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Family Retreat Main Session 1


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00:00:02.920 | >> Is really about being anchored in Christ.
00:00:06.880 | And I've got the first leg of what it means to be anchored in Christ as
00:00:11.200 | an individual Christian.
00:00:13.320 | And then Pastor Mark is gonna take that baton in the afternoon and
00:00:17.400 | talk about what it means to be anchored in Christ as a family unit.
00:00:22.800 | And Pastor Peter tomorrow will be sharing with us about how as a church,
00:00:29.160 | we are anchored in Christ.
00:00:32.040 | So why don't we pray and we'll begin just our time of worship.
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00:00:41.600 | Father, we are so thankful that you've gathered us here this morning and
00:00:46.840 | this weekend here in Palm Desert.
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00:00:51.280 | And I'm sure Lord that there are many of us who really need this time
00:00:56.800 | to just commune with you.
00:00:59.200 | And we are so thankful that you give us a church body where we can
00:01:04.040 | gather together as a family, really to face in the same direction.
00:01:09.640 | And Lord, I pray that we would all leave here facing God and
00:01:14.560 | Christ for just a little bit more.
00:01:18.120 | So we pray for your help as we just look at your word, study your word and
00:01:23.160 | share about how your word is moving in our lives and in our hearts and
00:01:27.600 | the areas of our lives that we need to bring in submission to your word.
00:01:31.560 | I do pray that you would help us just to really have ears to hear your truth.
00:01:37.320 | Hear fruit through your truth.
00:01:40.600 | Our greatest things in Jesus name.
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00:01:45.000 | I've done a lot of counseling of, I guess,
00:01:47.800 | dating couples over the last several years.
00:01:51.040 | And just a few premarital counseling sessions as well.
00:01:56.240 | And when I do premarital counseling with engaged couples or
00:01:59.800 | talk to just couples that are dating, looking to get married.
00:02:02.800 | One of the first questions that I ask is this.
00:02:06.280 | I ask them, what is the purpose of marriage?
00:02:10.280 | What is the purpose of marriage?
00:02:11.880 | And in each case, there's usually a little bit of a fumbling around and
00:02:15.760 | a nervous scramble in search for the right answer.
00:02:19.240 | And that's okay, it's not a trick question.
00:02:21.960 | But it throws people off because when a pastor asks it,
00:02:24.880 | it almost seems like you have to give a holy answer.
00:02:28.960 | Usually when a question like this is posed, the couple answers something like,
00:02:34.600 | well, to glorify God by raising a godly family.
00:02:38.680 | It always goes up, cuz you're not a 100% sure.
00:02:42.360 | And that's not an incorrect answer.
00:02:45.480 | But this is actually a question that's very important.
00:02:49.040 | But one that married people seldom ask themselves.
00:02:55.280 | And because it is not often asked, it is seldom reflected on.
00:03:00.400 | So most of you guys are familiar with marriage.
00:03:05.040 | What is the purpose of marriage?
00:03:07.800 | And how often do we ask this of ourselves?
00:03:10.720 | And probably not too often,
00:03:12.080 | because we're just trying to survive day to day just doing life together.
00:03:17.720 | And here's another important question that is all too seldom asked.
00:03:21.720 | What is the purpose of my Christian life?
00:03:24.400 | What is the purpose of my Christian faith?
00:03:26.600 | Or in other words, to what purpose or for what purpose have I been saved?
00:03:33.880 | And again, because we seldom ask this of ourselves,
00:03:40.680 | it's seldom reflected upon and we get in trouble.
00:03:44.880 | So in scripture, the answer to this question is very clear.
00:03:48.360 | But what I wanna do is I wanna ask to actually read Genesis 1-1,
00:03:52.000 | John 17-3, and then we will look into our Ephesians chapter 2 passage, okay?
00:03:57.280 | Genesis 1-1, you don't need to turn there.
00:03:59.560 | If anything, just keep your finger on Ephesians.
00:04:02.080 | Genesis 1-1, you guys are probably very familiar with this.
00:04:05.720 | In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth.
00:04:08.680 | And you guys know this passage.
00:04:12.200 | Usually when one year Bible class starts,
00:04:13.960 | this is the first sentence that's read.
00:04:15.600 | Usually when people try to read through the scripture.
00:04:17.960 | So this is probably the sentence in the Bible that's read the most, okay?
00:04:21.040 | The gospel of Jesus Christ begins with the creator God of purpose,
00:04:27.640 | a God who creates everything good.
00:04:30.120 | So we see in Genesis chapter 1, the word good is used after each of the first five
00:04:36.120 | days of creation, and the words very good after everything is completed in day six.
00:04:43.360 | So God created everything very good.
00:04:48.560 | In fact, it's not until Genesis 2-18 where the words not good are used to describe
00:04:53.480 | man's lack of community, his lack of an equal not only to subdue,
00:04:59.240 | but to enjoy all the good that God had created.
00:05:04.200 | So you and I have been created by a very, very good,
00:05:08.000 | creative God who is longing to be good to us.
00:05:15.440 | And this good God has given us the gift of eternal life.
00:05:19.840 | And what does this eternal life entail?
00:05:23.360 | What does it revolve around?
00:05:24.720 | I'm gonna just quote to you John 17, 3.
00:05:27.520 | It says, now this is eternal life, that they may know you,
00:05:31.800 | the only true God, Jesus Christ, whom you have sent.
00:05:36.160 | Eternal life is not just about avoiding hell.
00:05:39.160 | Eternal life is about knowing for whom you have been created eternally,
00:05:44.440 | and just being lavished with goodness upon goodness
00:05:49.840 | in the knowledge of God and of his Christ.
00:05:53.240 | Okay?
00:05:53.960 | Ephesians 2-10.
00:05:55.040 | So this is where we're gonna be looking at our passage for today.
00:05:57.480 | You guys, most of you guys probably looked at this or you're moaning emotional.
00:06:01.200 | I'm gonna start with verse 10, and
00:06:04.080 | then we're gonna work our way from verse 1 after I read to you
00:06:08.640 | the purpose of our existence and our Christian life.
00:06:12.160 | Ephesians 2-10 reads, for we are his workmanship,
00:06:17.760 | created in Christ Jesus for good works,
00:06:21.120 | which God prepared beforehand so that we would walk in them.
00:06:25.400 | So before all of these things were created, very good, and
00:06:30.800 | before sin entered the world to corrupt everything, God had ordained an eternal
00:06:35.760 | purpose for your life, and he's ordained an eternal purpose for mine.
00:06:39.640 | And it was for the purpose of good works that we would walk continually
00:06:45.560 | in these good works and give him glory.
00:06:48.920 | So what is the purpose of our Christian faith?
00:06:51.880 | What is the purpose of my existence?
00:06:54.400 | What is the purpose of my life?
00:06:56.360 | Well, here it is.
00:06:57.600 | And I'm gonna repeat this about 15 times in this sermon, so
00:07:00.720 | you're gonna remember this and memorize it and
00:07:02.560 | leave here annoyed by my voice in your head.
00:07:05.120 | Here we go.
00:07:05.680 | This is the purpose for which you're created.
00:07:08.000 | You were created by God and for God to love God and to serve God.
00:07:12.480 | And I'll say it again, some of you guys are scrambling.
00:07:15.960 | You were created by God and for God to love God and to serve God.
00:07:26.000 | You were created by God and for God to love God and to serve God.
00:07:34.000 | And this is the meta-narrative that begins in Genesis and
00:07:37.960 | ends with ultimate glory to this creator God in the book of Revelation.
00:07:41.760 | So this is our purpose.
00:07:44.480 | And what a glorious purpose it is.
00:07:46.520 | The purpose of our lives is to know this God and make him known in our lives.
00:07:51.640 | And it's a privilege that we will spend eternity growing in knowledge of
00:07:55.920 | this God and giving glory to this great God who is due worship.
00:08:01.920 | So this is eternal life, that they may know you,
00:08:05.040 | the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom you are saved.
00:08:08.920 | And eternal life, for those of you who have been saved, has already started.
00:08:14.560 | So this knowledge of God has already begun.
00:08:20.840 | So you were created by God and for God to love God and to serve God.
00:08:26.000 | Amen?
00:08:27.640 | And here's the bonus answer.
00:08:29.800 | What is the purpose of marriage?
00:08:31.960 | I say it simply as a strategic alliance where two believers join forces and
00:08:40.240 | become far more useful to this purpose where they come together to do
00:08:45.760 | far greater things than what they could have done as individuals.
00:08:49.600 | All right?
00:08:50.160 | So the purpose of marriage is to give God even more glory that you can
00:08:55.000 | possibly give as a family unit together.
00:08:58.120 | You were created by God and for God to love God and to serve God.
00:09:03.440 | But there's a problem here.
00:09:06.440 | This is something we can all say amen to, but
00:09:09.440 | we actually have a hard time submitting to this purpose.
00:09:12.560 | There is a part of us, even if we have submitted to the Lordship of Christ in
00:09:18.800 | our lives, that remains offended by this purpose.
00:09:22.760 | And if you've been a Christian for a length of time,
00:09:28.040 | you've observed seasons of wandering and strain from this purpose.
00:09:31.880 | And part of this is because our flesh has been so fully corrupted by sin.
00:09:37.280 | And though sin is dead in us, it is still dying in us.
00:09:45.600 | So I want us to read Ephesians chapter 2 verses 1 through 3.
00:09:49.080 | I'll be reading out of the NASB.
00:09:50.360 | And you were dead in your trespasses and sins in which you formerly walked
00:09:59.560 | according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of
00:10:04.280 | the air, of the spirit that is now working in the sons of disobedience.
00:10:10.400 | Among them, we too all formerly live in the lusts of our flesh,
00:10:15.600 | indulging the desires of the flesh and of the mind.
00:10:18.440 | And we're by nature children of wrath, even as the rest.
00:10:23.520 | So verse 1 says, you were, past tense, you were dead in your trespasses and sins.
00:10:31.760 | So I have a question that's very important for us to address.
00:10:34.640 | What is sin?
00:10:35.280 | It is a very important question.
00:10:39.360 | And this is something you have to be very careful not to misdefine.
00:10:42.520 | An inaccurate definition of sin leads to a misdiagnosis and a misapplication.
00:10:50.160 | And so what is sin?
00:10:51.720 | Be careful not to misdiagnose.
00:10:55.000 | A misdiagnosis is a dangerous thing.
00:10:59.040 | A misdiagnosis of a disease can be fatal.
00:11:01.280 | So what is sin?
00:11:04.920 | When we say sin, we naturally think of things like murder, theft, alcoholism,
00:11:09.880 | pornography, embezzlement, lying, cheating, and things like that.
00:11:13.360 | And yes, they can be categorized as sins, but
00:11:18.000 | those things are symptomatic of deeper problems.
00:11:22.120 | Sin, in the original language, is hamartia, H-A-M-A-R-T-I-A, hamartia.
00:11:28.280 | And basically, it just means to miss the mark.
00:11:31.800 | So what is our purpose?
00:11:32.760 | We are created by God, for God, to love God, and to serve God.
00:11:41.720 | And sin is not doing that.
00:11:44.280 | Hamartia means failing to hit its purpose.
00:11:49.840 | It means living in opposition and outright rebellion toward this purpose.
00:11:54.600 | Failed, we are to live up to the holy standard that has been set by our holy,
00:11:58.880 | holy, worthy, worthy creator.
00:12:02.240 | And sin has so tainted us that we are offended by this purpose when we
00:12:06.960 | actually think upon it.
00:12:07.920 | Because in our flesh, we want a God that is a better version of us.
00:12:14.000 | We want a God who will love us and who will serve us.
00:12:17.120 | We want a God who will do our bidding.
00:12:19.320 | And in our flesh, we absolutely hate our purpose.
00:12:24.320 | And we struggle passionately against it.
00:12:26.480 | No, we are not created by you and for you to serve you and to love you.
00:12:29.560 | We are created...you are here for us, is our flesh's natural response.
00:12:34.920 | Murder, drug abuse, theft, lying, stealing, cheating, idolatry,
00:12:41.920 | all of these things, yes, they are sins.
00:12:44.360 | But essentially and basically, these outward deeds are a byproduct of an even
00:12:50.600 | more corrupted condition.
00:12:53.720 | So we enter the world hostile toward the ways of God.
00:12:58.880 | And this, you guys acknowledge, right?
00:13:01.160 | We have entered into this world missing the mark from the very get-go.
00:13:08.040 | So do not miscategorize and misdefine sin.
00:13:12.000 | In November 2017, three UCLA basketball players were in Shanghai,
00:13:18.800 | and they were arrested for shoplifting at a Louis Vuitton store.
00:13:22.720 | One of the three was none other than LeAngelo Ball, brother to the then
00:13:27.240 | later Lonzo Ball.
00:13:29.600 | You guys remember this?
00:13:30.280 | Not sure if you remember this.
00:13:31.080 | Yeah, okay.
00:13:31.600 | So he got caught.
00:13:33.200 | And here's what he said in an interview while he was still in China.
00:13:37.400 | "We all went out one night, went to the malls, went to the Louis Vuitton store,
00:13:42.840 | and people started taking stuff.
00:13:45.440 | And then, you know me, just not thinking and being with them,
00:13:50.040 | I took something too.
00:13:51.800 | And we left thinking, 'We'll just get away.'
00:13:54.160 | You know how kids think.
00:13:55.840 | I didn't realize until I got back to my hotel.
00:13:58.800 | I'm like, 'That was stupid.'
00:14:00.960 | But then I read, 'It was too late.'
00:14:03.000 | And then sure enough, the next morning, the police came and got us.
00:14:07.360 | I feel embarrassed, but I assure you, this is not who I am."
00:14:13.840 | So basically, he said that his teammates influenced him to do this,
00:14:16.400 | so he blame-shifted.
00:14:17.840 | And then he said that this kind of behavior is not really indicative
00:14:21.440 | of who he really is.
00:14:24.240 | You know what I thought when I read the interview from this press release?
00:14:28.000 | Initially, because it happens all the time, people blame-shift.
00:14:31.080 | I thought, "No, D'Angelo, that is who you really and truly are.
00:14:38.520 | You are walking according to the course of this world, according to the prince
00:14:42.120 | of the power of the air.
00:14:43.520 | You are a son of disobedience."
00:14:46.160 | And not just being baller brand.
00:14:47.280 | "You are a son of disobedience.
00:14:49.280 | You are living in the lust of your flesh, indulging the desires of your flesh,
00:14:53.280 | and of the mind.
00:14:55.760 | That's who you are."
00:14:59.120 | As was I.
00:15:02.680 | This is my 19th year of pastoral ministry, so my original youth,
00:15:05.960 | who are actually in this room now, as old people, okay?
00:15:11.040 | This is my 27th year as a Christian, and I'm becoming more and more convinced
00:15:17.160 | that there is absolutely nothing good in me outside of Christ.
00:15:22.120 | You ain't meant to that.
00:15:24.280 | There's nothing good in you.
00:15:28.200 | There's nothing good in me outside of Christ.
00:15:33.200 | In my flesh, I'm going to include you, in your flesh, there is zero good.
00:15:40.160 | Only in and through Christ have I become a saint.
00:15:43.840 | Only in and through Christ have I become a saint.
00:15:46.400 | Sin at its roots is living in rebellion to the God or purpose for which you and I
00:15:51.520 | have been created.
00:15:53.520 | Everything that disgusts and discourages us in this fallen world,
00:15:58.200 | all the stuff that you see on the news, all the just...
00:16:01.520 | I don't even want to read the news anymore, right?
00:16:03.840 | All of that stuff is an outward expression of the internal condition
00:16:10.040 | of fallen man.
00:16:13.120 | Sin.
00:16:15.200 | You were created by God and for God to love God and to serve God,
00:16:19.160 | and sin is living in hostility toward this divine purpose.
00:16:27.360 | And what are the consequences?
00:16:30.080 | There are three.
00:16:30.960 | First one is corruption of the spirit that is now continually working in the
00:16:36.440 | sense of disobedience, corruption.
00:16:38.280 | So, no one, and Pastor Peter's mentioned this before on a Sunday,
00:16:41.320 | left to his own becomes less sinful.
00:16:45.120 | Without the intervention of God, man becomes more and more rotten.
00:16:50.280 | And the rotting gets worse and worse.
00:16:52.200 | And as the rotting gets worse and worse, the pain becomes more and more
00:16:56.200 | unbearable, and sin perverts and corrupts everything.
00:17:01.440 | And the things that are good in life, sin corrupts it even more to make it worse.
00:17:08.240 | Corruption is the first one.
00:17:09.200 | Second consequence of sin is separation.
00:17:13.400 | Sin always separates.
00:17:17.800 | It causes a separation between man and God.
00:17:20.840 | You guys know this feeling when you're in a sin, you don't want to go pray to the
00:17:24.840 | Lord.
00:17:25.400 | Sin separates God and man.
00:17:27.800 | Sin separates man and creation.
00:17:30.400 | Sin separates man and man.
00:17:33.000 | Sin separates even man and self.
00:17:37.920 | Hatred, fear, separation.
00:17:39.560 | Given enough time, sin will cause a rift in every single relationship that you will
00:17:45.680 | ever have.
00:17:47.520 | Corruption, separation.
00:17:48.880 | The third one is death.
00:17:51.600 | And it says, "And you were dead," past tense.
00:17:55.440 | Romans 6.23, where the wages of sin is?
00:17:59.360 | Death.
00:18:00.680 | So, when Adam and Eve sinned against God, death entered the world and tainted and
00:18:05.000 | killed everything.
00:18:06.880 | Perhaps not immediately.
00:18:09.080 | God told them, "You shall surely die."
00:18:11.920 | And as a result, death has come to all of us.
00:18:16.240 | Physical death is now a certainty.
00:18:17.920 | Spiritual death, however, is a much scarier prospect that should make all of us shiver
00:18:23.600 | to some degree.
00:18:27.160 | Verse 2, it says, "We were once sons of disobedience."
00:18:31.560 | Verse 3, "We were by nature children of wrath."
00:18:36.840 | Technon, child of wrath.
00:18:40.120 | This is one of the reasons I don't like the NIV.
00:18:41.120 | The NIV has done a major disservice to this verse.
00:18:44.520 | We were deserving of wrath.
00:18:46.000 | No, no, no.
00:18:47.000 | The original language is very strong.
00:18:49.680 | You were a child of wrath.
00:18:52.860 | You were basically the spawn of scum and filth to be immediately and wrathfully wiped out.
00:19:01.080 | You, by your spiritual DNA, are an object of derision, should be wiped out immediately.
00:19:09.040 | That's what it's saying.
00:19:10.040 | Not just deserving of wrath.
00:19:11.040 | So, from the day of our conception, Psalm 51, 5, from the very day of our conception,
00:19:21.440 | we should have and would have been prepared for the full grunt of the wrath of God because
00:19:26.840 | we were conceived in sin.
00:19:30.760 | Let me illustrate this for you.
00:19:33.200 | I do teach to the children, so I can make this a little bit fun.
00:19:39.040 | Mosquitoes.
00:19:40.040 | I hate them.
00:19:42.360 | I use the word hate seldomly, but for mosquitoes, I will use the H word hate.
00:19:47.840 | I hate mosquitoes.
00:19:48.840 | I have yet to meet a single person in my life that loves mosquitoes.
00:19:56.200 | And one of the reasons I hate them even more is because they love me.
00:20:01.360 | They don't love my wife as much.
00:20:04.360 | So, it's a frustrating thing in the middle of the night.
00:20:08.640 | I love just killing them.
00:20:13.520 | In the middle, in Korea, we used to have these tennis racket things that would kill bugs.
00:20:17.240 | We had so many in our apartment on the 18th floor.
00:20:20.240 | You hear that?
00:20:21.880 | Just pop.
00:20:22.880 | It would just make my slumber so sweet.
00:20:29.440 | I hate them.
00:20:30.440 | And as I've killed my many fair share of mosquitoes over the years, I've realized one tragic fact
00:20:38.720 | is that they die too quickly.
00:20:39.720 | They're easy to catch, hard to keep alive.
00:20:45.080 | Because in the middle of the night, when I'm not thinking straight, I've got bumps on my
00:20:48.320 | arm and my legs.
00:20:49.320 | I actually want to just catch it and torment it.
00:20:52.840 | I want to just rip off a wing at the time.
00:20:55.840 | I advise you to do that, right?
00:20:56.840 | I want to rip off its wings.
00:20:57.840 | I want to cut the nose off of its scissors.
00:20:58.840 | I want to put it in the microwave and let it explode.
00:20:59.840 | I want to torture it because it caused me so much torment.
00:21:00.840 | But when I grab the mosquito, it's usually dead and bloody, full of not my wives, but
00:21:13.840 | my blood.
00:21:16.840 | Now, I am not the only one who hates mosquitoes.
00:21:22.840 | If a mosquito were flying around my head right now and I killed it, I doubt that any of you
00:21:30.440 | would call the authorities on me.
00:21:31.440 | If a mosquito was on the wall and you guys killed it, someone next to you killed it,
00:21:39.640 | no problemo.
00:21:40.640 | Even if a mosquito did not bite any one of us, its very presence would trigger in us
00:21:51.920 | a desire to kill it.
00:21:56.920 | Why?
00:21:59.360 | Because mosquitoes represent disease, corruption, and in some places in the world, death.
00:22:05.720 | If we were in areas where malaria, Zika, dengue were prevalent, we actually would encourage
00:22:11.160 | all of us to kill every mosquito on sight.
00:22:16.240 | I hate mosquitoes.
00:22:18.880 | Some people hate roaches more than mosquitoes.
00:22:21.440 | It's because you guys don't get bit.
00:22:22.960 | But I hate them with a passion.
00:22:26.440 | And why do I share this silly illustration?
00:22:32.440 | To remind you that the distance between you and God is infinitely greater than the distance
00:22:39.080 | between you and a mosquito.
00:22:42.560 | There is even less to love in you and me than there is to love in a mosquito or a cockroach.
00:22:51.080 | We were by nature, tapped on, spawned of wrath.
00:22:58.400 | See remember I said that we have to be careful not to mystify sin.
00:23:01.880 | The problem of sin is not primarily an external one, it is thoroughly internal.
00:23:02.880 | It has corrupted everything in our lives.
00:23:03.880 | And one of the things that religious people make, the primary misdiagnosis, is in focusing
00:23:04.880 | on the external, seeking to address the symptoms and not the disease.
00:23:05.880 | Just as cold medicine does not cure the cold, but rather just temporarily hides the symptoms,
00:23:06.880 | good effort toward godliness and piety does not cure the cold.
00:23:07.880 | It is a good effort toward the good.
00:23:08.880 | And I'm not saying that you should be doing that.
00:23:09.880 | I'm saying that you should be doing that.
00:23:10.880 | I'm not saying that you should be doing that.
00:23:11.880 | I'm saying that you should be doing that.
00:23:12.880 | I'm saying that you should be doing that.
00:23:13.880 | I'm saying that you should be doing that.
00:23:14.880 | I'm saying that you should be doing that.
00:23:15.880 | I'm saying that you should be doing that.
00:23:16.880 | I'm saying that you should be doing that.
00:23:40.120 | You should be doing that.
00:24:01.560 | You should be doing that.
00:24:27.680 | You should be doing that.
00:24:35.800 | You should be doing that.
00:24:57.240 | You should be doing that.
00:25:23.560 | You should be doing that.
00:25:51.760 | You should be doing that.
00:26:00.880 | You should be doing that.
00:26:12.160 | You should be doing that.
00:26:38.480 | You should be doing that.
00:27:04.800 | You should be doing that.
00:27:33.120 | And on my deathbed, I leave all that I have to Him."
00:27:42.340 | You laugh!
00:27:44.820 | But it's even sillier that God would make us alive together with Christ.
00:27:53.020 | Verse five.
00:27:54.540 | See, we serve a strange God, and why do I affectionately call Him strange?
00:27:59.100 | I don't call Him strange because He chose to withhold wrath.
00:28:03.620 | I don't call Him strange because He extends mercy.
00:28:06.980 | There have been wicked leaders in the history of the world that have been occasionally merciful.
00:28:11.020 | There have been wicked leaders in the world that have just kind of withheld wrath.
00:28:15.660 | There have been man-made gods who have been known to be occasionally kind.
00:28:22.100 | I call our God strange because He didn't just not send us to hell, He raised us up with
00:28:30.620 | Christ, seated us with Christ in the heavenly places.
00:28:36.540 | And our destiny as children of God is to spend eternity being showered with kindness upon
00:28:42.780 | kindness upon kindness by this God of love.
00:28:49.500 | He will even let once sin-tainted, fallen, hostile man to see Him face to face.
00:29:00.020 | First John 3.2, "Beloved, we are now children of God, and He has not appeared as yet what
00:29:06.580 | we will be, but we know that when He appears, we will be like Him because we will see Him
00:29:11.300 | just as He is."
00:29:14.140 | This is grace.
00:29:17.700 | Absolutely wonderful, absolutely silly, dumbfounding grace.
00:29:23.060 | I almost want to change that song from "Amazing Grace" to "Dumbfounding Grace" or "Absurdly
00:29:31.500 | Strange Grace" because "amazing" sometimes doesn't quite cut it.
00:29:39.780 | So there is now a cure for sin, and you and I have believed and placed our faith in Christ.
00:29:46.140 | We have been saved, and now we have been restored to the purpose for which we have been created
00:29:54.700 | for His glory, and as a result, we will experience immense satisfaction and joy.
00:30:04.060 | So how did we become saved?
00:30:05.740 | It's even sillier.
00:30:06.740 | Do you guys know John 3.16?
00:30:07.740 | "For God so loved the world that He gave His only Son, and whoever believes in Him shall
00:30:18.620 | not perish but have eternal life."
00:30:23.460 | I've heard many a sermon that says, "For God so loved the world."
00:30:28.420 | That's actually inaccurate because the Greek word there is "koutos" which is "thus," like
00:30:33.940 | this, in this way, in this manner, is the word "so."
00:30:39.380 | Like so.
00:30:40.380 | And you have to look at John 3.14 and 15, "For just as Moses lifted up the serpent in
00:30:46.740 | the wilderness, so the Son of Man must be lifted up.
00:30:50.380 | For God in this silly, absurd way loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son,
00:30:58.100 | and whoever looks up in faith will not perish but have eternal life."
00:31:05.220 | Numbers 21.
00:31:06.460 | We see the people in the wilderness doing what they do best, and we've been in Hebrews,
00:31:09.980 | right?
00:31:10.980 | What do they do best?
00:31:11.980 | Drift, rebel, lay hands on.
00:31:12.980 | Numbers 21, God sends fiery serpents, and in verse 7 of Numbers 21, we see a kind of
00:31:22.300 | repentance, and they say, "We have sinned, Moses, because we have spoken against the
00:31:26.740 | Lord and you.
00:31:28.380 | We are scared of the consequences.
00:31:29.380 | Intercede with the Lord that He may remove the serpent from us."
00:31:35.580 | So God told Moses to fashion a bronze serpent and to raise it up on a staff, and all they
00:31:40.980 | have to do to be saved from these fiery serpents is just to look.
00:31:46.340 | Basically the message is, "Look and live."
00:31:50.460 | For God in this way loved the world.
00:31:52.780 | He made Him who knew no sin to become sin for us that we might become the righteousness
00:31:57.740 | of God.
00:31:58.940 | So the appropriate response when you and I find ourselves drifting as individuals, when
00:32:03.980 | you and I find ourselves in sin, isn't primarily greater religious effort.
00:32:12.380 | Sometimes our efforts are based more on superstition than on truth.
00:32:20.180 | God cares if you agree.
00:32:24.460 | Sometimes we are more afraid of the wrath and the judgment of God who already adopted
00:32:31.060 | us, who loves us as His children.
00:32:33.660 | We're more afraid of consequences.
00:32:34.660 | "Oh, my business is going to fail if I don't do this."
00:32:37.660 | We're more superstitious than we are faith-filled.
00:32:42.220 | And the appropriate response is not greater effort.
00:32:52.140 | You know what the people of God were doing to this bronze serpent from about 1500 to
00:32:55.740 | 700 BC?
00:32:59.300 | For 800 years, they saw a mystical power in this thing.
00:33:04.980 | It became a stone of legend.
00:33:07.860 | So they were burning incest to this thing.
00:33:08.860 | They even gave it a name, "Negushtan."
00:33:12.340 | Basically, it just means bronze serpent.
00:33:15.420 | They weren't that creative.
00:33:16.420 | They gave it a name.
00:33:17.420 | King Hezekiah, the righteous king, one of the first things that he did was just break
00:33:21.940 | it in pieces.
00:33:22.940 | This has no power to save you.
00:33:28.660 | You see, when we misdiagnose our problem of sin and of our flesh, we naturally try to
00:33:39.420 | be more moral.
00:33:40.740 | We naturally conform to the church's expectations.
00:33:44.080 | We naturally just try and get more vital knowledge in our heads.
00:33:49.020 | But that, in and of itself, those are good things.
00:33:53.140 | But that doesn't cure this problem of drifting.
00:33:58.940 | So then the question is, how do we stay anchored in Christ?
00:34:03.060 | How do we stay anchored in Christ?
00:34:05.940 | That's actually a misleading question because if you're a child of God, guess what?
00:34:14.980 | Not by works.
00:34:15.980 | For by grace you have been saved through faith and that not of yourselves.
00:34:21.980 | It is the gift of God, not as a result of works, so that no one may boast.
00:34:25.780 | For we are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which he prepared beforehand
00:34:31.900 | that we would walk in them.
00:34:32.900 | It is not based on us.
00:34:33.900 | So if you are a child of God, you are already anchored in Christ.
00:34:34.900 | Hebrews 6, it says, "These are things God cannot buy," it says in Hebrews 6.
00:34:35.900 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:34:36.900 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:34:37.900 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:34:38.900 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:34:39.900 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:34:40.900 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:34:41.900 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:34:42.900 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:35:06.740 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:35:33.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:35:40.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:35:46.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:35:47.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:35:48.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:35:49.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:35:50.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:35:51.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:35:52.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:35:53.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:35:54.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:35:55.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:35:56.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:35:57.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:35:58.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:36:05.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:36:06.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:36:07.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:36:08.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:36:09.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:36:10.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:36:11.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:36:12.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:36:13.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:36:14.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:36:15.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:36:16.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:36:17.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:36:18.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:36:39.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:37:03.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:37:22.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:37:47.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:38:13.620 | And so we have this hope as an anchor for the soul.
00:38:42.620 | relationship that we have with Christ. So the application I'm going to leave you
00:38:48.500 | with is, simply tighten the slack on the anchor. Because at the end of
00:38:58.100 | the day, too much slack, what happens when a big wave comes? Damage! My
00:39:08.380 | encouragement and exhortation is simply this. Remember that you are a child of
00:39:19.340 | God, an heir to the kingdom of God, and that He loves you with an absurd, silly,
00:39:28.220 | reckless love. And His desire for you is just to understand fully and appreciate
00:39:39.340 | and be free in His love. That's it. There is no step one, step two, step three to
00:39:50.940 | having a good relationship with God, just like there is no step one, step two, step
00:39:55.260 | three to having a solid marriage. There's a constant adjustment that's needed. But
00:40:03.340 | our anchor that is sure and steadfast on the back of our shirts, what is the
00:40:08.300 | anchor? What Christ has done and what He is continuing to do now. Jesus Himself
00:40:17.580 | praised, John 17, 17 sanctified that in your truth, your word is truth. So
00:40:26.020 | whatever you can do to incline your ear to hear the voice of your Heavenly
00:40:32.060 | Father, do it. And naturally you will see yourself just tightening that slack. And
00:40:41.340 | who knows that will impact your family. Who knows you tightening that slack will
00:40:48.620 | encourage other members of this body of Christ. Religious effort will lead you to
00:40:58.700 | discouragement. Now that's not, I'm not saying don't try, but don't put your hope
00:41:05.500 | in yourself because there's nothing good in you outside of Christ. Amen?
00:41:15.340 | May the Lord remind us of His love afresh in this retreat. And may He astound us
00:41:26.500 | with more and more truths of how silly His love is that we would respond
00:41:31.860 | appropriately. Let's pray together. Lord we need you. Lord we so desperately need you.
00:41:43.340 | We are forgetful, rebellious people and we keep returning to our folly. So we
00:42:01.660 | pray knowing that the only hope for all of this is Christ. Lord draw near to us
00:42:12.180 | so that we may see you as you are and be changed by your nearness. We plead with you to draw near.
00:42:27.060 | In this we pray. In Jesus' name.