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00:00:00.000 | It's an honor for me to be standing here before you today on this Palm Sunday.
00:00:10.280 | My name is Peter Chung.
00:00:13.760 | It's only at Berean I get called by my last name as well because people get confused with
00:00:17.720 | Pastor Peter, so it's Peter Chung.
00:00:19.840 | So my name is Peter Chung and like Pastor Peter mentioned, I'll be rejoining the staff
00:00:25.320 | next Sunday.
00:00:26.320 | I was one of the pastors here until 2009 and as Pastor Peter mentioned, in 2009 my wife
00:00:34.240 | and I were sent out to Beijing, China to lead the team there.
00:00:37.400 | It was supposed to be a one-year chapter in Beijing that turned into a nine-year journey.
00:00:43.320 | In 2012, we were planning to be in China long-term as Berean's full-time missionaries, but in
00:00:50.800 | 2012 Compassion International recruited me to Korea to work as a vision trip leader and
00:00:56.640 | one of the main speakers for Compassion Sponsored Children and our global partner churches.
00:01:02.560 | And I was working for Compassion in Korea for about five and a half years.
00:01:07.280 | My main job was to take people to the field, so basically it was my job to travel.
00:01:13.280 | I averaged about 56 flights a year, but whenever I flew, I visited children, families, and
00:01:22.240 | churches in the slums, fishing villages, dump sites, and rural hidden corners in various
00:01:28.000 | parts of the world.
00:01:29.520 | And so on average, I spent about 100 days of the year with the poor.
00:01:35.160 | So we were supposed to be away from Berean for just one year, but somehow it turned into
00:01:38.720 | nine, and our family's back, and we're looking forward to this new chapter in ministry.
00:01:45.840 | I don't get nervous, but for some reason, first service, I was like super like nervous
00:01:50.000 | and tense.
00:01:51.000 | I'm not nervous now, okay, but I think we're nervous and excited just to be back.
00:01:55.160 | Berean has changed a bit since we've been gone.
00:02:00.200 | Jeremy was in elementary school when we left, and I'm the one who started Berean So, students
00:02:08.080 | of the word, but now all the kids that are in there, most of them didn't exist when we
00:02:13.480 | were here.
00:02:14.480 | There have been many changes, and at the same time, many things have remained the same.
00:02:21.400 | I was just kind of tickled the other day when I saw on the church's Facebook page that the
00:02:25.640 | Passion Week chart, I made that for the church in 2008.
00:02:28.360 | I was a little bit shocked that it's still being used.
00:02:32.600 | The core values and the visions of the church and commitment to Christ and to his word have
00:02:39.920 | changed a little bit in the sense of it's gotten deeper, and so I'm so excited about
00:02:43.520 | that, and I'm excited to jump back in.
00:02:45.640 | So bear with us as we acclimate ourselves to living in the States, adjusting to this
00:02:50.880 | church and beginning this new chapter of our lives back at Berean.
00:02:54.360 | I was at the cafe, and Jen and I said the most encouraging thing to me that I've heard
00:02:58.600 | all week.
00:02:59.600 | I told her, "I feel like a newcomer," and she's like, "I feel like a newcomer, too,"
00:03:03.520 | and that was so encouraging for some reason.
00:03:05.960 | But we're looking forward to getting to know you and to doing life with you.
00:03:12.360 | I'd like to start by reading our passage for today.
00:03:15.840 | Please turn in your Bibles to Luke 11.
00:03:17.800 | The passage is going to be up on the screen on the wall here, but I think it'll be helpful
00:03:21.960 | for you to have your Bibles open.
00:03:25.120 | I'll be reading from verses 9 to 13, so Luke 11, verses 9 to 13.
00:03:35.320 | And I tell you, "Ask, and it will be given to you.
00:03:38.040 | Seek, and you will find.
00:03:39.720 | Knock, and it will be opened to you.
00:03:41.720 | For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds.
00:03:45.800 | And to the one who knocks, it will be opened.
00:03:48.680 | What father among you, if his son asks for a fish, will instead of a fish give him a
00:03:52.720 | serpent?
00:03:53.720 | Or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion?
00:03:57.480 | If you then who are evil know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more
00:04:04.120 | will the heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask Him?"
00:04:07.080 | Let me pray for us briefly.
00:04:08.760 | Lord, this is your day, and we pray that your word would be honored.
00:04:14.680 | Help us to understand your heart.
00:04:18.600 | Help us to understand your purposes in our lives, and help us to love Christ.
00:04:26.780 | And I pray that we would leave here understanding you a little bit more and resembling Jesus
00:04:33.400 | a little bit more.
00:04:37.800 | You are our audience, so would you receive our worship and our praise today?
00:04:41.760 | In Jesus' name we pray.
00:04:45.400 | Today is Palm Sunday, the day in which we remember the Lord's triumphal entry into Jerusalem.
00:04:51.920 | As you guys know, Jesus enters Jerusalem on a donkey to shout of, "Hosanna to the Son
00:04:57.000 | of David!
00:04:58.000 | Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord!
00:04:59.880 | Hosanna in the highest!"
00:05:02.040 | And you're going to see that all over your, like, Facebooks and stuff today.
00:05:05.320 | Hosanna!
00:05:06.320 | Hosanna in the highest!
00:05:08.080 | It says in Matthew 21, verse 10, that the entire city was stirred up.
00:05:12.880 | Because they're saying, "Who is this?"
00:05:16.400 | And there was so much excitement in the crowd, the energy level was high, and everyone was
00:05:23.520 | waiting expectantly.
00:05:25.200 | They were excited.
00:05:27.240 | But just a few days later, many in this crowd would be crying out, "Crucify Him!
00:05:36.320 | Crucify Him!"
00:05:39.800 | Why?
00:05:41.600 | Because, over the course of the next few days, Jesus would turn out to be a very different
00:05:47.040 | Messiah from the one people expected.
00:05:52.200 | You see, the Jews had been asking, they had been seeking, they had been beseeching the
00:05:59.660 | Lord of Heaven to come in power, to come in majesty, to come and restore.
00:06:05.920 | They had been asking, they had been seeking, but they rejected the Son of David.
00:06:13.000 | Why?
00:06:15.200 | Maybe it's because Jesus loses it at the temple.
00:06:19.680 | He angrily overturns tables and disrupts business.
00:06:24.680 | He gets into heated debates with religious leaders, some of whom the people probably
00:06:28.600 | respect it.
00:06:31.440 | And Jesus, over the next few days, teaches and says things that no Messiah of their choosing
00:06:37.680 | would ever dare to say.
00:06:41.120 | So we see in the way Jesus' reception was over the course of the Passion Week, that
00:06:46.120 | there is often a world of a difference between who people think Jesus is and who He actually
00:06:52.760 | claims to be and who He is.
00:06:55.680 | There's a huge gap between what people desire from Jesus and what He desires to give.
00:07:01.960 | So who is this Jesus, this Son of David?
00:07:06.540 | And what does it mean for you and me to have a relationship with Him?
00:07:10.220 | What does it mean for us when we say, "Jesus Messiah"?
00:07:14.680 | What does it mean to ask things in Jesus' name?
00:07:18.220 | What does it mean for us to pray in faith?
00:07:21.440 | And I want us to think just through this together, what Jesus came to restore.
00:07:28.840 | I want us to think through that by first examining how He exhorts us to approach the God of heaven.
00:07:37.820 | So I'm going to be talking a little bit about our relationship to God the Father, what made
00:07:43.900 | that possible, and then I'll return back to the Triumphal Entry.
00:07:48.760 | So in our passage today, Jesus finishes praying and the disciples come up to Him and ask Him
00:07:54.320 | to teach them how to pray.
00:07:56.880 | It might be helpful for you and me to remember that His disciples were Jewish men who were
00:08:02.900 | likely not unfamiliar with prayer.
00:08:06.600 | They probably grew up praying, watching and hearing others pray.
00:08:12.560 | They grew up being taught the importance of prayer, and more than likely, they were praying
00:08:17.720 | men.
00:08:20.080 | But it's not too far a stretch to imagine that something about prayer was difficult
00:08:25.960 | for them.
00:08:26.960 | If I asked you guys all to raise your hand if prayer is difficult, I'm sure all of you
00:08:29.400 | would raise your hand, but we're not going to do that, okay?
00:08:32.160 | Active participation, we won't do.
00:08:33.800 | Well, you're participating, but not raising your hand, all right?
00:08:39.520 | Yes.
00:08:42.240 | They didn't feel the intimacy with God that they sense Jesus had in His times of prayer.
00:08:50.120 | So if you look at Luke 11, verse 1, it reads, "They asked, 'Lord, teach us how to pray.'"
00:08:58.280 | Remember, these are praying men.
00:09:01.000 | "Lord, teach us how to draw near to God."
00:09:06.760 | And what follows is Luke's account of what we know as the Lord's Prayer.
00:09:11.320 | And Jesus continues by exhorting them to persist in prayer.
00:09:16.920 | And He puts it in terms ordinary people, ordinary disciples, ordinary folks like you and me
00:09:22.560 | can understand.
00:09:23.560 | First, between verses 5 through 8, if you have your Bibles open, you can look at that.
00:09:29.440 | He gives us the picture of a sleeping neighbor.
00:09:33.060 | You pester him long enough, out of sheer annoyance, that sleeping neighbor, simply because of
00:09:40.120 | your audacity to ask for bread at such an hour, will get out of bed and give you three
00:09:45.640 | loaves.
00:09:47.320 | So even an agitated neighbor, if you pester him long enough, will give you what you need
00:09:54.080 | just to get you to stop that knocking.
00:09:59.280 | And Jesus says, "Persist in this way."
00:10:01.820 | So Jesus is putting prayer in terms that you and I can understand.
00:10:05.980 | And then following this, Jesus goes on to ask a rhetorical question.
00:10:10.800 | Luke 11 and 11 reads, "What father among you," or as the NIV states, "Which of you fathers?"
00:10:20.320 | So He's going to go into how we are to draw near to God.
00:10:23.720 | And Jesus' point is this.
00:10:26.960 | The relationship you enjoy with God is unlike the one you have with your buddy next door.
00:10:33.480 | God is not your next door neighbor.
00:10:34.880 | He is not just a good friend.
00:10:37.200 | He's your father.
00:10:39.080 | The one you are beseeching in prayer, He is the creator of the universe.
00:10:43.040 | He is the King of kings and the Lord of lords.
00:10:45.920 | But at the same time, He's your "appa," your daddy, your father.
00:10:52.280 | So ask and seek.
00:10:55.680 | Because though He is the God of the universe, He is your father.
00:10:59.200 | Though He is the King of kings and Lord of lords, you have access to Him.
00:11:04.920 | Tim Keller, a couple months back, put this on his site.
00:11:08.720 | The only person who dares wake up a king at 3 a.m. is his child.
00:11:16.160 | And that's the kind of access you and I have.
00:11:18.700 | The only person who dares wake up a king at 3 a.m. is a child.
00:11:25.000 | This is my 18th year of pastoral ministry.
00:11:29.200 | And in my 18 years of serving His church, there are a lot of things that I learned about
00:11:33.960 | my Heavenly Father.
00:11:38.080 | First and foremost, I learned so much about God through His Word.
00:11:43.320 | That has been my primary source.
00:11:46.000 | God's Word has changed me, has healed me, has fixed me, and is continuing to transform
00:11:54.000 | me.
00:11:58.040 | And with His Word as the foundation of all of my ministry, over the last nine years,
00:12:04.840 | God has deepened my understanding of His Word by expanding my worldview.
00:12:11.120 | Spending time in communities in various parts of the world, I have felt deeply His broken
00:12:15.480 | heart for the lost and the poor.
00:12:17.680 | Scripture says that God is close to the poor.
00:12:21.000 | And you learn a lot about God as you spend time with those He is near to.
00:12:27.120 | And my relationship with God through His Word, through my job, got even deeper once I became
00:12:35.040 | a father.
00:12:37.380 | For many of you guys who don't know our family, Becky and I will be celebrating our 11th year
00:12:43.240 | – it goes fast – our 11th year anniversary later this week.
00:12:49.840 | But the first eight years of our marriage, God did not give us children.
00:12:55.320 | So we are 11 years in, and we are running around raising 35-month-old toddlers.
00:13:04.420 | We are parents of a twin boy and a girl, and you can imagine how special they are to us
00:13:09.940 | because we waited for them.
00:13:15.240 | We prayed for them.
00:13:16.800 | We longed for them.
00:13:19.320 | And we are thankful for them.
00:13:22.040 | And one of the advantages of raising a twin boy and a girl is their development is at
00:13:27.080 | the same time.
00:13:28.080 | It's at the same level.
00:13:30.000 | And our love for them is the same because they appeared at once.
00:13:36.520 | And we don't have a firstborn – I mean, we do, it's usually pulled out first – but
00:13:39.240 | we don't have a firstborn or a youngest.
00:13:42.560 | So we love them equally, albeit a little bit differently depending on their need.
00:13:47.860 | And as I have been interacting with them, caring for them, and investing in them, there
00:13:52.840 | are many things that I, an evil father, have learned about my Heavenly Father.
00:13:59.480 | And I'm just going to share two things about what I've learned about God the Father through
00:14:04.020 | my heart's transformation in front of my kids.
00:14:08.520 | First, lesson one, fathers discipline their children in love.
00:14:14.800 | It says, "Though you are evil, you know how to give good things to your children."
00:14:19.740 | I am a sinful, fleshly, selfish human being, but I know how to give good things to my kids.
00:14:27.400 | And one of those good things is actually discipline.
00:14:31.840 | Revelation 3.19, God says to His church, "Those whom I love I reprove and discipline, so be
00:14:38.120 | zealous and repent."
00:14:39.120 | Hebrews 12.6, "For the Lord disciplines the one He loves and chastises every son He
00:14:46.440 | receives."
00:14:47.800 | The Greek word for discipline is paidouo, if you want to spell it, it's P-A-I-D-E-U-W.
00:14:56.800 | And when you say paidouo, there is both a positive and a negative feel for this word.
00:15:03.480 | There is a negative discipline given in response to behavior or attitude that needs correcting.
00:15:09.040 | But at the same time, there is a positive one, a discipline that is used for teaching,
00:15:13.720 | instruction, and training.
00:15:16.160 | So nod your heads if you think discipline is a good thing, yeah?
00:15:18.840 | Discipline is good, right?
00:15:20.360 | A good father disciplines his children not because he hates them, but because he loves
00:15:25.400 | them.
00:15:26.400 | And we all know this.
00:15:27.520 | And we know it intuitively, even if our parents are imperfect.
00:15:31.720 | And as a child changes, the parent's discipline will change.
00:15:38.040 | In Korean, we call a spanking, what do we call spanking in Korean?
00:15:41.160 | Oh yeah, you guys are passionate about this.
00:15:43.600 | Memme, right?
00:15:44.600 | I typed it out, it said meme, but it's like memme.
00:15:48.640 | So when the child is little, fathers will give memme to their children.
00:15:54.740 | But there comes an age where memme is no longer appropriate.
00:15:59.160 | It'll only make it worse.
00:16:01.400 | If you give memme to a high school-aged boy, that's not going to be a good thing, right?
00:16:08.140 | So as a child changes, the discipline that the father takes with the child will also
00:16:15.080 | change and adjust.
00:16:17.080 | So as a child becomes an adult, the father's discipline may be more informed in the form
00:16:22.980 | of a counsel or advice.
00:16:25.140 | So as a child changes, the father's change.
00:16:27.580 | My twins are almost three.
00:16:30.340 | Our son's name is Matthias, we call him Maddie.
00:16:33.660 | So the first, I vividly remember this, the first time I ever gave Maddie a memme, when
00:16:39.260 | he was just over a year old.
00:16:41.400 | So during dinner, he had the habit of throwing food down to the ground.
00:16:47.300 | And we needed to fix this.
00:16:48.960 | So he would put some in his mouth, throw some on the ground, put some in his mouth, throw
00:16:53.380 | some on the ground, and that drove my wife nuts.
00:16:56.720 | So I said, "Maddie, no, no, no."
00:17:01.120 | He looked at me, he was like, "Hey, no, no, no."
00:17:05.660 | And then he threw more on the ground.
00:17:08.540 | So I was like, "Uh-oh, okay.
00:17:11.000 | We got to do some advanced discipline."
00:17:13.920 | So I took a little ruler, and I took out his hand, and I whacked his hand.
00:17:20.540 | Immediately tears filled his eyes, and he started crying.
00:17:26.040 | I did not enjoy that.
00:17:28.400 | It was actually painful for me.
00:17:31.360 | He doesn't throw food on the ground anymore.
00:17:34.540 | I didn't enjoy it, but I deemed it necessary at the time, so he got a little memme.
00:17:38.100 | Our daughter, Karis, had the same problem.
00:17:42.300 | But the thing with Karis was that memme at that time didn't work.
00:17:46.780 | When you memme Karis, she would be like, "Hehehe," which is super scary.
00:17:53.300 | But worse than that, when we were looking, she would take a ruler and whack her dolls.
00:17:59.860 | "Memme, memme."
00:18:02.620 | And then if her brother came near her, she would go, "Memme, memme," and she would
00:18:07.060 | whack him on the head.
00:18:09.200 | So we're like, "Okay, this ruler doesn't work on my daughter."
00:18:15.140 | What we found out worked was isolating her on a timeout.
00:18:18.840 | We put her in the room, and she would scream bloody murder.
00:18:22.100 | See, if we put Maddie in a room by himself, he would find something to do, play with his
00:18:25.500 | toes, play with the bars of the crib.
00:18:28.980 | But Karis would not like that.
00:18:31.340 | Two different kids, two different forms of discipline to fit each child.
00:18:36.540 | We took no pleasure in disciplining our children, but at times, we deemed it necessary.
00:18:42.500 | I have not once been excited to put my child on a timeout or a memme or to take away a
00:18:46.980 | toy.
00:18:49.580 | And not once did I give my kids a memme without explaining why they're getting a memme.
00:18:58.580 | So if I gave them a memme and said, "Guess why you got hit?"
00:19:02.940 | That's a weird fathering trait, right?
00:19:07.060 | We will always make it clear when our kids are being disciplined, because that's parenting
00:19:11.620 | common sense.
00:19:13.020 | No father will discipline his child and tell him to guess, and even bad fathers know not
00:19:18.120 | to do this.
00:19:19.120 | So this is something that's very important to remember as you relate to the Lord.
00:19:23.540 | When our heavenly Father disciplines us because of our sin or our disobedience, I believe
00:19:29.740 | with all my heart that He will always make it clear why.
00:19:35.700 | If God the Father is disciplining us, He will always make it clear why.
00:19:41.940 | And why is this important to remember?
00:19:43.980 | Because there are times where life is not fun.
00:19:48.500 | And things happen.
00:19:49.780 | And life hurts.
00:19:50.900 | And sometimes we feel like, "Is God punishing me for something?"
00:19:55.940 | You guys understand that sentiment?
00:20:00.620 | So if you cannot understand why something difficult is happening in your life, if you
00:20:04.580 | cannot understand the reason behind a struggle, God is not punishing you or disciplining you
00:20:10.580 | for something you've done wrong as a judgment.
00:20:15.500 | John chapter 9, the disciples ask about a blind man, "Rabbi, who sinned, this man
00:20:22.900 | or his parents, that he was born blind?"
00:20:24.420 | And Jesus answered, "It was not that this man sinned or his parents, but that the works
00:20:31.100 | of God might be displayed in him."
00:20:37.660 | God never disciplines without explaining to His children why we're being disciplined,
00:20:40.780 | and this is something that I, as an evil father, have come to understand.
00:20:48.220 | When life gets tough, we're not necessarily getting spiritual memmeh, but it's a different
00:20:54.020 | kind of discipline.
00:20:55.660 | Trials, hardships, and suffering, especially those you can't understand or explain, will
00:21:03.020 | always be for your good or for the good of His other children.
00:21:10.300 | Let me repeat that.
00:21:13.140 | Trials, hardships, suffering, especially those you can't understand or explain, will always
00:21:19.060 | be for your good or for good.
00:21:22.740 | Hebrews 12, 11, "For the moment, all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later
00:21:29.620 | it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it."
00:21:34.100 | Trials, hardships, and suffering will always be for good or for your good.
00:21:39.500 | So negative discipline is in response to a behavior that needs to be fixed.
00:21:44.900 | Positive discipline comes in the form of instruction, teaching, or training.
00:21:49.260 | One of the things that we are working really hard right now to teach our kids is how to
00:21:52.900 | share.
00:21:53.900 | Yeah, you guys, you parents in here, that's not an easy thing, right?
00:21:58.700 | To teach them how to share.
00:22:01.420 | But this is another good thing that I, as an evil man, know how to give to my children.
00:22:09.140 | In my visits to the poor, I have seen a lot of depressing and very painful things.
00:22:19.580 | And when we would go visit these communities, the compassion sponsors who would go with
00:22:25.780 | me, a lot of them would break down and cry because people should not be living like this.
00:22:31.420 | One older, he was in his early 70s, non-Christian sponsor actually said this, "Poverty is God's
00:22:38.820 | fault."
00:22:39.820 | And I could understand the logic because if God is all powerful, all knowing, and truly
00:22:46.500 | good, why do such horrible things happen?
00:22:52.240 | Why is there so much injustice?
00:22:54.860 | Why does 40% of the world struggle just to eat once a day?
00:23:00.220 | I met a mother in Ethiopia who had nine children.
00:23:04.580 | Eight of them she buried before they turned five.
00:23:09.220 | And she blamed herself for each of their deaths.
00:23:14.380 | Why God, why?
00:23:15.760 | Why do you nothing?
00:23:16.940 | Why do you not intervene?
00:23:20.740 | Is a cry in my heart.
00:23:22.740 | See, I trust in God's goodness, but there are oftentimes tension in my heart when I
00:23:27.900 | see things in this world that are unjust and painful to look at.
00:23:33.800 | So when that sponsor said, "Poverty is God's fault," God kind of gave me a quick insight,
00:23:38.880 | and I want to share that with you.
00:23:41.080 | In order to teach our kids how to share, in the mornings when I have baby duty, I will
00:23:47.640 | pour milk into both their bottles, and I mean, I would give it to each of them, but
00:23:53.080 | sometimes I would give both of them to one kid.
00:23:56.640 | And I would say, "Here, Maddie, go share it with Charis," or, "Here, Charis, go give
00:23:59.960 | it to Maddie."
00:24:00.960 | And then they would run along and just, "Here," and just give it to, and I'll say, "Maddie,
00:24:04.880 | say thank you," or, "Charis, say thank you."
00:24:06.800 | Because we want to teach them how to share and how to give thanks.
00:24:11.520 | Milk is easy because it's like an everyday thing for them.
00:24:16.200 | But you know what's hard?
00:24:18.520 | Caca.
00:24:20.240 | Cookies are hard.
00:24:22.440 | So I tried it with cookies.
00:24:23.760 | I gave Maddie two cookies, and I said, "Hey, you give one to Charis."
00:24:29.320 | And Charis is like, turned to Maddie and had her hands open, but Maddie ran away that way.
00:24:37.520 | And homie's fast.
00:24:38.520 | He's like running, and I tried to get him, and I was like, "Hey," and then he went, boom,
00:24:43.960 | and he put both cookies in his mouth.
00:24:46.760 | You know who Charis looked at, screaming?
00:24:49.720 | She didn't look at Maddie when she was screaming.
00:24:52.680 | She looked at me, crying and screaming her head off.
00:24:57.800 | Why?
00:24:59.120 | I caused this injustice.
00:25:03.260 | So she was screaming because I did nothing to stop Maddie from committing this horrible
00:25:10.320 | evil.
00:25:11.320 | She was wronged.
00:25:13.040 | What was rightfully hers is now in his stomach, so she's mad.
00:25:18.320 | And I didn't seem to care, and I let it happen.
00:25:21.020 | So what's a father to do?
00:25:23.600 | Now as a father, I could intervene.
00:25:26.240 | Snatch the cookie from Maddie.
00:25:27.240 | No, time out.
00:25:28.240 | Memme.
00:25:31.240 | Snatch it away and give it to Charis.
00:25:33.680 | But see, I don't want my kids to learn how to share out of compulsion or fear of punishment.
00:25:42.160 | I want them to learn how to share from the heart.
00:25:46.520 | So I will wait, even at the expense of the unfairness that one of the kids feels at the
00:25:53.000 | moment.
00:25:55.560 | You guys understand, right?
00:25:59.040 | God has given me wisdom to wait, but in their little minds, I did a wrong thing.
00:26:06.000 | A few months ago, I was sitting at the dining table.
00:26:09.400 | Maddie was sitting next to me.
00:26:10.400 | I was over there in the corner playing with a doll.
00:26:12.840 | And Maddie said, "I want a tangerine."
00:26:15.320 | So I opened the refrigerator, peeled the tangerine, and I just gave it to him without thinking
00:26:19.680 | because I was writing an email on my phone.
00:26:22.480 | And then he took the tangerine, he split it in half, ran over to where Charis was, and
00:26:31.000 | gave her the other half, not because I told him to, because I wasn't paying attention
00:26:34.920 | because I was on my phone.
00:26:36.880 | He did it because that was just now a natural thing for him to do.
00:26:42.720 | And I was so excited.
00:26:43.720 | I was super happy.
00:26:44.720 | I was like, "Dude, I win!
00:26:45.720 | I did it!
00:26:46.720 | I succeeded as a dad!"
00:26:52.720 | See a lot of times, the discipline that God allows to take place in our lives, the positive
00:27:02.040 | kind when our lives are hard, is sometimes for the good of those around you.
00:27:09.160 | And in His wisdom, God waits so that the body of Christ can often rejoice with those who
00:27:14.920 | rejoice, mourn with those who mourn, like we've been learning in Romans.
00:27:22.160 | Lesson one, fathers discipline their children in love.
00:27:25.240 | Second, fathers delight in their children and desire to give them the best of everything.
00:27:30.960 | These are things that I, as an evil father, have come to learn.
00:27:34.840 | I love my kids.
00:27:35.840 | Can you tell?
00:27:36.840 | Yeah, I love them.
00:27:39.520 | They're objectively cute.
00:27:43.760 | Because I waited and prayed so long, eight years, for them, I enjoy spending time with
00:27:49.600 | them and I love watching them grow and change.
00:27:52.240 | I love coming home and as soon as I walk in the door, my children run.
00:27:56.240 | They go, "Daddy, daddy!"
00:27:57.240 | And they run.
00:27:58.240 | And that's like my favorite part of the day.
00:28:01.240 | I don't care if they broke things, made a mess, or were bad babies that day.
00:28:06.160 | The best part of my day is when I go home and see my children, scoop them up, smother
00:28:09.600 | them with hugs and kisses, roll around.
00:28:11.640 | I love hearing them laugh.
00:28:13.280 | I enjoy just watching them play.
00:28:15.660 | When music comes on, sometimes my daughter dances.
00:28:19.120 | It's the awkwardest, ugliest thing, but it's so cute.
00:28:24.240 | I love watching them do silly stuff, like put underwear on their head.
00:28:28.880 | The other day, Karis blew her nose by herself.
00:28:33.200 | I was super excited.
00:28:34.760 | I was like, "Wow, baby!
00:28:37.680 | You blew your own nose!
00:28:39.840 | Nice!"
00:28:40.840 | And she beamed because she was like, "Oh, daddy was so proud."
00:28:45.360 | I love watching them do ordinary, silly, stupid things.
00:28:50.800 | Why?
00:28:52.080 | Because I love them and because they're mine.
00:28:57.360 | How much more does God enjoy watching us do silly and stupid and ordinary things and just
00:29:08.240 | beam at us?
00:29:12.480 | I want to give them the best of everything.
00:29:15.080 | When I go to Target, I went yesterday, I brought back home a toy.
00:29:19.640 | I always visit the toy section because I want to give my kids stuff, but I do not because
00:29:26.520 | some toys they're not ready for.
00:29:29.280 | Some toys would be harmful for them.
00:29:32.720 | I may get it for them later, but not now because they're too little.
00:29:39.000 | Scripture says, "What father among you, if a son asks for a fish, will instead of a fish
00:29:42.760 | give him a serpent, or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion?"
00:29:52.400 | A snake is not good for food.
00:29:55.680 | It's dangerous.
00:29:57.600 | No father will give his child a scorpion for food or even for a pet.
00:30:02.040 | Even a bad father knows not to do this.
00:30:05.720 | Even a stupid father knows not to do this.
00:30:08.840 | So even selfish and stupid fathers desire to give their children good things.
00:30:12.320 | They want to give their children things that will benefit them.
00:30:15.560 | Lesson one, fathers discipline their children in love.
00:30:17.800 | Two, fathers delight in their children and want to give them the best of everything.
00:30:21.920 | It says, "If you then being evil, I love my kids, but if you asked me, do I love my kids
00:30:32.040 | more than I love myself?
00:30:34.280 | I'd probably say no.
00:30:40.520 | I mean if I had to defend my kids with my life or sacrifice my body for them, I'm pretty
00:30:45.520 | sure I would.
00:30:47.960 | But do I love Maddie and Karis more than I love me?
00:30:53.400 | I'd have a very hard time answering that because I love myself a lot.
00:31:00.560 | I'm selfish.
00:31:03.080 | And there are times, even though I love my children, where my parenting is affected negatively
00:31:08.280 | because of my selfishness.
00:31:11.440 | When I haven't slept much and I'm tired and cranky and grumpy, my interaction with my
00:31:17.920 | kids might not be positive.
00:31:22.200 | When I'm under a lot of stress, I can be a bad dad.
00:31:27.000 | When there are difficulties in my relationship with Rebecca, Becky, my kids will be affected.
00:31:33.520 | But even as a self-centered, selfish, weak, sinful father, I won't deliberately give my
00:31:39.440 | kids things that are harmful for them.
00:31:42.640 | Does it make sense?
00:31:46.680 | How many of you love your kids?
00:31:49.800 | You don't have to answer, but how many of you love your kids?
00:31:53.680 | I know your love isn't perfect and it's a struggle, but you love your kids.
00:31:58.160 | I love my kids.
00:31:59.880 | But you know what radically changed in my relationship with God?
00:32:05.200 | When I came to the realization that God loves me more than I love my kids.
00:32:16.080 | God loves me with a fierce, intense, passionate love a whole lot more than I could ever love
00:32:22.720 | my kids.
00:32:26.040 | God loves you more than you love your kids.
00:32:31.000 | And His love is perfect.
00:32:32.800 | He is never in a bad mood.
00:32:34.480 | He is never tired or sleep deprived.
00:32:38.040 | He is never in disagreement with Himself.
00:32:41.120 | So if you have been adopted into the family of God, your Abba Father loves you with a
00:32:47.600 | fierce intensity.
00:32:50.000 | It's a relentless, passionate love.
00:32:53.520 | And He loves you so much more than you could ever love your kids.
00:32:57.840 | And I want that to sink in.
00:33:01.320 | Because if that does, the next time you pray Luke 11, "Our Father in Heaven," your heart
00:33:10.560 | will beat differently.
00:33:13.400 | Sunday worship will be special because it's time with Dad.
00:33:21.960 | If you then being evil know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will
00:33:26.000 | God give the Holy Spirit to those who love Him or to those who ask Him?
00:33:29.160 | This is a slight tangential, but I feel worth bringing up.
00:33:32.520 | As I was preparing this sermon, there was a little bit of a tension in my heart.
00:33:39.360 | Two groups of people came to mind, and it caused me to stop and pray.
00:33:44.920 | The first group is for those of you who have had objectively bad earthly fathers.
00:33:50.720 | And I want you to call your attention back to the beginning of verse 13, "If you then
00:33:53.320 | though you are evil."
00:33:54.640 | For you guys, first, don't allow your bitterness toward your earthly father keep you from opening
00:34:03.480 | up your heart to the Heavenly Father who loves you perfectly.
00:34:09.160 | And second, remember, all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.
00:34:16.200 | There is need for Christ for all, and there is need of grace for all.
00:34:25.520 | The second group that I felt burdened for as I was preparing this sermon are the barren
00:34:33.180 | and the childless.
00:34:34.180 | "Oh yeah, Peter, great.
00:34:35.180 | You waited eight years.
00:34:36.180 | God gave you kids.
00:34:39.760 | Nice to be you."
00:34:42.680 | There's a little bit of guilt and pain as I was preparing this because I felt like I'm
00:34:47.160 | almost gloating about being a dad.
00:34:50.920 | We were childless for most of our marriage, so I've been there.
00:34:57.920 | What I want to share with you who are waiting is this.
00:35:01.840 | God hears you.
00:35:05.080 | He loves you.
00:35:09.800 | No prayer of yours falls on deaf ears.
00:35:16.560 | Where you are at, give Him glory.
00:35:21.480 | You know, something really challenged me within the last year as I was thinking through how
00:35:29.040 | to pray and encourage others who are waiting for children.
00:35:35.560 | You know, when you pray for a child, it's an earnest prayer.
00:35:40.920 | It's a desperate prayer.
00:35:42.720 | Months and months of waiting and being disappointed.
00:35:46.120 | There's a sense of like, it's not even frustration because you can't control this.
00:35:56.240 | But you know what dawned on me?
00:35:59.760 | You know what's more of an earnest prayer?
00:36:02.520 | You know what's more of a prayer that can hit the heart of God?
00:36:08.760 | It's a prayer of a child who doesn't have parents.
00:36:12.480 | So perhaps God is moving your heart to love on an adopted child as if he were your own
00:36:16.000 | flesh and blood.
00:36:17.560 | Do it if you can.
00:36:22.360 | God hears you.
00:36:23.360 | He loves you.
00:36:24.360 | He desires the wholeness and completeness of your family more than you do.
00:36:29.800 | These are tangential, but I wanted to address that.
00:36:35.560 | And I tell you, ask and it will be given to you.
00:36:37.800 | Seek and you will find.
00:36:38.880 | Knock and it will be opened to you.
00:36:39.960 | For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds.
00:36:44.560 | To the one who knocks it will be opened.
00:36:46.000 | And what father among you, if his son asks for a fish, will instead of a fish give him
00:36:49.160 | a serpent?
00:36:50.160 | Or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion?
00:36:53.520 | If you then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much
00:36:57.680 | more will the heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him?
00:37:02.000 | So what are we to be asking, seeking, and knocking for?
00:37:05.160 | Do you guys ever think about that?
00:37:07.720 | You know this verse, right?
00:37:08.720 | It's also in Matthew 6.
00:37:10.040 | Ask and you shall receive.
00:37:11.800 | Seek and you will find.
00:37:13.400 | Knock and the door will be opened.
00:37:14.520 | You've heard this before, but what is it that we're supposed to be asking, seeking, and
00:37:17.880 | knocking for?
00:37:19.480 | Verse 13 gives you the answer.
00:37:27.920 | The Holy Spirit?
00:37:32.680 | That's weird.
00:37:34.640 | If we're asking God with all our hearts, seeking and knocking, he's going to give the Holy
00:37:42.040 | Spirit?
00:37:43.040 | And you guys remember, the disciples didn't have really a concept of who the Holy Spirit
00:37:46.960 | was.
00:37:47.960 | So this is kind of going to be weird for them.
00:37:52.120 | But for you and I, as we look upon this passage, it makes sense.
00:37:56.480 | Because the greatest things that I can give to these kids that I love are not objects.
00:38:06.340 | The biggest blessings and gifts I can give to Maddie and Karis are not a house, money,
00:38:14.640 | or a good education, right?
00:38:18.720 | If you're a parent, the best thing you can give to your kids are not physical, material
00:38:24.680 | things.
00:38:25.920 | No, the best thing I can give to my children is my heart.
00:38:31.120 | The best gift a father can give to his children is himself.
00:38:35.680 | And you guys all understand this.
00:38:37.680 | A young child might not understand this.
00:38:41.000 | But as a child gets older, what happens?
00:38:47.240 | More than the stuff, more than the gifts, they grow to love the giver.
00:38:53.760 | I appreciate and understand my sinful father now more than I did when I was 15.
00:39:01.860 | When I was a kid, I appreciated or I didn't appreciate my father for what he could or
00:39:06.560 | he couldn't give me.
00:39:09.880 | Now I appreciate my father and value him just because he's my father.
00:39:17.320 | And he's the reason we moved back.
00:39:21.760 | The best thing that God can give you and me is not health and wealth, comfort and riches,
00:39:29.680 | although so much of our prayer lives are just focused on that.
00:39:34.880 | The best thing that God can give you and me is a relationship with him.
00:39:38.800 | Amen?
00:39:40.080 | But some of us who are spiritual toddlers, we still want the stuff.
00:39:46.120 | Some of us who are spiritually impetuous teens would prefer the health and the wealth and
00:39:51.440 | comfort and riches because daddy can buy it.
00:39:53.720 | Daddy can give it to us.
00:39:56.860 | How mature are you in your faith?
00:40:00.640 | How do you gauge how mature you are in your faith?
00:40:04.200 | Answer this question honestly in your heart and you'll get your answer.
00:40:09.240 | Is your relationship with God a means or the goal?
00:40:16.200 | Is your relationship with God a means or the goal?
00:40:23.040 | Because the best thing that God can give to his people is not stuff.
00:40:27.200 | It is a gift of Emmanuel.
00:40:29.440 | Amen?
00:40:31.160 | John 17 3, this is eternal life.
00:40:34.560 | It's not just about enjoying heaven on earth and then going to heaven and enjoying heavenly
00:40:37.400 | heaven.
00:40:38.400 | Okay?
00:40:39.400 | What is eternal life?
00:40:40.400 | That they may know you, the only true God in Jesus Christ whom you have sent.
00:40:47.800 | If you say the thing about it, this gift, ask and you shall receive, seek and you shall
00:40:52.240 | find, knock and the door will be open and then the heavenly father will give you a Holy
00:40:55.280 | Spirit.
00:40:57.920 | This is strange stuff to the first century Jew.
00:41:03.800 | First of all, the disciples who asked Jesus to teach them how to pray at this time didn't
00:41:07.000 | have quite an understanding of who the Holy Spirit was.
00:41:12.240 | Ask seek, knock and your father in heaven who is good, who is keeper of promises and
00:41:16.320 | covenants will give you the spirit.
00:41:20.520 | The first century Jew had a few things he prayed passionately about.
00:41:25.140 | He prayed passionately that the Messiah would come.
00:41:28.840 | Why did the first century Jew pray for the Messiah to come?
00:41:32.020 | Because the Messiah would come to deliver the people of Israel from their oppressors.
00:41:37.040 | The Jew would pray for the Messiah to come in might, in power to restore and liberate
00:41:42.440 | Israel and to return Israel's wealth, their fame and their land.
00:41:49.600 | This was promised to Abraham's descendants by God the father.
00:41:54.440 | Messiah come because we're sick of these pagan oppressors.
00:41:58.880 | Give us back our wealth, our land and our fame.
00:42:02.640 | If I were a first century Jew at first hearing on this Holy Spirit, I would say no thanks.
00:42:10.560 | I want the wealth.
00:42:12.220 | I want the fame.
00:42:14.120 | I want the land.
00:42:16.520 | I don't want to have these pagan Romans scoffing at me, making me carry his armor for a mile.
00:42:24.400 | I want relief.
00:42:27.360 | I want what you promised to our forefathers.
00:42:31.120 | So many first century Jews, for many first century Jews, a covenant relationship with
00:42:34.600 | God was a means, not a goal.
00:42:41.560 | Matthew 21.9, "And the crowds that went before him and that followed him were shouting, 'Hosanna
00:42:47.880 | to the son of David.
00:42:48.920 | Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord.
00:42:50.720 | Hosanna in the highest.'
00:42:54.080 | The crowd shouted, 'Hosanna in the highest.
00:42:56.400 | Hosanna in the highest.'"
00:42:57.880 | But what does that mean?
00:43:02.400 | The word Hosanna comes from the combination of two Hebrew words, yasha, which means deliver
00:43:10.280 | or save.
00:43:11.280 | If you're taking notes, Y-A-S-H-A, deliver or save, yasha.
00:43:18.220 | And then, Anna, like Anna, the name, beg or beseech.
00:43:24.000 | Yasha, deliver, save.
00:43:26.000 | Anna, we beg you, we beseech you, we implore you.
00:43:30.200 | And the word Hosanna is found only once in the Old Testament.
00:43:35.400 | Psalm 118, verses 25 to 26, it reads, "Save us, we pray.
00:43:40.480 | O Lord, O Lord, we pray.
00:43:43.040 | Give us success.
00:43:47.040 | Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord.
00:43:49.680 | We bless you in the house of the Lord.
00:43:51.900 | We bless you from the house of the Lord."
00:43:55.680 | Over time, in Israel, Hosanna started becoming a declaration of praise, like, "Hooray!
00:44:05.600 | Hooray!
00:44:07.600 | Hooray!
00:44:09.600 | Manseh!
00:44:10.600 | Yoo-hoo!"
00:44:11.600 | That's what it became.
00:44:12.600 | But the meaning is, "Save us!
00:44:15.040 | We beg you."
00:44:18.560 | So the crowds literally were shouting, "I beg you to save!
00:44:23.080 | Please deliver us!"
00:44:24.080 | They were crying for salvation.
00:44:27.860 | But over the course of the Passion Week, over the next few days, they stopped shouting this.
00:44:34.000 | And by Friday, their shouts turned into, "Crucify him."
00:44:41.040 | Why?
00:44:43.440 | Because this Son of David wasn't delivering what they wanted to receive.
00:44:51.480 | On this Palm Sunday, do you shout, "Hosanna to the King of Kings!
00:44:56.520 | Glory in the highest!"
00:44:57.520 | You're going to sing that after this.
00:44:58.520 | We're going to sing.
00:44:59.520 | That's all.
00:45:00.520 | But why do you shout, "Hosanna"?
00:45:08.920 | What do you desire to be saved from?
00:45:12.720 | "Hosanna!
00:45:13.720 | We beseech you to save and deliver us!"
00:45:16.880 | What is it that you desire to be saved from?
00:45:21.040 | Because many in today's church want to be saved from comfort or discomfort.
00:45:28.520 | They want to be saved from anxiety.
00:45:31.360 | They want to be saved from boredom.
00:45:37.880 | More and fewer people desire to be saved from their sins and restored to the Creator.
00:45:44.920 | You are the God who saves us, worthy of all our praises.
00:45:47.920 | We will sing that.
00:45:55.960 | What are you singing?
00:45:59.020 | Salvation from your discomfort, anxiety, and boredom?
00:46:04.600 | Or are you singing with a desire to be restored to your Maker?
00:46:11.840 | You are the God who saves us, worthy of all our praises.
00:46:15.560 | "Hosanna!"
00:46:17.000 | Is He worthy of praise only when your life is good?
00:46:21.700 | What is the significance of remembering this Passion Week?
00:46:24.760 | What is the significance of remembering the Passion Week?
00:46:29.920 | It's to remember the means by which our adoption into the family of God came.
00:46:36.160 | To remember the means by which our sonship and our access came.
00:46:41.560 | The means by which the gift of eternal life came.
00:46:46.360 | Eternal life for you and me came at a cost.
00:46:50.120 | Jesus' life, sacrificial death, and resurrection have given us access to this good, good Father.
00:46:58.920 | Remember Tim Keller's quote?
00:47:02.400 | "The only person who dares to wake up a king at 3 a.m. for a glass of water is his
00:47:09.480 | child."
00:47:10.480 | He has that kind of access.
00:47:13.040 | So is Christ your Lord and Savior?
00:47:14.840 | If Christ is your Lord and Savior, you have been adopted into God's family.
00:47:19.120 | Hallelujah!
00:47:20.360 | And you have a good Father.
00:47:24.520 | And this Father loves you perfectly.
00:47:27.860 | This Father loves you passionately.
00:47:30.560 | He loves you sacrificially.
00:47:33.460 | He loves you more than you could ever love anybody else.
00:47:45.040 | So when you cry out, "Hosanna, come have your way among us," may that praise and that
00:47:54.200 | prayer just be, "God, I just want you.
00:47:57.440 | I don't want anything else.
00:47:58.640 | I just want you."
00:48:03.760 | I would like to close with a passage for us to read.
00:48:10.800 | Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in Christ
00:48:17.240 | with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places.
00:48:21.920 | Even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless
00:48:26.100 | before him, in love he predestined us for adoption through Jesus Christ, whom we remember
00:48:34.400 | this week.
00:48:37.560 | According to the purpose of his will, to the praise of his glorious grace, with which he
00:48:41.680 | has blessed us in the beloved.
00:48:44.920 | Today's Palm Sunday.
00:48:48.880 | This week is Passion Week.
00:48:51.840 | May this week and the events this week cause you to reflect on the love of our heavenly
00:48:58.120 | Father and on the love that he has for us.
00:49:03.200 | That while we were yet hostile, rebellious, sinful, selfish men and women, Christ died
00:49:12.560 | for us to restore us to the Father, because that is the best thing he could ever give.
00:49:24.040 | May you remember Christ this week.
00:49:27.680 | May you remember that you're God, that your Daddy loves you, and he loves you passionately.
00:49:37.120 | Amen?
00:49:39.400 | Let's pray.