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Wed Bible Study Philippians Lesson 7


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00:00:00.000 | Alright everybody, hope you guys had a good time of discussion and looking over the passage.
00:00:09.680 | We'll draw our attention up here and then we'll start with our Bible study.
00:00:14.080 | Let's, what I'd like to do is just read the passage, we'll take a moment to pray
00:00:19.920 | and then jump into the study.
00:00:22.360 | Philippians 2, 19 through 30, and the passage says, "But I hope in the Lord Jesus to send
00:00:29.360 | Timothy to you shortly, so that I also may be encouraged when I learn of your condition.
00:00:34.880 | For I have no one else of kindred spirit who will genuinely be concerned for your welfare.
00:00:39.520 | For they all seek after their own interests, not those of Christ Jesus.
00:00:44.160 | But you know of his proven worth, that he served with me in the furtherance of the gospel
00:00:49.360 | like a child serving his father.
00:00:51.680 | Therefore I hope to send him immediately, as soon as I see how things go with me.
00:00:57.040 | And I trust in the Lord that I myself also will be coming shortly, that I thought it
00:01:01.360 | necessary to send to you a prophet Dytus, my brother and fellow worker and fellow soldier,
00:01:06.920 | who is also your messenger and minister to my knee.
00:01:10.360 | Because he was longing for you all and was distressed because you had heard that he was
00:01:14.520 | sick.
00:01:15.600 | For indeed he was sick to the point of death, but God had mercy on him, and not on him only
00:01:21.080 | but also on me, so that I would not have sorrow upon sorrow.
00:01:25.520 | Therefore I have sent him all the more eagerly, so that when you see him again you may rejoice,
00:01:30.960 | and I may be less concerned about you.
00:01:33.960 | Receive him in the Lord with all joy, and hold men like him in high regard, because
00:01:39.240 | he came close to death for the work of Christ, risking his life to complete what was deficient
00:01:45.280 | in your service to me.
00:01:47.000 | Let's take a moment to pray.
00:01:50.200 | Lord, we want to again thank you for the word, and God as we look at these model servants
00:01:57.000 | and people of the past, Father we want to all the more see the effect of Christ in their
00:02:03.400 | lives.
00:02:04.520 | We want to see their faith in the Lord.
00:02:07.080 | We want to see the outworking God of the transformation in their lives, so that God we would continue
00:02:12.480 | to learn to grow in our affections, in our resemblance of Christ, in our desire to further
00:02:18.320 | the gospel ministry, and so to this end God I do pray that you would help your word continue
00:02:24.240 | to challenge our lives.
00:02:25.720 | We thank you it's in Christ and we pray.
00:02:28.480 | Amen.
00:02:29.480 | Okay, so by way of introduction, you know I typically like to ask the question, how
00:02:36.600 | do we get here to this paragraph?
00:02:38.920 | What is the flow of thought is what I always ask, and what I like to highlight is this.
00:02:46.240 | When we think about this current section where Apostle Paul highlights two individuals in
00:02:51.920 | his life who are essentially model servants, we ask the question how did his thought get
00:02:57.160 | there?
00:02:58.160 | Well remember that in chapter one, Apostle Paul in just kind of almost incredible fashion
00:03:05.440 | expressed his heart, expressed his desire, and what I like to say is he expressed his
00:03:10.240 | hope in Jesus.
00:03:12.000 | And remember what he said is, "To my earnest expectation and hope that I will not be put
00:03:16.360 | to shame in anything, but that with all boldness Christ will even now as always be exalted
00:03:21.560 | in my body, whether by life or by death, for to me to live is Christ and to die is gain."
00:03:29.400 | And what was pretty amazing was that this hope, this hope of being a shining light,
00:03:37.360 | a hope of being an exaltation of Christ was something that helped him interpret or make
00:03:42.560 | sense of everything.
00:03:44.160 | Make sense of the suffering, make sense of his current condition in life, make sense
00:03:48.960 | of why he could have joy within the circumstance.
00:03:53.000 | And so he spent a lot of time in chapter one talking about this incredible hope that carries
00:03:58.960 | through to the rest of the passages.
00:04:01.840 | And then in chapter two, he commanded and encouraged that we should have this attitude,
00:04:08.400 | right?
00:04:09.400 | Remember that if there is any encouragement and if there's any of this, he says, "Make
00:04:13.680 | my joy complete by being of the same mind, maintaining the same love, united in spirit,
00:04:19.200 | intent on one purpose.
00:04:21.040 | Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind regard one another
00:04:25.460 | as more important than yourselves.
00:04:27.760 | Do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of
00:04:32.320 | others.
00:04:33.560 | Have this attitude in yourselves, which was also in Christ Jesus."
00:04:39.060 | So he describes that this attitude of humility, this attitude of self-sacrifice, selflessness,
00:04:45.520 | this attitude that is found in Jesus where he did not regard his deity to be grasped
00:04:51.080 | and held onto, but he emptied himself.
00:04:53.080 | He says, "You have that."
00:04:55.600 | And then in the last passage that we studied two weeks ago, he said for us to join in this
00:05:03.720 | work.
00:05:05.600 | What he says was, "But even if I'm being poured out as a drink offering upon the sacrifice
00:05:09.640 | and service of your faith, I rejoice and share my joy with all of you.
00:05:15.240 | You too, I urge you, rejoice in the same way and share your joy with me."
00:05:20.400 | And if you think about it, when Apostle Paul ended the last paragraph by saying, "Share
00:05:26.200 | this joy with me," right?
00:05:29.120 | He wasn't just saying like, "Be happy, man," right?
00:05:31.920 | That's not what he was saying.
00:05:33.640 | He's actually all that he was saying from chapter one till now, he wants them to experience
00:05:38.720 | the full gamut, which means then, yes, joining in the hope that is in Christ, joining in
00:05:45.160 | the attitude that is with Christ, but also then the work of Christ that involves suffering,
00:05:51.160 | self-sacrifice, a desire to minister to the people around and considering their, right,
00:05:56.360 | their interest in welfare far above and beyond your own.
00:06:00.920 | And so it totally makes sense that as his mind is there saying, "Join me, share this
00:06:05.800 | joy," he presents to you two case examples of two individuals who are walking with him
00:06:12.000 | sharing this joy, right, which is Timothy and Epaphroditus who have this hope in Christ,
00:06:18.760 | who clearly has this attitude of the Lord and is engaged in the work of our Savior.
00:06:24.500 | And so I wanted to give you that introduction just to show you that this isn't just this
00:06:28.940 | random move into, "Hey, these two guys happen to be working, can you guys make sure to receive
00:06:33.440 | them?"
00:06:34.880 | His flow of thought actually is seen in all of this, where he began with this idea that
00:06:41.120 | the exaltation of Christ should be at the forefront of his mind.
00:06:45.560 | Now as I think about that, as we think about this, and we just read the passage, I want
00:06:50.080 | to introduce this idea, right, that Apostle Paul, he is clearly thinking about the well-being
00:06:56.320 | of the church.
00:06:58.120 | So although he's presenting two case model servants who are exemplifying hope in Christ,
00:07:04.360 | attitude of Christ, work of Christ, he himself also is still showing forth his care and love
00:07:10.920 | for the flock, right?
00:07:12.920 | And as we do that, one of the questions I asked you to prepare for this, tonight's study,
00:07:17.840 | was this idea of as Apostle Paul is seeking to send these servants and we see his attitude
00:07:23.880 | towards the church, what kind of principles or what is being said then about his attitude
00:07:29.360 | and mentality towards the church?
00:07:31.900 | And so clearly, we're going to kind of unpack this idea of all three men, Paul, Timothy,
00:07:38.000 | and Epaphroditus.
00:07:39.000 | They show this genuine concern and they show that concern with an incredible level of self-sacrifice.
00:07:47.680 | And so when we think about individuals who should be at the forefront of caring for ministry,
00:07:53.840 | leading the flock, it should be those who are willing, absolutely willing to sacrifice
00:08:00.400 | and lay down whatever it is they have for the sake of the interest of the church.
00:08:05.400 | All right, jumping into this first section, okay?
00:08:11.080 | So this passage nicely divides into first section about Timothy and then the second
00:08:15.560 | section about Epaphroditus.
00:08:18.160 | Let's take a look at this first section.
00:08:20.880 | Starting from verse 19 through 22, let's take a moment to reread the passage and he says,
00:08:26.920 | but I hope in the Lord Jesus to send Timothy to you shortly so that I also may be encouraged
00:08:32.960 | when I learn of your condition.
00:08:34.820 | So we regularly get this idea that Apostle Paul was constantly checking up on how the
00:08:39.320 | churches are doing.
00:08:40.320 | I want to hear this, I want to hear your faith, I want to hear your works, right?
00:08:43.600 | And that's a sign of genuine care.
00:08:46.560 | Verse 20, for I have no one else of kindred spirit who will genuinely be concerned for
00:08:50.920 | your welfare, for they all seek after their own interests but not those of Christ Jesus.
00:08:56.680 | But you know of his proven worth that he served me in the furtherance of the gospel like a
00:09:00.560 | child serving his father.
00:09:02.360 | Therefore, I hope to send him immediately as soon as I see how things go with me.
00:09:08.440 | And I trust in the Lord that I myself also will be coming shortly.
00:09:13.600 | Okay, as we take a look at that passage, we see a lot of Apostle Paul giving, you know,
00:09:22.040 | highlighting the noble character and commendations of Timothy's character.
00:09:27.400 | And so I ask what are some of these character traits that Apostle Paul highlights?
00:09:31.240 | What are some of these character traits?
00:09:33.160 | Well I highlighted those things in green for you guys, the things that I saw.
00:09:37.160 | You can highlight this idea of like he's got this kindred spirit that's really basically
00:09:41.120 | like-minded with Apostle Paul, genuine concern, proven worth, and he served the furtherance
00:09:48.440 | of the gospel like a child serving the father.
00:09:51.020 | Let's take a moment to talk about each one of those things in a little bit more further
00:09:54.720 | detail.
00:09:55.720 | First, when we think about a kindred spirit, okay, the way I outlined it is what he does
00:10:02.080 | is he gives one main character trait and he gives a little further explanation of it.
00:10:08.640 | He begins by saying he has this kindred spirit.
00:10:11.960 | And the whole idea there is that there is this like-mindedness, right, that as Apostle
00:10:18.780 | Paul has this like, you know, singular drive to exalt Christ, as Apostle Paul is interpreting
00:10:25.760 | all that's happening in his life, including the suffering, and he's finding joy in it,
00:10:30.560 | right, he's saying Timothy has this same worldview.
00:10:34.400 | Now let me ask you this interesting question.
00:10:37.040 | How difficult do you think it is to find somebody who's going to have the exact same worldview
00:10:41.720 | as Apostle Paul?
00:10:43.320 | Where you're experiencing persecution, the confiscation of your rights, currently he's
00:10:47.760 | being held unfairly, they don't have a legitimate accusation, but he's held in Roman prison
00:10:53.640 | for a long time.
00:10:54.960 | They kind of don't know what to do with him, right?
00:10:57.760 | Within all of that, his perspective is joy.
00:11:00.600 | His perspective is look at these opportunities to share.
00:11:03.660 | His perspective is I am counted worthy to share and exalt the glories of Christ.
00:11:08.600 | Join me, right?
00:11:10.040 | I mean, how difficult is it to get somebody to be on that exact same page?
00:11:16.160 | What Apostle Paul is saying is, dude, Timothy is not missing a beat here, he's right there
00:11:21.600 | with me.
00:11:22.720 | He's got this kindred spirit, right, where he's not focused on himself, where he's not
00:11:27.440 | focused in on woe is me, shouldn't God help me get out of this, why do we have to X, Y,
00:11:33.280 | and Z, but actually he's thinking about and being concerned for the well-being of the
00:11:37.400 | flock, right?
00:11:39.160 | So in that, he says that Timothy is of kindred spirit having this genuine concern for the
00:11:48.160 | welfare of the church.
00:11:51.440 | And so this is kind of like an interesting question we should stop at and put a stake
00:11:55.600 | in.
00:11:56.600 | And for your discussion later, there will be this question.
00:11:59.720 | When you think genuine concern as opposed to superficial kind of light concern, what
00:12:07.080 | are the definitive markers?
00:12:09.640 | Meaning what's the difference between just having a care for somebody, just like let's
00:12:12.760 | say, you know, it's like, oh, I care about everybody here at church versus something
00:12:16.160 | that's really genuine.
00:12:17.840 | What are the characteristics of a concern that goes above and beyond, right?
00:12:21.420 | Those are some things that we should talk about.
00:12:23.920 | But we want to highlight and look at the passage and see that Apostle Paul contrasts this genuine
00:12:29.960 | concern with verse 21, "For they all seek their own interests and not for Christ Jesus."
00:12:38.040 | You know, when I was making observation of this passage and I was trying to connect this
00:12:44.280 | whole idea, I just realized like, you know, Apostle Paul, again, his thoughts in the letter
00:12:48.800 | is all connected.
00:12:50.080 | Earlier, he said, "You need to have this humility.
00:12:54.040 | Don't be looking out for your own interests, but look out for the interests of others."
00:12:59.220 | And then I started asking myself, "Hmm, what are some moments in specific cases where I
00:13:04.400 | was trying to care for somebody, but my own self-interest got in the way?"
00:13:09.480 | Right?
00:13:10.480 | And we should think about that.
00:13:11.480 | What are some moments and times when you are trying to care for somebody or you're already
00:13:15.760 | in a position where you're expected to care for somebody, but then your own care for yourself
00:13:21.560 | started to get in the way?
00:13:22.560 | And I started thinking about some examples, right?
00:13:25.400 | So there are times when you are trying to help somebody, maybe you're trying to advise
00:13:30.440 | someone in their life decisions, and in those moments when they're not listening, you get
00:13:34.480 | all frustrated.
00:13:35.480 | You're like, "Oh, aren't you listening to me?"
00:13:37.520 | Right?
00:13:38.520 | Do these apostles, have they ever experienced that?
00:13:41.760 | Of course.
00:13:42.760 | Almost every city they get into, there's this frustration.
00:13:45.140 | People don't listen.
00:13:46.320 | People aren't paying attention.
00:13:48.240 | There could be a moment when you just go, "You know who I am?
00:13:51.680 | Aren't you listening?"
00:13:53.720 | Right?
00:13:54.720 | Or have you guys ever experienced a moment when somebody's maybe asking you advice, they
00:13:58.920 | don't listen, but then they go ask somebody else because they think somebody else might
00:14:02.080 | have better advice, and you're sitting there thinking, "What?
00:14:06.240 | Why did you ask me if you're going to go ask somebody else?"
00:14:09.120 | Have there been moments when you got super offended because somebody maybe you've been
00:14:13.560 | caring for, maybe it's a younger sister, maybe it's a younger brother, maybe it's your little
00:14:18.360 | family or whatever it may be.
00:14:20.000 | Your family, so you should know, but they don't tell you, and you're all offended.
00:14:23.600 | "You didn't tell me?"
00:14:25.600 | You know, there was this moment actually when somebody came to me and started apologizing,
00:14:29.760 | "I'm so sorry."
00:14:30.760 | And I was like, "Why?"
00:14:31.760 | It's like, "I started dating and I didn't tell you."
00:14:35.120 | And I just took this moment, and I don't know why something came over me, and I just started
00:14:38.800 | kind of messing with them.
00:14:39.800 | It's like, "You didn't tell me?"
00:14:42.680 | It's okay, you don't have to tell me.
00:14:45.200 | But there are those moments when if, let's say you're close to somebody, but they don't
00:14:49.120 | share with you, all of a sudden you're like, "Who am I to you?
00:14:52.360 | You told everybody else but not me."
00:14:55.440 | What I'm talking about is these case moments when your own thought of yourself reacts.
00:15:04.120 | Your own consideration of your value within that whole scenario of caring for somebody,
00:15:08.480 | it reacts.
00:15:09.480 | "Why don't you tell me?
00:15:10.480 | Why aren't you listening?
00:15:11.480 | What about me?"
00:15:13.060 | Remember the moment you say, "What about me?"
00:15:14.600 | All of a sudden, that distinction of genuine care begins to get muddied.
00:15:20.840 | And then I started thinking, "Well, I don't know that I necessarily struggle in that way.
00:15:27.440 | I don't have an issue.
00:15:28.840 | I don't have an issue.
00:15:29.840 | If you want to date, you can come to me for advice because I love giving advice.
00:15:34.560 | But it's not like you have to cross-check everything with me."
00:15:37.760 | But then I started asking, "What in me, as a self-interest, prevents me from genuinely
00:15:43.800 | caring for somebody?"
00:15:45.440 | And one of the moments that I had, I just had to confess, was typically for me, is I
00:15:51.560 | shy away from sharing or saying what I need to because I worry whether you'll like me
00:15:57.440 | still.
00:15:59.800 | Like if I'm honest, and this is just me being honest with you, perhaps some of the other
00:16:04.520 | stuff of like, "I need to know.
00:16:06.000 | You need to listen to me.
00:16:07.000 | How come I'm the one always buying coffee?"
00:16:09.680 | Those are the things that I just really don't care about, right?
00:16:12.960 | But what I really care about is, if I say this, then what if you stop coming to me,
00:16:19.400 | right?
00:16:20.400 | What if you react in a way where you're defensive?
00:16:23.800 | What I wrestle with is my consideration of myself and the future, am I going to say what
00:16:29.200 | you need versus what you like?
00:16:32.000 | Honestly, that's a hard thing.
00:16:34.200 | And I got to say, sometimes that kind of struggle, it doesn't even hit me until later, right?
00:16:39.720 | It's like, "Oh, I should have said."
00:16:42.040 | I should have said.
00:16:44.280 | And then I got to go to the Lord and say, "Hmm, you know, Lord, the biggest hurdle wasn't
00:16:48.960 | even their defensiveness because they weren't even defensive to me.
00:16:53.360 | I just assumed.
00:16:54.360 | And in my fear and assumption, I didn't say what I needed to say."
00:16:59.760 | So this is important.
00:17:01.480 | You know why?
00:17:02.480 | It's because we take notice of the fact that in verse 21, when he says, "They all seek
00:17:08.680 | after their own interest," it's not just about the interest of the two parties involved.
00:17:16.520 | It's about the interest of those two parties in the context of Christ, what Christ is wanting
00:17:21.600 | for their lives, what Christ is wanting for their sanctification.
00:17:25.000 | And so that portion of it was incredibly convicting for me because Timothy, he's saying, is an
00:17:30.720 | individual who is genuinely concerned about your welfare, but clearly implied in that
00:17:36.500 | in contrast to the other individuals, Timothy is dedicated to the interest of Christ, right?
00:17:43.440 | Timothy is a young man, but we know from the other passages that Apostle Paul challenges
00:17:47.240 | him, "Don't let these other people diminish who you are because you're young, but rather
00:17:52.560 | speak boldly, preach the word, in season, out of season, give the truth."
00:17:57.240 | Why?
00:17:59.560 | Because he's supposed to be a servant of Christ, that he needs to do the work of the evangelist.
00:18:04.960 | And Apostle Paul is saying, he has this genuine interest.
00:18:08.880 | Wow, what a great commendation of a young servant.
00:18:12.840 | What's more, he talks about how Timothy has a proven worth, and he says, "You know this,
00:18:19.040 | you've seen it," right?
00:18:20.520 | "That he served me in the furtherance of the gospel like a child."
00:18:24.640 | Let's talk about that a little bit.
00:18:27.040 | When he talks about proven worth, he says that everybody knows of this.
00:18:32.920 | And what's really interesting is some of you guys have asked, I got a text saying, "Huh,
00:18:37.440 | how come he says there's no one like Timothy?
00:18:39.960 | I have no one else like this."
00:18:42.680 | And isn't that unfair to everybody else, right?
00:18:44.720 | Because truthfully speaking, yeah, Apostle Paul had Silas, Apostle Paul had even Luke,
00:18:49.520 | Apostle Paul had Barnabas, lots of other people.
00:18:53.200 | And you can imagine, if I'm in small group and I look over and I was like, "All I have
00:18:58.680 | is Garrett, and then nobody else."
00:19:01.600 | And then Jonathan's over there like, "What about me?"
00:19:05.840 | It'd be kind of weird.
00:19:08.440 | What I'm saying is, yeah, Apostle Paul is not just using hyperbole just to be all dramatic.
00:19:14.360 | Genuinely speaking, Timothy was a unique individual.
00:19:17.080 | I've included for you an appendix at the very end of your packet.
00:19:19.960 | So just turn your eyes there.
00:19:23.080 | Timothy has gone through the journeys with Apostle Paul.
00:19:27.840 | I have a map for you here.
00:19:29.920 | His journey is incredible, right?
00:19:32.880 | You look at this and it actually kind of is mind-baffling.
00:19:38.560 | What I want to highlight for you is that, I'm not sure if you can see my pointer, but
00:19:43.480 | here on this dot in Lystra is where Apostle Paul and Silas pick up Timothy.
00:19:49.200 | This is where he gets converted.
00:19:50.960 | But what happens is, in their journey, Timothy starts to follow and he travels all the way
00:19:55.760 | down that whole red path, all the way over to Ephesus, and that's where he remains for
00:20:01.080 | longer as Apostle Paul continues on ahead.
00:20:05.120 | Think about that.
00:20:06.120 | I mean, that journey is no small stretch of land.
00:20:08.960 | We're talking like over 1,200 miles.
00:20:12.820 | It's crazy.
00:20:13.820 | 1,200 miles on foot, on boat, on donkey backs.
00:20:18.360 | And here's the funny part, okay?
00:20:19.360 | I was thinking about what Timothy has gone through, and you see the journey.
00:20:23.000 | We're not going to go over it for the sake of time, but almost all these churches that
00:20:27.900 | we hear of, all the churches that we have, the letters in the Bible, understand that
00:20:32.440 | Timothy was an integral part in most of those churches.
00:20:36.200 | But think about this.
00:20:38.200 | This part's going to be a little bit funny, okay?
00:20:42.380 | Before he begins this second missionary journey, Apostle Paul decides to have Timothy circumcised
00:20:49.160 | so that it wouldn't be a hindrance to him sharing.
00:20:52.340 | And then I thought, "Oh, dude, when Paul says, 'Dude, you know he's proven,' back of their
00:20:58.360 | minds are like, 'Dude, he got circumcised.'"
00:21:03.480 | I was thinking about this.
00:21:04.480 | This is kind of meditating, like, number one, Timothy didn't know that he was going to go
00:21:09.760 | on this massive journey to this extent.
00:21:12.760 | Clearly they were going to -- he was going to leave everything and go.
00:21:16.120 | Timothy was down, proven.
00:21:19.040 | Clearly he was following, right?
00:21:20.560 | He was following with faith, not knowing what's ahead, proving.
00:21:24.520 | But to be willing to be even circumcised?
00:21:27.840 | I mean, I'm just being honest.
00:21:28.840 | If I was him, I'd be like, "Dude, I just lie," and be like, "I got it, right?
00:21:33.040 | No one's going to ever know, right?"
00:21:35.040 | Like, do we really have to do this?
00:21:38.140 | I mean, just think about that whole idea.
00:21:41.240 | And I know it's partially funny, but at the same time, it's like, clearly even as a young
00:21:46.360 | man, his willingness to serve the cause of the gospel was evident to the degree Apostle
00:21:53.680 | Paul could say, "You guys all know," right?
00:21:57.600 | So when Paul says, like, "Timothy is being raised up, and it's realistically so."
00:22:03.000 | He wasn't just one of just many people who did all the same stuff.
00:22:07.040 | He was willing to go to great extents, great extents, to further the cause of the gospel.
00:22:12.240 | Now, the other thing here is, though, when he says back in the passage that Timothy served
00:22:19.920 | him like a child with a father, I thought about that for a moment, and I just want to
00:22:24.160 | ask you this question, like, how should we appreciate that to a greater degree, right?
00:22:29.400 | Because I don't think it was just a cultural thing where, like, yes, they did have a kind
00:22:33.680 | of culture where they had mentors and disciples, and you had these significant figures who
00:22:39.240 | were teachers, and because, you know, they elevated, especially in that Greek culture,
00:22:43.480 | they elevated people with knowledge, so if they had knowledge, they would give them gifts
00:22:46.880 | and all that kind of stuff.
00:22:49.040 | But I don't think this was just cultural, right?
00:22:52.080 | Because it wasn't like, "Oh, yeah, you know, he really respected me as his instructor."
00:22:56.520 | He says like a son to a father, and that really challenged me.
00:23:00.160 | I mean, it took me a moment.
00:23:01.600 | I just had to kind of gather myself, because, you know, honestly speaking, I got to even
00:23:05.760 | ask myself, like, do I even treat my own father really well?
00:23:09.120 | My father's retired, he's older, he has some health issues.
00:23:14.240 | Typically speaking in this generation, our parents complain, like, "You never call me.
00:23:18.480 | You don't check up on me."
00:23:19.480 | And all of a sudden, I was like, "Oh, my gosh."
00:23:22.800 | You know, like, Apostle Paul and these servants of the Lord are checking up on people, seeing
00:23:28.040 | how they're doing.
00:23:30.560 | We kind of live in a generation where our parents are being neglected.
00:23:34.680 | It's months goes by and we don't even visit, right?
00:23:37.760 | Well, you got to ask the question.
00:23:41.280 | If we are to care up and down, right?
00:23:44.960 | Timothy cares for the people above him.
00:23:46.480 | He's not just being a brown-noser and a, you know, just a suck-up or something like that,
00:23:50.520 | like, "Oh, I want to be a leader, too, so I got to do this for you."
00:23:53.000 | No, he treats him like his own blood, like his dad.
00:23:57.720 | And then clearly, he treats the people underneath him exactly the same.
00:24:00.560 | He treats them like family.
00:24:03.140 | And so what I see in this young servant is this amazing character trait.
00:24:06.480 | He is loving them and being concerned for them, both up and down, no matter who they
00:24:11.320 | are.
00:24:12.520 | What a servant of all.
00:24:14.160 | And again, I can't necessarily give all the details of what that might look like, but
00:24:18.480 | I want to challenge you.
00:24:19.480 | Try to envision.
00:24:21.620 | You meet this individual who is a radical missionary, but you start caring for him because
00:24:27.080 | of the gospel he carries, because of the love that God is showing through him and building
00:24:31.480 | in you, you start treating this person like your own dad.
00:24:35.280 | Could we get there?
00:24:36.280 | Do we know what that looks like?
00:24:37.640 | Do we know what that means?
00:24:39.720 | What an incredible challenge, right?
00:24:42.120 | So in summary, Apostle Paul really lifts up Timothy as a model servant who is, in summary,
00:24:49.440 | genuinely concerned for the welfare of the people and genuinely concerned for the interests
00:24:54.360 | of Christ.
00:24:55.600 | And clearly he's willing, he's absolutely willing to go the distance and to lay the
00:25:01.320 | sacrifices down and to treat all those around exactly as Christ would, with a sense of selflessness
00:25:07.960 | and sacrifice.
00:25:09.600 | Okay, we need to move on to the second section.
00:25:13.480 | Here in verse 25 to 30, we move to Epaphroditus.
00:25:20.600 | And I read the passage, this portion for us is, "But I thought it necessary to send to
00:25:25.320 | you Epaphroditus, my brother and fellow worker and fellow soldier, who is also your messenger
00:25:32.080 | and minister to my knee, because he was longing for you, longing for you all, and was distressed
00:25:38.680 | because you had heard that he was sick.
00:25:41.360 | For indeed he was sick to the point of death, but God had mercy on him, and not on him only,
00:25:47.240 | but also on me, so that I would not have sorrow upon sorrow.
00:25:51.640 | Therefore I have sent him all the more eagerly, so that when you see him again, you may rejoice,
00:25:57.120 | and I may be less concerned about you.
00:25:59.960 | Receive him then in the Lord with all joy, and hold men like him in high regard, because
00:26:04.960 | he came close to death for the work of Christ, risking his life to complete what was deficient
00:26:10.640 | in your service to me."
00:26:12.240 | Okay, a couple things about him, right?
00:26:16.160 | First, we think about the first section in verse 25, where he says, "I felt it necessary
00:26:21.360 | to you to send Epaphroditus."
00:26:23.840 | Just real briefly, Epaphroditus, cool thing, his name means charming, okay?
00:26:28.520 | Charming.
00:26:29.520 | So, I don't know.
00:26:31.520 | Alright, but the cool thing is, Apostle Paul gives him various titles, or I guess certain
00:26:36.120 | labels that summarize his role and his relationship with Apostle Paul.
00:26:41.600 | What are those labels?
00:26:42.600 | He says, "My brother, fellow worker, soldier, messenger, and minister."
00:26:46.840 | Okay, I made a little chart for you guys there.
00:26:48.920 | And the reason why I did this is because we don't have time to do it right now, but in
00:26:53.480 | your own time, you gotta think about what those things really represent, right?
00:26:59.320 | 'Cause meaning, you don't just call anybody who's not your brother, like, "Man, you're
00:27:02.440 | like a brother to me," you know?
00:27:04.640 | 'Cause you know what he's talking about is that kind of blood tie loyalty.
00:27:08.280 | We're gonna be now in a certain relationship where it's gonna be thick.
00:27:13.280 | It's gonna last.
00:27:14.280 | No matter what happens here, we're not changing our status, yes?
00:27:18.880 | I'm not defriending you, basically.
00:27:21.560 | What's more, he talks about there is this being a fellow worker, being a fellow soldier.
00:27:27.000 | I mean, all of these things we could describe, but I want you to think about this, envision
00:27:31.120 | it.
00:27:32.120 | There is levels of dedication.
00:27:34.920 | There are levels, especially among soldiers.
00:27:37.040 | When I think soldiers, I think, "I depend on you to cover me.
00:27:41.600 | You depend on me to cover you," right?
00:27:44.600 | Fellow soldiers also having mutual experiences, experiences that are incredible, experiences
00:27:50.600 | that are severe, experiences that are not the norm, right?
00:27:53.920 | And so there is this focus of intent, focus of purpose.
00:27:57.800 | That kind of stuff is what I'm talking about, and we need to pay attention to those things.
00:28:02.200 | Now, moving forward, I had asked this question, which was important.
00:28:07.560 | Apostle Paul clearly says, "I really, really want to send Timothy to you, but I felt it
00:28:12.640 | necessary to send the prophet Titus," and the question is why?
00:28:16.800 | If he really wants to eventually get out of prison, and he has hopes, he's confident that
00:28:21.960 | things are going to essentially work out, and history has it, yes, in the second journey,
00:28:27.720 | after the second journey, there is this long period.
00:28:30.640 | We're talking almost two years of imprisonment in Rome, where people, again, they're holding
00:28:36.360 | him without right reason, all that kind of stuff, but then he is released.
00:28:40.240 | There's about three years from this time until the time where he actually gets executed,
00:28:44.560 | but within that time, he has opportunity to revisit the Macedonian area.
00:28:49.960 | Scripture describes generally that he visited the Macedonian area, but it makes sense, prime
00:28:53.760 | location in Macedonia is Philippi, but in thinking through this, Apostle Paul says,
00:28:58.960 | "I want to send to you Epaphroditus," and we ask the question why?
00:29:03.360 | Well, it gives the reasons.
00:29:05.020 | So going back to the passage, he says, verse 26, "Because he was longing for you all, and
00:29:14.160 | was distressed because you had heard that he was sick.
00:29:18.080 | For indeed he was sick to the point of death, but God had mercy on him, and not on him only,
00:29:23.320 | but also on me, so that I would not have sorrow upon sorrow.
00:29:27.200 | Therefore, I have sent him all the more eagerly, so that when you see him again, you may rejoice."
00:29:33.760 | This is pretty incredible stuff.
00:29:36.640 | When you take a moment to slow down and think about this, what I'm saying is this, okay?
00:29:41.200 | Number one, what's really, really clear is that Paul felt the need to send Epaphroditus
00:29:46.920 | because Epaphroditus wanted to.
00:29:49.520 | He loved these people.
00:29:51.040 | He longed for them, right?
00:29:53.280 | He wanted to be in their presence.
00:29:54.540 | He wanted to see them, and there was this desire in his heart to go to them.
00:30:00.100 | But I show you this map, and this map has the flight, airplane flight, the car, and
00:30:05.200 | this other stuff, because this is from modern day Google Maps.
00:30:08.160 | But remember, Rome is over here, and Philippi is way over here.
00:30:12.920 | This is close to 1,200 miles.
00:30:15.120 | Here it has it in kilometers, 1,300, 20-something kilometers, okay?
00:30:19.240 | That's crazy.
00:30:21.040 | Just the fact that he would travel this distance to be a minister to Apostle Paul, that alone
00:30:27.760 | is crazy.
00:30:29.040 | Why?
00:30:30.040 | Because what's evident is that the church, Philippi, loved Apostle Paul.
00:30:34.800 | And what's more, in Apostle Paul's regular ministry, Apostle Paul was regularly giving
00:30:39.320 | financial help to churches that were in need.
00:30:41.600 | He would carry gifts.
00:30:43.340 | So what's more, those in the Macedonians were giving money both for Apostle Paul's ministry
00:30:48.740 | and for the sake of other churches.
00:30:51.200 | Epaphroditus was carrying that over.
00:30:53.560 | Think about Epaphroditus' character.
00:30:55.880 | He is sick.
00:30:56.880 | I'm guessing traveling this contributed to his sickness.
00:31:00.440 | And if it was any one of us, we would have probably been tempted to stop right here before
00:31:04.880 | he hit the water, because traveling waters at that time was dangerous.
00:31:08.840 | Maybe at this time, if he got really sick, he'd be tempted to stop, use some of that
00:31:12.040 | money for Airbnb and whatever it may be, right?
00:31:15.440 | Like that's what we would do.
00:31:16.740 | That's what you would expect any normal person to do.
00:31:19.280 | But what I'm saying is, in the highlight of Epaphroditus' character, he carried that all
00:31:24.440 | the way through, and then to go back?
00:31:29.240 | And then to go back, that's crazy.
00:31:32.000 | But nonetheless, Epaphroditus is saying, "I want to."
00:31:35.560 | And Apostle Paul is in agreement with this.
00:31:37.480 | Why?
00:31:38.480 | Because the church thought their dear messenger, their dear minister to Apostle Paul was sick
00:31:44.560 | and could have potentially died.
00:31:46.920 | They don't have instant messaging.
00:31:48.240 | It's like, "Arrive safely."
00:31:49.880 | "I'm here.
00:31:50.880 | Don't worry.
00:31:51.880 | Go to bed."
00:31:52.880 | Right?
00:31:53.880 | Like, there's not that stuff.
00:31:56.080 | And so he sends this saying, "I want you to rejoice."
00:31:58.320 | Can you imagine that scene?
00:32:01.140 | If you send this man who is essentially kind of like cream of the crop of your church,
00:32:06.720 | Apostle Paul sees him as like a model, model servant.
00:32:11.360 | And then that scene, if he comes back saying, "I successfully carried your message and gift
00:32:15.200 | to Apostle Paul.
00:32:16.200 | Apostle Paul is doing well and sharing the gospel, and he's overjoyed."
00:32:19.680 | And when they see each other, what a beautiful sight that would be.
00:32:24.280 | So what I'm saying here is this.
00:32:27.200 | My goodness, if Epaphroditus was a lesser man, he wouldn't make this trip.
00:32:32.640 | He would have been like, "Nah, I'd rather stay.
00:32:37.040 | Plus, Paul, you don't have other help.
00:32:39.640 | If I leave, who else do you have?"
00:32:42.840 | So again, commending Epaphroditus as a fellow servant or as a servant, he carries this.
00:32:48.960 | Now, one of the things I want to highlight before I start wrapping things up by way of
00:32:53.200 | conclusion, I want to say this.
00:32:56.040 | In the description of why Epaphroditus wants to go, there's two.
00:33:02.680 | He says there is a longing for you all, but there's also this.
00:33:07.240 | He heard that they heard that he was sick.
00:33:12.040 | Somehow the message got through that the church is worried because Epaphroditus is sick, right?
00:33:18.720 | I want you to think about that for a moment.
00:33:21.600 | Have you met those people who don't want to be a burden so much to others?
00:33:28.440 | A, they're the people who are constantly saying, "Oh, I'm sorry, sorry, sorry.
00:33:32.160 | Oh, I'm sorry, sorry, sorry," right?
00:33:34.440 | And then there are those people who, because they're always like that, they get sick and
00:33:38.200 | they don't tell a soul.
00:33:40.200 | And then you're all worried and you're all frustrated, like, "Tell me.
00:33:43.880 | I can drive you to the hospital."
00:33:46.800 | You don't have to drag yourself over, but there are those people who are like that.
00:33:50.120 | Now that kind of stream I don't think is good.
00:33:53.520 | I'm not saying do that, okay?
00:33:55.680 | Because we need to be interdependent.
00:33:58.200 | But clearly what's really interesting is Epaphroditus hears that they're worried and he wants to
00:34:03.800 | relieve their worry even though he's dead sick.
00:34:07.080 | Do you see that?
00:34:09.320 | The concern and burden goes so deep that even though he's the one who's super sick, he's
00:34:14.920 | all the more worried about them.
00:34:18.280 | Brothers and sisters, I want to give you this interesting challenge.
00:34:22.600 | Sometimes in our love, one of the greatest things we're going to carry is incredible
00:34:27.280 | concern and burden.
00:34:29.560 | Are they doing well?
00:34:31.040 | Right?
00:34:32.040 | Are they sick?
00:34:33.400 | Are they worried?
00:34:34.400 | Are they lost?
00:34:36.080 | Are they striving after the Lord?
00:34:39.160 | And sometimes we're super frustrated with the people we're ministered to.
00:34:42.000 | It's like, "Why don't you get it?
00:34:43.480 | How come you're not changing?
00:34:45.080 | Like, how come you haven't fixed it yet?"
00:34:47.440 | You know?
00:34:48.440 | Why?
00:34:49.440 | Because part of that is their weakness is a burden on you.
00:34:53.320 | But as a challenge to every single one of us, if we are to love, we're going to always
00:34:59.960 | carry the concern.
00:35:02.160 | I'm worried about you, right?
00:35:04.120 | I'm thinking about you.
00:35:06.200 | And that's one of the interesting things where it's not a physical pain, it's not a physical
00:35:10.720 | discomfort, but it's going to be internal, right?
00:35:14.880 | That their well-being is going to, especially if they're not doing well, it's going to bother
00:35:18.880 | you.
00:35:20.240 | And so Epaphroditus reveals his affection for these people.
00:35:23.640 | There is this real care.
00:35:25.680 | Although he's sick, he's over here, he could have easily been like, "We're sick, man.
00:35:29.920 | Send some more stuff.
00:35:31.640 | We need money for medicine.
00:35:32.720 | We need..."
00:35:33.720 | It wasn't like that at all.
00:35:35.640 | He even wanted to travel that distance to relieve their worry.
00:35:40.480 | That's pretty incredible.
00:35:42.080 | And so by way of conclusion, Apostle Paul gives this command, "Receive them."
00:35:47.240 | We're not going to have time to go over all the details, but I'm going to wrap these things
00:35:50.520 | up by saying, "In so doing, in carrying these things, he's carrying the worry and distress
00:35:56.920 | and concern for them.
00:35:58.780 | And because he is like that," Apostle Paul says, "men like this," and it carries through
00:36:03.440 | both Epaphroditus, Timothy, and Paul, "men like this hold in high regard.
00:36:08.800 | Men like this receive.
00:36:10.480 | Men like this have joy with them."
00:36:13.720 | And so we ask this question, "How should the church regard these people?"
00:36:18.800 | Well, what I'd really like to say is, in all honesty, the point is not so much, "How are
00:36:24.960 | we supposed to honor these people?"
00:36:26.480 | Because that's a legitimate question because we don't want to put people on a pedestal.
00:36:32.160 | Like, "Oh my gosh."
00:36:34.800 | Paul's still a man.
00:36:36.360 | Timothy is still a man, right?
00:36:38.240 | And there are model servants in our lives.
00:36:40.600 | They're just men, too, and women.
00:36:43.320 | And we shouldn't necessarily put them on this false pedestal.
00:36:45.600 | But nevertheless, there are people of noble character that we should elevate.
00:36:51.880 | But for us, that's not too hard.
00:36:54.320 | Why?
00:36:55.320 | Because naturally, we already give our ear and eyes to the people we admire.
00:37:02.040 | But then the main question is, "What are we admiring them for?"
00:37:05.400 | Because they're eloquent?
00:37:07.000 | Because they're smooth?
00:37:09.520 | Because they're skilled?
00:37:11.280 | Because clearly, clearly, if they're productive, clearly if they're fruitful, clearly if they're
00:37:16.280 | successful, is that why?
00:37:18.200 | Paul's saying, "No.
00:37:21.040 | These individuals are noble because of their heart of affection for you.
00:37:25.160 | These individuals are noble because their care for you is genuine.
00:37:28.600 | These individuals are noble because their love for the Lord is genuine.
00:37:32.320 | They're willing to sacrifice.
00:37:34.600 | They're willing to go, yes, clearly to death."
00:37:38.600 | What a challenge for us.
00:37:39.600 | The people we admire, we're going to automatically listen to and emulate.
00:37:43.920 | And the challenge therefore for us then is that's already natural in us.
00:37:49.480 | We already try to be like the people we like.
00:37:52.880 | The question is, "What are we actually looking at?"
00:37:55.580 | And so today we have, remember at the beginning I said, "These men are not above and beyond
00:38:02.560 | us.
00:38:03.560 | What they have is the hope of Christ, the attitude of Christ, and they're engaged in
00:38:07.680 | the work of Christ."
00:38:08.680 | We, too, can do the same.
00:38:10.400 | Let's take a moment to pray.
00:38:17.560 | Heavenly Father, we want to thank you, God, for your grace.
00:38:20.640 | Lord, because all of us, we have this amazing privilege in this generation where you have
00:38:30.100 | sent your messengers, you've sent your servants, and then you've called every single one of
00:38:34.820 | us to be these things for one another, to be the caretakers of each other, to be the
00:38:39.940 | supporters, encouragers, and edifiers of each other.
00:38:44.540 | And so, God, we thank you that you as our Heavenly Father, you've looked at your children
00:38:48.980 | and caused us, Lord, to have the maturity that you want us to have, and you've inspired
00:38:54.460 | us, Father God, to do all the more.
00:38:56.820 | I do pray, Father God, that every single one of us will be challenged in the way that we
00:39:00.380 | love, and we'll challenge in the way that we love each other.
00:39:04.060 | And I pray, Father God, that although, yes, we struggle with our own selfishness, although,
00:39:09.220 | yes, Father God, our hearts are sometimes so mixed, we do pray for your sanctifying
00:39:15.380 | work, that God, our care for you and our care for the church will be pure.
00:39:20.060 | We thank you, it's in Christ, and we pray.
00:39:21.060 | Amen.
00:39:21.060 | Amen.
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