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2019-8-11 The Reality


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00:00:00.000 | - Good morning, everybody.
00:00:08.280 | If you would take a moment to turn to your apps or your bulletins for some of our announcements.
00:00:15.800 | The first is that we have a special baptism service scheduled for September 29th, Sunday,
00:00:22.960 | at 2.30 p.m.
00:00:25.040 | Please just mark that on your calendars because it's an important time for our church members
00:00:29.400 | to come together, hear and listen to the testimony of those brothers and sisters who are professing
00:00:35.680 | their faith.
00:00:37.340 | But also, if you would like to get baptized, please email Pastor Nathan Kwok over at the
00:00:45.080 | email that you see there.
00:00:47.300 | Another thing I'd like to highlight is that for all the parents in our church who have
00:00:51.920 | their children in our education department, there's going to be a meeting on August 18th
00:00:57.520 | at 2 p.m.
00:00:58.520 | So please make sure you mark your calendars for that.
00:01:03.080 | There's also intentional moms fellowship sign up for the ladies to come together and fellowship.
00:01:09.160 | It happens Friday mornings, 9.30 to 11.30 a.m.
00:01:12.880 | So if you'd like to participate, please go ahead and go to the teen URL link and you
00:01:18.240 | can sign up there.
00:01:20.080 | The last announcement is that we have an all-church picnic scheduled for October 20th.
00:01:26.280 | So please make sure you save the date.
00:01:27.920 | We're going to start sign-ups a little bit later on, but we just want you guys to make
00:01:31.680 | sure you can participate.
00:01:33.940 | We don't have too many events through the year where the whole church can come together.
00:01:38.780 | We want our church, even though we're growing in size or whatever it may be, to be able
00:01:43.120 | to join together and be in fellowship with each other and to know who are also part of
00:01:47.600 | the community.
00:01:48.600 | So please make sure you save that date and the registration is going to be coming soon.
00:01:52.560 | Well, as you guys know, this weekend we have most of our couples and family members over
00:01:59.440 | at a retreat in Palm Desert.
00:02:01.140 | So we want to just keep them in prayer that that's a spiritually just fruitful time, both
00:02:06.080 | fellowship but more so in learning, focusing on what does it mean to be a family that's
00:02:11.560 | anchored in Christ.
00:02:12.560 | So let's continue to pray for them as they're still over there at that retreat.
00:02:18.120 | Okay, please take your Bibles and turn to Psalm chapter 73.
00:02:24.840 | Now it's 28 verses and we're going to read it together and we'll walk down this passage
00:02:31.520 | and then take a moment to pray for God's blessing on our time and the Word.
00:02:37.960 | Psalm 73.
00:02:42.320 | It says this, a Psalm of Asaph.
00:02:46.120 | "Surely God is good to Israel, to those who are pure in heart.
00:02:51.360 | But as for me, my feet came close to stumbling, my steps had almost slipped.
00:02:56.360 | For I was envious of the arrogant as I saw the prosperity of the wicked.
00:03:01.080 | For there are no pains in their death and their body is fat.
00:03:04.640 | They're not in trouble as other men, nor are they plagued like mankind.
00:03:08.640 | Therefore pride is their necklace, the garment of violence covers them.
00:03:11.520 | Their eyes bulge from fatness, the imaginations of their heart run riot.
00:03:15.640 | They mock and wickedly speak of oppression.
00:03:18.200 | They speak from on high.
00:03:20.080 | They have set their mouths against the heavens and their tongue parades through the earth.
00:03:24.920 | Therefore his people return to this place.
00:03:27.600 | The waters of abundance are drunk by them.
00:03:30.440 | They say, 'How does God know?
00:03:32.480 | And is their knowledge what the most high?
00:03:34.920 | Behold, these are the wicked.
00:03:38.000 | And always at ease, they have increased in wealth.
00:03:40.480 | Surely in vain I have kept my heart pure and washed my hands in innocence.
00:03:46.400 | For I have been stricken all day long and chastened every morning.
00:03:50.600 | If I had said, 'I will speak thus,' behold, I would have betrayed the generation of your
00:03:54.560 | children.
00:03:55.880 | Then I pondered to understand this, and it was troublesome in my sight.
00:04:01.520 | Until I came into the sanctuary of God.
00:04:04.880 | Then I perceived their end.
00:04:07.400 | Surely you set them in slippery places.
00:04:09.560 | You cast them down to destruction.
00:04:12.000 | How they are destroyed in a moment.
00:04:13.760 | They are utterly swept away by the sudden terrors.
00:04:16.880 | Like a dream when one awakes, O Lord, when aroused you will despise their form.
00:04:22.920 | When my heart was embittered and I was pierced within, then I was senseless and ignorant.
00:04:28.120 | I was like a beast before you.
00:04:30.360 | Nevertheless, I am continually with you.
00:04:32.960 | You have taken hold of my right hand.
00:04:35.600 | With your counsel you will guide me and afterward receive me to glory.
00:04:40.000 | Whom have I in heaven but you?
00:04:42.240 | And besides you I desire nothing on earth.
00:04:45.360 | My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.
00:04:50.640 | For behold, those who are far from you will perish.
00:04:53.780 | You have destroyed all those who are unfaithful to you.
00:04:56.880 | But as for me, the nearness of God is my good.
00:04:59.880 | I have made the Lord God my refuge that I may tell of your works.
00:05:05.760 | Let's take a moment to pray.
00:05:07.760 | God, we ask for your spiritual blessing that as we jump into your word, as we listen, Lord,
00:05:14.800 | that your spirit will grant to us open ears, humble hearts, receptiveness.
00:05:20.600 | And also, Father, God, help us to have spiritual eyes to see, is there any wickedness, any
00:05:27.040 | roots of bitterness in our hearts?
00:05:29.760 | Is there any envy and jealousy in our soul?
00:05:32.680 | God, that you would uproot those things and cause us to be filled with the wonder of your
00:05:38.240 | gracious work in our lives.
00:05:39.680 | We thank you in Christ's name, amen.
00:05:42.600 | Okay, jumping right into the passage, you notice that in Psalm 73 for Asaph, there is
00:05:49.040 | an incredible dilemma.
00:05:51.760 | So in verses one through three, Asaph describes in a nice introduction a dilemma that he sees.
00:05:59.160 | So I'm just going to read it again for us.
00:06:00.800 | And he says, "Surely God is good to Israel.
00:06:03.920 | This he knows as a principle of truth to those who are pure in heart.
00:06:09.280 | But as for me, my feet came close to stumbling, my steps had almost slipped, and I was envious
00:06:15.800 | of the arrogant as I saw the prosperity of the wicked."
00:06:20.080 | What is he talking about?
00:06:22.640 | He's talking about actually a really common dilemma for a lot of people.
00:06:27.520 | For a lot of people.
00:06:28.720 | You know what that is?
00:06:30.520 | You go on Facebook, you go on social media, you watch TV shows, maybe reality TV shows,
00:06:36.680 | you watch certain movies, and you see glamorous living.
00:06:41.600 | You see prosperous, free living where people are doing all kinds of things.
00:06:46.960 | Nowadays, you know what's really popular?
00:06:49.760 | Experiences.
00:06:51.260 | People who are able to go out to the remotest part of the jungle and count there.
00:06:55.240 | People who are able to go see different cultures.
00:06:57.280 | People who are able to go out and do all kinds of stuff.
00:07:00.240 | None of that is wicked.
00:07:01.600 | It's great.
00:07:02.600 | But you know what happens?
00:07:04.920 | All of a sudden, there's this weird tingling feeling in you that says, "That's so awesome."
00:07:10.160 | And then you look down and you go, "My life sucks."
00:07:13.960 | There is this immediate comparison that happens between what you see on TV, what you see on
00:07:18.600 | social media, and your quick evaluation of yourself.
00:07:22.800 | You know what that is called?
00:07:23.800 | It's called jealousy.
00:07:26.800 | It's called envy.
00:07:28.480 | Asaph immediately introduces us to a stumbling, to a dilemma, to a problem, and he says, "I
00:07:36.360 | was envious of the arrogant."
00:07:38.480 | He says, "I was envious of the arrogant."
00:07:42.880 | Just really quickly.
00:07:44.720 | If I were to be very honest with you, I'm a pastor that's dedicated my life to the Lord's
00:07:50.520 | work, to the Lord's people, to the Lord's church and His mission field.
00:07:54.240 | Am I not envious sometimes?
00:07:57.960 | Do I not have ambitions and desires?
00:08:01.480 | Just the other day, I was talking to my wife saying, "Dude, I saw this one episode with
00:08:05.240 | this guy.
00:08:06.240 | He was a professional in the working workforce.
00:08:09.400 | He was an engineer for a long time, and he just decided, 'You know what?
00:08:13.560 | I'm going to take my family and go live out into one of these open land where there aren't
00:08:19.160 | so many people.
00:08:20.160 | It's not so congested.
00:08:21.640 | He has a view of a mountain.
00:08:23.640 | He has an axe that he chops his wood with, and it's so manly, and I'm just like, 'Wow.'"
00:08:29.240 | And immediately, my wife looks over and goes, "But you can't be a pastor like that."
00:08:32.680 | That's true.
00:08:35.640 | But anytime you see a certain kind of living where there's freedom, where there's luxury,
00:08:41.240 | does that not elicit some kind of wishful thinking, kind of fantasy land?
00:08:46.400 | Now, again, I'm not saying immediately that's all wicked, but notice how that quickly turns
00:08:52.160 | into something for Asaph, and you know what that turns into?
00:08:55.640 | It turns into a sourness of heart.
00:08:59.480 | And biblically, that kind of sourness of heart is called bitterness.
00:09:03.520 | And what that bitterness does is it begins to judge.
00:09:07.960 | It begins to shape a reality.
00:09:09.600 | It begins to shape a perspective.
00:09:11.600 | And now in his eyes, all those people out there, those guys, they're wicked people.
00:09:18.200 | They're arrogant people.
00:09:19.480 | They're vicious people.
00:09:21.440 | What we have is a heart's desire turning into a position of authority and judging the world.
00:09:30.280 | Are we not successful to that?
00:09:32.800 | Have you ever never felt that?
00:09:36.040 | Where you have any kind of envy and desire, and when you compare and you compare and contrast
00:09:41.360 | their life versus your life, all of a sudden, you are tempted to have not just simply a
00:09:46.360 | kind of jealousy, but a kind of embitterment, a kind of discontent, depression?
00:09:53.080 | Ugh, there's an angst in you.
00:09:55.040 | And there is a conclusion typically at the end of that paragraph.
00:09:58.640 | You know what that conclusion is?
00:10:00.480 | This isn't fair.
00:10:02.840 | My life sucks.
00:10:05.480 | So many people talk like that in our generation.
00:10:08.680 | There is a complaint towards the Lord.
00:10:11.360 | Where is mine?
00:10:12.240 | What's in it for me?
00:10:13.560 | And should I even continue trying to walk this noble path when all of those individuals
00:10:19.200 | with their freedoms and liberties, they're just living it up?
00:10:24.080 | Is this worth it for me?
00:10:26.560 | That is a very, very honest and real struggle that I think a lot of people have in our day.
00:10:33.200 | Psalm 73 is so real.
00:10:35.560 | It's absolutely relevant for us today.
00:10:39.680 | And so, I want to talk about this a little bit more in this dilemma.
00:10:44.120 | Deep down here, there are a couple of things that is a dilemma for Asaph.
00:10:48.000 | Why?
00:10:49.080 | Because there's a struggle.
00:10:51.320 | You see, Asaph wouldn't have a struggle if he wasn't taught biblically.
00:10:54.800 | You know what he was taught?
00:10:56.400 | God is good, right?
00:10:59.880 | For all of you here, you're here because you know God is good.
00:11:04.560 | If you believe God was a horrible, horrible, harsh being, you wouldn't be in these seats
00:11:09.280 | because then you would have to listen to a person you can't trust.
00:11:13.160 | But you know God is good.
00:11:15.160 | That's the dilemma.
00:11:16.160 | Asaph knew from when he was a child, he was taught, he knows deep down in his heart, God
00:11:22.280 | is good to Israel.
00:11:23.960 | He's good to people.
00:11:25.160 | He's good to those who are pure in heart.
00:11:27.800 | But then what is the problem?
00:11:29.640 | What the problem is, that completely contrasts and conflicts with what he sees with his eyes.
00:11:35.880 | He says, "Oh, on the contrary, I see this conflict.
00:11:39.000 | I know you're good, but look.
00:11:40.840 | Look at the arrogance.
00:11:42.880 | Look at those people.
00:11:44.920 | Those people who are vile, always selling themselves, always marketing themselves.
00:11:50.560 | Look how good I am.
00:11:51.560 | Look how much I've done.
00:11:53.320 | Look what I've experienced.
00:11:54.840 | Follow me.
00:11:55.840 | Subscribe, subscribe."
00:11:56.840 | Right?
00:11:57.840 | Look at these people.
00:12:00.600 | How is it that these individuals are being blessed by God when I know God is good?
00:12:07.280 | Brothers and sisters, this may not seem like the biggest problem in the world.
00:12:12.280 | However, this is a major issue.
00:12:14.880 | Why?
00:12:15.880 | This is at the core of the struggle of faith.
00:12:19.080 | Will you judge with your eyes on what you see?
00:12:22.480 | Or will you judge by faith, by what God has told you?
00:12:27.040 | What Asaph sees with his eyes is just all kinds of backwardness where wicked people
00:12:32.680 | are blessed.
00:12:33.680 | They have possessions, luxuries, and pleasures.
00:12:36.880 | And then immediately he looks at himself and is like, "The nation of Israel, me and people
00:12:41.000 | like me, we barely have little.
00:12:43.560 | We only have provision for that day.
00:12:46.840 | What gives?"
00:12:49.040 | And so that's my question to you.
00:12:51.800 | Do you currently operate by sight and you judge what's fair and what's not fair based
00:12:58.560 | on what you see with your eyes?
00:13:01.000 | Or are you judging things based on what God has told you, his word?
00:13:06.400 | What he said he's going to do into the future that you have not yet seen?
00:13:11.200 | That's the struggle of faith, isn't it?
00:13:13.840 | Now I'm going to ask this question.
00:13:16.680 | What did Asaph see with his eyes then?
00:13:19.440 | What caused him so much grief?
00:13:22.480 | Let's continue to look at our passage in Psalm 73 verses 4 through 12.
00:13:27.400 | The next section I'm going to call this, the fat cats.
00:13:31.760 | The fat cats.
00:13:32.760 | Why?
00:13:33.760 | Look what he says.
00:13:35.320 | Verses 4.
00:13:36.480 | "For there are no pains in their death.
00:13:39.720 | Their body is fat.
00:13:41.800 | They are not in trouble as other men, nor are they plagued like mankind.
00:13:46.240 | Therefore pride is their necklace.
00:13:48.080 | The garment of violence covers them.
00:13:49.960 | Their eyes bulge with fatness.
00:13:52.120 | The imagination of their hearts from riot.
00:13:54.400 | They mock and wickedly speak of oppression.
00:13:56.880 | They speak from on high.
00:13:58.040 | They set their mouths against the heavens and their tongues parades through the earth.
00:14:02.480 | For as people return to this place when waters of abundance are drunk by them, they say,
00:14:06.280 | 'How does God know?
00:14:08.040 | And is their knowledge with the most high?
00:14:10.520 | Behold, these are the wicked.
00:14:13.200 | Always at ease.
00:14:14.200 | They have increased in wealth.'"
00:14:15.760 | What did he see?
00:14:16.760 | I'm going to break down what he saw into three categories.
00:14:21.240 | And I have it right up here.
00:14:22.760 | First, that he just saw like, "They have so much."
00:14:27.160 | Does that sound really childish?
00:14:28.360 | Yes, it does.
00:14:30.040 | When a little boy looks at his friend and his friend has twice the number of toys, candy,
00:14:35.240 | whatever it may be, immediately he's like, "That's not fair."
00:14:39.440 | Why?
00:14:40.440 | Why is that not fair?
00:14:42.120 | Because he has more than me, right?
00:14:44.160 | But that's what he sees though.
00:14:45.760 | Look at verse 7.
00:14:46.760 | "Their eyes are bulging with fatness."
00:14:48.680 | I mean, the imagery is quite descriptive.
00:14:50.880 | It's like, they have so much.
00:14:52.920 | Their flesh is coming out the different sides of their body, right?
00:14:56.280 | They have so much.
00:14:58.200 | I mean, we live in a generation...
00:14:59.200 | Again, remember like for a long, long period of time, throughout history, people lived
00:15:05.160 | in a kind of lifestyle where they had provision for the day.
00:15:09.440 | You guys have probably heard that most of the people throughout all of history didn't
00:15:12.520 | have, you know, shoes for running, shoes for tennis, shoes for basketball, and shoes for
00:15:17.680 | style, right?
00:15:18.680 | They had one pair of shoes, one cloak, one whatever it may be.
00:15:23.560 | And he's looking at them like, "Look at how much they have."
00:15:27.360 | It's just spewing out.
00:15:28.360 | Look at their abundance.
00:15:30.680 | My question to you real quickly, have you seen people with museums of possessions and
00:15:36.840 | become jealous?
00:15:37.840 | Recently, I confess, sometimes I watch these silly YouTube videos.
00:15:43.560 | One of the silly ones that I saw was Celine Dion was on car karaoke with the talk show
00:15:48.480 | host.
00:15:49.480 | You guys know what I'm talking about?
00:15:50.480 | Some of you have seen it.
00:15:51.480 | If you haven't, it's kind of funny.
00:15:53.600 | This guy, the talk show host, is in his car.
00:15:55.560 | He has a celebrity who's an amazing singer, and he just starts singing karaoke in the
00:15:59.640 | car.
00:16:00.640 | It happened to be Celine Dion.
00:16:01.640 | Crazy figure, one of the most well-known singers in the world, right?
00:16:05.800 | Did you know that she has over 10,000 shoes?
00:16:13.000 | She has to have a separate building to house her shoes.
00:16:18.560 | They've created some kind of mechanical structure to produce where they could have a screen.
00:16:24.560 | She looks up certain shoes, and it comes to her.
00:16:27.440 | That's insane.
00:16:29.400 | What happened was that the talk show host brought some of her shoes and said, "You have
00:16:32.840 | too many.
00:16:33.840 | Give it away."
00:16:34.840 | She was like, "No."
00:16:35.840 | Then she just started passing them out.
00:16:37.960 | She rolled down the window like, "Hey," and everyone was like, "Oh my God, it's Celine
00:16:40.920 | Dion," and then she would pass out her shoes.
00:16:43.000 | I'm sitting there, kind of dumbfounded.
00:16:45.120 | Why?
00:16:46.120 | Because I all of a sudden had this reaction.
00:16:47.120 | "She's going to give away those shoes?
00:16:49.960 | Those shoes are quite nice."
00:16:50.960 | I was like, "What am I doing?
00:16:51.960 | Put this away."
00:16:52.960 | Now, why do I bring up that silly scenario is because I'm willing to bet that when you
00:17:01.080 | hear something like that, half of you says, "That's ridiculous."
00:17:04.000 | The other half of you says, "That'd be kind of cool," right?
00:17:08.240 | Because I know some of you have shoe collections.
00:17:11.320 | Part of you thinks it would be nice to have a machine that comes around when you pick
00:17:14.280 | the shoe and it matches your outfit and just comes to you.
00:17:17.520 | Now, the shoes are my cup of tea.
00:17:20.640 | Do you know who I kind of envy?
00:17:22.480 | Have you guys heard of Jay Leno?
00:17:24.320 | Do you know how many cars he owns?
00:17:27.280 | 342 cars.
00:17:29.280 | Some, some of the rarest in the world.
00:17:32.840 | Does he have a separate building for those cars?
00:17:34.520 | Of course he does.
00:17:35.520 | He has multiple.
00:17:36.520 | Now, why do I bring this up?
00:17:39.200 | Not because I'm trying to just simply talk about these famous actors, famous talk show
00:17:44.040 | hosts and singers, but because those videos have millions of hits.
00:17:49.120 | Because Jay Leno has his own channel just on going, walking around his cars.
00:17:55.360 | And people envy that.
00:17:57.320 | I'm confessing for you right now.
00:18:00.480 | People envy that stuff.
00:18:03.560 | That could cause a dilemma for you.
00:18:05.600 | It could cause your heart to stumble.
00:18:07.520 | Yes?
00:18:08.520 | Now, you might be sitting there like, I'm going to be honest, man.
00:18:11.080 | I'm very content living in my apartment.
00:18:13.080 | I don't need 50,000 pairs of clothes.
00:18:15.160 | I literally have like six pairs of clothes, like outfits in my closet, and I'm good.
00:18:20.880 | Okay.
00:18:21.880 | I get that.
00:18:23.120 | But I'm willing to bet many of us are tempted by the next thing, which is the wicked are
00:18:26.840 | more free.
00:18:28.240 | Think about what he says here.
00:18:29.520 | He says there's no pain in their death.
00:18:33.040 | He says there's no trouble.
00:18:34.760 | There's no plague.
00:18:36.060 | There's no limitation.
00:18:37.060 | Why?
00:18:38.060 | Because when nations run riot, look at what he's talking about.
00:18:42.160 | They always are at what?
00:18:43.640 | Verse 12.
00:18:44.640 | Ease.
00:18:45.640 | How many of you would die for at least a month with no stress?
00:18:51.360 | Right?
00:18:53.920 | A vast array of counseling scenarios happen because there's so much stress in your workplace,
00:18:58.560 | so much stress in your home.
00:19:00.120 | The expectations of your family, the expectations of the people around you, the expectations
00:19:04.160 | of people who are dependent on you is so burdensome.
00:19:09.220 | But the rich, the wicked, they're at so much ease.
00:19:13.560 | They have no pain, no troubles, no burden, no sickness.
00:19:20.420 | And then there can be a sense of bitterness.
00:19:22.900 | I've actually heard people talk like that.
00:19:24.620 | It's like, "You know, one day I wish that guy, he needs to suffer a little bit."
00:19:29.220 | Not that I would wish ill upon their soul, but he needs to suffer a little bit because
00:19:32.740 | man, that fool does not understand what it means to live in this world.
00:19:37.540 | Have you ever thought like that?
00:19:40.260 | Some of us are tempted by this and I'd be willing to bet that now in our day, you know,
00:19:45.900 | having huge mansions, all that stuff is overrated.
00:19:50.140 | But some of us would love to have the kind of freedom where we don't have to be burdened
00:19:54.900 | by stuff.
00:19:55.900 | We don't have to be stressed.
00:19:58.380 | Right?
00:19:59.420 | But you know, he also says they're so proud.
00:20:03.100 | They can just let their mouths run wild.
00:20:05.420 | They say all this stuff.
00:20:06.420 | They're like, "You know what?
00:20:07.420 | I'm going to speak my mind."
00:20:08.660 | And then they boast, "Look what I've done."
00:20:10.860 | And you know what's really crazy?
00:20:14.620 | Our generation eats that up.
00:20:17.780 | Seriously.
00:20:19.480 | There are times when all I'm doing is just watching, even if I'm watching like Christian
00:20:23.540 | videos, I get advertisements where this guy, he's like really, really well put together,
00:20:28.380 | incredibly articulated, and he's telling me what to do.
00:20:30.620 | He's like, "You know what?
00:20:31.620 | In order to be a man, you got to build your own brand."
00:20:33.900 | Right?
00:20:34.900 | "You got to invest in who?
00:20:37.900 | Yourself.
00:20:39.020 | You got to build up your skills and you got to sell your..."
00:20:41.420 | It's like, "What?"
00:20:43.460 | And people pay thousands to learn from this guy as their coach.
00:20:48.900 | That's the truth of our generation.
00:20:51.180 | People love that stuff.
00:20:54.500 | People love that stuff.
00:20:56.500 | And Asaph is looking at this thinking, "What in the world is going on?
00:21:01.900 | How is this fair?
00:21:04.340 | How is God, who I know is good, not allowing us to prosper, but he's giving these wicked
00:21:11.100 | individuals prosperity, ease, and peace?
00:21:14.820 | Everything seems so backwards.
00:21:18.260 | What gives?"
00:21:20.620 | You can tell his heart is leaning towards bitterness because he's starting to judge
00:21:24.740 | now.
00:21:25.740 | He is starting to judge that this isn't right.
00:21:28.740 | He is starting to judge that this isn't good.
00:21:31.620 | Let me ask you, have you ever felt that?
00:21:35.100 | Perhaps you haven't verbalized it with words, articulated it in that way, but you've felt
00:21:39.740 | that frustration where you deem something, "This ain't right.
00:21:44.400 | This is not good."
00:21:46.700 | Or you just use the kind of more, you know, elementary lingo.
00:21:50.540 | "This is not okay."
00:21:53.140 | Maybe you felt like that.
00:21:56.300 | Perhaps in even more intimate settings, husbands and wives, if there's bitterness between a
00:22:02.380 | husband and wife, where a spouse feels like their significant other is getting away with
00:22:07.500 | all kinds of arrogance and selfishness, right?
00:22:12.420 | Do married people ever point the finger like, "Oh my goodness, you are so prideful and you're
00:22:17.740 | so selfish."
00:22:21.020 | Does that ever happen?
00:22:22.020 | It can.
00:22:25.340 | Do those sentiments exist in even intimate, private settings?
00:22:29.620 | Absolutely.
00:22:31.100 | Absolutely.
00:22:32.300 | What do you do?
00:22:33.700 | Well, the temptation and the stumbling is this, okay?
00:22:38.460 | Verse 13 through 16, let's turn our eyes to the passage and read.
00:22:42.300 | Asaph says this, he's so open and vulnerable, and he says, "Surely, surely, in vain I have
00:22:50.580 | kept my heart pure and washed my hands in innocence.
00:22:54.700 | I've been stricken all day long and chastened every morning.
00:22:58.740 | If I said I will speak thus, behold, I would have betrayed the generation of your children.
00:23:03.420 | When I pondered to understand this, it was troublesome in my sight."
00:23:06.580 | Do you see the temptation?
00:23:09.420 | Do you see the stumbling?
00:23:11.260 | Do you see the wrong path?
00:23:12.860 | Asaph sees and almost takes.
00:23:16.420 | I'm going to call this next section, verse 13 through 16, the depressed comparison.
00:23:21.900 | What he says is, "First, when I look at my life compared to their lives, I have done
00:23:26.860 | all kinds of goodness, righteousness, come to church, been a noble person, made sure
00:23:31.460 | I upheld the standards of God.
00:23:33.340 | All of that was rubbish.
00:23:34.340 | It's vain, empty, right?
00:23:37.860 | Useless."
00:23:39.340 | But when you think like that, the temptation is, then forget it.
00:23:43.980 | You're going to get nasty?
00:23:44.980 | You're going to do that to me?
00:23:48.020 | Then fine.
00:23:49.500 | I can outdo you, right?
00:23:53.860 | You're going to be selfish?
00:23:54.860 | Oh, you don't think I can get angry?
00:23:58.380 | Watch me.
00:24:00.180 | That's the temptation.
00:24:02.180 | You join them.
00:24:04.140 | And he says, "If I spoke what was in my mind," oh man, you better plug your children's ears.
00:24:09.580 | Like that's pretty much what he's saying, right?
00:24:11.140 | I would have betrayed the generation of your children means, "If I said what I was actually
00:24:15.540 | thinking," oh man.
00:24:20.180 | You see, Asaph felt stricken, reprimanded.
00:24:25.180 | He felt punished.
00:24:26.180 | He literally says, "I felt like I was being chastened and oppressed."
00:24:29.580 | See, there are people who talk like that sometimes.
00:24:34.140 | When I counsel young individuals who are laboring and striving, and I want to say, yes, I acknowledge
00:24:41.100 | and see that people are working hard and it's hard.
00:24:45.100 | Sometimes life is hard.
00:24:46.540 | And you feel like you're just hitting wall after wall.
00:24:49.100 | You tried walking this way, whether it be investing in certain education, maybe you
00:24:53.620 | try walking this way.
00:24:54.620 | You know, I'm not going to cut corners.
00:24:55.660 | I'm going to make sure I do my work heartily for the Lord.
00:24:59.980 | I'm going to make sure that I be patient in long suffering, and they just keep hitting
00:25:03.780 | wall after wall.
00:25:05.980 | Yes?
00:25:07.260 | And as they do that, they start feeling like, "Is God like, is he out to get me?"
00:25:14.220 | And there are moments when I counsel people, they literally feel punished.
00:25:18.220 | Brothers and sisters, if any of you are there right now, this passage is going to be so
00:25:26.540 | encouraging for you.
00:25:29.300 | The Lord is not out to get people.
00:25:33.320 | The Lord is a loving Father.
00:25:36.000 | Will he guide you?
00:25:37.860 | Will he instruct you?
00:25:39.480 | Will he discipline you?
00:25:41.420 | Yes.
00:25:42.600 | But it's going to be from his loving hand.
00:25:45.700 | Amen?
00:25:46.700 | But at the same time, Asaph says, "But this is how I felt.
00:25:51.860 | When I looked at their lives and I looked at mine, this is how I felt."
00:25:57.780 | Here's the turnaround, verse 17.
00:25:59.280 | This is huge.
00:26:00.280 | If you're underlining your Bibles and stuff, you're going to want to do this one.
00:26:04.820 | Okay?
00:26:05.820 | What Asaph needed was a dose of reality because he was seeing with his eyes.
00:26:11.140 | Clearly he observed.
00:26:12.140 | And he said, "I perceived this thing that's happening in my life."
00:26:16.700 | But then he says this, verse 17, "It was troublesome, it was burdensome, it was heavy until I came
00:26:25.860 | into the sanctuary of God.
00:26:28.220 | Then I perceived their end."
00:26:32.020 | That's an amazing passage right there.
00:26:33.860 | "I came into the presence and sanctuary of the Lord and then I actually genuinely, really
00:26:40.820 | perceived.
00:26:42.860 | I saw truth and reality."
00:26:45.180 | That's what he's saying.
00:26:47.400 | You see, remember I called, I asked you guys to think about this.
00:26:51.100 | Our Christian struggle is not just you fighting vices of the world.
00:26:55.980 | It's not just you trying to make sure you're a good Christian, coming to church, making
00:27:00.660 | sure that you're a noble man.
00:27:03.060 | Your struggle is a struggle of faith and you're going to be regularly challenged with, "Will
00:27:07.660 | you judge the world by what you see or will you judge the world by what you hear from
00:27:13.100 | the Lord, by his presence?"
00:27:16.580 | And that's exactly what Asaph is doing.
00:27:20.020 | What I'm telling you is this, for us, when we come to church, it's not just a means for
00:27:26.540 | you to find little help so that you can get through life.
00:27:29.540 | What you're doing is radically changing how you perceive your entire world.
00:27:36.580 | You're receiving truth from God, expanding your perception, and then accurately and realistically
00:27:43.940 | seeing all that is in the universe.
00:27:48.340 | You're renewing your mind.
00:27:50.100 | That's what's happening.
00:27:51.780 | And so what he says is this, "I came into the sanctuary and I perceived."
00:27:56.980 | What I'm going to do now is show you four things that Asaph saw, four things that Asaph
00:28:02.460 | saw that's going to help us battle all the stuff that we just said.
00:28:07.140 | Battle envy, battle bitterness, battle discontent heart, battle depression.
00:28:12.300 | Asaph saw four pivotal things, and here we go at the first.
00:28:16.180 | Verse 17 through 20, he says this, "I came into the sanctuary of God and I perceived
00:28:22.180 | their end.
00:28:24.020 | Suddenly you set them in a slippery place and you cast them down to destruction.
00:28:28.140 | How they are destroyed in a moment.
00:28:31.260 | They're utterly swept away by sudden terrors like a dream when one awakens, O Lord.
00:28:36.860 | When aroused, you despise their form."
00:28:41.980 | You despise their form.
00:28:43.420 | What is he saying?
00:28:44.700 | He sees the end of this game.
00:28:48.860 | If we were to think of all life as a game, and part of the reason why you think it's
00:28:52.500 | unfair is because you think you're trying to play this game by the rules.
00:28:56.940 | You think you're playing the game the right way, right?
00:28:59.460 | You're taking the high road.
00:29:00.460 | And you see all those guys finding loopholes, cheating, being nasty, poor sportsmanship,
00:29:06.420 | and you're like, "What?
00:29:08.100 | That's not fair."
00:29:10.260 | And then he realizes, "Oh, wait a minute.
00:29:12.500 | I see the end.
00:29:14.420 | When I see God, I see a bigger picture, and in that bigger picture, I see the end that
00:29:18.980 | before them is certain destruction."
00:29:24.100 | Before them is not like, "You know, maybe God as judge is going to deal with the wickedness
00:29:28.360 | of the people."
00:29:29.360 | No, he says, "As certain, as certain as possible, God has set their path."
00:29:38.380 | You see, what I'm talking about is this.
00:29:41.540 | There are so many people who will say this, "The number one problem of the Christian faith
00:29:45.740 | is the problem of evil."
00:29:48.620 | How in the world is God who is supposed to be good and powerful allowing all sorts of
00:29:54.220 | wickedness, these thieves, murderers, all these kind of vicious things to happen in
00:29:58.900 | this world?
00:29:59.900 | He says, "This is a problem."
00:30:02.980 | And I always say, "You know, I'm not going to get all philosophical on you.
00:30:07.560 | Some scholars do.
00:30:08.560 | They're like, 'You know, in all possible universes, this is the best possible…'"
00:30:12.260 | No, I'm not going to talk about that.
00:30:14.060 | You know what I'm going to say to you?
00:30:16.900 | God has an easy, easy answer for you.
00:30:20.540 | Just wait a little bit.
00:30:23.260 | It'll be all good.
00:30:25.780 | Every wicked person who has said one wicked thing is going to be punished.
00:30:30.020 | There is not a wicked thought you're going to get away with.
00:30:33.660 | To a meticulous degree, for every detail of ungodliness in this world, I am going to punish.
00:30:40.860 | Have you ever read the book of Revelation?
00:30:43.820 | It's scary, right?
00:30:46.740 | The problem of evil is not a problem of evil.
00:30:48.820 | It's just a problem of time.
00:30:51.820 | That's it.
00:30:52.820 | You just wait.
00:30:55.380 | Do you understand when the Lord says, "Time is up," all forms of wickedness will be punished.
00:31:02.980 | Turn in your Bibles to 2 Peter chapter 3.
00:31:06.020 | Take a moment, please, to turn in your Bibles to 2 Peter chapter 3.
00:31:10.580 | And Apostle Peter explains to everyone the concept of wickedness, the concept of patience,
00:31:19.100 | and what in the world is God doing with all that.
00:31:21.980 | Okay?
00:31:23.260 | So 2 Peter chapter 3.
00:31:28.220 | He says this, starting from verse 3.
00:31:30.580 | So 2 Peter chapter 3, verse 3.
00:31:32.660 | Knowing this, first of all, that scoffers will come in the last days with scoffing,
00:31:37.580 | following their own sinful desires.
00:31:40.580 | They'll say, "Where is the promise of his coming?
00:31:43.740 | For ever since the fathers fell asleep, all things are continuing as they were from the
00:31:47.540 | beginning of creation.
00:31:49.360 | For they deliberately overlook this fact, that the heavens existed long ago, and the
00:31:54.540 | earth was formed out of water and through water by the word of God, and that by means
00:31:58.900 | of these, the world that then existed was deluged with water and perished."
00:32:03.780 | What is he saying?
00:32:04.780 | Don't you guys forget God is able to judge all wickedness.
00:32:09.020 | He's done it before.
00:32:11.380 | And then he says, verse 7, "But by the same word of the heavens and earth that now exist
00:32:15.620 | are stored up for fire, being kept until the day of judgment and destruction of the ungodly.
00:32:21.780 | But do not overlook this one fact, beloved, that with the Lord one day is a thousand years,
00:32:28.460 | and a thousand years as one day.
00:32:30.700 | The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise, as some count slowness, but is patient towards
00:32:36.020 | you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance.
00:32:40.860 | But the day of the Lord will come like a thief, and then the heavens will pass away with a
00:32:45.340 | roar, and the heavenly bodies will be burnt up and dissolved, and the earth and the works
00:32:50.740 | that are done on it will be exposed."
00:32:55.180 | See, Asaph's initial complaint is, "God, do you even see this stuff?"
00:33:03.660 | Did you guys notice earlier, it's like, "How will God even know all this stuff is happening?"
00:33:08.500 | No.
00:33:10.260 | The reality is God is going to expose every single evil and sin, and he's gonna judge
00:33:17.260 | it.
00:33:18.340 | He's just giving us time to repent.
00:33:21.740 | That's it.
00:33:23.260 | And the kind of judgment that's going to come is so scary.
00:33:27.180 | People are going to literally run, people are gonna in feebleness try to hide underneath
00:33:32.020 | rocks, and they're going to wish they were crushed to death by the earth before they
00:33:37.160 | face the wrath of God.
00:33:39.540 | That's an incredible thing.
00:33:41.820 | So what happens is when Asaph walks into God's temple, he realizes, "God sees everything.
00:33:49.540 | God is going to judge."
00:33:51.160 | And as soon as he does that, he opens his eyes, and just like before, he looked out,
00:33:56.920 | and then he looked in.
00:33:58.340 | Initially he looked out, and he said, "What?
00:34:00.420 | They have it so good."
00:34:01.420 | And then he looked in, he's like, "Oh, look at me.
00:34:03.660 | My life sucks."
00:34:05.140 | But now that his eyes are open, he looked, and he's like, "Oh my gosh, they're gonna
00:34:07.780 | die."
00:34:08.860 | And then he looked at himself, and he realized, "I'm actually not so much different."
00:34:15.780 | The next thing he sees is he sees his own heart.
00:34:19.100 | Take a look at verse 21 through 24.
00:34:22.500 | So go back in your Bibles to Psalm 73, and take a look at verse 21 through 24.
00:34:28.480 | This is what he says, "When my heart was embittered, I was pierced within.
00:34:35.460 | Then I was senseless, and I was ignorant, and I was like a beast before you.
00:34:39.980 | Nevertheless, I'm continually with you, and you have taken hold of my right hand."
00:34:44.740 | Do you see what he's saying?
00:34:47.460 | This he realizes, like, "Dude, God is in control, and the extent of his control is
00:34:52.780 | massive, and he's gonna judge every single wickedness that's on this earth."
00:34:56.580 | He quickly looks at himself, he's like, "Oh my goodness.
00:34:58.580 | What in the world was I saying?
00:35:01.740 | I was like a bumbling fool."
00:35:03.340 | Can I take my words back?
00:35:06.380 | There's just a moment of just regret, like, "Oh my goodness, I can't believe I even said
00:35:09.860 | that stuff.
00:35:11.460 | I was like a beast."
00:35:13.700 | He describes himself as having a bitter heart, and you guys have all probably experienced
00:35:19.420 | at one point or another, when you are bitter, you are not arguing reasonably.
00:35:25.980 | You're just sour.
00:35:26.980 | You're not arguing based on truth.
00:35:32.100 | When you're bitter, all you see is red.
00:35:34.900 | When you're bitter, you've already gone far past trying to evaluate.
00:35:38.500 | You've gone far past just simply judging.
00:35:40.660 | You're a bitter individual who will not be appeased until you have justice.
00:35:47.220 | See, at that moment, if you're bitter, you're already way too far.
00:35:52.860 | And so Asaph says, "Oh, once I look at my heart, I'm pierced.
00:35:58.220 | I was senseless.
00:35:59.540 | I was ignorant."
00:36:01.420 | He has the humility.
00:36:04.140 | He has the humility to say that, yes, although in his human eyes, it doesn't seem fair.
00:36:13.580 | Why is it that they're so selfish, and yet you keep calling me to be selfless?
00:36:18.420 | It doesn't seem fair at all.
00:36:21.020 | And maybe he feels hurt by that.
00:36:22.720 | Maybe he feels disgruntled by that.
00:36:24.580 | And yet he has the humility to say, "I was wrong.
00:36:29.140 | Absolutely wrong."
00:36:30.540 | And remember, remember that in verse one, he says, "God is supposed to be good to the
00:36:35.260 | pure in heart, and that now is being examined."
00:36:38.620 | God, I'm going to have the humility for your presence to examine even that statement.
00:36:47.700 | I falsely assumed I was pure in heart.
00:36:50.540 | You guys get that?
00:36:52.420 | "God, that's not fair.
00:36:54.100 | You're supposed to be good to Israel because Israel is your people, and you're supposed
00:36:57.140 | to be good to people who are good.
00:36:59.820 | Why do good people suffer?"
00:37:03.460 | And then he stops and thinks, "I made a massive presumption, Lord.
00:37:09.140 | I presume my heart was already pure before you.
00:37:13.020 | But as I look inside, I have envy.
00:37:15.580 | As I look inside, I have greed.
00:37:18.580 | Truthfully speaking, I was jealous, and truthfully speaking, I was judgmental."
00:37:25.100 | He is open to the scrutiny of God, and then he confesses, "I was like an animal.
00:37:31.340 | I'm like a beast."
00:37:33.140 | Had this knee-jerk reaction, right?
00:37:35.740 | I saw something and I spoke.
00:37:38.580 | Why does he call himself a beast?
00:37:39.900 | It's because instinctually, animals work on impulse.
00:37:46.380 | They're hungry, blah, right?
00:37:48.180 | They feel cornered.
00:37:49.180 | They lash out.
00:37:50.660 | And so he says, "I was like a beast."
00:37:53.660 | Brothers and sisters, can we model ourselves after this kind of humility Asaph is showing
00:38:02.140 | us?
00:38:04.060 | He recognizes that he was judging things based on his sight, and now he has the humility
00:38:09.660 | to confess, "That's what I did."
00:38:13.540 | If you sit and you start defending yourself, "No, God, I have every right to be pissed."
00:38:18.340 | Why?
00:38:19.340 | Because look, that's not right.
00:38:23.180 | What you're going to be guilty of, you're going to be guilty of pointing your finger
00:38:25.900 | up at God and saying, "God, you're either incapable or you don't care for justice."
00:38:32.380 | Or you're going to point the finger at God and you're going to say, "God, maybe you are
00:38:35.420 | just.
00:38:36.420 | God, maybe...
00:38:37.420 | Sorry.
00:38:38.420 | Maybe you see that my only conclusion is you don't love me."
00:38:45.180 | Have you or anybody you've known gone there?
00:38:48.340 | I'm pretty sure, right?
00:38:51.180 | I can't sit here and attack you and say, "God, you're not just."
00:38:54.460 | You can't do that because the Bible is chock full of that.
00:38:56.580 | If you said that, people are like, "Oh."
00:39:00.740 | Right?
00:39:01.740 | "God, you don't see.
00:39:02.740 | Maybe you don't have eyes to see this stuff."
00:39:04.340 | You can't say that.
00:39:06.500 | But then maybe you start doubting.
00:39:08.940 | Well, then maybe you don't care.
00:39:13.620 | Maybe you don't love me.
00:39:16.380 | If you're there, man, there is no kind of depression like believing that the God of
00:39:23.780 | the universe, who is the definition of love, does not love you.
00:39:29.620 | Right?
00:39:31.100 | Like, I feel for you because that's an incredible kind of pain that no human is going to come
00:39:37.340 | next to you and be like, "It's all right, man."
00:39:40.860 | If you believe the lie, "God doesn't love me.
00:39:43.860 | He sees my pain and yet he doesn't care," that's the kind of depression no human is
00:39:48.460 | able to pull you out of.
00:39:51.500 | So I want to share with you today that God does love you.
00:39:56.580 | And what Asaph says is incredible.
00:39:58.460 | Take a look at verse 23 to 26.
00:40:03.140 | He says, "I was like a beast before you."
00:40:06.140 | Right?
00:40:07.140 | That was the end of verse 22.
00:40:08.140 | However, verse 23.
00:40:10.140 | "Nevertheless, I am continually with you.
00:40:15.340 | You have taken hold of my right hand.
00:40:17.980 | With your counsel, you guide me.
00:40:20.220 | Afterward, receive me to glory.
00:40:22.860 | Whom have I in heaven but you and beside you, I desire nothing on earth.
00:40:27.280 | My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever."
00:40:35.860 | Those are some of the most beautiful passages in Scripture.
00:40:39.980 | Do you see the picture?
00:40:42.020 | You've got this beast like, right?
00:40:44.380 | I see there's all this wickedness in the world and this beast is sitting there before God
00:40:48.380 | like, "How dare you, Lord?"
00:40:49.380 | And he's got this finger pointing.
00:40:51.420 | What are you doing about this?
00:40:53.940 | And God comes over and he takes the hand and he guides him.
00:40:58.420 | Do you see the picture?
00:41:00.980 | When you try to picture the Scriptures, it's amazing.
00:41:04.740 | Would you do that?
00:41:06.620 | Some little flea looking at you like, "Look at you, God, what are you doing?"
00:41:10.260 | You would just be like...
00:41:12.660 | Immediately backhand.
00:41:15.060 | But God takes that accusatory finger, holds the hand, and guides him, loves him, and says,
00:41:24.460 | "You have me."
00:41:26.100 | That's the love of God.
00:41:29.380 | It's astounding.
00:41:32.100 | He says, "God, you're with me.
00:41:34.220 | Your counsel's with me."
00:41:35.940 | And then he says this beautiful thing, "You receive me to your glory."
00:41:39.900 | Did you catch that in verse 24?
00:41:42.260 | It's like he takes it here, he takes it there, and he takes it to the top.
00:41:45.700 | "You receive me to your glory."
00:41:47.660 | That's so crazy.
00:41:52.660 | I want to challenge you right now.
00:41:55.820 | Have you experienced that kind of love in your life?
00:42:00.140 | Because that's the Christian faith, isn't it?
00:42:03.180 | Christian faith is not a doctrinal system.
00:42:06.260 | You guys have heard this before.
00:42:09.260 | Christian faith is not, "Oh, I think, you know, like Jehovah's Witness, and then Mormonism,
00:42:14.980 | Catholicism, and then Christianity, I compared it, and this doctrinal system really works."
00:42:22.700 | That's not Christianity.
00:42:25.980 | Christianity is, you were an evil person with evil desires engaged in evil deeds, and God
00:42:32.740 | just lavished this little being with grace.
00:42:37.300 | And then you felt this massive load of love come to you, and you're forever changed.
00:42:44.340 | Yes?
00:42:45.900 | Have you felt that?
00:42:49.140 | That's to you everything.
00:42:51.900 | Only then can you say, "Give me more of that.
00:42:54.660 | Take away the world.
00:42:55.740 | I may have nothing in this life.
00:42:58.220 | I may have nothing in this world, but my portion is full because God has filled my life."
00:43:06.100 | Let me ask another way.
00:43:07.860 | Not just simply have you felt the love of God, but in some weird, odd way, have you
00:43:13.220 | drifted from the Lord, where this teaching, "Brothers and sisters, the Lord loves you,"
00:43:22.500 | does it not feel any different?
00:43:26.980 | Any different than, let's say, if a random stranger came to you and said, "What's wrong,
00:43:31.740 | buddy?
00:43:32.740 | You sad?
00:43:33.740 | It's okay, man.
00:43:34.740 | I love you."
00:43:36.660 | Does it feel the same way?
00:43:39.260 | Let me ask another way.
00:43:40.260 | Does God's love to you feel like some kind of weird consolation prize?
00:43:45.500 | "Thanks for participating in this game.
00:43:48.140 | That guy won the reward.
00:43:49.660 | But at least for you, we have participation trophy."
00:43:52.940 | Does God's love feel like that for you?
00:43:56.660 | Where you hear the words like the Lord of the universe who created you, who sustains
00:44:02.300 | everything that has breath, He loves you, and yet all it feels like is some kind of
00:44:08.780 | consolation prize?
00:44:10.140 | I'm going to be honest.
00:44:14.580 | There are moments in our lives where perhaps it may feel like that.
00:44:19.820 | But we have to really check our hearts.
00:44:23.140 | Asaph, for him, the reality that absolutely changed everything.
00:44:28.140 | Oh my goodness, I have God, right?
00:44:33.980 | I may not have the dream of Orange County Christianity where I have a three-bedroom
00:44:39.940 | house with 2.5 bathrooms because you got to have that .5 bathroom for guests.
00:44:44.420 | I've got 2.5 kids because three is too many.
00:44:47.180 | I've got 2.5 cars and three cars in the garage, like whatever it may be, right?
00:44:51.100 | I may not have that.
00:44:54.460 | I got everything.
00:44:55.460 | I've got God.
00:44:59.140 | That's the reality where it has radically changed Asaph's life.
00:45:05.140 | And if you can't get there and it feels weird, I want to challenge you right now.
00:45:09.860 | How have you drifted where the Lord's presence is not enough?
00:45:16.780 | What has gripped your heart so much you want it so bad where someone says,
00:45:22.140 | "But you have God," and you're like, "I get it.
00:45:23.980 | I have God, but I don't have this yet."
00:45:28.220 | Right?
00:45:28.420 | Is it the job?
00:45:30.420 | Like what good is God's love?
00:45:31.380 | I don't have a job right now.
00:45:33.260 | If that's your words, you got to come to the Lord in repentance.
00:45:39.460 | What has so gripped your soul where the love of God is not enough?
00:45:45.180 | Remember, brothers and sisters, that our Christian faith, again,
00:45:48.620 | is not a religious system, is not a doctrinal system.
00:45:52.540 | It is an access to God Almighty.
00:45:56.260 | Christ died on the cross, tore the veil, and he became the high priest of all to
00:46:01.460 | bring you to God.
00:46:04.140 | End game.
00:46:06.620 | To bring you to his eternal presence forever.
00:46:10.740 | God was not in the business of trying to make you succeed.
00:46:14.180 | "Oh, I know life is hard.
00:46:15.420 | I just want to get you from one-year-old to 80-year-old."
00:46:18.780 | That is not God's dream.
00:46:22.220 | He wants to give you eternity with Christ.
00:46:25.620 | He wants to give you eternity with him as your loving father and you as his child.
00:46:32.980 | Lastly, once Asaph started to realize that, look, once Asaph started to realize,
00:46:39.020 | "Oh, my goodness, look at them people."
00:46:41.020 | Initially, he said, "They have it so good."
00:46:43.540 | And then he looked at God and he was like, "Oh, wait a minute.
00:46:46.020 | God's about to pour out his wrath.
00:46:48.620 | They're doomed."
00:46:49.940 | He looked at himself like, "Oh, my gosh.
00:46:52.100 | My heart wanted that.
00:46:54.540 | I'm like wicked inside.
00:46:55.620 | I'm not pure."
00:46:57.020 | Right?
00:46:57.220 | That's what he's saying.
00:46:58.660 | And then he realizes, "Oh, my gosh.
00:47:02.340 | Why did I want that stuff?
00:47:03.460 | I have God."
00:47:05.460 | And then now he comes to a point where he redefines everything.
00:47:09.260 | He redefines what is good.
00:47:11.180 | Verse 26 through 28, we're going to finish off here.
00:47:14.140 | Go in your Bibles and take a look.
00:47:15.980 | Psalm 73 of 26 to 28 says, "My flesh and my heart may fail,
00:47:19.980 | but God is my strength."
00:47:21.740 | That is a redefining of life.
00:47:25.380 | What's my strength?
00:47:26.180 | My money?
00:47:26.740 | No.
00:47:26.980 | What's my strength?
00:47:27.980 | My skills.
00:47:28.980 | No, it's not your skills, right?
00:47:31.220 | It's my job title.
00:47:32.140 | It's not your job title.
00:47:33.220 | That is not your strength.
00:47:34.820 | When he realizes by faith, God is my strength.
00:47:38.060 | He's the strength of my heart and my portion forever.
00:47:40.780 | For behold, those who are far from you will perish.
00:47:44.100 | He realizes far from God means destruction, close to God means life.
00:47:49.340 | You have destroyed all those who are unfaithful to you.
00:47:51.980 | But as for me, highlight this, you guys.
00:47:54.780 | Star it, underline it, do whatever you can to memorize this.
00:47:59.620 | For me, the nearness of God is my good.
00:48:05.420 | That's Christianity in a nutshell.
00:48:08.140 | I have made the Lord God my refuge that I may tell of all your works.
00:48:17.500 | Wow, that is the beautiful reality.
00:48:21.940 | That's the beautiful reality that Asaph have come to conclusion.
00:48:26.820 | That's his judgment now.
00:48:29.020 | I may be poor, but I'm good, right?
00:48:34.260 | Can you say that?
00:48:36.300 | You may not have the perfect family, but I'm good.
00:48:40.900 | I'm full.
00:48:42.020 | And the devil may come as like, "Look at this new phone.
00:48:44.900 | Look at this new gadget.
00:48:46.420 | Look at this better house, better car, better everything.
00:48:51.060 | Look at the freedom you can have.
00:48:53.020 | You don't have to worry anymore."
00:48:56.140 | Dude, I'm good.
00:48:59.260 | How do you fight the temptation of the enemy?
00:49:03.220 | When you recognize who you have in God and you use the new mechanism,
00:49:08.660 | a new definitive standard, the standard by which I'm going to say,
00:49:13.140 | "My life sucks," versus, "My life is good," is no longer the video I saw
00:49:18.020 | on YouTube, is no longer the guy who's traveling the world.
00:49:20.940 | My standard is the presence of God.
00:49:25.420 | That to me is my good.
00:49:28.540 | That's the Christian faith.
00:49:30.860 | Prosperity, shalom, peace.
00:49:34.820 | That doesn't come with you being able to sell yourself.
00:49:38.100 | That doesn't come with you being able to market, take photos of all that you've
00:49:41.780 | been doing in life.
00:49:44.100 | It comes with you being absolutely content in God.
00:49:48.700 | Now, I want to wrap up and review these four things in a kind of comedic way
00:49:55.300 | because I want to talk about maturity.
00:49:57.780 | A lot of times when I speak in front of our church, many of you have been
00:50:01.460 | Christians for a long time, 20 years, more.
00:50:06.780 | These aren't things that you haven't heard before.
00:50:09.860 | So I want to challenge you, are you maturing?
00:50:14.060 | And the way I want to review this is by saying, ladies in the room who are
00:50:18.300 | single, because a family retreat is happening and there's a bunch of you here,
00:50:22.340 | okay?
00:50:23.900 | I like to give free dating advice and that dating advice is,
00:50:26.340 | "How can you tell if the man you are interested in is a mature man?"
00:50:30.980 | Well, let me tell you the difference.
00:50:33.060 | Ladies, a mature man is going to have a vision that is a holistic Christian
00:50:41.180 | worldview, meaning he's going to see clearly.
00:50:44.820 | A kid is going to have tunnel vision and he can't see the pain coming, right?
00:50:50.260 | When you see a little kid, it's like, "God, you're going to get hurt," right?
00:50:54.260 | That's a child.
00:50:55.780 | Mature individual sees the end game.
00:50:59.020 | What's more, a mature man can humbly judge his own desires.
00:51:03.060 | You know what?
00:51:03.780 | I got a weird, like, "I love the Lord, but I love myself."
00:51:07.340 | I got this weird pride as like, "I boast in Jesus, but I want to boast in myself,"
00:51:11.100 | and they have a humility that's open, right?
00:51:15.700 | A child, he can't see nothing but his own impulses.
00:51:19.860 | He doesn't work off of humble evaluation.
00:51:22.500 | He just, "I see it, I do it," right?
00:51:24.860 | He thinks it's great, but that's just a child.
00:51:28.700 | A man who is mature has a perspective that recognizes what's good.
00:51:34.700 | He values God because it's good.
00:51:36.340 | He values a good woman because it's good in God's eyes.
00:51:38.700 | He knows the difference between this is a jewel of God versus this is not.
00:51:44.020 | A child, a kid, all he knows is what he wants.
00:51:47.500 | That's all he sees and he's not happy until he gets it.
00:51:50.580 | A mature man is already secure.
00:51:55.300 | He's found where to be content in God.
00:52:00.180 | If a kid is sitting there like, "Oh, I don't have what I want," right?
00:52:03.900 | He's always disheveled.
00:52:05.460 | "I don't have my life."
00:52:06.820 | You know, and then, typically, an insecure individual will look at you as the source
00:52:12.340 | of his security.
00:52:13.940 | When you see that, it all fits together.
00:52:17.140 | He doesn't know who he has, he doesn't have a vision of his own heart,
00:52:21.300 | and typically, his vision is short-sighted.
00:52:26.660 | For us, by way of conclusion, this to us is not just simply a nutshell
00:52:32.620 | of Christianity.
00:52:34.340 | This to you, for those of you who have been Christian for a long time,
00:52:37.860 | is also your maturity.
00:52:40.660 | Let's pray.
00:52:49.340 | Lord God, today, Lord, through this beautiful song written by Asaph,
00:52:58.420 | we see the wrestle of the heart.
00:53:01.980 | And God, although maybe we might not be able to sympathize or relate in every
00:53:06.020 | single way, we confess, God, some of these things are real and near temptations.
00:53:13.380 | I ask, Lord, that your spirit would convict us and cause us to grow in faith
00:53:17.660 | to the degree where we see you, we see you clearly and accurately,
00:53:24.660 | and that our hearts would follow and to love you and desire you
00:53:29.260 | above everything else.
00:53:31.740 | God, we will confess, Lord, nothing in this world satisfies,
00:53:36.060 | nothing in this world lasts, not anybody else and definitely not ourselves.
00:53:42.380 | But Father God, you are eternal, and only you can be the full provision
00:53:48.260 | of our hearts.
00:53:49.900 | And so, God, we thank you that in your love, you give yourself to us.
00:53:54.340 | It's in Christ's name we pray. Amen.