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2015-08-02 Knowledge Ends in Love


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00:00:00.000 | If you would turn your Bibles over to 1 Corinthians chapter 8.
00:00:09.400 | As many of you guys know, on Thursday night we're covering the book of 1 Corinthians and
00:00:14.720 | it's been a quietly awesome study.
00:00:19.520 | As you guys turn over there, I want to introduce a little bit.
00:00:22.680 | You know, I used to think that the book of 1 Corinthians is just a slap in the face,
00:00:28.720 | you know.
00:00:29.720 | If some of you guys are those people, I forget the term, but there are people who like pain.
00:00:34.800 | And if you want to get hurt a little bit, you read the book of 1 Corinthians and it
00:00:38.080 | just slaps you around, dealing with all sorts of sin and pride and, you know, conflict in
00:00:44.320 | the church.
00:00:45.960 | And I always viewed the book of 1 Corinthians like that.
00:00:49.360 | It's just rebuke after rebuke.
00:00:51.560 | But the fact of the matter is, I think, you know, so much of scripture is so much more.
00:00:57.560 | It's the way that it is more is it's a book on wisdom.
00:01:01.440 | How you make your decisions.
00:01:03.520 | And it teaches you in areas of your life where you make application, it teaches you how to
00:01:08.360 | decide what do I do?
00:01:10.080 | How am I supposed to think about this?
00:01:12.000 | Okay.
00:01:13.000 | And by way of introducing this, I personally think that's a great aspect and character
00:01:18.860 | trait of somebody that I really admire.
00:01:23.080 | I like it when I see somebody who's strong mentally and they know how to decide this
00:01:27.780 | is what we need to do in this moment.
00:01:30.160 | You guys have all seen recent, you know, comic book movies, the Avengers.
00:01:35.640 | Okay.
00:01:36.640 | Who's the guy who's always telling people what to do?
00:01:42.200 | Captain America, right?
00:01:44.280 | Here's this guy who's like a goody two-shoe guy, but he always seems to be like, okay,
00:01:47.480 | you, you do this, you do that.
00:01:48.760 | And even to Hulk is like, you go do this thing.
00:01:51.080 | And everyone's like, and then they just go.
00:01:54.000 | And isn't that kind of noble?
00:01:55.000 | It's like, wow, he has such clout.
00:01:57.600 | He has such authority, but it's not because he's a mean jerky guy.
00:02:01.520 | He's just happens to be a man who knows how to decide in this moment.
00:02:05.600 | This is what we as a team needs to do.
00:02:07.820 | And I admire that because I'm going to be honest here.
00:02:10.920 | I'm not that at all.
00:02:12.800 | You know, even to the smallest decisions when we were like working on the building, working
00:02:17.200 | on the other side, pastor Peter would always ask me a question.
00:02:20.080 | Does this look good?
00:02:21.080 | What do you think?
00:02:22.080 | You know, like that's my answer to everything.
00:02:25.080 | It's like, well, what do you think?
00:02:27.160 | Because I take a long time to start processing.
00:02:30.200 | And also, um, you know, we, sometimes we have really busy weekends, multiple events happening,
00:02:34.400 | and then be able to ask me, what should we do?
00:02:38.840 | And then she was like, I'll let you get back to me later.
00:02:41.040 | Cause I'm just sitting there like, I don't know sometimes how to decide, okay, this is
00:02:44.720 | what we're going to do because this is what's important.
00:02:46.760 | And this is our criteria.
00:02:48.080 | We wanted to do this.
00:02:50.720 | So that's why if you're like me, you want things spelled out crystal clear in the Bible,
00:02:55.840 | right?
00:02:56.840 | You want things told this is right.
00:02:58.800 | This is wrong.
00:02:59.800 | This is what you need to do.
00:03:00.800 | But truth is the Bible doesn't address every single scenario in our lives.
00:03:07.780 | You know, everything from your personal relationship of dating and all that kind of stuff to school,
00:03:11.680 | career, family.
00:03:13.240 | It gives you a lot, but it doesn't cover every single scenario.
00:03:18.080 | And to those scenarios, we have to practice our discernment.
00:03:21.240 | We have to practice our judgment.
00:03:23.240 | And to me, the character trait of being able to judge appropriately, that's maturity.
00:03:29.280 | And so when I see veterans of the faith who've lived their lives, they've addressed scenarios,
00:03:34.480 | they've experienced certain things and come out of that, not just like, Ooh, I got felt
00:03:37.760 | beat up, but they started to learn principles.
00:03:40.320 | They know now what to do.
00:03:41.800 | They know now what to learn.
00:03:43.040 | They look in hindsight and they're able to discern this was right.
00:03:46.920 | This was wrong.
00:03:47.920 | Even if it hurt, it was right.
00:03:50.040 | I look at that kind of stuff.
00:03:51.040 | I'm like, wow, that is normal.
00:03:54.160 | Okay.
00:03:55.160 | Well, in the book of first Corinthians, apostle Paul, like a spiritual father, initially he
00:04:01.400 | is quite upset.
00:04:03.280 | So he starts to point out, starting from chapter one, all the various things that's in the
00:04:07.240 | life of the church.
00:04:09.040 | You guys are worldly arrogant.
00:04:11.640 | You think you're so wise and he rebukes them.
00:04:14.280 | Some of you guys are competitive and you compete with each other.
00:04:17.000 | I'm of Paul, I'm of a Paulus, you know, I'm of Jesus.
00:04:21.080 | I don't need nobody.
00:04:22.080 | And they start competing with each other.
00:04:23.720 | Bad.
00:04:24.720 | They have, they have immoral acts in the church.
00:04:27.200 | Bad.
00:04:28.200 | And then they have, you know, they basically wage war on each other and take each other
00:04:31.120 | to court.
00:04:32.120 | Bad.
00:04:33.120 | Paul, Paul starts to rebuke those things.
00:04:34.480 | And that's typically what we think of first Corinthians.
00:04:37.160 | But actually the huge chunk of the letter is a response to their questions.
00:04:42.760 | If you turn in your Bibles real quickly, look at chapter seven, verse one, he says, now
00:04:49.200 | concerning the things about which you wrote, it is good for a man not to touch a woman.
00:04:54.400 | Now I only read that passage because I want to show you apostle Paul, again, as a good
00:04:58.940 | father and teacher, he's interacting with the church and he's answering some of their
00:05:02.960 | questions.
00:05:03.960 | And in so answering, he's giving them not just, you know, just the answer, but he's
00:05:08.760 | giving them wisdom.
00:05:09.960 | This is how you need to decide.
00:05:12.120 | This is how you need to think.
00:05:14.080 | And you, if you're going to mature, you need to judge appropriately.
00:05:17.080 | Okay.
00:05:18.080 | So let me give you a sampling of some of those things.
00:05:21.960 | Go to chapter six, verse 12.
00:05:23.720 | We just studied this a couple of days ago on Thursday.
00:05:26.800 | But in chapter six, verse 12, he'll say, all things are lawful for me, but not all things
00:05:32.740 | are profitable.
00:05:34.600 | All things are lawful for me, but I will not be mastered by anything.
00:05:38.240 | Good.
00:05:39.240 | When you read the Bible and you see stuff like that, those are principles you need to
00:05:42.720 | take in.
00:05:43.720 | There are people who think, look, everything is lawful.
00:05:46.640 | Everything is fine.
00:05:47.640 | But apostle Paul asks, but is it profitable?
00:05:51.200 | You need to ask that.
00:05:53.040 | In judging and trying to decide, should I do this?
00:05:55.360 | Should I not?
00:05:56.600 | In various gray issues of Christian faith, whether, you know, I'm going to bring them
00:06:00.400 | up, there's like drinking, smoking, tattoos, going to lounges, going to do all this stuff.
00:06:06.440 | I'm not going to tell you my perspective on those now.
00:06:09.400 | What I am going to say is you should apply biblical principles, shouldn't you?
00:06:14.320 | Apostle Paul says, all things are lawful, even for me, but not all things are profitable.
00:06:18.960 | And I read that in chapter 10 of 1 Corinthians as well.
00:06:21.600 | So you know this is a theme.
00:06:23.400 | He'll even say, all things are lawful for me, but I will not be mastered by anything.
00:06:28.280 | Is anything in excess?
00:06:30.440 | Is it controlling you?
00:06:32.100 | Is it dominating?
00:06:33.100 | Is it making your life really lopsided?
00:06:36.640 | And it's not good for you.
00:06:38.000 | Even if it seems like a good thing, even if it's work, if it's completely lopsided and
00:06:41.920 | dominating your life, making it, making you its slave, it's absolutely not good for you.
00:06:47.880 | You see how this principles are applied, right?
00:06:49.820 | This is the wisdom that you need to exercise in your life.
00:06:53.800 | There's more.
00:06:55.280 | So just by warning, this is like the longest introduction I've ever given, but there's
00:06:59.440 | more.
00:07:00.440 | There's like so many principles.
00:07:02.760 | Verse 15 of chapter 6, he'll say, do you not know that your body is on the members of Christ?
00:07:08.440 | Verse 19, do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you?
00:07:13.620 | These are spiritual principle truths that never change.
00:07:17.080 | Now you need to apply with your discretion.
00:07:19.720 | If I am identified with Christ, what should I do with my body?
00:07:24.640 | If I am representative of Christ's body, if literally I am one with him and the spirit
00:07:30.160 | of God dwells in me and you, in this context, it's not you the church, it's you as an individual,
00:07:35.680 | you are the temple of the presence of the Holy Spirit, you got to exercise your own
00:07:41.540 | brain to decide what do I do?
00:07:44.080 | See this is what Apostle Paul is a good teacher and good father, is instructing the church.
00:07:48.840 | And there's more.
00:07:49.840 | The last time I preached here, I believe I preached out of chapter 7, verse 35.
00:07:54.140 | This was a crucial one.
00:07:56.320 | He says, but I say this for your own benefit.
00:08:00.960 | Again, this is verse 35 of chapter 7.
00:08:03.560 | Not to put a restraint upon you, but to promote what is appropriate and to secure undistracted
00:08:09.620 | devotion to the Lord.
00:08:11.120 | When was the last time you were sitting there like, man, should I go with these people or
00:08:14.720 | should I not?
00:08:15.720 | And you asked, does this contribute to my devotion to God?
00:08:20.520 | Yes or no?
00:08:21.520 | Does this make me more committed or less committed to the Lord?
00:08:24.740 | Right?
00:08:25.740 | I mean, think, if we lived our lives like that, where the vast majority of our decisions
00:08:30.640 | were based on is it profitable, is it dominating, is it in line with my identity, is it causing
00:08:36.560 | me to be more in love and more devoted to Christ, I mean, we would be wise individuals,
00:08:41.800 | right?
00:08:42.800 | But the fact of the matter is, I make it sound easy, but that's not easy.
00:08:48.340 | In the moment, perhaps of your own desire, the temptations and lurements, or even in
00:08:52.300 | the moment of trying to decide what do I do, you've got to start running in your mind and
00:08:57.820 | start discerning these things and it's not easy.
00:09:00.500 | Well, one of the issues, so now we're going to chapter 8.
00:09:03.380 | One of the issues in chapter 8 that they come across is the issue of food offered to idols.
00:09:10.380 | So take a look here.
00:09:11.380 | I'm going to read the whole passage.
00:09:13.240 | Chapter 8 reads like this.
00:09:15.580 | Now concerning things sacrificed to idols, we know that we all have knowledge, but knowledge
00:09:22.560 | makes arrogant, but love edifies.
00:09:26.220 | If anyone supposes that he knows anything, he has not yet known as he ought to know.
00:09:31.020 | But if anyone loves God, he is known by him.
00:09:34.140 | Therefore, concerning the eating of things sacrificed to idols, we know that there is
00:09:38.660 | no such thing as an idol in the world and that there is no God but one.
00:09:43.500 | For even if there are so-called gods, whether in heaven or on earth, as indeed there are
00:09:47.420 | many gods and many lords, yet for us there is but one God, the Father, from whom are
00:09:52.700 | all things and we exist for him, and one Lord Jesus Christ by whom are all things and we
00:09:58.580 | exist through him.
00:10:00.060 | However, not all men have this knowledge, but some, being accustomed to the idol until
00:10:05.220 | now, eat food as if it were sacrifice to an idol and their conscience, being weak, is
00:10:10.180 | defiled.
00:10:11.180 | But food will not condemn us to God.
00:10:13.660 | We are neither the worse if we do not eat it, nor the better if we do eat it.
00:10:17.760 | But take care that this liberty of yours does not somehow become a stumbling block to the
00:10:21.700 | weak.
00:10:22.700 | For if someone sees you who have knowledge dining at an idol's temple, will not his
00:10:28.180 | conscience, if he is weak, be strengthened to eat things sacrificed to idols?
00:10:33.100 | For through your knowledge he who is weak is ruined, the brother for whose sake Christ
00:10:38.060 | died.
00:10:39.060 | And so by sinning against the brethren and wounding their conscience when it is weak,
00:10:43.660 | you sin against Christ.
00:10:45.260 | Therefore, if food causes my brother to stumble, I will never eat meat again, so that I will
00:10:51.020 | not cause my brother to stumble.
00:10:53.140 | Amen.
00:10:54.140 | Let's take a moment to pray and to ask the Lord's blessing on our time in the word.
00:11:00.260 | Father God, we do thank you for your truth.
00:11:02.620 | God, it is your truth that enlightens us.
00:11:05.500 | It is your truth that gives us our direction and path.
00:11:09.860 | But God, grant us this morning humility and acceptance in our hearts that we would not
00:11:14.060 | rebel against your word, but God, we'd be fully in submission to your wisdom.
00:11:18.860 | Lord, your scriptures often challenge us to go beyond what is normal, that goes beyond
00:11:24.500 | what is comfortable for us.
00:11:26.340 | But I pray, Father God, knowing that there is much blessing when we abide in you, help
00:11:30.180 | us, Father God, to completely fulfill your word.
00:11:33.460 | It's in Christ's name we pray.
00:11:34.460 | Amen.
00:11:34.460 | Amen.
00:11:35.460 | Okay.
00:11:36.460 | So, we look at this scenario, and so I painted this picture for you that we need wisdom and
00:11:42.780 | discretion to apply the biblical principles in life areas that aren't explicit in the
00:11:48.820 | Bible.
00:11:49.820 | But rather, they're life areas where it could be gray, it could go one way or the other.
00:11:54.660 | And you saw the scenario here.
00:11:56.700 | You saw what they perhaps wrote about to Apostle Paul.
00:11:59.900 | Dear Paul, our father in the faith, we've got a big problem.
00:12:04.660 | I love meat, but the guy says no.
00:12:06.740 | Okay, that's kind of like the scenario that you see.
00:12:10.620 | You see a group of people who perhaps, maybe the people who are writing the letter were
00:12:15.580 | probably people who were a long time in the church, because they probably had that relationship
00:12:19.260 | with Apostle Paul.
00:12:20.260 | Perhaps.
00:12:21.260 | I'm just reading into the, behind the lines there, so understand that.
00:12:24.460 | But perhaps are the people who know better, because they're sitting here thinking, you
00:12:27.460 | know what?
00:12:28.460 | I read here, there's people with issues.
00:12:31.780 | There's people who are weak.
00:12:32.780 | There are people who have problem with me eating, but the fact of the matter is we know
00:12:36.220 | there is no other idols.
00:12:37.940 | All that's fake.
00:12:40.540 | And so now you have, I'm going to stand here, representative of one group, you have a group
00:12:44.140 | of people who are saying, this is not wrong.
00:12:47.100 | We should be able to eat.
00:12:49.340 | But then there is a pointing at the people who are on this side, no, no, no, no, no.
00:12:54.740 | We can't eat that meat.
00:12:56.060 | It's been offered to idols.
00:12:57.380 | It's pagan.
00:12:58.380 | You know, how dare we?
00:12:59.700 | And if they were Jewish, it'd be like, no way.
00:13:02.540 | Right?
00:13:03.540 | We're going to die if we eat that.
00:13:05.300 | So you see this conflict happening.
00:13:07.300 | Now, as I was thinking about this, I was trying to think of something that maybe is in corollary
00:13:12.020 | to our day and age.
00:13:14.340 | I couldn't think of one.
00:13:16.420 | So what I would like you to do is imagine you're in India.
00:13:19.660 | Okay.
00:13:20.660 | Recently, we just heard Wednesday from a pastor who was out in India.
00:13:23.820 | His name is Pastor Ramesh, and he's talking about how if you're an Indian, you're essentially
00:13:29.300 | Hindu.
00:13:30.580 | Your faith is so tied with your culture.
00:13:33.580 | It's like almost inseparable.
00:13:35.260 | And if you tried, the people would attack you.
00:13:37.820 | And that's why they're so resistant to Christianity.
00:13:40.060 | Because if you go over and you say, oh, you have to convert.
00:13:44.020 | And Christianity says, there's only one way, man.
00:13:47.020 | Not many guys, not many ways.
00:13:48.300 | It's just one.
00:13:49.300 | Then they just get really livid.
00:13:51.260 | Right?
00:13:52.260 | And the reason being is because they believe, the Hindus believe in just a conglomerate
00:13:57.540 | of all kinds of gods.
00:13:59.260 | So you can have animal gods.
00:14:01.420 | You can have object gods.
00:14:02.700 | And Pastor Ramesh was saying his family chose the snake.
00:14:06.580 | And to the snake, they would offer fruit.
00:14:08.620 | They would offer sacrifice, basically.
00:14:10.820 | And they would have worship services right in front of that thing.
00:14:13.700 | But the fact of the matter is, that being the case, if you were to imagine yourself
00:14:16.900 | in India, and you can hear stories about this sometimes.
00:14:19.620 | So you'll see on the side of the road, you're walking down the road, and you have an individual
00:14:23.020 | worshiping a cow.
00:14:24.020 | And if the cow happens to go past your car, you're not going to be like, bam, bam, get
00:14:27.940 | out of the way, cow.
00:14:28.940 | Why?
00:14:29.940 | Because that's someone's god.
00:14:30.940 | You know what I mean?
00:14:32.340 | So there in India, the practice of sacrifice to idols isn't just like an isolated event.
00:14:38.820 | I want to paint for you a picture that this probably affected the life of the church greatly.
00:14:45.060 | Because it wasn't just a few people.
00:14:46.740 | It wasn't just one meat lover versus the other guy who wanted to be a vegan.
00:14:50.700 | You know what I mean?
00:14:51.700 | It wasn't just two guys going at it.
00:14:53.500 | It was probably a big portion of the church wondering, what do I do?
00:14:58.540 | I go to my sister's wedding, and it's like, do I not eat their food?
00:15:03.780 | Someone invites me to their house, and it's like, maybe I pack my own sandwich.
00:15:07.340 | I don't know.
00:15:08.340 | Like, what do you do?
00:15:09.340 | It would totally mess up the social environment of the church.
00:15:12.540 | You see what I'm saying?
00:15:14.060 | So that's why actually, Paul the Apostle Paul devotes a huge section of scripture,
00:15:18.020 | of his letter to this.
00:15:19.820 | This topic runs from chapter 8 all the way down to the first verse of chapter 11.
00:15:25.660 | So it's an important, I'm saying it's an important issue.
00:15:29.020 | Because you guys might be reading this and be like, hmm, I don't know if that's relevant
00:15:33.420 | here.
00:15:34.420 | I don't have a problem eating meat offered to idols, you know?
00:15:39.220 | But he's going to use this as a platform to address a bigger issue.
00:15:42.620 | Now, the bigger issue is this.
00:15:45.500 | He looks at the people who are writing, you know, kind of metaphorically.
00:15:49.100 | He's writing back, and he's addressing them.
00:15:51.260 | And take a look at verse 1 through 3.
00:15:53.540 | He says, "Now concerning things sacrificed to idols, we know that we all have knowledge.
00:15:59.980 | Knowledge makes arrogant, but love edifies.
00:16:03.060 | If anyone supposes that he knows anything, he has not yet known as he ought to know.
00:16:07.860 | But if anyone loves God, he is known by him.
00:16:11.620 | Therefore concerning the things sacrificed to idols," and then he goes on.
00:16:18.980 | What I'm saying is, Apostle Paul is trying to teach them a principle to make decisions.
00:16:23.580 | And the principle that exists in chapter 8 is not, is it profitable for you?
00:16:28.820 | Not how is it controlling you?
00:16:30.260 | Are you in control?
00:16:31.740 | It's not about you.
00:16:34.740 | The criteria by which he wants you to decide now, all the gray areas is, is it loving?
00:16:41.860 | Is it loving?
00:16:43.500 | And so I've entitled my sermon, "Knowledge that Ends in Love."
00:16:48.380 | Knowledge that ends in love.
00:16:50.700 | Because for you, in trying to make a decision about what should I do about this scenario,
00:16:54.860 | not just this scenario, but other scenarios in my life that come up, I need to be able
00:16:58.940 | to ask the question, is it loving towards my brother?
00:17:02.740 | And that question shouldn't be just a passing thought, it should be important enough that
00:17:06.500 | it radically changes how you live.
00:17:10.540 | It should.
00:17:12.260 | So today, we're actually going to be tackling that, just one aspect of it.
00:17:16.780 | So this is actually part one of a two-part sermon.
00:17:20.300 | I'm going to be preaching again August 16th, so every single one of you have to come back.
00:17:25.620 | Okay?
00:17:26.620 | But this is just part one, because he gives an intro almost to the whole thought.
00:17:31.700 | He asks, "Are you loving?
00:17:33.980 | Are you loving towards your brother, and are you making decisions based upon this?"
00:17:37.780 | He sees the attitude, the attitude of the people writing, and he makes this first point.
00:17:43.860 | I'm going to have three points today, and the very first point I'm going to tell you
00:17:46.780 | is, admit your ignorance.
00:17:50.980 | Okay?
00:17:52.540 | Admit your ignorance.
00:17:54.660 | Now, I'm saying we should be loving, and we need to make decisions based on, is it loving?
00:18:02.260 | Why start with admit your ignorance?
00:18:04.500 | Is because, let me paint for you a scenario here, okay?
00:18:07.340 | So number one is admit your ignorance.
00:18:09.900 | Here's the one camp of people.
00:18:11.380 | We love meat.
00:18:13.380 | This is a daily part of our lifestyle.
00:18:16.060 | Stop frustrating us, you know?
00:18:19.660 | And you can imagine how frustrating this could be.
00:18:22.300 | Because for a Jew, remember how they make sacrifices?
00:18:25.740 | They'll have an animal, and a portion of that goes to God, they burn it.
00:18:29.260 | A portion of that goes to the priest, and a portion that you take home.
00:18:32.980 | Remember how frequent sacrifices were?
00:18:34.740 | Remember, think about how important that portion of the meat is then for the family.
00:18:38.220 | So every time you eat meat, it'd be kind of like a family affair.
00:18:40.980 | What I'm saying is, this is again, not something easy for the people to give up.
00:18:45.780 | It's a part of their culture, it's a part of their family life, it's a part of like
00:18:49.900 | routine things.
00:18:51.580 | And it was like that for pagan idolatry worship too.
00:18:53.820 | They would sacrifice animals, and a portion goes to the altar, a portion to the priest,
00:19:00.700 | and a portion to the family, okay?
00:19:03.020 | So you can imagine these people, these people, being very frustrated about this.
00:19:09.120 | So this is where I want you to think about what I just said, admit your ignorance.
00:19:12.560 | Because the way that they start off is saying, "Well, we know.
00:19:16.220 | We know what's right.
00:19:17.220 | We've already decided and judged what's right."
00:19:19.700 | An apostle Paul says, "Now concerning the thing, sacrifice to idols," this is verse
00:19:23.940 | one, "we know that we have the knowledge."
00:19:26.620 | We all have knowledge.
00:19:28.360 | And then he almost rebukes it by saying, "But knowledge makes arrogant, but love edifies."
00:19:33.060 | You can see him responding to their letter, and I'm imagining their letter sounding like
00:19:37.740 | this.
00:19:38.740 | Apostle Paul, our father, we've got a big issue.
00:19:41.460 | I've got a question for you.
00:19:43.100 | It's an important theological one.
00:19:46.980 | What are we going to do about those guys?
00:19:49.580 | You ever met people like that?
00:19:51.660 | Where they're asking you a question, but it's not really a question.
00:19:53.860 | They just want to really like you to affirm they've already made a decision.
00:19:57.740 | They're wrong, right?
00:19:59.740 | Have you seen that before?
00:20:01.940 | You could almost sense that that's probably how they wrote the letter, saying like, "Look,
00:20:06.220 | we know what's right here.
00:20:07.900 | What's right is, let's eat."
00:20:10.740 | There's no such thing as an idol.
00:20:11.940 | The idol is an empty vessel.
00:20:13.420 | The idol has an empty reference, meaning it's just a piece to symbolize their God, but there's
00:20:17.700 | nothing behind it.
00:20:19.300 | So this is nothing.
00:20:21.100 | Just eat it, you know?
00:20:23.220 | So they're saying, "We know what's right.
00:20:25.140 | We know what's right."
00:20:26.140 | But Apostle Paul challenged them, and he says, "You think you know what's right, and in your
00:20:33.380 | knowledge you've decided what to do in this stance."
00:20:36.620 | Maybe they're complaining, "Apostle Paul, can you write a letter to them?
00:20:40.020 | Apostle Paul, can you come and make this right?
00:20:42.020 | Apostle Paul, can you jump in and set them straight?
00:20:45.860 | Tell them to be quiet and let us see what we want to eat."
00:20:47.900 | I don't know if they went that far.
00:20:48.900 | I'm just conjecturing, right?
00:20:51.900 | But Apostle Paul comes back and says, "Your pride, or your knowledge, has made you proud.
00:20:59.940 | Your decision shows your arrogance."
00:21:03.340 | Literally in the Greek it says, "You're so puffed up.
00:21:06.140 | You're like inflated."
00:21:07.140 | Oh, like, "You think it's right, so now I'll apply everybody.
00:21:12.780 | I think it's right.
00:21:14.340 | Everybody eat it."
00:21:16.140 | I don't know if you've ever felt that way, like as a young person.
00:21:19.300 | For me, I remember right when I became Christian, I learned a lot of Christian truths, and then
00:21:24.980 | it was, "I know what's right.
00:21:27.020 | How come you're not doing it, man?
00:21:29.020 | You don't know?"
00:21:30.020 | You know?
00:21:31.020 | Have you met those people who are very interested in just revealing what they know?
00:21:36.660 | I get that sense, and Apostle Paul is rebuking them, "Knowledge makes you so proud.
00:21:41.500 | Knowledge makes you arrogant."
00:21:42.500 | See, knowledge in of itself is so insufficient to decide what's right to do, because knowledge
00:21:50.780 | simply ends with you.
00:21:52.340 | I mean, think about this.
00:21:53.940 | You learn something, and what is it good for when you stop right there?
00:21:57.300 | I learn something, I stop.
00:21:59.140 | You know what that's good for?
00:22:00.140 | It's good for nothing but saying, "Look at what I learned.
00:22:02.180 | Look at me.
00:22:03.180 | I know this.
00:22:04.180 | Be wowed.
00:22:05.180 | Be amazed.
00:22:06.180 | I know."
00:22:07.180 | So, Apostle Paul says, "But what you need to seek is to edify."
00:22:13.260 | But the first step, but the first step is to acknowledge at least you don't know.
00:22:18.700 | So look at what he says.
00:22:19.700 | He says in verse two, "If anyone supposes he knows anything, he has not yet known as
00:22:24.300 | he should."
00:22:25.300 | You think you know, and you claim you know, but you don't really know.
00:22:29.460 | You don't know in the way that you should.
00:22:31.820 | Right?
00:22:33.160 | You don't know the scenario.
00:22:34.660 | You don't understand the environment.
00:22:38.060 | You think you know, but you don't, and you have to admit that.
00:22:42.220 | You know what the crazy thing is?
00:22:44.140 | If you, you know, have ever gotten into conflict with anybody, typically the best way to resolve
00:22:52.140 | that is to first be open, isn't it?
00:22:55.540 | Well, let me be open to why you're upset.
00:22:58.780 | Well, let me be open to why this happened.
00:23:01.860 | But if you're sitting here, "I'm right, why don't you understand why I'm right?"
00:23:05.500 | You're just going to fight and fight and fight.
00:23:07.700 | You're going to have marathon fights, and it's never going to end.
00:23:09.820 | You're just going to be bitter.
00:23:11.860 | And so in this moment of conflict in the church, Apostle Paul says, "You need to admit your
00:23:16.460 | ignorance."
00:23:17.460 | Pride, or knowledge, makes arrogant.
00:23:22.360 | And then he says, the second part, so first was admit your ignorance, and the second part
00:23:27.940 | he says, "Seek to understand people."
00:23:34.020 | Why do I say that?
00:23:35.020 | It's because he says love edifies.
00:23:38.620 | And then he starts talking about how love is edifying, and he starts bringing up how
00:23:42.940 | people are, because Apostle Paul is loving like a father.
00:23:45.860 | He understands the rest of the people.
00:23:48.540 | So what am I saying?
00:23:50.380 | In the second part to that instruction, take a look at some of the stuff he says here,
00:23:54.980 | right?
00:23:56.360 | Look at how he describes, yes, so verse four through six, he describes and affirms, this
00:24:03.700 | is what we know to be true.
00:24:05.380 | This is spiritual reality, right?
00:24:07.380 | We know that there is no such thing as an idol in the world, and there is no God but
00:24:12.020 | one.
00:24:13.020 | So this is the theological truth.
00:24:15.360 | But then look at verse seven, "However, not all men have this knowledge."
00:24:19.500 | Look, guys, you write me this long letter, you want me to make it right, and you want
00:24:24.300 | me to jump in, you want me to get involved in your business, but here's something you
00:24:27.800 | think you know.
00:24:29.640 | But here's something you don't realize.
00:24:32.700 | What about these people who don't know?
00:24:36.180 | So that's why I say you have to seek to understand people, because that's an aspect of you loving
00:24:41.260 | people.
00:24:42.260 | If you seek to edify, if you seek to encourage, you first need to understand.
00:24:47.380 | You see, there are people who don't realize that truth is always given in context.
00:24:54.260 | There are people who think truth is objective truth, everybody should just take it, here
00:24:57.620 | it is, take it.
00:24:59.420 | No, that's not right.
00:25:02.140 | As a young man, I don't speak to a younger person the same way as I speak to an equal
00:25:05.620 | or as I speak to an elder.
00:25:07.900 | If I, right now, I'm preaching so I'm getting animated, my voice is getting loud, I'm not
00:25:13.340 | going to say that exact same thing in the exact same way to somebody in front of me.
00:25:17.460 | Am I going to say the exact same thing to somebody who's hurting, say the exact same
00:25:20.740 | thing to somebody who's weak?
00:25:22.540 | No, I'm not.
00:25:24.220 | Apostle Paul says, "Do you realize some of these people, they don't know.
00:25:28.100 | Some of these people are accustomed to living with idols until now, and they eat their food
00:25:32.700 | as if it were sacrifice to idols, and then their conscience being weak, it's getting
00:25:37.500 | defiled."
00:25:38.500 | See, a person who is loving will seek to understand that.
00:25:44.340 | Question to you guys.
00:25:45.980 | Guys, categorically, we do that a lot.
00:25:49.940 | Categorically meaning, we like putting people into categories.
00:25:53.540 | And I like addressing people that way sometimes, because it's just faster.
00:25:57.300 | It just makes life easy.
00:26:00.540 | I talk about dating a lot because I work with the high school, college, and young adult
00:26:05.420 | people.
00:26:06.420 | I talk about dating a lot.
00:26:07.780 | And somebody once teased me and said, "Oh, I think you're like a dating guru."
00:26:10.980 | And I'm like, "No."
00:26:12.780 | But there are times when I make a bunch of good guesses and a bunch of times when I make
00:26:17.220 | really bad ones.
00:26:18.220 | So, here's a good example.
00:26:19.220 | If I'm counseling this one couple, and this guy is like, "Oh my gosh, I need to talk to
00:26:24.060 | you about something."
00:26:25.060 | I'm like, "Okay."
00:26:26.060 | He's like, "I don't even know if you're going to understand."
00:26:27.740 | I'm like, "Try me."
00:26:28.740 | I talk about this a lot.
00:26:29.740 | He's like, "Man, you know, it's just kind of crazy.
00:26:32.300 | I don't even know other people struggle with this."
00:26:33.940 | And then it's like, "What is it?"
00:26:34.940 | And it's like, "Man, we had this fight."
00:26:36.820 | I'm like, "Other people fight."
00:26:37.820 | And he's like, "We fought about..."
00:26:40.060 | And then it goes on.
00:26:41.060 | It's like, sometimes the girl just feels like she's not considered and not cared for.
00:26:46.140 | The guy feels like, "I am."
00:26:47.660 | And, "How come you're doing this?"
00:26:48.660 | And then they fight.
00:26:49.660 | And then it escalates.
00:26:50.660 | And then they get into this and they threaten breakup.
00:26:53.140 | And they're like, "I don't know what to do."
00:26:55.580 | And I'm sitting there looking at them and I'm like, "Well, let me guess.
00:26:58.780 | You said this."
00:26:59.780 | And he's like, "Oh yeah, I did."
00:27:00.780 | And she said this.
00:27:01.780 | And he's like, "Oh yeah."
00:27:02.780 | And I said this.
00:27:03.780 | And he's like, "Whoa, how do you know?"
00:27:04.780 | Because I'm a guru.
00:27:05.780 | But the thing is, categorically, you can sometimes do that because, yeah, we're the same people
00:27:12.760 | and we go through a lot of the same life experiences.
00:27:17.180 | But sometimes we do that too much.
00:27:19.040 | And then we assume we know.
00:27:20.420 | So there are other times where I'm like, "Let me guess.
00:27:22.860 | You said something stupid."
00:27:23.860 | And then she said this.
00:27:24.860 | And he's like, "No.
00:27:25.860 | Why do you think I always say something stupid?"
00:27:28.500 | And it's like, "Oh shoot.
00:27:31.500 | Okay, fine.
00:27:32.500 | Why don't you tell me what you said?"
00:27:34.060 | And you realize, if you're going to help, assuming always is bad.
00:27:41.340 | I have to, even if I've asked the same question to a thousand people, I have to ask questions
00:27:46.060 | to that person.
00:27:47.060 | Why?
00:27:48.060 | Because that person is a different person, perhaps in the same similar context, but it's
00:27:51.500 | him.
00:27:52.500 | And I have to understand him.
00:27:55.240 | What are your thoughts?
00:27:56.240 | What do you think?
00:27:57.240 | How did you respond?
00:27:58.240 | And if I don't know that, I can't help him.
00:28:01.260 | So pause, so pause.
00:28:02.260 | And I'm like, "Look at these people.
00:28:03.260 | They're weak."
00:28:05.020 | And in that circumstance, there's different types of people who are weak.
00:28:07.420 | They're the people who are sitting there who are weak because, "I don't know what to do.
00:28:11.300 | I don't even know what to think about this.
00:28:12.740 | Is this right?
00:28:13.740 | Is it wrong?
00:28:14.740 | It's meek, but they're sacrificing and all these people."
00:28:18.580 | And they need instruction.
00:28:19.580 | But do you realize in this scenario, there's other people?
00:28:23.300 | There are people who are weak because they don't know what to do, but there are people
00:28:26.180 | who are weak because they know what to do, but they have a hard time doing it.
00:28:29.540 | Do you notice that in that past, there's the person who is weak?
00:28:32.740 | It's not the person who just doesn't know what to do.
00:28:35.320 | He knows it's wrong or he thinks it's wrong.
00:28:38.080 | He thinks in his mind, "This is compromise to God."
00:28:40.980 | But there's social pressure.
00:28:41.980 | He's at a wedding.
00:28:42.980 | He's going to look bad.
00:28:43.980 | What is he going to do?
00:28:44.980 | What is he going to say?
00:28:45.980 | He doesn't have other food.
00:28:46.980 | He should just eat it.
00:28:47.980 | So he says, "Oh, maybe I'll just eat it and no one will know."
00:28:49.480 | And then he defiles his conscience.
00:28:50.960 | He's going against his what?
00:28:52.540 | Belief system.
00:28:54.540 | That is a different kind of person that needs a different kind of advice.
00:28:56.900 | That is a different kind of person that needs something else.
00:29:00.880 | But we tend to judge that in just one lump category and be like, "Bah, you're just weak."
00:29:05.980 | That's the kind of attitude Apostle Paul is attacking in this first three verses.
00:29:10.240 | You think you know, but you don't really know as you should.
00:29:15.580 | You think you know and you judge so quickly.
00:29:18.500 | Do you ever judge people and their intentions so quickly?
00:29:20.820 | Like, "Gah, you're just weak."
00:29:22.660 | Are these people actually weak?
00:29:26.040 | They're trying to do what's right.
00:29:28.380 | You're trying to decide, "Is this right for me to do?"
00:29:32.780 | I actually don't think the people who are weak are actually that weak when their heart
00:29:36.460 | intent is, "I don't want to compromise my faith."
00:29:40.080 | But these other people, "But if you go against my meat eating, you're weak."
00:29:46.980 | There's an attitude of arrogance that Apostle Paul is attacking and we need to realize that.
00:29:51.500 | And we need to admit our ignorance.
00:29:54.580 | But second, we need to seek to understand people.
00:29:58.620 | Be people who ask good questions.
00:30:00.460 | Be people who listen and understand.
00:30:02.500 | Be people who appropriately speak truth in love.
00:30:09.380 | Before you ever give advice, before you ever speak, and before you ever say, "This is what
00:30:12.980 | it is," make sure you understand.
00:30:16.580 | Otherwise there's a huge danger, isn't there?
00:30:20.580 | There is a huge danger of being completely useless.
00:30:24.160 | Remember 1 Corinthians chapter 13?
00:30:26.780 | You've got all this head knowledge, you're a teacher, you go preaching but you have not
00:30:29.940 | love, then you're what?
00:30:30.940 | You're useless.
00:30:31.940 | You speak in tongues, you do all this stuff, what are you?
00:30:34.340 | You're just noise if you don't have love.
00:30:36.740 | You run the risk of being absolutely useless.
00:30:39.740 | But also you run the risk of being hurtful to the relationship and the relationship in
00:30:43.940 | the church.
00:30:44.940 | Have you ever thought about this?
00:30:47.160 | If you speak without understanding, you actually not only are not helpful, you become destructive.
00:30:53.580 | You know, sometimes I don't like to use these examples of my kids but they're so good examples.
00:31:02.980 | My son is really developing and he's becoming really good at Legos.
00:31:07.660 | And I'm really impressed.
00:31:09.060 | He can put together little Legos.
00:31:10.380 | You know the ones that, like I got fat, shabby fingers so I can't even do it, you know?
00:31:13.580 | It's just like, I start doing it and it gets really frustrating, I'm like, "Gah, I can't
00:31:16.940 | do this," you know?
00:31:17.940 | Like, "I'm not physically meant for this."
00:31:20.300 | He's got these nimble little hands and he's doing all this stuff.
00:31:22.580 | I can actually give him a Lego instruction booklet.
00:31:26.100 | He'll flip through the pages and make it.
00:31:28.060 | I'm like, "Dang," you know?
00:31:29.780 | And then sometimes he'll invite me over and be like, "Appa, look what I made."
00:31:32.620 | I'm like, "That's awesome."
00:31:33.620 | And he'll say, "Come over and make it with me."
00:31:35.900 | And sure enough, I go over and I'm making it with him and obviously, he's four, okay?
00:31:39.820 | If you guys don't know, my son is four, right?
00:31:42.420 | So he's four and he's doing the Lego stuff and I'm impressed.
00:31:45.300 | But then obviously there's times when it's like, he does a fat piece, he's looking at
00:31:48.780 | the picture and he's just like, "Bleh."
00:31:50.340 | He doesn't know where to put it so he's just like jabbing it into somewhere, you know?
00:31:55.500 | And I'll reach over and I'll try to grab him.
00:31:57.620 | So if you look at the picture and then what you do is, and then before I finish my sentence,
00:32:01.780 | like, "I know, Appa, I know."
00:32:03.860 | You know what I mean?
00:32:04.860 | It's like, "Whoa," okay?
00:32:07.140 | Now, so that's the example of the people earlier I mentioned who claim to know everything.
00:32:12.100 | You're like, "Ahh," you know?
00:32:14.980 | And I'm like, "Look at this instruction.
00:32:16.900 | Do you see what's there?"
00:32:17.900 | He's like, "No, Appa, I'll do it."
00:32:19.420 | You know?
00:32:20.420 | Okay, so what happens is when I get to the point of not loving him but I'm like, "No,
00:32:25.220 | this is how you do the Lego, okay?"
00:32:26.860 | And I start getting in his face, I'm like, "This is how you do Lego," right?
00:32:31.020 | Tell me, is that constructive or destructive?
00:32:34.860 | That's destructive, right?
00:32:37.540 | And not only that, but like, there's this childish, like, rage that comes inside of
00:32:41.060 | me because he's like, "No, Appa, I'll do it."
00:32:42.860 | I'm like, "Oh yeah?"
00:32:43.860 | And I just want to like, like, blow it up, you know?
00:32:47.180 | Like, "Try to do it now," and then like ruin all his Legos.
00:32:50.540 | You know?
00:32:51.540 | Yeah, it's really bad.
00:32:52.540 | And I have to step away, it's like, "It's just Legos, it's just Legos."
00:32:59.420 | But my point is, if you don't understand the child, but you're so insistent, "But this
00:33:05.700 | is right.
00:33:06.700 | Apostle Paul, this is right."
00:33:08.260 | And you don't realize you have to speak truth in context and with people, what happens?
00:33:14.860 | You start getting destructive.
00:33:15.860 | Yeah.
00:33:18.500 | And that's the point I'm making is that Apostle Paul here, he hasn't really even like told
00:33:24.060 | them what to do yet, but only to challenge their attitude and challenge their perspective
00:33:30.220 | and say, "I want you to make decisions about what to do here, but first, submit your ignorance.
00:33:34.380 | Second, seek to understand the people," right?
00:33:37.380 | So that you can love them.
00:33:39.980 | And then third, as we move on, this is the main point of the sermon really, is to end
00:33:46.980 | all your efforts in love.
00:33:50.160 | End all your efforts in love.
00:33:52.680 | There is an important facet of what they're doing in their context, which is they have
00:33:56.300 | to maintain the unity of the church, the body of Christ.
00:34:01.000 | And this was really confusing to me, but if you look at verse three, it reads funny.
00:34:06.660 | But if anyone loves God, he is known by him.
00:34:09.740 | Okay?
00:34:10.740 | So take a look at verse two.
00:34:11.860 | It's like if anyone supposes he knows anything, he doesn't know nothing yet.
00:34:15.500 | Okay?
00:34:16.500 | You claim you have knowledge, but you don't really know.
00:34:19.540 | But if you love God, you're known by him.
00:34:21.740 | So I was like, "What?"
00:34:24.740 | So one is knowledge.
00:34:25.980 | If you claim to have knowledge and you're all arrogant, that's bad.
00:34:29.280 | So contrast that with you got to love God and then God knows you.
00:34:34.180 | It all just reads, does it read funny to you a little bit?
00:34:36.540 | It should sound more like, you know, if you claim to have knowledge, you're all wrong.
00:34:40.980 | You should love God and then you should seek to know God and you're going to know God if
00:34:44.460 | you love God or something like that, you know?
00:34:47.260 | But I think there's this aspect that there's a gospel truth in here.
00:34:49.900 | I think there's an aspect of our humility in here.
00:34:51.900 | There's an aspect of the relationship that we have with God.
00:34:54.780 | That what's more important here is not like just the factual knowledge of God, but the
00:35:01.420 | relational aspect of knowing one another.
00:35:04.260 | You see what I'm saying here?
00:35:07.140 | Because enemies of God know God is powerful.
00:35:09.860 | Satan knows God is powerful.
00:35:11.740 | Satan knows God has a church.
00:35:13.900 | Satan knows a lot about God.
00:35:15.500 | Satan knows God loves us.
00:35:17.300 | Satan knows he loves Jesus Christ.
00:35:20.620 | Satan knows facts about God.
00:35:23.460 | Satan does not know God in the way that he's using and God knows you, right?
00:35:30.780 | When it says here that God knows you, there's an element of Apostle Paul humbling them.
00:35:38.220 | Apostle Paul might be looking at them like, "So do they frustrate you?"
00:35:42.500 | It's like, "Yes, they're really frustrating.
00:35:45.100 | I love me, you know?
00:35:47.180 | We go to all you can eat buffets."
00:35:49.220 | They don't go to all you can eat buffets.
00:35:50.460 | That's a modern day phenomenon, okay?
00:35:53.420 | Anyway.
00:35:54.420 | "Yes, you know?
00:35:56.620 | We're frustrated."
00:35:58.700 | And then he kind of brings this idea of God knows you, you know?
00:36:03.860 | Are you not frustrating?
00:36:06.300 | Is your knowledge really that complete?
00:36:08.500 | But God knows you, right?
00:36:11.380 | And he talks about this love relationship with God that needs to be maintained in this
00:36:15.340 | whole endeavor of trying to rectify one situation.
00:36:18.660 | And I think there's a sense in which for the people, they need to understand this too.
00:36:24.420 | That their knowledge by itself is so insufficient to make a decision of what's right, you know?
00:36:32.540 | They can't just come into a scenario, "Let me evaluate.
00:36:35.100 | Is A, B, C?
00:36:36.460 | Okay, then we do D."
00:36:39.040 | You can't do that.
00:36:41.420 | Because applied in the circumstance, they need to understand not just the facts, but
00:36:46.300 | they need to know the people.
00:36:47.300 | They need to understand their context.
00:36:48.540 | They need to see what's best.
00:36:50.380 | Is this in love?
00:36:53.680 | So you know what?
00:36:54.680 | There's going to be a scenario in your life, "Should I do this or should I do this?"
00:36:59.500 | Now option A, it's going to be comfortable for you.
00:37:02.180 | Option B, it's going to be hard for you.
00:37:03.980 | Option B might even entail sacrifice.
00:37:08.300 | But it isn't in love.
00:37:11.260 | Then sometimes a lot of that knowledge, a lot of that factual accounting knowledge,
00:37:16.220 | it goes out the window.
00:37:18.500 | You see what I'm saying?
00:37:20.260 | So that's, I think that's kind of what he's pointing at here.
00:37:22.900 | And the reason why I'm saying this is because even your knowledge, again, knowledge is crucial,
00:37:29.540 | it's necessary, it's foundational, it's insufficient.
00:37:32.620 | It's insufficient to do what's right in this scenario.
00:37:35.540 | You need to have love, a love that's seeking to edify.
00:37:38.420 | So what am I saying?
00:37:39.500 | Even your knowledge, your truth, it needs to be spoken in love, meaning it needs to
00:37:43.780 | be conditioned by love.
00:37:45.820 | Why is that important?
00:37:46.820 | Because in this context, they have to deal with their liberty.
00:37:49.860 | I have a liberty to eat meat.
00:37:51.420 | I have a liberty to do what I want to do with my life.
00:37:55.180 | But the thing about it is, that's not noble.
00:37:59.820 | Even your liberty has to be conditioned by love.
00:38:03.820 | Right?
00:38:05.540 | The freedom that you have, it has to exist in the context of love.
00:38:10.060 | What you exercise, the things that is obligated and right to you, it has to be, as a Christian,
00:38:16.540 | as a follower of Christ, modeled and emulated after that of Christ.
00:38:22.300 | What right did Christ say, "That's my right, so I'm not going to do it."
00:38:27.420 | You know what the scripture says?
00:38:29.740 | Do you know what the scripture says about Christ?
00:38:33.380 | What God, what Christ had in equality with God.
00:38:38.060 | His divine nature, his authority, he did not consider it as something to be grasped.
00:38:44.860 | I'm not letting go of this, because it's mine.
00:38:49.020 | That's not our Lord Jesus Christ.
00:38:51.220 | This is my liberty, this is my right.
00:38:54.300 | That's not our forefathers, and that's not apostle Paul.
00:38:57.340 | Look at chapter 9, verse 1.
00:38:58.340 | "Am I not free?
00:38:59.340 | Am I not an apostle?
00:39:00.860 | Have I not seen Jesus the Lord?
00:39:02.580 | Are you not my work and the Lord?"
00:39:05.180 | You see what he's getting at?
00:39:06.780 | Don't I have the right?
00:39:07.780 | I'm free, just like you're free.
00:39:10.460 | Not only that, but I'm a worker above you.
00:39:12.300 | I'm an apostle.
00:39:13.300 | I've seen Christ.
00:39:14.300 | I'm a messenger of the Lord.
00:39:15.660 | I've been handpicked by God.
00:39:17.780 | But look at the stuff he says later.
00:39:20.980 | Go to chapter 10, verse 23.
00:39:23.660 | Chapter 10, verse 23.
00:39:24.660 | "All things are lawful, but not all things are profitable.
00:39:27.420 | All things are lawful, but not all things edify.
00:39:31.780 | Let no one seek his own good, but that of his neighbor."
00:39:35.540 | Look at chapter, verse 31.
00:39:37.860 | "Whether then you eat or drink or whatever you do, do all for the glory of God.
00:39:42.140 | Give no offense either to Jews or to Greeks or to the church of God, just as I also please
00:39:46.940 | all men in all things, not seeking my own profit, but the profit of the many, so that
00:39:52.300 | they may be saved."
00:39:53.380 | Wow, what a challenge.
00:39:56.820 | That's crazy stuff.
00:39:59.260 | You think about what he's saying there, and that is crazy challenge.
00:40:04.060 | Now, there is a place for direct confrontation, direct speech, rebuking somebody, exhorting
00:40:10.380 | somebody.
00:40:11.380 | There's another place for saying, "Hey, here's the truth," and bam, you need to do it.
00:40:17.900 | But the fact of the matter is, you see what he's saying here.
00:40:21.940 | In love, we are not to define strength like, "I am who I am.
00:40:30.700 | That's who I'm going to be, and everybody just has to deal with it."
00:40:35.980 | That's not strength.
00:40:38.740 | The kind of strength Apostle Paul is seeking here is also not strength of intellect and
00:40:42.540 | knowledge where like some of us do, right?
00:40:44.980 | Somebody has a question, "Here's the truth."
00:40:46.940 | So you have a conflict, "Well, I know better."
00:40:49.380 | There it is.
00:40:50.380 | Don't you know?
00:40:51.380 | The kind of strength he's asking for here is the kind of strength that enables you to
00:40:57.700 | be all things to all men.
00:40:59.980 | The kind of strength that presses the degree to which you will sacrifice.
00:41:04.620 | I mean, seriously, if you guys know me, I love food, and I've confessed this sometimes
00:41:08.620 | that when I'm stressed, I'm like a stress eater even, and it makes me happy.
00:41:13.540 | It's just one of those things that's hard for me to give up, to give up food.
00:41:17.580 | But for Apostle Paul to say, "Even if it's meat, I will never eat meat again," that's
00:41:22.260 | a degree of showing to what extent will I go to love you.
00:41:29.100 | So let's be wise.
00:41:32.060 | In our decision-making process, we can be caught up with, "Is this profitable for me?
00:41:35.500 | Is this right?
00:41:36.860 | Is this good?
00:41:38.140 | Is this controlling?
00:41:39.140 | Is it not?
00:41:40.140 | Is it excess for me?
00:41:41.140 | Is it not excess for me?"
00:41:42.880 | But there is another question Apostle Paul is challenging the church.
00:41:46.960 | Is this loving?
00:41:48.920 | And your standard and your limit to which you've set, "I'm willing to go that far."
00:41:53.220 | Let's challenge that.
00:41:55.360 | To what degree are we willing to go?
00:41:58.500 | What a great example for us.
00:42:00.380 | We'll complete on the next time.
00:42:01.580 | Let's bow our heads in prayer.
00:42:08.580 | Father God, we thank you so much.
00:42:11.780 | We thank you, God.
00:42:13.140 | Lord, so many times we act like we know, but we know that we know so little.
00:42:19.500 | God, thank you that you did not leave us in our ignorance.
00:42:23.140 | Thank you that you did not leave us to our own destructive devices.
00:42:26.580 | But God, you reason with us.
00:42:28.500 | You give us truth.
00:42:29.500 | You give us example.
00:42:30.500 | And in Christ, you show us the ultimate example of one who is willing to go at length to seek
00:42:38.060 | the love and benefit of the brethren.
00:42:40.740 | We thank you so much, Lord.
00:42:42.820 | I pray, Father God, that we be all challenged today.
00:42:45.140 | If we have arrogance in our heart, deal with that, Lord.
00:42:48.100 | Convict us to the Spirit.
00:42:49.760 | If we have a habit of acting like we know, speaking first before we understand, help
00:42:54.100 | us to change that.
00:42:55.500 | God, help us in our week really to practice love.
00:42:58.780 | To practice the kind of love that you have shown us.
00:43:01.860 | We thank you, Lord, it's in Christ and we pray.
00:43:03.860 | Amen.