00:16:19.280 | So we're Christians.
00:16:20.280 | We're a bit more savvy than that.
00:16:22.360 | So what we do is we surround people that make us feel comfortable, and then the people who
00:16:27.760 | don't make us feel comfortable, people that we don't like, people that offend us, we keep
00:16:33.400 | them acquaintances.
00:16:36.660 | So we practice love with lovable people, and then we keep other people as acquaintances
00:16:42.640 | because they bother us.
00:16:44.960 | This agape love that he's talking about is not a natural thing that a common man practices.
00:16:54.040 | If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you?
00:16:56.860 | For even the sinners love those who love them.
00:16:59.680 | Because this is not sacrificial.
00:17:00.680 | This is not agape love.
00:17:02.400 | We love because they will love us.
00:17:05.840 | If you do good to those who do good to you, what credit is that to you?
00:17:10.560 | Now think about what he is saying.
00:17:13.720 | That's what all of us do.
00:17:16.560 | "Oh, you remember my birthday?
00:17:18.880 | Okay, next time your birthday comes around, I'm going to remember you.
00:17:21.680 | Oh, you were kind to me, so next time, okay, I'm going to be kind to you.
00:17:25.240 | Oh, you jerk.
00:17:27.240 | I'm going to be jerk to you next time.
00:17:30.360 | I'm going to hide it so nobody can tell."
00:17:33.680 | But that's normally how we practice love.
00:17:37.040 | He said, "But what credit is that?
00:17:38.560 | For even the sinners do the same.
00:17:39.980 | If you lend to those from whom you expect to receive, what credit is that to you?"
00:17:46.240 | What kind of a foolish business advice is this?
00:17:50.800 | If you only lend to those people who are going to pay you back, I mean, it sounds great on
00:17:58.000 | paper, but who would teach somebody, "That guy has poor credit.
00:18:04.720 | You've given him money before and it took him 15 years to pay you back."
00:18:10.180 | Or maybe some of them didn't even pay you back.
00:18:11.880 | He said, "What money?"
00:18:13.700 | He said, "If you only lend money to people who has a track record of giving you back
00:18:20.400 | and appreciative of what you've done," he said, "What credit is that to you?"
00:18:25.360 | It sounds great on paper, but in practice, it's like, "Are you serious?
00:18:30.280 | Who would lend to somebody that you know is not going to pay you back?
00:18:34.160 | Who does that?
00:18:35.480 | Who teaches that?
00:18:36.480 | And if you did practice that, no one's going to pat you on the back and say, 'Man, your
00:18:40.480 | agape love is awesome.'"
00:18:41.640 | You're going to say, "You're so foolish.
00:18:44.880 | Why would you do that?
00:18:46.960 | You're so naive.
00:18:48.960 | How would you set yourself up for that?"
00:18:51.560 | But he says, beyond that, he says, "Love your enemies."
00:18:54.640 | You know who the enemies are?
00:18:56.980 | If it's difficult to be around people who make you uncomfortable, enemies are people
00:19:03.920 | who are out to hurt you, who've made plans to slander you.
00:19:10.880 | So if we don't like being around people that makes us uncomfortable and we keep them acquaintances
00:19:15.400 | and we love people that we love, but he goes beyond that.
00:19:19.080 | This agape love takes us beyond that.
00:19:20.760 | He says, "No, love those who are deliberately trying to hurt you, and do good and lend,
00:19:27.320 | expecting nothing in return, and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the
00:19:31.120 | most high God, for himself is kind to ungrateful and evil men."
00:19:35.920 | Man, you know as well as I do how difficult it is to be gracious to somebody who is ungrateful.
00:19:44.920 | Have you ever had any friend like that?
00:19:51.600 | My whole youth group was like that.
00:19:53.400 | Yeah, Joe was in my youth group.
00:19:58.040 | What did I say?
00:20:00.440 | Except Joe.
00:20:01.440 | That's why he's an elder at our church right now.
00:20:05.440 | I remember when I was a youth pastor, my full-time pay was like $1,300 a month.
00:20:12.280 | These kids don't have money, so I would take them out to eat, and I would buy them drinks,
00:20:16.200 | and everything that I would, fix their cars.
00:20:19.520 | And then the one time that I couldn't take them out to eat, they're like, "Oh my God,
00:20:25.440 | he doesn't care."
00:20:26.440 | I remember this one particular kid, I won't name his name, because he's not here anyway,
00:20:32.240 | you wouldn't know.
00:20:33.240 | I mean, for years I'd meet up with him, buy him food, lunch, and all this stuff, and he
00:20:38.920 | took me out to eat one time for my birthday.
00:20:41.640 | He talked about that one lunch for the next five years.
00:20:45.800 | Remember when I took you out?
00:20:46.800 | I remember in the back of my mind, it's like, "Remember the three years I invested in your
00:20:50.480 | life?"
00:20:53.740 | How hard is it to love somebody who is ungrateful?
00:20:58.560 | How hard is it to love people who are selfish?
00:21:02.920 | See the reason why the identifying mark of a genuine believer is that this agape love
00:21:10.600 | that affected us is now coming out of us, because this is not something that you and
00:21:16.560 | I can practice in our flesh.
00:21:19.800 | The evidence that you and I have become new creation is that something alien came in,
00:21:25.760 | and now it is obvious, obvious that we are Jesus' disciples because Jesus did the same.
00:21:33.760 | And that's what he says, the primary identifying mark of a genuine Christian is the practice
00:21:39.760 | of this alien love.
00:21:44.120 | That's why he's saying you can love people like everybody else loves people and not love
00:21:50.120 | God, but if you've been loved by God and you love God, you cannot possibly reject his body.
00:22:01.160 | I know how difficult this is, and I know probably some of you are already thinking in your mind
00:22:06.800 | this one particular person or this group of people who have wronged you.
00:22:12.600 | And it's great hearing sermons, it's great talking about it, it's great hearing about
00:22:17.640 | the love of Christ, but when you actually try to practice, are you serious?
00:22:21.760 | Who does that?
00:22:24.160 | See this agape love, it goes against every sense of fairness.
00:22:32.600 | It goes against every sense of fairness and justice because we're not taught that.
00:22:38.000 | You're not taught that if somebody hits you, turn the other cheek.
00:22:41.400 | Who teaches that?
00:22:42.400 | Those of you who have kids, do you teach that?
00:22:44.200 | If a bully comes and bullies you at school, also give him your dinner.
00:22:49.520 | If a bully comes and punches you, take him out to ... Who teaches that to their kids?
00:22:55.200 | You teach them how to box, MMA, put him on an arm bar, make sure that he never does this
00:22:59.600 | again.
00:23:01.100 | It goes against everything that we know of fairness and justice.
00:23:05.960 | And so it humbles us because it is completely alien.
00:23:13.560 | There's nothing that we can measure with and say, "Oh, that's what that means," outside
00:23:18.520 | of Christ.
00:23:21.360 | It goes against our survival instinct.
00:23:24.960 | You know, right now the coronavirus is spreading all over the world, and I heard that Korea
00:23:29.120 | has kind of been locked down.
00:23:30.120 | I was talking to a friend and said, "This mega church, they're sending out emails telling
00:23:35.360 | people not to come to church because they're afraid.
00:23:38.460 | They're afraid that it's going to spread."
00:23:40.860 | Our IMB missionaries, our denomination sent millions of dollars pulling missionaries out
00:23:46.260 | of China and spread them all over Asia to keep them safe for a period.
00:23:51.940 | Whenever we think that something is going to harm us, our natural instinct to survive
00:23:56.100 | is to stay away.
00:23:58.280 | So if you're buying a house and you find out your neighbor is a crack addict or it's a
00:24:03.340 | crack house, immediately you're not going to buy that house, right?
00:24:09.780 | Because our natural instinct is to be safe.
00:24:12.780 | See, people who are ungrateful, people who are our enemies, people who are deliberately
00:24:17.460 | out to get us, these are people who will fight against our natural instinct to be safe.
00:24:27.580 | And yet, the practice of agape love forces us to be in situation where it is unsafe for
00:24:36.100 | us.
00:24:38.020 | So it goes against our natural survival instinct.
00:24:43.120 | Every single one of us.
00:24:44.120 | You know, some of you guys, and I told you that I'm not a big fan of Disneyland.
00:24:47.980 | It doesn't make me happy.
00:24:49.300 | It's just the happiest.
00:24:51.260 | Some of you, it makes you very happy.
00:24:53.100 | It makes me tired.
00:24:55.020 | Even the thought of going to Disneyland, right?
00:24:57.940 | Again, this isn't, nothing innately wrong with Disneyland, but just for me personally
00:25:03.100 | and my wife, I think, we, like the thought of being around all those people walking around,
00:25:11.860 | because I don't get enough joy from riding those rides to put up with all these other
00:25:17.340 | stuff.
00:25:18.340 | And some of you guys do.
00:25:19.860 | The rides are good enough or it makes you happy enough to go.
00:25:23.460 | Our natural instinct is, when you take vacation, you want to go there because it makes you
00:25:27.100 | happy.
00:25:28.100 | If it doesn't make you happy, you're not going to go.
00:25:29.540 | And that's the way we make decisions about everything.
00:25:33.100 | Does it make you happy?
00:25:34.100 | Does it not make you happy?
00:25:35.300 | You choose certain places to vacation.
00:25:38.340 | Because if I go there, it makes me happy.
00:25:40.460 | If I go eat that, it makes me happy.
00:25:42.740 | If I do this, it doesn't make me happy.
00:25:44.820 | And that's how we make decisions.
00:25:47.020 | But this agape love, at the core of it, causes us to be unhappy, to be surrounded by people
00:25:57.820 | that are difficult to love, and to make a deliberate choice to be in that situation
00:26:03.260 | and to reach out and to practice this love that Jesus practiced with us.
00:26:10.120 | That's why this is an alien love, because we don't practice this.
00:26:15.860 | Not only do we not practice this, we don't value this.
00:26:21.820 | If you lend to people who aren't going to lend to you, if you are gracious and spend
00:26:25.020 | a lot of it to people who are not going to be grateful to you, if you put yourself in
00:26:29.180 | a situation where your enemy can attack you and you're vulnerable, you're dumb.
00:26:35.260 | People aren't going to praise you for that.
00:26:38.060 | The only people, when you truly understand this agape love, are the people where the
00:26:41.980 | love of God caused us to open our eyes.
00:26:45.840 | That's why the Bible tells us that the gospel is foolishness to those who are perishing.
00:26:52.100 | It is foolishness.
00:26:53.100 | You know, sometimes that we've been Christians for so long, we don't understand how it sounds
00:26:57.420 | to a non-Christian.
00:26:59.700 | Why wouldn't you?
00:27:00.700 | Jesus loves you so much.
00:27:03.300 | Why wouldn't you believe him?
00:27:05.340 | If you think of it from a non-Christian's perspective, it's like, we were blaspheming
00:27:09.980 | his name, we deserve hell, but he sent his only begotten son and died for me, gave me
00:27:18.620 | eternal life, made me his adopted child, co-heirs with Christ, and then as a result, if you
00:27:25.140 | believe that to practice with other people, that's foolish.
00:27:31.140 | You want me to accept this and change my life and my destiny based upon this message?
00:27:34.940 | He says it's foolishness to those who are perishing, but to those who believe, it is
00:27:40.580 | the power of God.
00:27:43.500 | And that is the central power that changed us.
00:27:48.040 | And that's the central power that exists in genuine believers that causes us to build
00:27:53.220 | this community with people that sometimes naturally would make us feel uncomfortable.
00:27:58.900 | And that's why he says the central mark of a Christian is that.
00:28:04.480 | You know, the best example of this, the change of this agape power, from this agape power,
00:28:12.100 | is the New Testament itself.
00:28:13.860 | Who is known as the apostle of love?
00:28:19.260 | You guys memorizing 1 John?
00:28:21.500 | Who's the apostle of love?
00:28:23.500 | John.
00:28:24.500 | John.
00:28:25.500 | John, right?
00:28:26.500 | I know you knew it.
00:28:31.780 | You guys are just being Asian.
00:28:34.940 | Alright.
00:28:36.740 | John is known as the apostle of love.
00:28:41.820 | Because he wrote 1st, 2nd, 3rd John, he wrote the Gospel of John, and there's more teaching,
00:28:49.260 | more commands about this agape, unconditional love, from apostle John than any other apostle.
00:28:56.320 | But you know what apostle John was known for?
00:29:01.300 | You know what he was known for before he wrote these Gospels?
00:29:05.940 | Luke chapter 9, 51 through 56.
00:29:09.380 | Before I get there, John and James' nickname, John and his brother James' nickname was sons
00:29:15.220 | of what?
00:29:16.580 | Thunder.
00:29:17.700 | Sons of Thunder.
00:29:20.020 | You don't get that nickname for being gentle.
00:29:22.500 | You know what I mean?
00:29:25.580 | Sons of Thunder.
00:29:26.580 | Thunder is not when you think of peaceful, quiet vacations, like thunder.
00:29:32.180 | Sons of Thunder automatically means these guys probably hot tempered.
00:29:37.340 | And these guys are built for thunder.
00:29:41.820 | That's what that means, right?
00:29:43.500 | And we see an example in Luke chapter 9, 51 through 56.
00:29:46.700 | When the days were approaching for his ascension, he was determined to go to Jerusalem, and
00:29:52.180 | he sent messengers ahead of him.
00:29:53.940 | So Jesus is preparing to go to Jerusalem, to go to the cross, and then he sent his disciples
00:29:58.580 | to go ahead and prepare that he was going to go through Samaria, and then he was going
00:30:03.060 | to get to Jerusalem.
00:30:04.980 | When they went and entered a village of the Samaritans to make arrangements, and the Jews
00:30:09.420 | naturally did not get along.
00:30:11.060 | They have a long history, hundreds of years of animosity toward one another.
00:30:15.580 | Because the Jews considered the Samaritans to be compromised.
00:30:19.580 | So some of the Jews, when the Babylonians and Assyrians took them into captivity, some
00:30:24.100 | of the Jews stayed and they intermarried with the Assyrians.
00:30:28.040 | So they were considered unclean.
00:30:30.800 | So even though they wanted to be seen as Jews, the Jews saw them as Gentiles.
00:30:36.160 | So they were natural enemies.
00:30:37.240 | So when somebody is coming from Galilee, let's say Galilee and Jerusalem is kind of like
00:30:41.680 | NorCal and SoCal, right?
00:30:43.860 | And in order to get to SoCal, you need to go through Bakersfield.
00:30:49.620 | So Bakersfield, Samaria, as an example.
00:30:53.680 | So typically, because they didn't want to go through Bakersfield, they would go all
00:30:57.620 | the way around.
00:31:00.260 | They would go all the way around, and it may take an extra half a day or a day's journey,
00:31:04.460 | but that's how much they hated each other.
00:31:08.020 | Jesus decides to go through Bakersfield.
00:31:10.620 | They go through Samaria.
00:31:11.620 | And in Samaria, he said, "These guys are going to Jerusalem.
00:31:14.180 | We're not going to help these guys."
00:31:16.700 | And so it triggers James and John in verse 54.
00:31:21.340 | When his disciples James and John saw this, they said, "Lord, do you want us to command
00:31:25.140 | fire to come down from heaven and consume them?"
00:31:27.180 | Let me stop right there.
00:31:32.660 | Sometimes we read the Bible like we're reading some kind of fairy tale.
00:31:37.180 | And so we read it and say, "Jack and the Beanstalk went and it grew and went to heaven."
00:31:42.060 | And we read that like we're reading a fairy tale, not realizing sometimes this is real.
00:31:49.460 | This is an actual event that happened.
00:31:51.260 | So think about it for a second.
00:31:53.340 | Sometimes you could just read that as, "Oh, they wanted to kill everybody."
00:31:56.020 | And then they moved on.
00:31:57.020 | Look at the way he says that.
00:32:00.420 | "Oh, they don't want to help us.
00:32:03.260 | Lord, you want me to kill all of them right now?"
00:32:06.380 | That's basically what he is saying.
00:32:09.540 | The way he says it, it sounds like he did it before.
00:32:13.180 | You know what I'm saying?
00:32:14.940 | Look at it.
00:32:16.460 | He says it so casually.
00:32:17.460 | "Oh, they're not going to help us.
00:32:20.820 | Should I kill all of them right now?"
00:32:25.940 | Does he have the power to bring fire from heaven?
00:32:28.700 | I don't know.
00:32:30.720 | Maybe that's why they call them sons of thunder, maybe because they did it before.
00:32:33.580 | I don't know.
00:32:35.980 | But he's like, "Okay, this is our Messiah.
00:32:39.900 | How dare they not honor him?
00:32:43.020 | Who do they think they are?
00:32:45.820 | Kill them."
00:32:46.820 | Look what Jesus says.
00:32:49.500 | But he turned and rebuked them and he said, "You do not know what kind of spirit you are
00:32:53.020 | of."
00:32:54.020 | What does he mean by that?
00:32:57.740 | You don't really know me.
00:33:00.460 | That's what he was saying.
00:33:02.320 | You don't really know me.
00:33:03.940 | For the Son of Man did not come to destroy man's lives, but to save them.
00:33:09.420 | And then it just says, "And then they went on their way.
00:33:11.660 | And then they just walked to Jerusalem."
00:33:16.940 | That's the apostle of love.
00:33:20.180 | That's the apostle of love.
00:33:22.300 | Even after that, as they were coming, Jesus was saying, "I'm going to go be crucified and
00:33:25.300 | be raised up on the third day."
00:33:26.620 | And James and John could not get this out of their head.
00:33:29.380 | "Well, who's going to sit on your left and who's going to sit on the right?"
00:33:32.860 | In fact, they sent their mom.
00:33:34.900 | Their mommy went to talk to the Messiah.
00:33:37.260 | "Would you, in your glorified, let my son sit on the left and to the right?"
00:33:44.660 | So James and John, their mindset was like anybody else.
00:33:48.100 | "We sacrifice to follow you.
00:33:50.020 | What do we get out of this?
00:33:52.980 | We're following the Messiah.
00:33:54.140 | How dare they dishonor us?
00:33:56.260 | Kill them all."
00:33:58.620 | How did that guy become the apostle of love?
00:34:03.260 | Well, he himself says it in 1 John 4, 7.
00:34:07.780 | "Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God.
00:34:12.580 | And everyone who loves is born of God and knows God.
00:34:17.020 | The one who does not love does not know God, for God is love."
00:34:22.860 | Do you think that as Apostle John was writing this, that he was thinking about that incident?
00:34:28.580 | "Let us love, for love is from God."
00:34:36.020 | It wasn't from him.
00:34:38.580 | It wasn't something that he conjured up.
00:34:39.900 | It wasn't because he was discipled, he was sanctified, and somehow he became this love.
00:34:44.500 | He said, "No, love was given to me.
00:34:47.660 | I didn't have this.
00:34:50.060 | Everyone who loves is born of God and knows God, because that's the evidence that he is
00:34:54.980 | with God, because this love wasn't taught by your mom.
00:34:59.180 | It wasn't taught by your dad.
00:35:01.340 | It wasn't taught because you went to a good school.
00:35:03.880 | It wasn't taught because you had a good discipler.
00:35:07.160 | This can only be taught by God, because only God himself practices love."
00:35:14.100 | And he said, "That's the true evidence.
00:35:18.060 | Who does not love does not know God, for God is love."
00:35:23.660 | Do you think when he was writing this that he remembered what Jesus said?
00:35:27.300 | "You don't know me.
00:35:31.260 | That's not what I came to do."
00:35:34.180 | First John 4, 19, "We love because he first loved us."
00:35:41.560 | This is not one of many things that the church needs to get right.
00:35:46.860 | We need discipleship, we need evangelism, missions, right theology.
00:35:54.300 | All of these things are crucial to the church, but at the center of all of that is agape
00:36:01.460 | love.
00:36:03.460 | Even Apostle Paul.
00:36:06.060 | You know who Apostle Paul was?
00:36:08.060 | He was the one responsible for the first martyr of the church, but that wasn't enough.
00:36:14.420 | He instigated his friends to go after all the Christians.
00:36:20.900 | He couldn't stand the fact that their Messiah and the kingdom of God that only belonged
00:36:26.860 | to the Jews was beginning to open to the Gentiles.
00:36:31.140 | And by his own description, when he talked about righteousness before he met Christ,
00:36:35.300 | he said, "As for Zeal," what does he say?
00:36:37.500 | "Persecutor of the church."
00:36:40.740 | He hated the Gentiles.
00:36:43.620 | And he was willing to even go to jail and even be martyred for this cause because it
00:36:49.820 | was against Roman law for him to kill people without a trial.
00:36:55.380 | And he was willing to do that.
00:36:56.740 | That's how zealous he was.
00:36:58.260 | That's how much he hated the Gentiles.
00:37:01.900 | And yet, Apostle Paul was called to be the apostle of who?
00:37:06.580 | The Gentiles.
00:37:07.580 | Why?
00:37:08.580 | Well, Paul says it himself.
00:37:13.660 | Because he wasn't trying to magnify Paul's education.
00:37:15.820 | He wasn't trying to magnify Paul's Roman citizenship or his great learning.
00:37:21.020 | He said, "No, he was chosen because he was the worst of sinners."
00:37:26.020 | To magnify who?
00:37:28.500 | God's agape love.
00:37:31.580 | See, when we truly understand the love of God, it automatically humbles us because that's
00:37:40.980 | the nature of agape love.
00:37:43.900 | A proud Christian is a man who does not know God because it is a contradictory of term.
00:37:51.140 | If your education causes you to be proud, your education has led you away from Christ.
00:37:57.940 | If your fruitfulness has caused you to be proud, those fruits are ultimately not from
00:38:03.860 | God because at the core of who we worship is this agape love that is alien, that we
00:38:11.540 | don't understand and yet we believe.
00:38:14.780 | And it is that alien love that affects us, that causes us to be different.
00:38:21.340 | Again, as I said, this is not one of many important things in the church.
00:38:28.700 | It is the foundation of the church itself.
00:38:32.620 | And that's why the scripture says, "Of love, faith, and hope."
00:38:36.740 | We're saved by faith.
00:38:38.380 | Hope is the reason why we persevere.
00:38:40.100 | But of these things, the greatest is love.
00:38:45.300 | The greatest is love.
00:38:47.900 | Sometimes in the church, we can get busy discipling, wanting to be holy, getting the doctrines
00:38:53.660 | right, sharing the gospel, and there's so many things that can wrap our time and keep
00:38:57.980 | us busy.
00:38:58.980 | And all of these things are very, very, very important because obedience to God is important.
00:39:06.860 | But the Bible also says you can do all of that and have not love and it means nothing.
00:39:17.160 | You can speak tongues of men and of angels.
00:39:20.100 | You can have had a holy spiritual encounter with God that causes you to speak tongues
00:39:24.900 | of men and of angels and have not love, it's nothing.
00:39:28.940 | You can have everything that you own and you sell and you give it to the poor.
00:39:33.540 | If you do not practice agape love, it means nothing.
00:39:38.420 | You can even give your body to be burned as a martyr for the purpose of the gospel and
00:39:43.860 | have not love.
00:39:46.700 | Even then, that's so hard to understand.
00:39:50.640 | Why would somebody be willing to give their life and then at the end of it, God says it
00:39:57.400 | was nothing.
00:40:00.480 | Think about the terrorists who are willing to give their life for what we believe to
00:40:05.680 | be a lie.
00:40:07.760 | There's people who are complete atheists who set themselves on fire in protest of government
00:40:12.820 | because they want something and they want to go out in glory.
00:40:17.880 | Paul is saying this to the Corinthians church in 1 Corinthians 13 because he was talking
00:40:21.720 | to a group of people who were competing with each other for righteousness.
00:40:26.880 | Who's more holy?
00:40:29.040 | Who's got the doctrines right?
00:40:30.800 | Who's on the right side?
00:40:32.760 | Is it Paul?
00:40:33.760 | Is it Apollos?
00:40:35.240 | Who's saying the right things?
00:40:36.640 | Who should we align ourselves to?
00:40:38.520 | So Apostle Paul is telling this church who's divided because they're not practicing this
00:40:43.060 | love and he said you can have all of that.
00:40:45.300 | You can be under the right person.
00:40:46.700 | You can be at the right church.
00:40:48.060 | You can say the right things, do the right things.
00:40:50.060 | And he says yet if you do not have this love, you missed the whole point of our salvation.
00:40:58.940 | Because the central mark of a church is not the number, is not the quality of the preaching,
00:41:07.180 | is not how well we duplicate ourselves, how well it's organized, is not the doctrinal
00:41:13.220 | statement that we sign.
00:41:15.340 | Again, all of these things are things that God calls us to do.
00:41:19.680 | But the central mark of a Christian is this agape love, this alien love.
00:41:27.380 | That's why he says a new commandment I give to you, that you love one another as I have
00:41:31.280 | loved you.
00:41:32.660 | And if you do this, then the world will know that you are my disciples.
00:41:41.740 | I pray as a church, I really feel like we're kind of at a point in our church where I told
00:41:50.380 | our leaders and I think the India team that we went to, I feel like we're kind of in stage
00:41:55.220 | four, round four.
00:41:57.580 | At least that's kind of how I feel.
00:42:00.620 | It's ideological, like oh, we're going to change the world for Jesus Christ.
00:42:05.180 | I've been a ministry long enough to know that's not in my power.
00:42:09.860 | And then round two is you get beat up.
00:42:12.460 | Oh shoot, I might lose.
00:42:16.500 | That's round two.
00:42:18.500 | Round three is kind of like, okay, let's do it, let's get second wind.
00:42:24.060 | And we're going to go back into this fight and we're going to do this.
00:42:27.820 | And you realize just like round one, you get punched in the face and it's like wow, this
00:42:32.380 | is hard.
00:42:33.380 | And so round four, it feels like to me that it's more of a commitment to finish the race.
00:42:41.580 | I started this, so we're going to finish this.
00:42:46.100 | Because it's worth the fight.
00:42:48.900 | But at the center of this fight is not world evangelization.
00:42:57.620 | Is not get everybody to study the Bible and memorize Genesis to Revelation.
00:43:03.500 | Disciple, raise up leaders, plant churches.
00:43:06.700 | All of these things are important.
00:43:07.780 | All of these things that we want to do, we plan to do.
00:43:11.900 | Social justice is important, is very important.
00:43:15.140 | I'm going to be talking about that next week.
00:43:18.740 | But above all of that, if we have a church that is cold toward Christ, and that is being
00:43:27.700 | manifested in the coldness in the way that we practice love with one another, then we
00:43:33.860 | miss the whole point of why we're here.
00:43:38.100 | So my prayer and my encouragement as we go to the next stage of our church, to think
00:43:47.220 | practically.
00:43:49.980 | So again, this is easy to preach.
00:43:52.740 | It's easy to preach.
00:43:53.740 | There's so much material in the Bible.
00:43:56.860 | But think about that person that you've been stiff-arming.
00:44:00.980 | Think about that group of people that made you feel uncomfortable and that you've been
00:44:03.780 | kind of keeping at a distance.
00:44:06.740 | Think about the acquaintances in your life because these people make you feel uncomfortable.
00:44:12.740 | Because that's where the application needs to be.
00:44:16.140 | It might be with your wife.
00:44:18.900 | It might be with your husband.
00:44:20.460 | It might be with your kids.
00:44:23.380 | It might be with your neighbor, your co-worker, your mom, your dad, your brother, your sister.
00:44:29.660 | It might be with the person sitting next to you.
00:44:34.460 | That that's where the rubber meets the road.
00:44:38.500 | To love Christ and then to love others.
00:44:43.780 | That Christ may be glorified.
00:44:45.940 | Let's pray.
00:44:52.900 | Heavenly Father, we know we are weak.
00:44:58.340 | We are inspired by your love.
00:45:01.620 | We are changed by the glory of the gospel of Jesus Christ.
00:45:08.020 | Yet our flesh struggles to bear fruit in this way.
00:45:14.220 | Help us, Lord God, to magnify you that the world may truly know that Christ is our Lord.
00:45:22.060 | Help us as a church, Lord God, above everything else that we would be known to be people who
00:45:25.580 | love one another with the love that Christ has given us.
00:45:30.860 | May Christ in his name alone be magnified.
00:45:33.740 | In Jesus' name we pray.