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2015-07-09 Study of 1 Corinthians Week 12


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00:00:02.740 | - Getting into the church and seeing
00:00:06.020 | various habits of the flesh.
00:00:08.500 | And I pray, Lord, that in seeing these things,
00:00:11.160 | we would not simply become dull or judgmental, even,
00:00:15.080 | but Father, with humility, realize that
00:00:17.100 | these are all things we need to be convicted of,
00:00:19.020 | these are all things that we are susceptible to,
00:00:21.260 | and I pray, Lord, that from learning,
00:00:23.240 | we would desire to be both protected
00:00:25.040 | and guard ourselves from it.
00:00:26.660 | I pray, Lord, that in every time we read your word,
00:00:28.740 | we would have a heart of obedience,
00:00:30.100 | we would have a desire to apply into our lives.
00:00:32.940 | It's in Christ's name we pray, amen.
00:00:35.040 | Okay.
00:00:37.340 | All right, well, taking a look at our Bible passage
00:00:42.220 | for today, 1 Corinthians chapter six, verses one through 11.
00:00:47.220 | And this is what it says.
00:00:49.380 | Does anyone of you, when he has a case against his neighbor,
00:00:54.300 | dare to go to law before the unrighteous
00:00:57.460 | and not before the saints?
00:00:59.380 | Or do you not know that the saints will judge the world?
00:01:02.300 | If the world is judged by you,
00:01:03.860 | are you not competent to constitute the smallest law courts?
00:01:08.420 | Do you not know that we will judge angels?
00:01:11.340 | How much more matters of this life?
00:01:13.960 | So if you have law courts dealing with matters of this life,
00:01:18.960 | do you appoint them as judges
00:01:20.540 | who are of no account in the church?
00:01:23.140 | I say this to your shame.
00:01:24.980 | It is so that there is not,
00:01:27.500 | all right, is it so that there is not among you
00:01:29.780 | one wise man who will be able to decide
00:01:32.340 | between his brethren?
00:01:33.980 | But brother goes to law with brother
00:01:35.820 | and that before unbelievers?
00:01:38.740 | Actually then, it is already a defeat for you
00:01:41.100 | that you have lawsuits with one another.
00:01:43.480 | Why not rather be wrong?
00:01:44.980 | Why not rather be defrauded?
00:01:46.880 | On the contrary, you yourselves wrong and defraud,
00:01:50.060 | you do this even to your brethren.
00:01:52.820 | Or do you not know that the unrighteous
00:01:55.220 | will not inherit the kingdom of God?
00:01:57.780 | Do not be deceived.
00:01:59.340 | Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers,
00:02:02.900 | nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, nor thieves,
00:02:05.660 | nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers,
00:02:08.300 | nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.
00:02:11.460 | Such were some of you, but you were washed,
00:02:14.260 | but you were sanctified, but you were justified
00:02:16.940 | in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ
00:02:19.340 | and the spirit of our God.
00:02:21.700 | Okay?
00:02:22.540 | So we're looking at this passage here
00:02:26.020 | and we're looking at the first segment.
00:02:27.620 | Remember I said that when you look at your Bibles,
00:02:30.860 | you can kinda see where the break-in thought
00:02:33.580 | of the writer was by looking at the verse numbers.
00:02:37.260 | And if it's bold, you're seeing a kind of paragraph indent,
00:02:40.540 | so to speak.
00:02:42.100 | And so let's tackle the first paragraph together.
00:02:44.600 | And in the first six verses,
00:02:48.500 | I asked you this question originally.
00:02:51.500 | Identify what the Corinthians were doing wrong.
00:02:55.140 | Well, it's really, really obvious,
00:02:57.120 | but in this current context,
00:03:01.860 | the simple thing is the Christians
00:03:05.260 | in the Corinthians church, they were suing each other
00:03:08.940 | or taking each other to the court of law
00:03:11.700 | and having the court of law decide between them
00:03:13.580 | when there were disagreements, right?
00:03:16.860 | But I ask you this question.
00:03:18.600 | When Apostle Paul sees this wrong behavior,
00:03:23.160 | what is his tone?
00:03:24.340 | What observations do you make of how Apostle Paul feels
00:03:33.680 | and thinks about what they're doing?
00:03:36.140 | Anyone?
00:03:38.520 | Again, I know sometimes I ask obvious questions
00:03:43.000 | that are just right there in the text,
00:03:44.540 | but we wanna be good, I guess,
00:03:49.100 | observance of what's going on.
00:03:51.140 | What?
00:03:52.300 | It's shameful, okay?
00:03:53.980 | He's thinking it's shameful.
00:03:55.660 | What else?
00:03:57.580 | Kind of foolish.
00:04:01.900 | How does he personally, do you think he feel about this?
00:04:04.900 | Angered and indignant, okay?
00:04:13.420 | This is kind of like funny because, you know,
00:04:17.060 | in more common like lingo lately,
00:04:19.940 | it's actually not something more recent,
00:04:21.380 | but from a while ago, you know,
00:04:23.100 | people would use this term like, how dare you?
00:04:25.660 | You know, they do something, you're like, how dare you?
00:04:28.420 | You know, and I find that to be something of an indicator
00:04:32.260 | of how he feels about it, right?
00:04:34.920 | If you think about this idea of how dare you
00:04:39.500 | and what kind of context you use that,
00:04:42.580 | Apostle Paul doesn't see this as a small problem, does he?
00:04:46.780 | Rather, that kind of behavior is so far, far beyond
00:04:51.780 | what he thinks is acceptable.
00:04:53.340 | He's like, how dare you?
00:04:55.260 | And I want you to just jot down
00:04:57.040 | something really interesting about that term.
00:04:59.340 | It's because he asks in this way about, you know,
00:05:04.180 | dare, who basically dares to go to the law
00:05:07.060 | before the unrighteous and not before the saints.
00:05:09.940 | But that term dares really interests,
00:05:12.060 | like almost hard to translate
00:05:14.180 | because it's used in many contexts as bold faced
00:05:17.260 | or in a good way, super courageous.
00:05:20.000 | Really interesting, right?
00:05:22.820 | So the way he's talking about it is he's almost like,
00:05:25.980 | oh my goodness, you know, not only are you doing it,
00:05:30.220 | but you're like brazen, you're bold,
00:05:32.640 | you're like doing it with a sense of gusto.
00:05:35.660 | How dare you, you know?
00:05:38.580 | Like that's the kind of tone I see with Apostle Paul.
00:05:41.260 | What more, what's more when someone said,
00:05:43.140 | yeah, is he getting indignant?
00:05:44.780 | I think he is.
00:05:46.620 | Because you read the passage and the way he comes off
00:05:51.620 | is just like, well, don't you know
00:05:54.400 | that the saints will judge?
00:05:56.540 | And then he asks in verse three, don't you know?
00:05:59.620 | Right?
00:06:01.380 | When you hear his tone then, as we're reading it,
00:06:05.360 | we're not listening to him audibly,
00:06:06.740 | but you can kind of guess how he feels
00:06:09.140 | about this particular sin and error in the church
00:06:12.380 | of Christians taking each other to the courts, right?
00:06:16.460 | I just wanna highlight the fact that there has been already
00:06:20.180 | multiple things happening in the church, right?
00:06:23.940 | Everything from pride, everything from selfishness
00:06:26.500 | to then immorality.
00:06:27.960 | And there's a sense in which with each one,
00:06:31.260 | it's not a small deal, you know?
00:06:34.860 | So we see Apostle Paul trying to express to them
00:06:41.060 | this isn't something that you should be taking lightly.
00:06:43.980 | This is something I need to address now.
00:06:46.080 | But in so doing, my next question to you was,
00:06:50.800 | in verses two through four,
00:06:52.980 | what is Paul trying to remind them of?
00:06:56.020 | How is he broadening their life perspective?
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00:07:01.540 | Okay, that they're going to be judges themselves, right?
00:07:18.300 | So, jot that in there.
00:07:21.300 | How is he broadening their perspective?
00:07:23.180 | He's reminding them this truth,
00:07:25.420 | they are going to be judges.
00:07:27.740 | That's really interesting.
00:07:29.840 | We take a moment now to think about this a little bit.
00:07:32.540 | And the scripture teaches us
00:07:35.420 | that for those who are in Christ, we are heirs with Christ.
00:07:40.940 | That is a repeated theme in the Bible, right?
00:07:45.940 | Now, to be heirs then with Christ,
00:07:49.580 | we are also going to reign with Christ.
00:07:52.760 | To tell you honestly, I don't know the details
00:07:55.340 | of specifically what's that going to look like.
00:07:59.020 | But the fact of the matter is,
00:08:00.660 | even in this passage, Apostle Paul says
00:08:03.140 | that we are going to reign.
00:08:04.420 | Who are we going to reign over in this passage,
00:08:07.020 | just by way of simple observation?
00:08:09.180 | Who are we going to reign over?
00:08:10.740 | Just yell it out.
00:08:16.840 | (laughs)
00:08:20.980 | What?
00:08:21.820 | (laughs)
00:08:23.460 | What?
00:08:24.300 | The world, what else?
00:08:25.980 | Angels too.
00:08:28.420 | So combination of that, it's just kinda like,
00:08:31.660 | I don't know the details of what it's going to mean
00:08:33.840 | for us as individuals, as redeemed in Christ,
00:08:36.860 | to share in his authority and reign with Christ.
00:08:40.380 | But the fact of the matter is,
00:08:41.460 | the dominion of which we are going to reign is expansive.
00:08:45.220 | Not only is it going to be the world to come,
00:08:47.820 | but it's going to be even divine creatures,
00:08:50.640 | angels, who are sinless.
00:08:53.500 | Whoa.
00:08:54.860 | Have you ever thought about that?
00:08:56.460 | And I think that's something really interesting
00:08:59.100 | to think about, because there's a sense in which
00:09:02.620 | the scriptures expects us to live
00:09:06.480 | in that forward-thinking mentality.
00:09:08.740 | This is who we are and going to be, right?
00:09:12.220 | Sometimes it is a humble thing for us
00:09:15.280 | to have a perspective like, we are lowly sinners.
00:09:18.360 | Is that true?
00:09:19.340 | Yes.
00:09:20.700 | We are marred, we're depraved, we're fallen,
00:09:24.020 | we're in the world, we're finite, all this kinda stuff.
00:09:27.660 | Is that all true?
00:09:29.180 | Yes.
00:09:30.840 | But I don't think it's a humble thing to remain there.
00:09:34.100 | Scripture oftentimes expects us to live
00:09:37.220 | with a forward, like future reality perspective.
00:09:41.820 | And that's what I mean by how is Apostle Paul
00:09:44.820 | enlightening their life perspective?
00:09:46.780 | Enlightening your life perspective is,
00:09:48.660 | from here, you move forward to royalty.
00:09:52.380 | Have you ever thought about that?
00:09:54.720 | From here, you move forward to positions of authority.
00:09:57.940 | From here, you move forward to God's servants
00:10:03.200 | in his kingdom, overseeing, exercising dominion
00:10:06.940 | like he expected Adam to do pre-fall.
00:10:10.240 | Ever thought about that?
00:10:12.620 | That's really, really interesting.
00:10:14.660 | Because of that, there's going to be a basis
00:10:18.220 | by which Apostle Paul now reasons with the church
00:10:20.820 | in saying, so what in the world are you doing
00:10:23.820 | going to human courts?
00:10:25.660 | And you kinda see the connection.
00:10:29.820 | He's saying, you are people that God has now begun
00:10:34.660 | to sanctify to the point in which he's gonna glorify
00:10:37.380 | you to positions of authority.
00:10:38.780 | And here you are now, deferring judgment to pagans.
00:10:44.780 | What is that all about?
00:10:46.860 | And so you almost now see his rationale
00:10:50.780 | as to why he's so appalled.
00:10:52.320 | But I wanna ask you this question.
00:10:56.700 | So in seeing his rationale, from verses two
00:11:00.180 | down to verse, let's say about six,
00:11:03.640 | what are the negative results?
00:11:06.040 | Wow, sorry for the, again, another grammatical
00:11:10.840 | awesomeness right there.
00:11:11.740 | What negative, oh, actually, that makes sense.
00:11:13.660 | What negative things result from Christians
00:11:15.260 | taking Christians to secular courts?
00:11:17.660 | Okay, all right.
00:11:19.540 | So what negative things result from Christians
00:11:23.300 | taking other Christians to secular courts?
00:11:26.100 | From your observation of this passage,
00:11:28.460 | what things do you see?
00:11:29.700 | A bad witness.
00:11:42.420 | I think you guys should write that in there.
00:11:44.460 | Bad witness.
00:11:47.020 | Can we take a look at verse five and six?
00:11:49.620 | He says, I say this to your shame.
00:11:53.400 | Shame has the connotation of you looking
00:11:59.460 | idiotic before people.
00:12:01.700 | Shame has with it idea of reputation.
00:12:04.540 | Shame has the idea of evaluation from the community, okay?
00:12:09.060 | And what he goes on to say is, is it so
00:12:11.680 | that there is not among you one wise man
00:12:14.140 | who will be able to decide between his brethren?
00:12:16.940 | But brother goes to law with his brother,
00:12:19.020 | and that before unbelievers?
00:12:21.500 | There's that other aspect, before unbelievers?
00:12:24.260 | Think about this for a moment.
00:12:27.540 | So you have a bad witness.
00:12:30.260 | Essentially, you disgrace the church, okay?
00:12:33.980 | You disgrace the believers.
00:12:36.620 | If you think about what he's saying there,
00:12:39.180 | he is talking about when two people who are believers
00:12:43.040 | take it to the world in this fashion,
00:12:46.520 | what are they showing the unbelievers about them?
00:12:48.980 | That we're willing to see our own brother
00:12:54.720 | either go to jail in that day and age,
00:12:57.520 | be punished physically.
00:12:58.960 | I'm willing to see my brethren have their lives ruined.
00:13:04.880 | Financially, I'm willing to rip whatever is in their hand
00:13:08.480 | from them through legal process.
00:13:10.440 | They're willing to air their arrogance and carnality
00:13:14.380 | and greed in front of people.
00:13:15.820 | That's shameful, is it not?
00:13:18.460 | That's disgracing the community of God.
00:13:21.820 | And Apostle Paul has this in there.
00:13:23.220 | It's like what you show is that in your community,
00:13:25.900 | guess what, there's not one single wise person.
00:13:28.460 | I wanna share with you an interesting historical fact.
00:13:33.340 | Is that historically, the Jews had
00:13:36.980 | their own governing system, right?
00:13:39.120 | Ever since the days of Moses,
00:13:41.600 | there was a governing system amongst the Jews.
00:13:44.040 | And so if you recall the scenario with Jesus Christ,
00:13:48.040 | where was Jesus Christ taken first?
00:13:50.240 | The Roman courts or the Jewish courts?
00:13:52.140 | The Jewish courts.
00:13:54.440 | Why?
00:13:55.280 | Because they had every legal right
00:13:56.720 | and it was their process to do that.
00:13:59.120 | Not only that, but historically, the Jewish community,
00:14:01.940 | they found it to be something blasphemous
00:14:04.000 | to take their court issues to the secular courts.
00:14:06.720 | Why?
00:14:07.560 | Because that would be giving authority to who?
00:14:12.560 | The God-forsaken Gentiles.
00:14:15.320 | Okay?
00:14:16.160 | The Jewish community had that attitude.
00:14:18.480 | Now the thing about it is, what's really interesting is,
00:14:20.800 | the Roman government, the empire of the Roman nation,
00:14:24.080 | obviously ruled over the Jews,
00:14:26.500 | but they allowed the Jews to maintain that authority.
00:14:29.420 | So the only thing the Jews could not do
00:14:31.760 | was execute somebody.
00:14:33.640 | They could beat them.
00:14:35.000 | They could consider them blasphemous.
00:14:36.400 | They can consider them unworthy.
00:14:37.520 | They can consider them unclean.
00:14:38.520 | They can consider them all these kind of stuff.
00:14:39.840 | The only thing they couldn't do is execute,
00:14:41.440 | and that is why with Christ, they judged him first
00:14:43.680 | on their hearing and then took him to Pilate to execute.
00:14:47.260 | Does that make sense?
00:14:48.680 | Okay.
00:14:50.160 | Now, I bring that up because then in the eyes of the Romans,
00:14:55.160 | for petty issues, money, for backbiting,
00:15:02.600 | for trying to sue each other,
00:15:04.200 | they bring it to the Roman courts.
00:15:05.360 | How do you think the pagans would see that culture?
00:15:08.140 | They would look at them and scoff.
00:15:11.360 | Bunch of idiots.
00:15:12.420 | You know?
00:15:14.240 | You guys call yourself holy people.
00:15:16.800 | Chosen, eh?
00:15:18.520 | I would imagine that's how the Romans
00:15:20.180 | would look at the people.
00:15:21.600 | The Romans at the time looked at the Christians
00:15:23.320 | the same way they looked at the Jews.
00:15:25.900 | They weren't like, oh, these are holy men.
00:15:28.120 | They looked down upon them,
00:15:30.040 | and they allowed them to operate in their own little circles
00:15:32.800 | and for them to come to the Roman courts
00:15:34.840 | in order to settle their business.
00:15:36.640 | Like, what the heck is wrong with you guys?
00:15:39.160 | Apostle Paul's like, is not one wise person,
00:15:43.240 | one godly individual who's sober-minded
00:15:45.640 | and can resolve this,
00:15:47.300 | that you would take this to the courts?
00:15:49.860 | Duh!
00:15:52.080 | Right?
00:15:53.000 | What else do you guys see?
00:15:54.480 | In the verses from verses two to six,
00:15:57.420 | what other negative results come
00:16:00.200 | when a Christian takes another Christian to court?
00:16:03.560 | - They're not following Jesus' first instruction
00:16:08.560 | for the church, first of all.
00:16:10.960 | - Okay.
00:16:11.800 | - Matthew 18, verse 20.
00:16:13.160 | Bringing your brother,
00:16:16.560 | going to your brother and bringing him to the church.
00:16:19.680 | - Okay.
00:16:20.520 | - First instruction.
00:16:21.720 | - Good.
00:16:22.560 | So, he says, basically,
00:16:25.040 | you're not doing the process that Jesus Christ taught
00:16:29.280 | in giving authority to the church.
00:16:31.160 | The whole process of church discipline,
00:16:32.560 | like if there was an issue,
00:16:33.600 | you guys should have brought the two brothers together,
00:16:36.560 | then brought another Christian individual.
00:16:38.720 | If that didn't work, you should have brought the church.
00:16:41.040 | Okay?
00:16:41.880 | So, right as number two, you undermine the church.
00:16:44.320 | You disrespect the church.
00:16:47.600 | Okay?
00:16:48.440 | So, if you think about this,
00:16:52.740 | look at verse four and what it says in verse four.
00:16:56.840 | In verse four, he says,
00:16:58.240 | so if you have law courts dealing with matters of this life,
00:17:01.280 | and he says, do you appoint them as judges
00:17:04.600 | who are of no account in the church?
00:17:08.800 | Right?
00:17:09.880 | What does that mean?
00:17:10.880 | Basically, these secular judges, they have no account.
00:17:16.240 | They don't have weight in the church.
00:17:19.920 | How are you all of a sudden giving them the authority
00:17:22.640 | to judge issues within the church?
00:17:25.480 | Right?
00:17:26.320 | And so, what you do is you disrespect the church.
00:17:28.320 | You undermine the authority of the church.
00:17:30.160 | You didn't even try going to the church.
00:17:32.480 | That means your perspective about the church
00:17:34.600 | is really, really small.
00:17:36.720 | Does that make sense?
00:17:38.640 | So, in that way, the negative result
00:17:43.040 | of going and taking your Christian brother
00:17:45.320 | to the secular courts, you actually, in so doing,
00:17:49.560 | indirectly undermine the church already.
00:17:52.120 | And you undermine, as Tito said,
00:17:54.720 | the process and authority by which God gave to the church.
00:17:57.920 | Does that make sense?
00:18:00.480 | Okay, what's another thing?
00:18:01.920 | Yes?
00:18:05.960 | - You end up being judged by ungodly standards.
00:18:09.160 | - Okay.
00:18:10.560 | You end up being judged by ungodly standards, good.
00:18:14.000 | I'm gonna have us think about that a little bit.
00:18:16.680 | Because the whole idea is, the flip side is,
00:18:21.160 | you're supposed to be judged by godly standards,
00:18:24.400 | Christ standards.
00:18:26.000 | So, place that as number three or whatnot,
00:18:29.680 | is you make God's standards incompetent.
00:18:35.120 | I like that a lot, and what Mitchell said,
00:18:42.320 | is you, in so doing, you are putting on case,
00:18:47.320 | like, if God has called us to love, to forgive,
00:18:53.240 | and then you completely bypass that
00:18:55.360 | to go here now to the secular courts,
00:18:58.080 | now you're functioning off of their standards,
00:19:00.840 | and in so doing, is what we would typically,
00:19:03.800 | in our Christian walk, now find
00:19:06.080 | as our everyday battle as a Christian.
00:19:09.240 | Do we operate under God's standards or their standards?
00:19:12.600 | And that is actually just a battle
00:19:17.080 | of everyday Christian life.
00:19:19.280 | And sometimes, when you decide,
00:19:21.720 | I'm gonna operate under the definitions of the world,
00:19:25.040 | there's when everything goes awry.
00:19:26.560 | Everything else goes like haywire, right?
00:19:29.280 | And not only that, when you do that,
00:19:31.080 | you point to God's standards and say,
00:19:34.360 | that was insufficient.
00:19:36.120 | Either it was erroneous because it could never be met,
00:19:39.440 | or it was insufficient to cause us to solve this problem.
00:19:42.280 | Does that make sense?
00:19:43.880 | You see what I'm saying with that, right?
00:19:45.520 | If you choose to function under worldly definitions,
00:19:48.720 | there is something you indirectly say about God's standard.
00:19:51.680 | For a people who claim to have the resources of God,
00:19:55.120 | for people who claim to have the truth of God,
00:19:57.000 | the wisdom of God, the spirit of God,
00:19:59.280 | for us to not operate underneath that,
00:20:02.120 | indirectly says those are insufficient.
00:20:04.520 | Insufficient by they're either not worthy,
00:20:07.800 | they were not reachable, they were not sufficient to help us.
00:20:11.320 | And now I wanna put myself under pagan standards.
00:20:15.800 | And the pagans are not going to say,
00:20:17.120 | okay, I wanna judge between you guys, what did you do?
00:20:19.820 | Okay, then you did right, you did wrong,
00:20:21.680 | and then, you know what's really interesting is,
00:20:23.960 | back then, it wasn't so far different from today.
00:20:28.820 | They actually had a ruling system
00:20:30.400 | where uninvolved third parties would come,
00:20:33.120 | kinda like jurors, you know?
00:20:34.880 | How many of you guys have been on jury duty?
00:20:37.080 | All you guys writing it off like, I'm, you know,
00:20:41.480 | I'm just kidding.
00:20:42.320 | You know, but you have these third party individuals
00:20:46.840 | come in, and in their almost, like, you know,
00:20:50.980 | in their way of thinking, they're gonna start deciding,
00:20:52.860 | okay, is this man right or is that man wrong?
00:20:55.380 | But what are the standards of God?
00:20:57.540 | That's the point.
00:20:59.060 | So Apostle Paul, he's pointing this stuff out,
00:21:01.740 | you know, when he starts saying like, let's see,
00:21:05.360 | you know, verse two and three,
00:21:09.380 | when he starts saying stuff like,
00:21:10.580 | or do you not know the saints will judge the world?
00:21:12.820 | If the world is judged by you, are you not, what,
00:21:15.580 | competent to constitute the smallest law courts?
00:21:19.200 | Do you not know you will judge angels?
00:21:21.040 | How much more matters of this life?
00:21:24.760 | What he's pointing to is, if you are going to have
00:21:27.520 | the resources to judge that grand scale future kingdom,
00:21:32.520 | you have the means, the competency,
00:21:35.140 | to judge matters of this life.
00:21:37.200 | It goes back to what?
00:21:38.080 | You have the standards, right?
00:21:41.000 | You have the competency and the resource
00:21:42.640 | to judge matters of life here.
00:21:45.420 | And to tell you truthfully, I think, you know,
00:21:49.660 | more Christians should have a level of confidence
00:21:52.940 | to determine right and wrong in this world.
00:21:55.300 | It's not a humble thing for us to say,
00:21:58.340 | well, you know, I could be wrong, I don't know.
00:22:00.700 | I actually think it's a more humble thing to say,
00:22:04.500 | I've read the scriptures, and in as much as I have right
00:22:07.740 | what the scripture says, this is right, this is wrong.
00:22:13.260 | It's more humble to do that.
00:22:14.700 | Does that make sense?
00:22:17.020 | It's more humble under God.
00:22:19.080 | It's more humble under his standards.
00:22:21.840 | For Christians to be kind of like,
00:22:23.100 | eh, I know, yeah, well, this side has this side
00:22:25.940 | and that side has that side,
00:22:26.780 | they all have their good points, and who's to say?
00:22:29.820 | That's actually not humble.
00:22:31.180 | We have the competency to rule and judge
00:22:35.180 | according to God's truth and through his spirit.
00:22:38.140 | And I think more Christians need to have that strength
00:22:41.040 | and foundation from evaluating the scriptures, okay?
00:22:44.780 | So I wanna ask you guys,
00:22:47.980 | by application of just these first six verses,
00:22:51.480 | what can we draw out as applications for us?
00:22:55.500 | What can we draw out as applications for us?
00:23:04.520 | (pages rustling)
00:23:07.280 | - Just studying to show yourself approved
00:23:14.140 | and to be able to judge rightly.
00:23:16.660 | - Okay, studying so that you can be approved,
00:23:20.660 | so they can judge rightly, good.
00:23:22.500 | That's almost like a pre-application.
00:23:27.260 | To apply this verse, these verses, you need that.
00:23:30.620 | We need to all study well and divide the word of God
00:23:34.420 | appropriately so that we can actually judge
00:23:36.220 | according to God's standards.
00:23:37.760 | But what applications come out from us
00:23:39.440 | from these first six verses?
00:23:40.840 | Okay, well, think about it.
00:23:59.260 | Keep thinking, okay, think about it.
00:24:04.360 | I know that one application, obviously,
00:24:06.340 | like okay, so don't go to court.
00:24:07.940 | But just think about it more than just that, okay?
00:24:11.140 | Let's continue and then, okay?
00:24:14.160 | Huh?
00:24:17.060 | - He mentions it's better for you to be wrong
00:24:21.820 | than to take a dispute.
00:24:24.280 | But that's in the next part, but.
00:24:27.260 | - Okay, right, right, right, good.
00:24:29.360 | So he's talking, we're gonna start talking about
00:24:34.720 | the applications that he gives in the next verses.
00:24:37.600 | And so let's take a look at the next verses here.
00:24:40.300 | Verse seven through eight.
00:24:42.380 | Actually then, it is already a defeat for you
00:24:46.840 | that you have lawsuits with one another.
00:24:49.360 | Why not rather be wronged?
00:24:51.920 | Why not rather be defrauded?
00:24:53.920 | On the contrary, you yourself wrong and defraud.
00:24:56.480 | You do this even to your own brethren, okay?
00:24:59.920 | Let's begin with verse seven and take a look at it
00:25:03.080 | more closely.
00:25:04.420 | He says, actually, okay?
00:25:06.940 | He's been kind of laying it on them thick,
00:25:10.360 | saying, you know, look what you're doing to the church,
00:25:12.760 | look what you're doing to your reputation,
00:25:14.680 | look what you're doing against the standards of God
00:25:17.560 | and the resources we have in the Lord.
00:25:20.440 | But he says, well, actually, you already lose, okay?
00:25:25.440 | When you got there, before your case was even decided,
00:25:30.000 | before they gave a verdict about, okay,
00:25:32.120 | who wins and who gets the money
00:25:33.320 | or who gets the property, you lost.
00:25:36.460 | I wanna ask you a question.
00:25:38.120 | How is it that the Christian already loses
00:25:41.360 | when he takes another Christian to court?
00:25:43.400 | What does he mean by verse seven, part A?
00:26:02.100 | Okay, good, good.
00:26:04.980 | That is exactly what they're doing
00:26:07.160 | and it contributes to just,
00:26:12.000 | I'm gonna kind of, you know, push that.
00:26:16.800 | So we're talking about winning and losing
00:26:18.940 | because we're talking about legal cases, right?
00:26:22.560 | And he uses this term like you're already defeated
00:26:25.920 | in the context of them taking each other to court
00:26:29.020 | and Grace, you're right.
00:26:31.280 | They are, what do you say, defaming God, right?
00:26:35.780 | Is that what you said?
00:26:37.720 | Okay.
00:26:38.560 | So you're defaming God and so forth.
00:26:42.720 | So in what way are they already losing, right?
00:26:46.640 | Yes?
00:26:47.480 | Right.
00:26:54.600 | Yeah, yeah.
00:26:59.040 | And so I think what I'm,
00:27:02.360 | these are all contributing to the broader scope
00:27:04.600 | of what I wanna like really talk about today
00:27:08.100 | is because in answering the question
00:27:09.480 | of what's wrong with this church,
00:27:10.760 | it's not just obviously that they're taking people to court.
00:27:13.920 | There is a failure of how they're perceiving their lives,
00:27:18.540 | right, and Apostle Paul is defining for them
00:27:22.800 | this is how you lose.
00:27:24.440 | Now, in this specific passage,
00:27:29.440 | he starts talking more specifically and says,
00:27:33.600 | actually then it is already a defeat to you
00:27:35.680 | that you take these people to lawsuits.
00:27:38.260 | Why not rather be wronged?
00:27:40.080 | Why not rather be defrauded, right?
00:27:43.080 | So there is a sense in which two part.
00:27:47.560 | You guys are talking about they lose in the sight of God.
00:27:53.200 | Okay, so you can jot that down.
00:27:55.720 | They lose in terms of succeeding to which God has purposed.
00:28:00.540 | Okay, they fail, right?
00:28:04.900 | But what I find really interesting is he says,
00:28:10.480 | it is already a defeat for you,
00:28:12.820 | as in you lose because why?
00:28:17.240 | When you do this, you lose your character.
00:28:22.280 | So there's two parts to that.
00:28:23.760 | There's a sense in which you lose because
00:28:26.840 | in terms of really succeeding,
00:28:28.200 | what have you actually succeeded,
00:28:30.280 | but on the opposite end of that,
00:28:31.720 | you lose because you are losing your character.
00:28:35.720 | And I want you to notice that starting from verse seven
00:28:38.780 | all the way down to verse 11,
00:28:40.120 | he starts talking about personal character quite a bit.
00:28:43.300 | What defines you, what identifies you,
00:28:45.000 | what traits you have, what habits you have and whatnot.
00:28:50.040 | And he's talking about that a lot.
00:28:52.480 | 'Cause if I think about the scenario,
00:28:54.120 | I think about these lawsuits again.
00:28:56.920 | And in these lawsuits, this is what you have, okay?
00:29:00.640 | First and foremost, I mentioned to you this idea
00:29:03.520 | that in the culture,
00:29:05.120 | the Christians had a right to judge for themselves,
00:29:09.960 | just like the Jews did, okay?
00:29:12.400 | So was it necessary to go to the court?
00:29:15.400 | No.
00:29:19.240 | If, let's say for example, Chris and I had
00:29:22.920 | a bet on who won a game,
00:29:24.800 | and I promised him a thousand bucks,
00:29:26.760 | and after promising him a thousand bucks,
00:29:28.820 | I failed to pay up.
00:29:30.960 | Seems like a pretty slam-dunk case, right?
00:29:34.040 | We made a bet, I didn't pay, I need to pay.
00:29:37.440 | Now, here's the interesting thing though, okay?
00:29:40.920 | How come we couldn't just resolve that
00:29:43.920 | in the capacity that already existed
00:29:46.160 | in their immediate community, their church?
00:29:49.440 | (audience member coughs)
00:29:51.720 | It leads me to believe that they're doing more
00:29:54.040 | than just trying to set things straight.
00:29:56.960 | Notice how he starts talking about defrauding a brother.
00:30:00.920 | Notice how it talks about, you know,
00:30:03.680 | going above and beyond simple retribution,
00:30:06.420 | but wronging each other, okay?
00:30:09.400 | Wronging each other.
00:30:10.800 | So I bet you, part of the reason why an individual
00:30:13.880 | couldn't just take this to a Christian court,
00:30:16.120 | a Jewish court, a religious court,
00:30:17.680 | is because whatever they're doing was probably unethical.
00:30:21.120 | Does that make sense?
00:30:22.220 | For example, for example, if in the US right now,
00:30:28.520 | you were wronged or you experienced some kind of injustice,
00:30:31.740 | you could sue, and typically you sue for a lot more
00:30:35.080 | than perhaps what the infraction was, right?
00:30:37.680 | Now, if you were to, in clear conscience,
00:30:40.760 | like, "No, I just wanna get what's due to me,"
00:30:42.680 | then you could just go to the court
00:30:43.980 | that's already established, but if you want more,
00:30:46.280 | I can't go there, can I?
00:30:48.320 | You see what I'm saying?
00:30:49.960 | So there's a sense in which I think
00:30:51.640 | they were probably trying to take
00:30:52.760 | financial advantage of each other.
00:30:54.400 | I think in their public litigation,
00:30:56.200 | it evidenced probably a deep-seated desire,
00:30:58.720 | a fleshly desire, to win more than what was due, okay?
00:31:03.040 | They were trying to take advantage of each other.
00:31:07.560 | Take advantage of the situation.
00:31:08.760 | If I'm gonna win, I'm gonna win big,
00:31:11.300 | and I will never lose to you.
00:31:13.520 | Perhaps that was the mentality.
00:31:16.200 | And so in Apostle Paul's mind,
00:31:17.440 | just the fact that you are here in the pagan court,
00:31:21.180 | you already lose, not because you lose the court case,
00:31:26.180 | but because you lose your dignity, you lose your character.
00:31:31.600 | It's just like, I think I used this analogy before,
00:31:36.720 | but I actually wrestled in high school in my ninth grade,
00:31:39.920 | and when I wrestled in high school,
00:31:41.880 | there weren't enough girls to actually have
00:31:44.280 | tournaments with just girls.
00:31:46.120 | So if there was a girl who played,
00:31:47.960 | she was typically the only one.
00:31:50.280 | And there was this moment when our B team
00:31:53.280 | was wrestling another school's B team,
00:31:54.760 | and there was a girl on that team.
00:31:56.280 | I wrestled at 115, which is really light.
00:31:58.920 | So thankfully, I didn't have to wrestle a girl,
00:32:00.960 | 'cause typically girls are at 105, okay?
00:32:03.920 | Well, one of our buddies, he had to wrestle a girl.
00:32:06.600 | And obviously, he knew automatically,
00:32:09.720 | like, I'm gonna win, you know?
00:32:11.720 | But he just so decided, there's this move,
00:32:14.440 | you just shoot for both legs.
00:32:16.000 | Shooting is you just go for the heels of both legs,
00:32:18.880 | and you put your noggin right in the person's stomach,
00:32:21.040 | or your shoulder in the person's stomach.
00:32:22.480 | And that's what he did.
00:32:23.680 | And when you do that, you just lift up,
00:32:26.200 | her body just goes up in the air,
00:32:27.520 | and then he slammed her with his head.
00:32:29.840 | And he got up and went, "Oh!" like that,
00:32:31.560 | and all of us were like.
00:32:32.720 | (audience laughing)
00:32:35.720 | He didn't win that day, okay?
00:32:38.560 | Because by doing that, by arrogantly going,
00:32:41.160 | "Er," like he won, nobody was gonna be like, "Good job."
00:32:45.100 | Why, because he completely lost the respect of all the guys,
00:32:47.400 | and he lost the respect of the girl, too.
00:32:49.240 | You just don't do that, right?
00:32:51.400 | You don't do that.
00:32:53.080 | In the same way, there are things you can win,
00:32:56.720 | but you're not gonna win,
00:32:58.280 | because you're gonna lose spiritually,
00:33:01.200 | integrity, morally, ethically, right?
00:33:05.880 | You just don't do it because you win the match,
00:33:07.920 | but so what?
00:33:08.760 | You just didn't win at all,
00:33:11.380 | not on the side of the entire team,
00:33:12.880 | not on the side of the other team, like nobody, okay?
00:33:16.620 | That's like here, Apostle Paul is saying,
00:33:19.240 | "I think you guys have the absolute wrong definition
00:33:21.560 | "of success here.
00:33:22.600 | "Your definition of success is,
00:33:24.200 | "I'm never gonna be taken advantage of.
00:33:26.020 | "No one's gonna get the best of me.
00:33:27.680 | "I'm gonna take this guy to the house,
00:33:29.060 | "and I'm gonna wipe him clean."
00:33:30.660 | That's the worldly definition of success.
00:33:35.180 | You didn't win nothing.
00:33:36.860 | As a matter of fact, actually, you lost, okay?
00:33:40.860 | That's the point that Apostle Paul is making.
00:33:43.640 | And for us, there's a point of conviction there,
00:33:46.880 | because to tell you honestly,
00:33:48.480 | sometimes I have that kind of heart sometimes.
00:33:53.480 | I don't know if you guys have ever experienced
00:33:56.600 | that come out of you.
00:33:57.640 | Sometimes people do stuff, and you're like,
00:34:00.200 | "That's okay, I didn't even care.
00:34:01.640 | "Just actually here and take some more," or whatever.
00:34:04.720 | And then for some odd reason, somebody does something,
00:34:06.600 | you're like, "No."
00:34:07.440 | You're gonna know you did wrong,
00:34:09.480 | and you're gonna pay, you know?
00:34:10.520 | And it comes out of you, and you just realize,
00:34:12.120 | like, wow, that's kind of scary.
00:34:14.600 | And on our off days when we're not sober,
00:34:17.280 | doesn't it come out like that sometimes?
00:34:19.480 | No, you're just not gonna get the best of me.
00:34:21.800 | And sometimes we buy into it.
00:34:24.400 | Sometimes we just, maybe it's because we're competitive,
00:34:27.440 | and we don't want people to get away with wrong.
00:34:29.920 | Sometimes we're prideful, and we're like,
00:34:31.400 | "I ain't no pushover.
00:34:32.520 | "I'm not a pushover, and you can't do this to me."
00:34:37.000 | And so you retaliate, or you just kind of avenge yourself.
00:34:41.160 | You know?
00:34:42.440 | And that is actually the heart
00:34:44.120 | of which Apostle Paul is getting at, isn't it?
00:34:47.240 | As to why these problems exist.
00:34:49.040 | So, Apostle Paul asks this question,
00:34:52.760 | why not rather be wronged?
00:34:55.160 | Why not be defrauded?
00:34:57.620 | And I ask this question, what is the principle
00:35:02.120 | that Apostle Paul is advocating here?
00:35:05.160 | Okay, what is the principle
00:35:06.920 | that Apostle Paul is advocating?
00:35:09.000 | Well, I think, you know,
00:35:12.340 | I'm gonna ask you guys for the principle
00:35:15.300 | after we look at some of these cross-references,
00:35:17.740 | but you guys know the principles
00:35:19.560 | that are taught in scripture.
00:35:21.120 | I just thought it would be spiritually really good for us
00:35:23.640 | to remind ourselves of some of these principles.
00:35:26.040 | Turn your Bibles to Matthew.
00:35:27.800 | Matthew chapter five, verse 38 through 48.
00:35:30.520 | (pages rustling)
00:35:33.280 | So Matthew five.
00:35:40.200 | Okay, and this is what Jesus says.
00:35:54.780 | He says, "You have heard that it was said,
00:36:00.360 | "an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth."
00:36:03.880 | This is known as a lex talionis.
00:36:05.760 | This is, you know, this principle.
00:36:07.680 | You lose a goat, you're gonna have to give a goat,
00:36:09.800 | or you deserve a goat.
00:36:11.880 | It's eye for an eye, tooth for tooth.
00:36:13.800 | In verse 39, he says, "But I say to you,
00:36:17.580 | "do not resist an evil person,
00:36:19.180 | "but whoever slaps you on your right cheek,
00:36:21.240 | "turn the other to him also.
00:36:24.180 | "If anyone wants to sue you and take your shirt,
00:36:26.300 | "let him have your coat also.
00:36:28.180 | "Whoever forces you to go one mile,
00:36:30.020 | "go with him too.
00:36:31.160 | "Give to him who asks of you,
00:36:33.080 | "and do not turn away from him
00:36:34.620 | "who wants to borrow from you.
00:36:36.660 | "You have heard that it was said,
00:36:38.140 | "you shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy,
00:36:39.880 | "but I say to you, love your enemies
00:36:41.320 | "and pray for those who persecute you,
00:36:43.220 | "so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven.
00:36:47.260 | "For he causes his son to rise on the evil and the good
00:36:50.000 | "and sends his reign on the righteous and the unrighteous.
00:36:52.700 | "For if you love those who love you,
00:36:54.440 | "what reward do you have?
00:36:56.300 | "Do not even the tax collectors do the same.
00:36:58.940 | "If you greet only your brothers,
00:37:00.240 | "what more are you doing than others?
00:37:02.700 | "Do not even the Gentiles do the same.
00:37:05.060 | "Therefore, you are to be perfect
00:37:07.140 | "as your heavenly Father is perfect."
00:37:09.320 | There's so much to be said just from that short excerpt
00:37:12.160 | from our Lord Jesus, right?
00:37:13.960 | I don't believe this idea of if someone slaps you,
00:37:16.560 | turn to the other one applies in every single circumstance.
00:37:19.400 | If you're a governor, if you're a ruler,
00:37:21.400 | if you're responsible for our family,
00:37:23.600 | you don't, that guy took one child,
00:37:25.800 | I'll give him my other child.
00:37:26.640 | Like, that doesn't work that way.
00:37:28.400 | But if you're a Christian,
00:37:30.420 | proclaiming to be a son of God,
00:37:33.000 | this is supposed to be something unique about you
00:37:35.600 | that makes you primarily a son of God.
00:37:39.160 | To be able to love beyond measure,
00:37:40.940 | to be able to love beyond what's expected, right?
00:37:44.360 | To be able to absorb that slap in the face
00:37:47.020 | and not retaliate, that's something unique
00:37:49.000 | to what God has done.
00:37:49.840 | He says, "To emulate your Father in heaven,
00:37:52.560 | "that's why you do this."
00:37:54.940 | Okay?
00:37:57.440 | Another passage, 1 Peter 3, verse eight through nine.
00:38:01.160 | He says, "To sum up, all of you be harmonious,
00:38:04.160 | "sympathetic, brotherly, kindhearted, and humble in spirit,
00:38:07.800 | "not returning evil for evil or insult for insult,
00:38:10.740 | "but giving a blessing instead.
00:38:13.020 | "For you were called for the very purpose
00:38:15.600 | "that you might inherit a blessing."
00:38:18.340 | Okay?
00:38:19.180 | Another passage I want us to turn to,
00:38:20.880 | Romans 12, 17 through 21.
00:38:26.000 | Romans 12, 17 through 21.
00:38:28.120 | Okay?
00:38:39.720 | And this is what, again, the word of God says.
00:38:42.460 | He says, "Never pay back evil for evil to anyone.
00:38:48.020 | "Respect what is right in the sight of all men.
00:38:51.900 | "If possible, so far as it depends on you,
00:38:54.120 | "be at peace with all men.
00:38:55.920 | "Never take your own revenge, beloved,
00:38:58.800 | "but leave room for the wrath of God, for it is written,
00:39:01.740 | "'Vengeance is mine, I will repay,' says the Lord.
00:39:05.020 | "But if your enemy is hungry, feed him.
00:39:07.440 | "But if he is thirsty, give him a drink,
00:39:09.440 | "for in so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.
00:39:12.480 | "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
00:39:17.100 | I think there was a sense in which a lot of this
00:39:20.260 | was going on in the Corinthians church.
00:39:22.520 | Some guy, yeah, it could easily happen.
00:39:24.440 | It's like, "Dude, let me borrow this, you know?
00:39:26.500 | "Please, please, please, I'll pay you back."
00:39:28.160 | Two months later, "Sorry, I can't pay you back.
00:39:30.720 | "But you're a Christian, so let it go, right?"
00:39:33.280 | And the guy's like, "What?
00:39:34.300 | "You promised!"
00:39:35.240 | And then they go back and forth,
00:39:36.380 | and you can imagine those finances getting
00:39:38.840 | in the midst of brothers and whatnot.
00:39:40.920 | And you can imagine, in a church, we can have fights,
00:39:45.360 | we can have conflict, right?
00:39:50.260 | Well, one of the questions I wanna ask you first
00:39:53.660 | before going to application is,
00:39:55.920 | how would you summarize this principle,
00:39:58.340 | put it in a way you can remember and has
00:40:01.040 | as a life principle for yourself?
00:40:04.040 | When Apostle Paul says, "Why not rather be wrong?
00:40:06.320 | "Why not rather be defrauded?"
00:40:07.700 | When you hear the words of Jesus,
00:40:10.200 | what's a good way to summarize this principle
00:40:12.220 | we're supposed to live by?
00:40:13.500 | (silence)
00:40:15.660 | How would you put it, you know,
00:40:23.200 | in a brief, concise, your own words kind of way?
00:40:25.700 | Jonas? (laughs)
00:40:31.900 | What do you think, man?
00:40:34.940 | (silence)
00:40:38.180 | (silence)
00:40:40.340 | How would you summarize the principle
00:40:50.420 | that Apostle Paul is wanting the church to live by
00:40:55.020 | when he asks the question, "Why not rather be wrong?
00:40:58.680 | "Why not rather be defrauded?"
00:41:00.340 | Be peacemakers, okay?
00:41:06.060 | Good, be peacemakers.
00:41:07.900 | How else would you guys say it?
00:41:09.460 | Yes?
00:41:18.140 | - Showing grace as you've been showing grace yourself.
00:41:20.540 | - Okay, good, showing grace
00:41:22.500 | as you've been showing grace yourself.
00:41:24.400 | What else?
00:41:26.140 | Leave judgment to God, good.
00:41:38.520 | Okay, good.
00:41:39.960 | So now, let's talk about practically applying this, okay?
00:41:44.960 | How would you make some practical applications
00:41:49.840 | from what we've been learning so far?
00:41:51.680 | How would we apply this to ourselves?
00:42:07.280 | I know I have like first half sentences
00:42:10.360 | underneath that stuff, but we don't have to go
00:42:12.720 | just according to what I wrote as applications I drew.
00:42:15.960 | I want you guys to think about how do we apply this?
00:42:18.640 | Aside from just like, okay, again,
00:42:20.800 | the simple way to do Bible study is like,
00:42:22.280 | okay, he says, you guys are idiots
00:42:25.040 | for going to court with each other.
00:42:26.880 | I'll never do that.
00:42:28.000 | Even if I'm mad, I'll never take someone to court.
00:42:30.280 | Good, I'm done.
00:42:31.160 | But we just realize he's digging deeper than just that.
00:42:36.400 | You know, he's talking about certain attitudes.
00:42:39.480 | How do we apply some of these things?
00:42:42.720 | Yes.
00:42:50.760 | - Think highly of the church and seek out wisdom.
00:42:54.520 | - Yeah, that's really good.
00:42:55.840 | Think highly of the church and seek out wisdom, you know?
00:42:59.180 | There's been a lot of times for me personally
00:43:02.160 | when someone has come to me for counsel,
00:43:04.460 | but it was so late in the game.
00:43:06.440 | They've already tried to reconcile their own way.
00:43:08.520 | They've already had negative responses.
00:43:10.680 | They've built, built, built, built, built,
00:43:12.280 | and now they're like, they haven't talked
00:43:14.160 | to each other for months,
00:43:15.000 | and then they're like, can you help me?
00:43:17.120 | I'm like, oh, I wish you would've talked to me
00:43:19.280 | like six months ago, you know?
00:43:20.800 | Or even, this doesn't have to be pastor,
00:43:24.520 | but there are many people in the church
00:43:26.880 | that have been Christians walking faithfully
00:43:28.520 | for many, many years, and they have wisdom to share.
00:43:32.600 | And we as members of the church need to seek counsel
00:43:35.660 | from each other and be open to abide
00:43:38.100 | by the counsel we receive, okay?
00:43:40.780 | What else?
00:43:41.620 | Any others?
00:43:50.440 | Yes.
00:43:58.420 | - It's better to be faithfully than selfishly.
00:44:01.500 | - That's really good.
00:44:03.360 | It's better to lose gracefully than win selfishly, okay?
00:44:07.000 | It's better to lose gracefully than win selfishly.
00:44:10.720 | I think that's something that you can apply.
00:44:14.080 | Sometimes, as a man, I make my decisions on like,
00:44:17.540 | stuff like risk analysis, cost benefit,
00:44:21.580 | or just getting the thing done, you know?
00:44:23.680 | But sometimes, you have to consider this fact,
00:44:26.840 | like, you know, in this decision that I'm making,
00:44:29.760 | my goal is not just to win, or my goal just isn't
00:44:32.500 | to get the result that I was wanting.
00:44:35.060 | I'd rather be more gracious
00:44:36.400 | and have Christian character in this.
00:44:38.200 | So if it's gonna look like I'm just being selfish,
00:44:42.660 | then even though it makes sense financially,
00:44:44.300 | practically, risk, and all that stuff,
00:44:46.700 | I'll rather lose gracefully.
00:44:48.460 | That's really good.
00:44:50.560 | Any others?
00:44:54.180 | Yes.
00:44:55.840 | - I think that there's this balance between
00:44:57.660 | judging the Christ's benefits,
00:44:59.720 | but like, how to know Jesus for your sake,
00:45:02.760 | because like, you know, there's a great Christ,
00:45:06.560 | and yet, you're supposed to hold your life accountable
00:45:09.640 | and like, have--
00:45:10.560 | - Yes, right.
00:45:12.520 | Okay, so you're right.
00:45:16.360 | There is a balance of holding each other accountable
00:45:21.920 | where if someone brought an issue to the church,
00:45:25.120 | then they're going to exercise wisdom and justice
00:45:28.000 | in order to set things right.
00:45:30.080 | But between the two parties, there's always room
00:45:33.240 | and actually need for grace and mercy, right?
00:45:36.760 | And I think that's something that, for me,
00:45:38.720 | I was super challenged by.
00:45:40.100 | Because in order to practice what he's saying,
00:45:44.060 | you do have to be able to, and so point two for me,
00:45:47.640 | you know how it says, as a Christian, we can,
00:45:49.880 | and I left it blank?
00:45:51.340 | For me, as a practical application, for me, I wrote,
00:45:53.760 | I can absorb cost, right?
00:45:57.560 | For Jesus Christ, our Savior, he was able to absorb what?
00:46:02.320 | Pain, suffering, penalty, that's cost.
00:46:07.120 | Cost of sin.
00:46:08.600 | And one of the things that we do then, uniquely as Christians
00:46:11.560 | that perhaps the world is not willing to do
00:46:14.440 | is absorb the cost, okay?
00:46:17.520 | I want you to go in your Bibles to Matthew 18
00:46:20.760 | about that story of forgiveness,
00:46:22.160 | and I want you to realize that there is an element of cost
00:46:26.720 | in the idea of forgiveness.
00:46:29.320 | So go to Matthew 18, okay?
00:46:32.260 | Matthew 18, verse 21 and on.
00:46:39.160 | And this is what Jesus says as he's teaching Peter.
00:46:45.240 | Then Peter came and said to him,
00:46:47.920 | "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me
00:46:50.720 | "and I forgive him?
00:46:51.760 | "Up to seven times?"
00:46:54.600 | And Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you
00:46:57.280 | "up to seven times, but up to 70 times seven."
00:47:01.560 | And as you guys have probably heard in many sermons
00:47:03.800 | and in your own Bible studies,
00:47:05.860 | 70 times seven is not just a number,
00:47:08.440 | but it's an idiomatic phrase saying completely.
00:47:12.520 | There's no end, just keep forgiving him.
00:47:14.400 | As long as he is repenting and coming to you,
00:47:16.400 | keep forgiving him.
00:47:17.840 | But look at the story he gives.
00:47:19.160 | He says, "For this reason the kingdom of heaven
00:47:21.240 | "may be compared to a king who wished to settle accounts
00:47:23.500 | "with the slaves.
00:47:24.520 | "When he began to settle them,
00:47:25.680 | "one who owed him 10,000 talents was brought to him.
00:47:28.360 | "But since he did not have the means to repay,
00:47:30.080 | "his lord commanded him to be sold
00:47:32.060 | "along with his wife and children and all that he had
00:47:34.820 | "so that repayment may be made.
00:47:36.420 | "So the slave fell to the ground
00:47:38.060 | "and prostrated himself before him saying,
00:47:40.300 | "Have patience with me, I will repay you everything.
00:47:43.860 | "And the lord of that slave felt compassion
00:47:46.600 | "and released him and forgave him the debt.
00:47:49.580 | "But that slave went out and found one of his fellow slaves
00:47:53.880 | "who owed him 100 denarii and he seized him
00:47:56.440 | "and began to choke him saying,
00:47:58.180 | "Pay back what you owe.
00:48:00.180 | "So his fellow slave fell to the ground
00:48:01.800 | "and began to plead with him saying,
00:48:03.700 | "Have patience with me that I will repay you.
00:48:06.220 | "But he was unwilling and went and threw him in prison
00:48:08.760 | "until he should pay back what was owed.
00:48:11.740 | "So when his fellow slave saw what had happened,
00:48:15.880 | "they were deeply grieved and came to report to the lord
00:48:18.900 | "all that had happened.
00:48:20.160 | "Then summoning him, his lord said to him,
00:48:21.800 | "You wicked slave, I forgave you all the debt
00:48:25.320 | "because you pleaded with me.
00:48:26.840 | "Should you not also have had mercy on your fellow slave
00:48:30.320 | "in the same way that I had mercy on you?
00:48:32.840 | "And his lord removed with anger,
00:48:35.080 | "removed his, say, and his lord removed with anger,
00:48:37.680 | "sorry, moved with anger, handed him over to the torturers
00:48:40.060 | "until he should repay all that was owed.
00:48:42.520 | "My heavenly father will also do the same to you.
00:48:45.760 | "If each of you does not forgive his brother
00:48:48.080 | "from your heart."
00:48:49.680 | Okay.
00:48:50.520 | In that story, something that I kinda,
00:48:55.840 | not kinda, but really caught my attention
00:48:57.600 | and I kept focusing on was this,
00:48:59.580 | is the idea of absorbing cost.
00:49:03.220 | I feel like perhaps sometimes
00:49:08.940 | when we wanna forgive somebody,
00:49:10.840 | there is a sense in which I wanna be able
00:49:12.280 | to forgive somebody still without bearing cost.
00:49:16.000 | I might forgive you because I might have felt offended
00:49:18.680 | and I'm not gonna be offended at you anymore.
00:49:21.400 | I might not be angry at you anymore.
00:49:23.880 | But there's a sense in which we kinda lose this idea
00:49:26.040 | of the cost.
00:49:27.880 | Because in order for the king,
00:49:29.720 | in order for the ruler to forgive his slave,
00:49:32.400 | and in order for the slave to forgive his friend,
00:49:34.880 | what do they have to do?
00:49:36.200 | They have to absorb great cost.
00:49:41.440 | Right?
00:49:42.280 | Well, in order for there to be a kind of,
00:49:46.160 | I am willing to be wronged,
00:49:48.120 | I am willing to bear the injustice of my brother,
00:49:51.020 | what do you have to do?
00:49:52.840 | You have to be willing to absorb that cost.
00:49:56.300 | If you're still sitting there demanding,
00:49:58.920 | I'm gonna forgive you but you're gonna have
00:50:00.160 | to repay everything.
00:50:01.400 | I'm gonna have to forgive you
00:50:02.240 | but I want you to make it up.
00:50:03.640 | I wanna forgive you but you're gonna have
00:50:05.320 | to do me a favor because I'm doing you a favor.
00:50:08.840 | Is that the kind of biblical forgiveness,
00:50:10.640 | mercy, and willingness God is expecting of us?
00:50:14.300 | I don't think so.
00:50:16.600 | Yes.
00:50:19.640 | - So,
00:50:22.360 | (mumbles)
00:50:25.440 | Does that include,
00:50:27.640 | (mumbles)
00:50:29.800 | Does like,
00:50:36.440 | precautions to kind of protect yourself,
00:50:39.160 | you know that it's gonna happen again?
00:50:42.080 | - Mm-hmm.
00:50:43.080 | - Does that go against his idea?
00:50:45.740 | - Let me see if I understand your question correctly.
00:50:48.840 | He said,
00:50:49.680 | in the giving of forgiveness,
00:50:51.400 | there's somebody who repeats their sin.
00:50:52.760 | Oh, I see what you're saying.
00:50:53.680 | Somebody who repeats their sin
00:50:55.640 | and then you take precautions to protect yourself
00:50:58.320 | against that individual.
00:50:59.520 | Does that now negate my forgiveness of him?
00:51:03.800 | (mumbles)
00:51:06.520 | No, I don't think so.
00:51:08.360 | 'Cause I can think of many situations where,
00:51:13.960 | let's say, yeah, let's say, you know,
00:51:16.320 | I ask somebody to watch my child
00:51:18.000 | and that person flipped the lid
00:51:19.440 | and somehow abused my kid.
00:51:22.660 | But that guy came to me and said,
00:51:24.320 | I am, will you please forgive me?
00:51:26.800 | I lost my temper.
00:51:28.680 | I did something so wrong.
00:51:30.440 | Will you forgive me?
00:51:31.440 | Right?
00:51:33.040 | What I'm saying is, if I said, sure, I forgive you,
00:51:36.040 | and then I turn around, I'm like,
00:51:37.320 | I'm gonna report this guy to police.
00:51:38.880 | And like, you know,
00:51:40.480 | I think there is a disconnect between my forgiveness of him
00:51:43.800 | and what I'm telling him,
00:51:45.340 | because I'm holding it against him
00:51:47.120 | and expecting him to pay.
00:51:49.160 | But if I tell him the next time,
00:51:50.720 | I'm like, hey guys, I need somebody to watch my kid,
00:51:53.120 | and he's like, oh, I'll watch your kid.
00:51:54.900 | And I tell him, you know what?
00:51:56.960 | This might sound a little offensive,
00:51:58.040 | but I'm gonna find somebody else.
00:52:00.280 | Is that not forgiving?
00:52:02.000 | Not necessarily.
00:52:03.800 | Do you see the difference?
00:52:05.600 | Yeah.
00:52:06.840 | Now, the thing about it is, for example,
00:52:08.920 | if I lend somebody money and they say,
00:52:11.360 | please forgive me, I can't repay you.
00:52:13.480 | I'm sorry that I asked you to lend me money,
00:52:15.500 | but to tell you truthfully, I knew I couldn't pay you back.
00:52:18.900 | I just needed the money in the moment,
00:52:20.080 | but there was no way I was gonna pay you back.
00:52:21.320 | Like, I don't have the money for that.
00:52:22.960 | Will you forgive me?
00:52:24.200 | I can tell him, yeah, I forgive you.
00:52:26.280 | The next time he asks me money,
00:52:27.440 | and he says, ooh, can I borrow a thousand bucks?
00:52:29.880 | I'm gonna look at him and say,
00:52:31.000 | show me what you got to pay me back.
00:52:32.520 | And he says, oh, you know, you just gotta trust me.
00:52:34.400 | Didn't you forgive me?
00:52:35.240 | And I'm like, I forgave you.
00:52:37.000 | That's why we're still friends.
00:52:38.520 | Show me how you're gonna pay me back.
00:52:40.320 | That's not going against my forgiveness of the individual.
00:52:44.820 | Does that make sense?
00:52:45.920 | Yeah.
00:52:48.320 | What's really interesting is,
00:52:49.360 | the Book of Proverbs actually has a lot to say about that.
00:52:52.200 | Both on the level of, when you're lending to people
00:52:56.560 | or when you're entrusting to people, guard yourself.
00:52:59.600 | So, the Book of Proverbs will actually say,
00:53:01.640 | if you're gonna lend somebody money,
00:53:03.760 | don't expect it back.
00:53:05.680 | Lend with an idea of, I'm gonna give this to this person.
00:53:08.600 | Right?
00:53:09.420 | And in that way, you're guarding your own heart,
00:53:11.080 | and you're guarding yourself.
00:53:12.440 | And the Book of Proverbs actually teaches you a lot about,
00:53:14.800 | don't shake hands, as in, permissory notes.
00:53:17.380 | I'm gonna promise you,
00:53:18.840 | I'm gonna go into this loan with you
00:53:20.680 | as a guarantor of your loan, all that kind of stuff.
00:53:23.160 | Why?
00:53:24.000 | Because it's protecting yourself.
00:53:25.420 | But, nonetheless, that protection of yourself
00:53:29.340 | has nothing to do with, in my relationship with you,
00:53:32.720 | we have no animosity.
00:53:34.000 | I hold this not against you.
00:53:35.680 | I'm not gonna hold it against you in the future.
00:53:38.000 | You know what I mean?
00:53:38.840 | I'm not gonna expect you to pay this back.
00:53:40.280 | I've incurred the cost and forgave you.
00:53:42.580 | I think that's very different from saying,
00:53:44.240 | in wisdom, I'm just guarding
00:53:45.600 | so that none of this kind of stuff happens again.
00:53:48.000 | I'm not sure if, am I answering your question?
00:53:51.160 | I'm not sure if, I'm getting, okay.
00:53:53.800 | 'Cause your facial expression kinda looks like,
00:53:56.680 | like, mm, I don't know.
00:53:58.320 | What do you think?
00:53:59.160 | We can talk about it more after.
00:54:00.760 | But hopefully that kinda addresses, yeah.
00:54:05.040 | - It's just what it normally looks like.
00:54:09.480 | (laughing)
00:54:11.040 | - Okay.
00:54:12.480 | I'm not gonna repeat what you said.
00:54:13.880 | All right, any other applications,
00:54:15.920 | any other applications that you see from this thing?
00:54:19.360 | I mean, let me just give out some more, I mean, like,
00:54:22.360 | someone mentioned repaying evil,
00:54:26.560 | not being overcome with evil.
00:54:28.200 | I also think that there's this temptation,
00:54:31.680 | there is this temptation to escalate, okay?
00:54:36.680 | I think about the litigation and you realize, like,
00:54:40.280 | there's a buildup, right?
00:54:42.920 | How many guys have ever gone into a fight
00:54:44.280 | and it escalated from, like, you know, I don't know,
00:54:48.120 | some guy did something and he turned into, oh my gosh,
00:54:50.520 | like, he's, like, you know, like,
00:54:53.600 | I'm thinking in Korean right now, but.
00:54:57.000 | (laughing)
00:54:59.240 | What is nunchi eopseo in, like,
00:55:01.680 | well, anyway, you start judging the guy's character,
00:55:03.320 | you know, the guy does something, like,
00:55:04.640 | he forgets the birthday or he gets something
00:55:06.360 | and the next thing you know, you start judging his character,
00:55:07.800 | he doesn't care, like, he's so slob, he's lazy,
00:55:10.480 | he's irresponsible, it's like, he just forgot, you know,
00:55:12.440 | like, you just start escalating things
00:55:14.240 | and especially if you're fighting, man,
00:55:17.080 | like, I've had occasions when you're just fighting
00:55:19.600 | or you're just disagreeing and all of a sudden
00:55:21.920 | you're disagreeing and it escalates to the next thing
00:55:24.160 | and it's like, oh my goodness, you do this
00:55:25.920 | and then you say something, it's like, oh my gosh,
00:55:27.400 | you can't say this and the next thing you know,
00:55:29.000 | it's like, oh, you're having an all-out war.
00:55:31.960 | Doesn't it escalate?
00:55:32.800 | And I think about getting to the point of lawsuit,
00:55:34.920 | I'm pretty sure it started from something
00:55:36.920 | and it just kept on escalating, you know?
00:55:39.240 | So, if you,
00:55:43.640 | oh yeah, so like, as an example,
00:55:51.240 | from our own passage in verse eight,
00:55:53.640 | he, I think there's an escalation that you can see
00:55:56.920 | just from the nature of looking at verse eight
00:55:58.560 | and seeing, okay, there's this disagreement,
00:56:00.800 | there's, you know, all this kind of stuff,
00:56:02.380 | but then it gets to a point where it says,
00:56:04.200 | on the contrary, you yourself is wrong in the fraud,
00:56:06.760 | so now you've escalated to the point
00:56:08.800 | where you yourself, all of a sudden, are doing the wrong.
00:56:12.080 | And I find that happening sometimes, okay?
00:56:15.320 | I'm not gonna belabor the point,
00:56:17.600 | but for us, more typically, it's verbally, okay?
00:56:21.160 | Someone hurts you, and what sometimes we're tempted to do
00:56:26.000 | is escalate it by hitting them back, whoa,
00:56:29.200 | hitting them back verbally, okay?
00:56:33.280 | There's been times when, you know, I get into an argument,
00:56:36.040 | and, you know, in the beginning, everyone's cordial,
00:56:39.440 | and you wanna try to, like, figure it out,
00:56:42.520 | and you're talking and stuff like that,
00:56:43.680 | and after a while, all of a sudden,
00:56:44.880 | you start saying mean things to each other,
00:56:46.840 | and it has no other purpose than,
00:56:48.980 | you know what, you did something silly,
00:56:50.980 | you did something to hurt me, here it is,
00:56:53.520 | you slap me, I slap you back,
00:56:54.680 | and then, with words, you end up fighting, okay?
00:56:58.520 | So my point is, we have to resist the temptation
00:57:01.600 | to escalate the matter, okay?
00:57:04.120 | There are a lot of other things
00:57:05.000 | that perhaps we can take a look at,
00:57:06.360 | I just wanna wrap up with the next section.
00:57:08.280 | Let's go to verse nine through 11.
00:57:09.980 | He says, "Or do you not know that the unrighteous
00:57:14.240 | "will not inherit the kingdom of God?
00:57:16.560 | "Do not be deceived, neither fornicators,"
00:57:19.640 | fornicators are those who are single.
00:57:21.920 | Was it this Bible study?
00:57:24.120 | Oh, sorry, it was the other one.
00:57:25.880 | "For fornification in this day and age is so rampant,
00:57:29.780 | "we even call it now people being just romantic,
00:57:33.220 | "single individuals who are not married,
00:57:35.000 | "coming together, and breaking all kinds
00:57:37.500 | "of physical boundaries.
00:57:38.920 | "It happens a lot, I know that it's difficult
00:57:41.220 | "to fight against, but in the end,
00:57:42.940 | "what is that but fornification?
00:57:44.860 | "Idolaters, people who idolize various things
00:57:47.500 | "in their lives, whether it's man-made,
00:57:48.940 | "whether it's cultic, they idolize.
00:57:51.420 | "Drunkards, revilers," oh, shoot, sorry,
00:57:55.100 | I totally missed the line.
00:57:56.560 | "Adulterers, effeminate, homosexuals, thieves,
00:58:00.160 | "covetous, drunkards, revilers, swindlers
00:58:03.440 | "will inherit the kingdom of God."
00:58:06.400 | Okay, my question to you guys is,
00:58:09.820 | what is Paul's purpose in listing these categories
00:58:12.480 | of people who will not go to heaven?
00:58:16.780 | What do you think is his purpose in his reasoning
00:58:19.500 | and arguing with the church?
00:58:21.940 | Why he would sit and list this list of categories
00:58:24.940 | of people who are sinful?
00:58:26.300 | So that they won't what?
00:58:35.300 | Okay.
00:58:44.980 | Excellent, yeah.
00:58:47.160 | I think there's a reason why he's sitting there
00:58:49.460 | and then all of a sudden he just paints this big brush
00:58:51.620 | and says, "This is like the types of sin that exists."
00:58:55.420 | (imitates explosion)
00:58:57.060 | And we know these are the pagans
00:58:58.540 | who won't enter the kingdom of God, you know this.
00:59:01.140 | And then he goes in verse 11,
00:59:04.420 | "And these were pretty much you guys."
00:59:06.540 | So think about that.
00:59:11.140 | The emphasis of this whole segment comes in verse 11
00:59:16.140 | because there exists a profound and emphatic contrast.
00:59:21.220 | Notice how verse 11 reads, "But you were washed,
00:59:24.860 | "but you were sanctified, but you were justified."
00:59:28.300 | Those little contrasting words, connecting words, but.
00:59:32.900 | In the Greek, there's actually multiple ways of saying that.
00:59:36.040 | There's actually about six different ways to contrast.
00:59:39.080 | This word happens to be the strongest contrasting word.
00:59:43.120 | Okay?
00:59:44.540 | You guys know, you guys have probably heard in the Greek,
00:59:46.660 | there's multiple ways of saying no.
00:59:48.660 | There's like just no.
00:59:50.500 | On the contrary, but it's like no, indeed no.
00:59:54.220 | It's like no, not ever.
00:59:56.060 | There's degrees of these contrasting words.
00:59:59.460 | Likewise, in this place,
01:00:02.340 | this contrasting word is the most emphatic.
01:00:06.100 | But instead, you know.
01:00:08.300 | And he says, "These were what you were,
01:00:11.600 | "but instead, this is what God did.
01:00:13.020 | "He washed you, he sanctified you, he justified you."
01:00:16.500 | Right?
01:00:18.060 | I think this is a great way to encourage the church
01:00:21.380 | that's practicing this kind of,
01:00:23.540 | "I'm not gonna lose, I'm gonna fight,
01:00:25.280 | "I'm gonna have my revenge, and I'm gonna set it right."
01:00:28.380 | The challenge is to practice godly character.
01:00:31.480 | You need to forgive.
01:00:33.220 | You need to reconcile.
01:00:34.700 | You need to be willing to absorb cost.
01:00:36.860 | You need to be willing to keep the peace in the church.
01:00:40.140 | Right?
01:00:41.340 | And in many ways throughout scripture,
01:00:42.700 | Apostle Paul has used the basic foundation of the gospel
01:00:45.620 | to tell them, "This is who you need to be."
01:00:48.200 | All right?
01:00:50.500 | Okay.
01:00:51.540 | Any questions about this passage?
01:00:54.160 | Yes.
01:00:55.000 | (audience member speaking faintly)
01:00:59.260 | (audience member speaking faintly)
01:01:03.600 | You know what, I didn't even look into that
01:01:10.820 | in terms of comparing that verse,
01:01:13.380 | but you're saying the NIV does not have the word effeminate,
01:01:16.460 | whereas the NASB does?
01:01:18.760 | Huh, that's interesting.
01:01:26.580 | I'll give that to you as homework, okay?
01:01:28.540 | (laughs)
01:01:29.620 | You're gonna look that up for us,
01:01:31.340 | and then you're gonna give us your finding after.
01:01:33.380 | (laughs)
01:01:34.660 | All right, we'll talk later.
01:01:36.060 | Any other questions?
01:01:38.420 | Yes.
01:01:43.020 | (audience member speaking faintly)
01:01:47.180 | Yeah, oh, that's a good question.
01:01:58.340 | So he was talking about,
01:01:59.800 | does this apply to Christian to Christian only,
01:02:04.740 | or does it also apply broadly to Christian to non-Christian?
01:02:07.660 | Right?
01:02:08.700 | I'm gonna tell you truthfully that
01:02:10.900 | the boundary is not clear-cut,
01:02:14.540 | but there exists a boundary.
01:02:16.220 | Because, for example,
01:02:17.460 | when you have two Christian individuals,
01:02:22.500 | they're all submitted under,
01:02:24.060 | or theoretically, they're all submitted
01:02:27.900 | under the Spirit of God and the Word of God.
01:02:30.260 | And so the church can come in and reason with both,
01:02:33.340 | through the Spirit and through the Word, right?
01:02:35.420 | But you have a party that's non-Christian,
01:02:37.620 | that doesn't have the Spirit.
01:02:39.060 | How can the church come in and do that?
01:02:41.100 | So actually, now it behooves the Christian individual
01:02:43.980 | to exercise a great amount of wisdom.
01:02:46.000 | There's a sense in which,
01:02:47.580 | there's two philosophies about that, too.
01:02:49.300 | So I actually just read an article where,
01:02:51.180 | in one philosophical thought,
01:02:54.540 | they want to push the agenda of justice
01:02:57.820 | in order to share the gospel.
01:02:59.700 | Meaning, if a non-Christian does injustice to you,
01:03:02.620 | they think you should actually cause that individual
01:03:05.740 | to see in you a commitment to justice, to righteousness,
01:03:10.620 | so that you can share the gospel.
01:03:12.420 | To say, you know what?
01:03:14.380 | You're not upholding even what we believe in our,
01:03:17.300 | like, you know, community and culture, to be righteous,
01:03:20.660 | and that's because you're a sinner.
01:03:22.340 | And so they can have a platform for the gospel.
01:03:25.220 | Obviously, there's another group of people
01:03:27.460 | that says, no, you exercise Christian love
01:03:29.940 | to even the non-Christians,
01:03:31.220 | so that the kindness of God
01:03:32.900 | will convict them to the gospel.
01:03:34.340 | And I kinda read this article and thought,
01:03:35.740 | that's really interesting.
01:03:37.100 | To tell you honestly,
01:03:37.940 | I think it behooves the Christian individual to decide,
01:03:41.540 | what do I do here to glorify the name of the Lord?
01:03:44.500 | Right?
01:03:45.540 | And that's gonna be really dependent upon,
01:03:48.020 | like, the context, how the other individual is responding,
01:03:52.100 | and what is gonna be the best platform to share the gospel.
01:03:55.140 | Yeah.
01:03:56.020 | But, to repeat,
01:03:58.780 | there is a difference between how Christian Christian
01:04:01.220 | should relate to each other,
01:04:02.540 | as opposed to a Christian non-Christian.
01:04:04.580 | Yeah.
01:04:05.420 | Yes.
01:04:08.220 | - So, effeminate is there in the Greek.
01:04:10.260 | It depicts somebody that's,
01:04:14.260 | the Greek word is defined,
01:04:18.020 | soft,
01:04:21.220 | uncertain affinity.
01:04:25.740 | And even, male prostitute.
01:04:29.100 | The Greek word is,
01:04:30.620 | it even defines soft linen, soft clothing.
01:04:35.700 | - Right.
01:04:36.580 | - It's a girly, effeminate.
01:04:38.140 | - Yeah.
01:04:38.980 | Yeah, to say effeminate, like, basically,
01:04:43.340 | anything where, you know how there's a lot of,
01:04:49.820 | so, transgender, transvestite,
01:04:52.940 | anybody who's cross-dressed,
01:04:54.060 | or you can call them drag queens, or whatever you may be,
01:04:56.980 | you know, dressing and behaving like another gender
01:05:00.500 | than God has created you,
01:05:02.500 | that would be under the category of effeminate.
01:05:04.620 | Yeah.
01:05:06.140 | So, thanks.
01:05:07.340 | Any other questions?
01:05:10.300 | Then let's wrap up.
01:05:11.140 | I hope you guys have a good time of discussion.
01:05:13.460 | Part of it, I wanted you guys to have an opportunity
01:05:17.860 | to just share personal stories, moments in which,
01:05:20.540 | when you had to absorb wrong done to you,
01:05:22.700 | how did you deal with it?
01:05:23.740 | I think that's an important question.
01:05:25.940 | But also, any applications that you can draw
01:05:27.740 | from the study today would be good, okay?
01:05:30.380 | Let's pray.
01:05:31.660 | Heavenly Father, we thank you for your grace.
01:05:34.220 | God, as we think about this topic of Christians,
01:05:38.700 | taking their brother to the courts,
01:05:41.940 | and just wringing them dry,
01:05:43.580 | and I pray, Lord, that we will be convicted, Lord.
01:05:46.620 | You know, truly, how dare we,
01:05:48.540 | if we claim the name of Lord Jesus,
01:05:50.380 | who emptied himself for us,
01:05:52.860 | who sacrificed, who absorbed such great pain,
01:05:56.780 | suffering, and the penalty we deserve,
01:06:00.220 | how can we who call upon the name of the Lord
01:06:02.460 | do that to those who also call upon the name of the Lord?
01:06:06.460 | I pray, Father God, that if there is any hint
01:06:08.620 | of this, I guess, angry sin, this bitter sin in us,
01:06:13.620 | I pray, Lord, that you would do the work
01:06:15.380 | of thorough sanctification, that we would confess it,
01:06:18.020 | we would repent of it, and desire to truly adopt
01:06:21.820 | into our own hearts a heart of mercy,
01:06:24.300 | a heart of desire to do that which is best in your eyes.
01:06:28.420 | God, we might lose in the eyes of the world,
01:06:30.620 | we might lose in the definition
01:06:32.860 | of what the world esteems as success,
01:06:35.620 | but I pray, Father God, that we would always seek
01:06:37.660 | to please you, and God, that we would always function
01:06:40.060 | underneath what is deemed right and holy
01:06:42.460 | underneath our Lord.
01:06:43.860 | Father, I wanna thank you for our study.
01:06:45.620 | I do pray that each one of us would continue
01:06:47.660 | diving deep into your word.
01:06:49.420 | God, that our lives would be truly in line with your will,
01:06:53.100 | that every decision we make would be made
01:06:55.820 | and surrender to your holy purposes.
01:06:58.300 | We thank you in Christ's name, amen.