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2015-07-02 Study of 1 Corinthians Week 11


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00:00:02.760 | - Then to 1 Corinthians 5,
00:00:05.800 | I'm gonna read the passage for us.
00:00:07.800 | And, you know, if you,
00:00:12.160 | what's really interesting is, you know,
00:00:14.940 | there are parts of scripture where it's awesome
00:00:18.320 | to slowly and methodically go through
00:00:20.720 | every phrase and every word.
00:00:22.760 | And then there are parts of scripture where if you do that,
00:00:25.200 | you just feel like you're getting beat up, you know?
00:00:27.800 | And there's a sense in which we've been together studying
00:00:30.120 | now for over 10 weeks, this is our 11th week.
00:00:33.680 | And for the vast majority of it,
00:00:35.480 | it's been like, you prideful, you know,
00:00:37.920 | like arrogant people competing with each other.
00:00:42.160 | How dare you do this to the house of God, you know,
00:00:44.480 | like the temple of the Lord.
00:00:45.720 | And it's been really heavy.
00:00:47.720 | And just to give you a heads up,
00:00:49.120 | it's gonna be like that for a little bit, okay?
00:00:51.960 | But there's a sense in which I always felt like
00:00:56.840 | there are different parts of the scripture
00:00:58.560 | that's like that.
00:01:00.040 | There's a sense in which sometimes we have to go
00:01:02.080 | through that experience, not just so that, you know,
00:01:05.960 | we feel ashamed, but through the whole experience
00:01:09.640 | of like really seeing how heavy and how weighty
00:01:13.840 | some of the words of scripture are.
00:01:15.800 | Really seeing then also by implication how heavy and weighty
00:01:20.000 | the sin and theological topics are.
00:01:22.440 | It helps us appreciate all the more
00:01:24.720 | the kind of conviction we get
00:01:26.360 | and also it helps us appreciate all the more
00:01:28.400 | the kind of transformation that results
00:01:30.840 | from the end of that kind of conviction, okay?
00:01:33.480 | I just wanted to say that 'cause there are parts,
00:01:35.440 | for me too, as I'm studying, I'm like,
00:01:36.920 | man, he's laying on thick, you know?
00:01:39.840 | And just wanted to mention that.
00:01:41.880 | Now let's read this passage, chapter five,
00:01:44.360 | verse one through 13.
00:01:45.640 | It is actually, and you know what, actually,
00:01:49.440 | you know what I'm gonna do?
00:01:50.360 | I'm gonna start in verse 21 of chapter four.
00:01:54.240 | What do you want?
00:01:55.960 | Okay, what do you desire?
00:01:57.680 | Shall I come to you with a rod or with love
00:01:59.800 | and a spirit of gentleness?
00:02:02.080 | It is actually reported that there is immorality among you,
00:02:05.400 | an immorality of such a kind that does not even exist
00:02:08.040 | among the Gentiles, that someone has his father's wife.
00:02:13.040 | You have become arrogant and have not mourned instead
00:02:18.040 | so that the one who had done this deed
00:02:20.560 | would be removed from your midst.
00:02:22.560 | For I on my part, though absent in body,
00:02:24.920 | but present in spirit, have already judged him
00:02:27.960 | who has so committed this, as though I were present.
00:02:31.520 | In the name of our Lord Jesus, when you are assembled,
00:02:34.600 | and I with you in spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus,
00:02:38.240 | I have decided to deliver such a one to Satan
00:02:40.920 | for the destruction of his flesh,
00:02:43.040 | so that his spirit may be saved
00:02:46.600 | in the day of the Lord Jesus.
00:02:48.520 | Your boasting is not good.
00:02:51.160 | Do you not know that a little leaven
00:02:52.800 | leavens the whole lump of dough?
00:02:55.080 | Clean out the old leaven so that you may be a new lump,
00:02:58.440 | just as you are in fact unleavened.
00:03:00.720 | For Christ, our Passover, also has been sacrificed.
00:03:04.880 | Therefore, let us celebrate the feast,
00:03:07.200 | not with old leaven, nor with the leaven of malice
00:03:09.880 | and wickedness, but with the unleavened bread
00:03:13.160 | of sincerity and truth.
00:03:15.880 | I wrote you in my letter not to associate
00:03:17.960 | with immoral people.
00:03:19.640 | I did not at all mean with the immoral people
00:03:22.600 | of this world, or with the covetous and swindlers,
00:03:25.800 | or with idolaters, for then you would have
00:03:28.520 | to go out of the world.
00:03:30.480 | But actually, I wrote to you not to associate
00:03:33.720 | with any so-called brother if he is an immoral person,
00:03:37.240 | or covetous, an idolater, a reviler,
00:03:40.360 | a drunkard or swindler, not even to eat with such a one.
00:03:45.200 | For what have I to do with judging outsiders?
00:03:48.160 | Do you not judge those who are within the church?
00:03:50.920 | But those who are outside, God judges.
00:03:53.920 | Remove the wicked man from among yourselves.
00:03:57.720 | Okay.
00:03:58.560 | So let's begin taking a look, a closer look
00:04:03.760 | at this passage that we've seen.
00:04:05.520 | Pretty heavy hitting rebuke.
00:04:08.020 | We look at verse one and two, and I would like you
00:04:12.160 | just to do a quick exercise.
00:04:14.280 | In verse one and two, where it says,
00:04:16.520 | it is actually reported that there is immorality
00:04:18.760 | among you, an immorality of such a kind
00:04:21.240 | as that does not even exist among the Gentiles,
00:04:24.200 | that someone has his father's wife,
00:04:26.680 | you have become arrogant and have not mourned instead,
00:04:29.860 | so that the one who had done this deed
00:04:32.360 | would be removed from your midst.
00:04:34.940 | What I'd like you to do is just simply underline
00:04:38.360 | the most important concepts in verse one and two.
00:04:41.660 | Okay.
00:04:43.560 | Okay.
00:04:47.920 | So as you guys do that, remember all the things
00:04:50.440 | that we've been kind of, again, rehearsing
00:04:53.200 | with you guys and reviewing.
00:04:55.160 | Main verbs are very important.
00:04:57.280 | Significant broad terms.
00:04:59.660 | Main phrases that he's getting at, those are important, okay?
00:05:05.320 | Repeated words are important.
00:05:07.000 | Okay.
00:05:11.760 | Now, after you've done that, basically,
00:05:15.440 | if you've underlined the most important terms
00:05:18.360 | in those first two verses, you're pretty much getting at
00:05:22.600 | what is the problem Apostle Paul is addressing, okay?
00:05:26.600 | So my first question to you is, what is Apostle Paul,
00:05:29.960 | oh, I wrote it like, what is Apostle Paul upset about?
00:05:32.440 | He is pretty upset, okay?
00:05:34.500 | But what problems is he addressing?
00:05:36.840 | Anybody?
00:05:43.840 | Immorality, okay?
00:05:46.000 | So the first term you should have underlined
00:05:48.600 | is probably just immorality.
00:05:49.800 | He says, this exists among you,
00:05:51.760 | and then he starts defining immorality, okay?
00:05:54.120 | So for your letter A, just write in immorality.
00:05:57.200 | And how does he describe this?
00:05:59.000 | Just asking you to look at the passage
00:06:06.640 | and just throw out the, these are just, you know,
00:06:09.280 | face value observations.
00:06:10.640 | So how does he describe their immorality?
00:06:13.700 | Sorry?
00:06:14.540 | - Arrogant?
00:06:15.500 | - Does he describe the immorality as arrogant?
00:06:18.700 | In verse one, the little kind of dependent clauses
00:06:22.380 | that are there, the little phrases that are there.
00:06:25.460 | - So bad, not even the pagans do it.
00:06:26.940 | - So bad, not even the pagans do it, okay?
00:06:30.180 | So think about this immorality.
00:06:32.840 | It's weird to think about that, right?
00:06:38.260 | That the church that's comprised of individuals
00:06:42.060 | who are supposed to be set apart,
00:06:44.220 | drawn out from the world, set apart as holy to God,
00:06:48.300 | they're now practicing such things
00:06:49.980 | that aren't even named among the world, okay?
00:06:52.740 | And that namely is incest, okay?
00:06:56.200 | Now there's sometimes disagreement about,
00:06:58.340 | okay, does this young man have a woman
00:07:01.320 | that's like a stepmom?
00:07:03.620 | Maybe this is the father's second wife,
00:07:05.820 | maybe the original mom died,
00:07:08.020 | or is he actually having sexual relations
00:07:10.900 | with his birth mom?
00:07:13.180 | Kind of crazy, right?
00:07:14.740 | A lot of, yeah, sorry, I saw your, yeah.
00:07:18.260 | The cringe, like, ugh, it's nasty.
00:07:20.580 | Well, the thing about it is, if you guys remember,
00:07:23.460 | like, in that culture, it wasn't uncommon for a man
00:07:28.460 | to marry like multiple times, okay?
00:07:32.500 | Secondly, in that culture, it wasn't uncommon
00:07:35.460 | for, let's say, a man to have a wife
00:07:37.780 | that's super young, right?
00:07:40.400 | 'Cause you got these older men,
00:07:41.980 | and in that culture, the men had such kind of authority
00:07:45.820 | and power and say and all that kind of stuff,
00:07:48.460 | and women were so dependent, they didn't care.
00:07:51.420 | Like, in our generation and culture,
00:07:53.300 | it's kind of like, you know, we have an option.
00:07:55.660 | The ladies can say, well, you don't fit the bill
00:07:57.700 | that I want, you don't fit the height,
00:08:00.460 | financial income, the look, and all that stuff.
00:08:02.660 | It's like, forget you, you know?
00:08:04.180 | But back then, it was like, if you had a guy
00:08:07.300 | who owned a lot of property, but he just happened
00:08:10.600 | to be older, that wasn't like a deal breaker.
00:08:14.720 | So you would have a scenario where, let's say,
00:08:18.280 | because of certain reasons, the father divorced
00:08:21.600 | the first wife, he marries a second,
00:08:23.840 | but the second wife happens to be the same age as the son.
00:08:27.520 | You know what I mean?
00:08:28.760 | So in this kind of scenario, number one,
00:08:32.360 | a lot of commentators, again, I'm not like,
00:08:35.200 | just pulling this out of, oh, hypothetic, I guess.
00:08:37.160 | A lot of commentators are saying, this family
00:08:39.820 | is probably a family that's pretty well-to-do,
00:08:42.820 | and it could be a scenario where the mom
00:08:45.380 | actually is like similar age as the son, okay?
00:08:49.140 | Now, I bring that kind of stuff up because
00:08:51.580 | I'm just kind of saying like, this could be a real scenario.
00:08:57.020 | Okay, it could be a real scenario.
00:08:59.020 | But the thing about it is, even in that culture, though,
00:09:01.880 | that was not only just no good, it was incredibly shameful.
00:09:06.880 | It was shameful.
00:09:07.720 | Not only was there a culture like that,
00:09:11.320 | but also, let's put in some more details into that culture.
00:09:14.020 | That culture is an incredibly high honor society.
00:09:17.480 | Everything is about honor.
00:09:19.700 | Everything is about prestige.
00:09:21.440 | Everything is about that kind of sense of nobility.
00:09:24.460 | For a son to do that, that's incredibly shameful, okay?
00:09:28.400 | And so, Apostle Paul is sitting here like, flabbergasted.
00:09:32.620 | And he's saying, blah, this stuff is happening in the church
00:09:37.200 | that's pagan to the pagans.
00:09:40.360 | How can this be, right?
00:09:42.920 | And really, that kind of shows to us
00:09:45.240 | the church can find itself very, very, very far
00:09:49.720 | from the holy standards that God has called us to, okay?
00:09:53.340 | Now, someone mentioned the other one.
00:09:56.400 | What's the other thing that Apostle Paul
00:09:57.920 | is really upset about?
00:09:59.080 | So, step one, he's really upset about the fact
00:10:01.400 | that there is sexual immorality amongst the people
00:10:04.280 | who are supposed to be holy.
00:10:06.840 | But what's the second thing that he's really upset about?
00:10:09.640 | Arrogance, okay?
00:10:14.760 | He is upset about arrogance, and there's a sense
00:10:17.880 | in which you can say maybe he's even more upset.
00:10:20.320 | How many of you guys have the NIV translation?
00:10:22.880 | You guys work off NIV?
00:10:23.920 | Okay, cool.
00:10:24.800 | Do you mind reading verse two for us?
00:10:27.120 | (audience member speaking indistinctly)
00:10:31.780 | Okay.
00:10:39.320 | Thank you.
00:10:42.360 | Sorry, yes, that's right.
00:10:43.240 | I'm remembering it a little wrong, I think.
00:10:45.040 | But there's an exclamation after you are proud, right?
00:10:48.380 | Okay, so that's what I'm remembering, all right.
00:10:52.400 | So, the point I was trying to make was,
00:10:55.640 | Apostle Paul might be very well more upset at the fact
00:11:00.320 | not so much that there is sin,
00:11:03.200 | but that the people are arrogant about it, okay?
00:11:06.320 | Not so much that there's sin,
00:11:07.800 | but the way that they respond to the sin is arrogant.
00:11:11.840 | And in the NIV, it kind of captures
00:11:13.860 | what the Greek is trying to show.
00:11:15.440 | And I'm not saying, again, you guys have to be like
00:11:17.360 | masters at Greek or whatever,
00:11:18.320 | but sometimes comparing the translation just helps us.
00:11:20.880 | Is there any kind of difference
00:11:22.100 | or things that we should note?
00:11:23.520 | And he is like saying, you're so proud, you know?
00:11:27.680 | You're so arrogant.
00:11:29.360 | And there's an exclamation at that.
00:11:31.480 | Now, my question to you is,
00:11:33.180 | what is Apostle Paul identifying as pride in this scenario?
00:11:38.280 | Okay?
00:11:39.120 | Take a look at the verses surrounding it.
00:11:41.040 | Take a look at verse one and two again.
00:11:43.280 | What are some hints, what are some things
00:11:45.140 | that could perhaps shed some light for us
00:11:48.080 | as to what is he calling arrogant in this scenario?
00:11:53.080 | (pages rustling)
00:11:55.840 | Yes?
00:12:02.640 | - Is it like their response to that sin?
00:12:04.240 | - Good.
00:12:05.240 | It's their response to the sin.
00:12:06.840 | Now, my question to you is,
00:12:09.080 | can you put into more detail, how did they respond
00:12:12.980 | that would make them now be called arrogant?
00:12:15.980 | - They didn't do anything.
00:12:18.280 | Just accepted it.
00:12:19.680 | - Interesting.
00:12:21.200 | They didn't do anything and they just accepted it.
00:12:24.440 | Now, is that something you would call arrogant?
00:12:27.340 | What do you think has to happen in the mind and the thought
00:12:33.020 | that all of a sudden, just like,
00:12:35.760 | I'm not gonna do anything about it,
00:12:37.000 | and all of a sudden that's arrogant?
00:12:39.680 | Wouldn't that be just called like apathetic?
00:12:42.760 | Maybe insensitive?
00:12:45.600 | Yes?
00:12:46.440 | - Like the absence of the fear of God is often
00:12:49.520 | a sign of being arrogant.
00:12:51.520 | - Excellent, okay.
00:12:53.380 | That could definitely, did you guys hear that?
00:12:55.000 | She says, when you don't do anything about something,
00:12:59.120 | when the law of God clearly says to do something,
00:13:02.680 | then by that sin of omission,
00:13:05.340 | all of a sudden you've relegated God's law
00:13:08.000 | and you've placed your standard now above his.
00:13:10.920 | 'Cause essentially, you could be telling God like,
00:13:13.240 | God, this is okay, don't have a cow.
00:13:16.120 | And that's something very arrogant.
00:13:18.480 | What else?
00:13:19.960 | - Somebody in our people pointed out that
00:13:23.040 | there's an arrogance in thinking that it won't hurt us,
00:13:26.840 | which fits later with the idea of the leaven
00:13:30.360 | affecting the whole batch of dough.
00:13:32.760 | - Okay.
00:13:33.600 | - So, they think that having a sin in the church
00:13:37.000 | won't hurt them, it won't hurt the church.
00:13:39.520 | And that's arrogant, because it will.
00:13:41.320 | - Right.
00:13:42.520 | Not having a sense of fear of like,
00:13:45.080 | oh, this is dangerous, right?
00:13:47.040 | It's kinda like a kid who just doesn't think
00:13:48.760 | he's gonna ever get hurt, even though he's riding around
00:13:50.640 | with no helmet, no nothing, you know?
00:13:53.160 | He thinks that although this exists in the church,
00:13:55.560 | it's not gonna affect us anyway, so we're fine.
00:13:58.640 | That's arrogant.
00:14:00.320 | Is there anything else, maybe?
00:14:01.840 | - Well, so you read the last verse from chapter four,
00:14:10.680 | in the last, it's kind of like how last week
00:14:12.800 | you were talking about, like in verse 18,
00:14:15.880 | chapter four, it says, "Some are arrogant,
00:14:17.400 | "so I will not curse you, but I will not curse you,
00:14:19.480 | "for I hold it in my heart with fear of Satan.
00:14:22.240 | "If they were aware that he's not there
00:14:24.080 | "to be overseen and watch him and check,
00:14:26.920 | "they claim I do whatever they want,
00:14:28.560 | "so they feel like they know what's best,
00:14:30.360 | "and they feel like they're not standard."
00:14:33.000 | - Okay, good.
00:14:36.120 | Absolutely, there is arrogance in thinking,
00:14:38.360 | no consequences, we're gonna do what we wanna do,
00:14:41.840 | we're gonna let's lie what we wanna let's lie,
00:14:43.720 | because Apostle Paul, or nobody, can say nothing.
00:14:46.400 | Okay, that's arrogant, too.
00:14:49.500 | What about maybe something from this passage,
00:14:52.280 | if you look at verse two, he says,
00:14:54.500 | "You have become arrogant," and then he ties that
00:14:57.400 | by saying, "and have not mourned instead."
00:15:00.120 | Okay?
00:15:02.300 | So, all those things that you guys mentioned,
00:15:05.460 | I appreciate you guys mentioning those things,
00:15:07.500 | because that kind of mentality and thinking
00:15:09.840 | is arrogant before the Lord.
00:15:12.600 | But then, Apostle Paul adds here,
00:15:15.600 | basically, "You have become arrogant,
00:15:18.380 | "and your arrogant thinking caused you not to mourn."
00:15:23.160 | What's mourn?
00:15:24.160 | You, so then, here it is, like progress, right?
00:15:28.460 | You're arrogant, so you didn't mourn,
00:15:30.780 | and so the end result didn't happen,
00:15:32.560 | which is you should have dealt with this and removed him.
00:15:35.080 | Okay?
00:15:36.040 | So what does that kinda imply to us
00:15:39.500 | as what he views as arrogance?
00:15:41.520 | (silence)
00:15:43.680 | Brokenness of sin.
00:15:50.520 | Okay, do you wanna elaborate on that a little bit?
00:15:52.920 | - Sin doesn't really affect that as much,
00:15:56.600 | or doesn't really--
00:15:58.480 | - What kind of sin?
00:15:59.800 | Trying to push you to what I personally want,
00:16:05.040 | but think about this.
00:16:09.800 | Apostle Paul sees them as his children, you know?
00:16:14.560 | And when you see your children,
00:16:19.720 | at least just one of them, okay?
00:16:21.820 | When you see them, even just one of them hurting,
00:16:26.000 | and then one of your kids comes up,
00:16:29.120 | after, let's just say, hypothetical scenario,
00:16:32.560 | you have a bunch of kids, they all playing together,
00:16:36.720 | and with little kids, what always ends up happening
00:16:39.520 | is someone hurts their head, you know?
00:16:42.720 | They're playing around, and then they run into something,
00:16:44.800 | they're playing around, they fall, they hit their head,
00:16:46.680 | and they're hurting bad, and they're crying,
00:16:48.280 | and stuff like that, you know?
00:16:50.200 | You come running in, and you're like, "What happened?"
00:16:52.440 | And it's like, "Well, so and so, you know,
00:16:54.280 | "Johnny hurt his head, he fell on the ground."
00:16:55.760 | It's like, "What'd you do?"
00:16:56.600 | It's like, "Nothing, how could you, nothing?
00:16:58.440 | "It's not my problem."
00:17:00.160 | What do you say to the child who says, "It's not my problem"?
00:17:06.040 | Well done, selfless little man.
00:17:08.920 | He's like, "Ugh," like, you just reek of selfishness, right?
00:17:13.640 | It's like, "Your brother's hurting on the floor,
00:17:16.280 | "he hurt his head, you didn't even call for me, you know?
00:17:19.320 | "You didn't go to see if he's okay,
00:17:20.720 | "you just said, 'It's not my problem.'"
00:17:22.840 | Right?
00:17:24.600 | So really, when you're saying, like,
00:17:26.000 | there's no brokenness over sin, what's really interesting,
00:17:28.240 | it says there's no mourning, but there's no grieving
00:17:32.160 | in the sense that there's no grieving
00:17:34.200 | in that kind of sympathetic, this is our sin kind of way,
00:17:38.400 | you know?
00:17:39.240 | Like, there is no hurting together,
00:17:42.240 | that Apostle Paul so many times has commanded the church,
00:17:44.920 | "I want you to hurt together, I want you to cry together,
00:17:47.340 | "I want you to rejoice together."
00:17:48.880 | Why?
00:17:49.720 | "Because you guys are together."
00:17:51.540 | But when somebody who's supposed to be together
00:17:54.000 | all of a sudden says, "But it ain't my problem,"
00:17:56.680 | it's prideful for a community person
00:17:59.560 | to think individualistically.
00:18:01.960 | Does that make sense?
00:18:03.360 | It's prideful for a brother to think individualistically.
00:18:08.160 | So he says, like, "Ugh, that's gross,
00:18:12.560 | "you slept with your stepmom?
00:18:14.500 | "It's not my problem, I don't want anything to do with you."
00:18:18.360 | That's arrogant, right?
00:18:21.040 | He just judges that person and says, "Ew, you're gross,
00:18:23.600 | "but not my problem."
00:18:25.160 | That's arrogant.
00:18:26.080 | To think in that kind of individualistic way
00:18:30.240 | is arrogance before Apostle Paul and the Lord.
00:18:33.680 | And so what he says is,
00:18:36.720 | and so when you don't have that sympathy,
00:18:39.720 | you're not gonna do anything about it, right?
00:18:43.580 | You're not gonna do anything about it.
00:18:45.140 | When you don't have that personal association
00:18:48.240 | and say, "This is our guilt, this is our sin,
00:18:50.360 | "and we grieve together, we hurt together,"
00:18:53.080 | then you're not gonna do anything about it.
00:18:55.080 | And so what Apostle Paul is essentially saying,
00:18:58.600 | in the A and in his B, he says,
00:19:00.780 | "Oh, this is what I wanted you to read, sorry.
00:19:03.320 | "Can you read verse,"
00:19:04.760 | wait, never mind.
00:19:07.000 | Can you read verse two again?
00:19:09.760 | I feel like I'm totally missing something here.
00:19:12.040 | Can you read verse two one more time?
00:19:13.840 | NIV.
00:19:14.680 | Yeah.
00:19:16.480 | - And you are proud.
00:19:19.280 | Shouldn't you rather have been filled with grief
00:19:21.200 | and sadness out of your fellowship than man to resist?
00:19:24.760 | - Thank you, okay.
00:19:26.440 | So in the A and A and S and B, it reads like,
00:19:29.160 | you became arrogant and you have not mourned
00:19:31.280 | so that the one who did this would be removed.
00:19:35.120 | In the NIV, Apostle Paul is direct and says,
00:19:37.960 | "You're proud, shouldn't you have mourned?"
00:19:41.000 | You see the difference?
00:19:42.760 | Apostle Paul is making an exhortation,
00:19:45.640 | saying, "Shouldn't you have mourned with your brother?"
00:19:48.560 | Okay?
00:19:50.680 | I'll tell you from a personal experience.
00:19:52.180 | I remember in college,
00:19:53.520 | I think I've shared with you guys a lot of times
00:19:55.160 | that I struggled a lot with various things in college.
00:20:00.080 | And I felt like I struggled with all kinds of arrogance
00:20:02.800 | and I felt like I also struggled with immorality.
00:20:06.320 | I felt like I struggled with lack of self-control.
00:20:08.720 | I'm not gonna say who because it could be
00:20:13.040 | potentially embarrassing and whatnot,
00:20:14.440 | but I remember there was a point
00:20:16.480 | where I was just really broken
00:20:17.920 | because in my college years, I felt like,
00:20:21.020 | oh, so frustrated with myself.
00:20:23.440 | I kept sinning over the same thing
00:20:25.120 | again and again and again.
00:20:27.160 | And every small group time we had, week to week,
00:20:29.280 | it was like the same old story.
00:20:31.160 | And I felt guilty, ashamed, and embarrassed
00:20:34.120 | that I had to say the same prayer request
00:20:35.920 | again and again and again.
00:20:37.840 | And so at one point or another,
00:20:39.000 | I pulled aside this brother
00:20:40.720 | and I just made one of those really awkward moments
00:20:44.440 | where I just started crying.
00:20:46.440 | And I just started crying and I said,
00:20:48.440 | it sucks that I just can't win.
00:20:51.580 | It sucks that this sin is beating me up every week.
00:20:56.600 | And this brother looked at me
00:20:59.880 | and all of a sudden, he just cried with me.
00:21:02.140 | He just started crying with me.
00:21:05.640 | And I remember crying together
00:21:07.980 | and after that, feeling so motivated.
00:21:10.120 | It hurts to wrestle with sin to this degree,
00:21:16.240 | but feeling his sympathy made me all the more motivated.
00:21:20.880 | I'm gonna keep persevering.
00:21:24.240 | I wanna, in this moment,
00:21:27.200 | just think about that for a moment and move on.
00:21:30.160 | Apostle Paul is not simply saying,
00:21:35.160 | hey, you were supposed to get rid of this guy, what's up?
00:21:39.720 | 'Cause that's not exactly what he was upset about.
00:21:42.560 | His first statement in saying to,
00:21:44.520 | addressing the church wasn't, he should've been gone.
00:21:48.080 | Right?
00:21:49.560 | Essentially, his exhortation to them is,
00:21:53.400 | how could your heart be so selfish
00:21:55.280 | that you didn't care to mourn with this brother?
00:21:58.600 | Right?
00:22:00.900 | Like, he is addressing the issue of the heart.
00:22:03.800 | How could you be so careless?
00:22:06.200 | Yeah?
00:22:07.300 | Let's move to the next verses.
00:22:09.600 | Okay, let's move to the next verses.
00:22:11.400 | And what I'd like you to do really quickly,
00:22:16.760 | oh, you know what, I didn't give you the section heading.
00:22:21.260 | Well, I actually wanted you guys to do that on your own.
00:22:23.960 | Okay, so take a moment, summarize verse one and two.
00:22:28.280 | What is Apostle Paul doing there?
00:22:30.520 | And just give it a little title, okay?
00:22:32.840 | And then after you're done with that,
00:22:34.240 | go to verse three and four.
00:22:35.960 | And what you're gonna do is, this sentence,
00:22:39.860 | it's like actually one big, long, run-on sentence,
00:22:44.480 | is complicated because it has many dependent clauses
00:22:47.600 | attached to independent clauses.
00:22:49.920 | What I'd like you to do is just circle
00:22:52.220 | the main independent clauses that you see in English, okay?
00:22:56.900 | Just so that you get what's the gist,
00:22:59.100 | what's the main point.
00:23:00.940 | And then you're gonna see that when you do that,
00:23:02.860 | you'll notice how the dependent clauses
00:23:05.700 | attach to the main one, okay?
00:23:08.080 | How many of you guys don't know the difference
00:23:10.580 | between independent and dependent clauses?
00:23:12.340 | (laughs)
00:23:14.420 | I just started seeing people smirking, like,
00:23:19.580 | "Hey, I'm just gonna circle something."
00:23:21.480 | (laughs)
00:23:23.560 | - That was a PSL.
00:23:24.580 | (laughs)
00:23:26.660 | - Eric, I'll give you a bye on this.
00:23:29.500 | Someone lean over and help him.
00:23:30.900 | (laughs)
00:23:32.540 | All right, so,
00:23:34.740 | it's just exactly what it sounds like.
00:23:38.580 | Dependent clauses cannot stand on its own,
00:23:40.860 | otherwise, grammatically, it'll sound very awkward.
00:23:44.140 | After going to the mall, period,
00:23:46.340 | that's a dependent clause.
00:23:47.940 | It cannot stand on its own.
00:23:49.700 | An independent clause has both subject and predicate,
00:23:53.740 | and it can stand on its own, okay?
00:23:56.340 | A dependent--
00:23:57.180 | (laughs)
00:23:59.260 | It's like, it's, no, it's easy, just do it.
00:24:03.220 | (laughs)
00:24:04.420 | All right.
00:24:05.420 | (laughs)
00:24:07.500 | (clippers buzzing)
00:24:10.420 | (clippers buzzing)
00:24:13.340 | (clippers buzzing)
00:24:16.260 | (clippers buzzing)
00:24:19.180 | (clippers buzzing)
00:24:22.100 | (clippers buzzing)
00:24:25.020 | (clippers buzzing)
00:24:27.940 | (clippers buzzing)
00:24:30.860 | (clippers buzzing)
00:24:33.780 | (clippers buzzing)
00:25:01.740 | So again, it's verse three and four together,
00:25:04.580 | sorry, verse three to five together
00:25:07.180 | is actually kinda one section,
00:25:09.460 | indicated in your Bibles by, again,
00:25:13.540 | the numbers, when they're bolded in your Bibles,
00:25:16.380 | show you paragraph markers, okay?
00:25:19.020 | So that's one section together,
00:25:20.860 | and it is a little complicated
00:25:24.140 | because it's like a big run-on sentence
00:25:26.300 | with lots of little dependent clauses.
00:25:28.680 | I'll tell you a funny story while you guys do that.
00:25:31.340 | So when I started seminary back in 2006,
00:25:34.660 | I had a roommate who I believed to be a genius.
00:25:37.020 | He was one of those guys who could read a book in an hour.
00:25:39.260 | He's actually a, he has a doctorate in Greek
00:25:43.100 | and he's teaching on the East Coast right now.
00:25:45.140 | But when we started seminary,
00:25:46.380 | we had to take a grammar exam
00:25:48.340 | because we work with languages so much, right?
00:25:50.820 | I was so scared, I was like, oh my God,
00:25:52.900 | his name is Sean, I was like, Sean, I'm totally a fob.
00:25:55.660 | Like, you know, I was born in Korea, my English sucks,
00:25:59.700 | like I don't even read a lot, I don't write a lot and stuff,
00:26:01.780 | so I was like sweating and I studied so hard.
00:26:03.660 | He's like, don't worry about it, be easy.
00:26:05.700 | He failed. (laughs)
00:26:07.380 | And I passed.
00:26:08.820 | And I went, blah!
00:26:09.660 | Anyway, it was pretty funny.
00:26:12.540 | Everybody kinda, you know,
00:26:15.140 | grammar's like nobody's best thing, best subject, so.
00:26:19.140 | Anyway, did you guys get the main clause?
00:26:21.380 | What'd you guys get as the main clause?
00:26:23.380 | How about somebody from the guys table
00:26:28.260 | right in front of me, right here?
00:26:30.540 | By the way, we have some--
00:26:31.980 | (audience member speaks off mic)
00:26:35.900 | - For I have already judged him.
00:26:38.940 | - Okay, so in verse five, I have, wait, what?
00:26:43.260 | Oh, verse three.
00:26:44.100 | - For I have already judged him.
00:26:46.140 | - Good, for I have already judged him.
00:26:48.620 | Good, that's one little segment right there.
00:26:50.860 | What's the other one?
00:26:52.660 | - I have decided to deliver such a way.
00:26:55.300 | - Great.
00:26:56.780 | I have decided to deliver such a one to Satan, okay?
00:27:00.140 | So, if you were to simplify this,
00:27:05.140 | you would kinda put it together by saying,
00:27:08.420 | Apostle Paul says to them in the first section,
00:27:12.060 | this is what you guys are doing.
00:27:13.380 | You're allowing sin and immorality to exist among you,
00:27:15.980 | and you are arrogant, why?
00:27:17.540 | 'Cause for I, I have already judged him, right?
00:27:20.380 | That's essentially what he's saying.
00:27:24.460 | Now, as he's saying that, though,
00:27:27.580 | we have to now ask the question, but what does that mean?
00:27:30.500 | There are several interpretive ways
00:27:34.420 | that you can go about this, but in your own words,
00:27:37.580 | what do you think he means by what he,
00:27:40.460 | so the first question I have for you is,
00:27:42.980 | what is he saying that he has already done?
00:27:46.180 | Okay?
00:27:47.020 | Yes?
00:28:00.860 | - I think he has already identified that what that action
00:28:05.620 | is is sinful, so he cannot follow that church's principles.
00:28:10.620 | He has already addressed it as that.
00:28:14.020 | - Great, okay, good.
00:28:16.420 | So did you guys hear him?
00:28:17.260 | He's like, although I'm not there,
00:28:19.140 | I have already spiritually assessed
00:28:20.740 | what that person has done, right?
00:28:23.220 | So he's given a verdict about the whole situation.
00:28:25.840 | Now, looking at all the little dependent clauses
00:28:29.320 | around that, well, how would you summarize
00:28:32.020 | all those dependent clauses?
00:28:33.300 | What is he saying?
00:28:34.180 | , Yes?
00:28:39.180 | - He's one with them, even though he's not there
00:28:55.580 | and is acting in the power of Jesus
00:29:01.820 | for everyone's good.
00:29:05.260 | - Okay, great.
00:29:06.820 | He's acting in the power of Jesus for everyone's good.
00:29:10.620 | Although I'm not there, this is what I'm doing, okay?
00:29:15.060 | All right, so as I thought about,
00:29:19.300 | what is Apostle Paul saying?
00:29:21.460 | What is Apostle Paul saying?
00:29:22.980 | He's kind of, you know, when you want to convince somebody
00:29:28.940 | they need to do something, you know,
00:29:31.140 | you can use a lot of different argumentation
00:29:34.340 | as to why they need to do it.
00:29:36.140 | Apostle Paul is stacking up the reasons
00:29:38.220 | why they need to do it, essentially, right?
00:29:40.940 | And in so doing, he's saying, you need to do this
00:29:44.220 | because this is in the authority of Christ, right?
00:29:48.900 | You need to do this because this is
00:29:50.420 | in the authority of Christ.
00:29:52.460 | So as he's talking about this scenario,
00:29:54.980 | here's a guy doing some heinous act
00:29:57.540 | and they haven't done anything about it yet.
00:29:59.460 | He's saying, you have to do something about it
00:30:01.780 | and you have to do this because it's
00:30:03.020 | in the authority of Christ, okay?
00:30:06.580 | So he's adding that authority to the exhortation
00:30:09.460 | that they need to remove such an individual.
00:30:11.900 | Now, as we continue thinking about this,
00:30:16.440 | you know, that's, question number two,
00:30:22.100 | why would he talk about his spirit being with them?
00:30:24.580 | That's what I'm saying is,
00:30:26.500 | he's talking about his spirit being with them
00:30:28.620 | because it adds that element of weight,
00:30:31.840 | of authority of Christ, giving both the foundation
00:30:36.100 | and the motive behind taking such an action, okay?
00:30:40.100 | And you gotta realize that the action is difficult.
00:30:43.140 | Apostle Paul says that he's delivered such a one
00:30:46.780 | to Satan for the destruction of his flesh.
00:30:49.780 | And as he's saying that, he is far, okay?
00:30:53.820 | He is far.
00:30:55.620 | So, you can think that as he is saying,
00:30:59.140 | I am sending one out to Satan
00:31:01.340 | for the destruction of his flesh,
00:31:03.020 | he is desiring that the church execute that plan and idea.
00:31:06.980 | Okay?
00:31:08.180 | Now, for your, because there's sometimes
00:31:11.060 | so many questions about that verse,
00:31:12.560 | like what does it mean?
00:31:14.300 | I wanted to note that there are several meanings
00:31:18.020 | that some people have concluded to.
00:31:20.540 | There are commentators who would say,
00:31:23.020 | one, Apostle Paul literally wants to cast him out
00:31:26.540 | so that he would die, like literally die.
00:31:29.540 | Because this isn't so far removed
00:31:31.940 | from other scenarios where Apostle Paul said,
00:31:35.140 | for example even, even within this book
00:31:37.820 | when Apostle Paul starts talking about the communion
00:31:40.220 | in chapter 11, you do realize Apostle Paul warns him,
00:31:43.220 | saying because people don't take the communion seriously
00:31:46.380 | and in a holy manner, they're gonna die, okay?
00:31:50.180 | The other thing, they think all he's doing
00:31:53.020 | is sending him out into Satan's sphere of influence.
00:31:56.500 | He's gonna be no longer protected
00:31:57.980 | in the boundaries of the church,
00:32:00.460 | but he's going to send him out into the, you know,
00:32:03.780 | into the arena or kingdom of Satan, so to speak.
00:32:07.620 | And the other one is to say that
00:32:10.140 | Apostle Paul is saying literally
00:32:11.780 | he wants that person to physically suffer, why?
00:32:14.540 | Because if that person doesn't have the community,
00:32:17.860 | he's bound to suffer, okay?
00:32:21.100 | Will the other people, the pagans outside,
00:32:24.380 | will they receive him well?
00:32:25.420 | Somebody who is even rejected by the Christians?
00:32:28.920 | Christians weren't so popular back then.
00:32:30.580 | They were like, oh wow, Christians, you know?
00:32:32.820 | And so a lot of people are saying
00:32:35.380 | Apostle Paul wants this person to feel physical,
00:32:39.020 | literal discomfort and suffering, okay?
00:32:43.500 | Now, for me, obviously, I don't,
00:32:48.500 | from the passage, I don't think that
00:32:52.620 | he is talking about literal death here.
00:32:54.780 | Although, yes, in the Bible, there are cases
00:32:57.100 | of literal death, why?
00:32:59.580 | Because even in the context in verse 11,
00:33:01.780 | it doesn't sound like the guy is gonna die, right?
00:33:06.780 | But if somebody is cast out, that individual
00:33:09.320 | is just simply going to be cut off
00:33:11.460 | from the brotherhood of Christ.
00:33:13.820 | 'Cause in verse 11, he says,
00:33:15.180 | don't associate with such a one.
00:33:16.920 | Don't have fellowship with such a one, right?
00:33:21.280 | He's not talking about somebody
00:33:23.740 | who's going to literally die.
00:33:25.940 | And so what's more, in this passage,
00:33:30.480 | in that specific verse, in verse five,
00:33:33.820 | he says he's going to deliver such a one
00:33:35.740 | to Satan for the destruction of his flesh.
00:33:38.780 | The NIV passage, the translation,
00:33:41.700 | does some of the interpretive work for us
00:33:43.980 | and interprets it for the destruction of sinful nature.
00:33:47.860 | And so in doing that, basically, NIV is taking
00:33:52.140 | a position saying we're talking about
00:33:53.740 | something spiritual here.
00:33:55.340 | We're not talking about the Apostle Paul
00:33:57.100 | wants that person to physically go hungry
00:33:59.060 | because he doesn't have the Christian community.
00:34:01.020 | He's gonna be lonely, he's gonna be persecuted
00:34:03.180 | by the pagans.
00:34:04.740 | No, he's talking about something spiritual, right?
00:34:07.740 | And so I definitely, for me, I take the position
00:34:10.020 | to saying Apostle Paul, he is saying
00:34:12.300 | what we kind of naturally would think about this passage.
00:34:15.580 | If Apostle Paul is saying you need to mourn
00:34:17.740 | over this man's sin, remove him from your midst,
00:34:20.700 | he is doing that call of Christ to say
00:34:22.820 | take him out of your community
00:34:25.020 | and no longer treat him like a Christian.
00:34:27.860 | But consider him someone still bound
00:34:30.380 | underneath the reign of Satan.
00:34:32.340 | Okay?
00:34:34.360 | Question.
00:34:36.580 | - What does it mean by that his spirit
00:34:39.780 | may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus?
00:34:42.100 | Is that Jesus is a creator of the world?
00:34:45.020 | - Right.
00:34:45.940 | So Eugene asked, what does it mean though
00:34:49.140 | like that his spirit may be saved in the day?
00:34:51.940 | Why does it have this forward-looking aspect to it?
00:34:55.460 | I think it's because Apostle Paul,
00:34:57.300 | he says what he can say and then he sometimes
00:35:00.300 | prevents himself from saying what he cannot say.
00:35:03.980 | He's gonna send this guy out like a pagan.
00:35:06.300 | This guy is not a Christian.
00:35:08.060 | He don't have a spirit within him, right?
00:35:10.180 | But there's a sense in which could God,
00:35:13.000 | could God use this means of excommunication
00:35:18.000 | to eventually restore his soul and save him?
00:35:20.620 | He could.
00:35:21.940 | Not only that, but we could ask the question
00:35:24.660 | what is the goal of the excommunication here?
00:35:27.000 | From that little phrase that Eugene
00:35:30.260 | just kind of highlighted now,
00:35:32.100 | what do you think would be then
00:35:33.100 | the goal of excommunication?
00:35:35.300 | - Restoration.
00:35:36.340 | - Restoration.
00:35:37.780 | You guys should write that in.
00:35:39.680 | That there's a sense in which even in the casting out
00:35:42.340 | of the pagan, like the sinning individual,
00:35:44.660 | this guy who is sinning like heinously
00:35:47.540 | against his father and mother and the church,
00:35:50.260 | the goal is still redemptive.
00:35:52.380 | The goal is still redemptive.
00:35:54.740 | But I wanna read you a passage
00:35:56.580 | in 1 Timothy chapter one, verse 19 through 20, okay?
00:36:01.740 | 1 Timothy chapter one, verse 19 through 20.
00:36:03.900 | I believe I have it in your packets.
00:36:08.900 | And this is another passage of Apostle Paul,
00:36:11.700 | again a church letter to Timothy.
00:36:13.940 | He says, "Keeping faith in a good conscience,
00:36:15.900 | "which some have rejected and suffered shipwreck
00:36:20.260 | "in regard to their faith.
00:36:21.980 | "Among these are Himenaeus and Alexander,
00:36:24.540 | "whom I have handed over to Satan
00:36:27.360 | "so that they will be taught not to blaspheme."
00:36:31.780 | Okay, they will be taught not to blaspheme.
00:36:34.140 | "I just finished asking you what is the goal
00:36:36.540 | "of excommunication, and we said redemption.
00:36:40.160 | "From that passage in 1 Timothy,
00:36:41.800 | "what is the goal of excommunication?"
00:36:43.940 | Sorry?
00:36:52.060 | From the 1 Timothy passage.
00:36:56.340 | - Yeah, being taught not to blaspheme
00:36:59.780 | is there a lesson, hopefully we're learning that lesson.
00:37:02.980 | - Right, right, right.
00:37:06.100 | So, in looking at both, absolutely.
00:37:11.100 | There's a side of redemption, restoration.
00:37:14.820 | But one of the things I want us to write down is both.
00:37:18.740 | One is redemptive, but excommunication has to have
00:37:23.420 | its effect of the destruction of that sinful habit.
00:37:29.060 | Okay?
00:37:30.580 | Excommunication has to have its effect
00:37:33.180 | of stopping the sin that's existent
00:37:35.860 | in the life of the individual in the church.
00:37:38.060 | Okay?
00:37:40.940 | And so to the degree, I wanna read to you guys
00:37:45.940 | some passages in the Old Testament,
00:37:47.700 | because in this section, it has an Old Testament flavor.
00:37:50.860 | Later on, Apostle Paul is actually going to quote
00:37:52.900 | a passage from the Old Testament.
00:37:55.500 | But I wanna read to you a passage in Numbers chapter 15.
00:37:59.220 | You don't have to turn there just for the sake of time.
00:38:01.860 | I'm just gonna read it for us.
00:38:02.780 | It says, "While the Israelites were in the desert,
00:38:05.460 | "a man was found gathering on the Sabbath day."
00:38:09.580 | Now, God has given commands not to work on the Sabbath day,
00:38:12.900 | 'cause the Sabbath day is to be meant holy.
00:38:15.220 | In verse 33, it says, "Those who found him gathering wood
00:38:18.580 | "brought him to Moses and Aaron and the whole assembly."
00:38:22.100 | So this guy gathers wood, and then he gets caught,
00:38:25.780 | and he gets brought before the whole congregation,
00:38:28.900 | the leaders and the whole assembly.
00:38:30.780 | "And they kept him in custody,
00:38:32.220 | "because it was not clear what should be done.
00:38:34.440 | "Then the Lord said to Moses, 'The man must die.
00:38:38.460 | "'The whole assembly must stone him outside the camp.'
00:38:41.180 | "So the assembly took him outside the camp,
00:38:43.680 | "and the assembly stoned him to death
00:38:45.600 | "as the Lord commanded Moses."
00:38:47.640 | That's one of these crazy stories in the Bible
00:38:50.820 | where if you don't understand what's happening,
00:38:53.500 | it's like, what the, the guy was carrying wood.
00:38:57.160 | Not only that, but if the whole assembly gathered together,
00:39:01.860 | you're talking about not just like 10 people,
00:39:04.740 | but this one guy, he must have then had what?
00:39:07.740 | The whole tribes of Israel come together
00:39:09.700 | and stoned the man outside.
00:39:11.220 | Now, I tell you the story because back then,
00:39:17.140 | we know that sin was taken seriously.
00:39:20.060 | And when sin was taken seriously,
00:39:22.500 | God made sure that the whole congregation knew it was serious
00:39:26.700 | by making sure that not only just the leaders,
00:39:29.460 | but the whole assembly was involved in the execution.
00:39:32.100 | Okay?
00:39:33.980 | There are more passages,
00:39:34.980 | just jot these down for your reference for later.
00:39:36.940 | Numbers 35, verse 24 and on.
00:39:40.380 | Basically, there's a case of homicide, but it's accidental.
00:39:44.260 | And then Moses essentially instructs the people.
00:39:48.100 | Again, there is this community aspect
00:39:50.540 | where the assembly has to get together
00:39:52.500 | and carry out the punishment.
00:39:54.540 | In Leviticus chapter 24, verse 13 through 16,
00:39:57.780 | another case where the assembly is gathered together
00:40:01.300 | and the assembly executes a man
00:40:04.140 | for blasphemy against the Lord.
00:40:05.840 | Why do I talk about this?
00:40:09.740 | It's because we realize one of the implied aspects
00:40:16.100 | of biblical truth that we see here
00:40:18.340 | is that there is a community that needs to be kept in mind
00:40:22.360 | in the whole process of discipline and purity, right?
00:40:27.200 | That this is not the act of Apostle Paul.
00:40:30.340 | This isn't the expectation of just the leaders.
00:40:33.980 | But Apostle Paul says, "When you gather together," okay?
00:40:38.300 | Apostle Paul tells them that when they gather together,
00:40:40.980 | this is when they are to carry this out.
00:40:43.620 | And so that needs to be kept in mind, okay?
00:40:48.420 | Now, in consideration of the community,
00:40:51.580 | we talk about the next section.
00:40:53.340 | Let's read verse six through eight.
00:40:55.660 | He says, "Your boasting is not good.
00:40:58.980 | "Do you not know that a little leaven
00:41:00.660 | "leavens the whole lump of dough?
00:41:02.820 | "Clean out the old leaven so that you may be a new lump,
00:41:06.160 | "just as you are, in fact, unleavened.
00:41:09.040 | "For Christ, our Passover, also has been sacrificed.
00:41:13.000 | "Therefore, let us celebrate the feast,
00:41:15.540 | "not with old leaven, nor with the leaven
00:41:17.320 | "of malice and wickedness, but with the unleavened bread
00:41:20.300 | "of sincerity and truth."
00:41:23.500 | Okay, sincerity and truth.
00:41:25.680 | So we're on section three, and I ask you this question.
00:41:30.540 | Apostle Paul gives one of these, you know,
00:41:34.020 | metaphorical, parable-like universal principles.
00:41:38.620 | "When there is some leaven, it leavens the whole dough."
00:41:42.780 | Okay, what's the principle, like spiritual principle,
00:41:46.020 | that we're supposed to draw from that?
00:41:47.580 | And it's a pretty obvious one, but just,
00:41:49.340 | let's verbalize it and summarize it in our own way.
00:41:51.940 | (pages rustling)
00:41:54.700 | Anyone?
00:42:15.060 | From verses six through eight, what I just read,
00:42:18.380 | he gives one of these, like, well-known Old Testament
00:42:22.340 | and New Testament teachings, Jesus Christ used it too.
00:42:25.740 | Basically, you know, "When there's leaven,
00:42:29.300 | "it leavens the whole lump, don't you know it?"
00:42:32.360 | So what's the spiritual principle for the church
00:42:34.420 | that they're supposed to understand there?
00:42:36.420 | - A little bit of evil, rough, simple.
00:42:41.140 | - Good.
00:42:42.740 | That, earlier we mentioned how it's arrogant
00:42:47.760 | to think like, "Eh, it's a little bit,
00:42:50.680 | "it's not gonna really affect me."
00:42:52.720 | That's arrogant, right?
00:42:53.820 | To be wise was to realize a little bit of leaven
00:42:58.040 | affects the whole lump, right?
00:43:01.000 | To be biblical, to be God-fearing, to be humble
00:43:05.460 | would be to realize this principle that sin,
00:43:09.540 | there's a sense in which in no way is it ever small.
00:43:12.140 | That sin, by nature of what it is, in no way is it ever,
00:43:17.580 | just a little bit, okay?
00:43:20.280 | That's the kind of principle they're supposed to learn.
00:43:22.700 | And we're supposed to learn that this, the leaven,
00:43:26.540 | and do you guys know what leaven is?
00:43:28.500 | Or the yeast and all that stuff?
00:43:31.220 | I didn't know what that is, so I looked it up on Google.
00:43:33.780 | It's actually a fungus, okay?
00:43:40.180 | And just like, you know, lately, like, yogurt's really big,
00:43:44.280 | and the culture and bacteria,
00:43:46.460 | and how it mixes the thing and all that kind of stuff.
00:43:49.420 | Likewise, yeast is just fungus used to ferment the dough.
00:43:55.540 | And in so doing, it causes the dough to rise.
00:43:58.700 | The yeast is also used in a lot of different scenarios
00:44:01.140 | where the yeast is used for, let's say, brewing alcohol,
00:44:04.020 | alcoholic drinks and stuff, and all that kind of stuff.
00:44:08.900 | But the whole picture you're supposed to get is,
00:44:12.020 | like, when you have that, let's say, dough,
00:44:14.460 | or when you have, like, the brew,
00:44:16.420 | the yeast doesn't just, like, stay in its little culture,
00:44:20.020 | and then it just kind of floats around in there.
00:44:22.540 | It affects the whole thing, right?
00:44:24.740 | It permeates.
00:44:26.340 | And so the whole picture you're supposed to get is,
00:44:28.860 | there's a sense in which we're supposed to look
00:44:30.580 | at the church as a collective whole.
00:44:32.500 | And sin within the church is not just sin
00:44:35.060 | in one individual.
00:44:36.940 | It permeates.
00:44:38.060 | That's the kind of lesson we're supposed to learn, right?
00:44:42.460 | And so there's a sense in which, many times in the Bible,
00:44:46.380 | the implications of that are taught.
00:44:48.340 | So if there is sin in you, then there is sin in y'all.
00:44:54.060 | And if one individual is culpable, y'all are culpable.
00:44:58.140 | And so many times in the Bible, failure to deal with sin
00:45:00.620 | in an individual's life meant the incurring
00:45:03.580 | of God's displeasure upon the whole community.
00:45:06.740 | And I talk about this a lot in BCC.
00:45:11.140 | And the story, to me, is always profound and kind of crazy,
00:45:14.100 | is Joshua chapter seven.
00:45:16.700 | In Joshua chapter seven, it tells of the story
00:45:20.620 | of the sin of Achan.
00:45:22.220 | There was a ban, okay?
00:45:24.020 | Joshua, you know, you imagine him as the conquering guy
00:45:27.060 | after Moses, he's entering into the land of Canaan,
00:45:29.140 | defeating all these enemies and foes.
00:45:31.060 | But then God makes a clear command,
00:45:32.540 | "I don't want you taking any of the spoil,
00:45:34.860 | the plundering of the pagans, and taking all their riches.
00:45:40.420 | 'Cause you have to realize that God is the one
00:45:43.300 | enriching you, not the pagans, right?
00:45:46.140 | And in so doing, God says, "There's a ban.
00:45:49.980 | "I don't want you touching any of that,
00:45:51.140 | "because I want you both to understand
00:45:52.860 | "that I'm the one blessing you,
00:45:53.820 | "and secondly, I want you to be pure,
00:45:56.000 | "because much of the whole pagan land's wealth
00:45:59.100 | "is all idolatrous."
00:46:00.580 | But what happens?
00:46:03.400 | I mean, dang, these little idols, they're nothing.
00:46:06.260 | But they're made of gold.
00:46:07.740 | They're made of precious jewels.
00:46:09.300 | They're beautiful, they're handcrafted,
00:46:11.380 | they're rare, they're precious.
00:46:13.780 | So Achan takes something.
00:46:15.660 | But what's crazy about the whole scene is,
00:46:17.460 | God in the morning says, "Moses, bring out everybody."
00:46:21.700 | So everybody, not just one tribe,
00:46:23.940 | but like every tribe has to get together.
00:46:26.220 | And then God says, "Moses, bring out that one tribe."
00:46:28.260 | And so that one tribe comes out.
00:46:30.060 | And then in front of everybody, God says,
00:46:31.440 | "Bring out that one family."
00:46:32.540 | And the whole family comes out.
00:46:34.580 | And the next thing you know, you think,
00:46:35.940 | and bring out Achan, but he ends up
00:46:38.640 | judging the whole thing.
00:46:39.900 | And then you kind of realize, like, dude.
00:46:43.220 | And then his immediate family, they get judged to death.
00:46:46.940 | And you're just like, dude.
00:46:48.300 | And you just realize, God is not seeing us
00:46:52.260 | as like distinct individuals, so to speak.
00:46:55.180 | Although God loves us individually,
00:46:56.780 | and he knows us individually, he cares for us individually,
00:46:59.780 | he knows everything about us,
00:47:01.140 | everything that's unique about us, right?
00:47:03.860 | But you just realize that God sees us
00:47:05.860 | as a heavenly father, as a family.
00:47:08.680 | As a community.
00:47:10.400 | And we, I think, in our individualistic American culture,
00:47:13.840 | need to just scrap that
00:47:15.760 | and adopt the way the Bible views us.
00:47:18.020 | So, the failure to deal with serious sin in our members
00:47:24.560 | is a major failure to deal with sin
00:47:30.960 | in our collective whole, okay?
00:47:33.640 | Just think about that for a moment,
00:47:36.000 | that so far, just in the first couple chapters
00:47:38.220 | of 1 Corinthians, we had the analogy of the body,
00:47:42.140 | the building and the temple,
00:47:43.340 | now we have the analogy of the dough,
00:47:45.140 | and the lump of dough, you know, the bread.
00:47:48.380 | And all that is like kind of Apostle Paul teaching,
00:47:50.620 | like, you guys are one.
00:47:52.620 | And this is your identity, you know what I mean?
00:47:55.820 | And so again, he's giving a perspective,
00:47:57.900 | he's giving the right perspective
00:47:59.260 | on how we're supposed to think about sin in our membership.
00:48:04.260 | Now, you guys can give another section title to this one.
00:48:09.260 | If you want the first couple ones,
00:48:14.160 | I just, you know, wanted to show you
00:48:16.560 | that there's a flow of Apostle Paul's reasoning and thought.
00:48:20.440 | And in the beginning, I just labeled that
00:48:22.080 | as identifying their errors, okay?
00:48:25.240 | And then in the second, I just said this was,
00:48:31.380 | what did I title it as?
00:48:34.520 | My notes.
00:48:35.360 | Oh, I put Paul's authoritative support, okay?
00:48:43.680 | And number three, I labeled this as,
00:48:46.640 | why do you need to do this, okay?
00:48:49.840 | Why do you need to do this?
00:48:51.600 | Why do we need to take the hard road
00:48:56.240 | of like excommunicating somebody?
00:48:57.840 | That's so harsh, it's so difficult.
00:49:00.560 | Just correcting somebody is hard, you know?
00:49:03.820 | Sometimes, you know, when you talk to people
00:49:08.060 | in a casual setting and sometimes
00:49:09.580 | they like kind of mispronounce your name
00:49:11.300 | or they kind of forget which school you went to,
00:49:13.900 | sometimes you're kind of like,
00:49:14.740 | eh, is it worth correcting them?
00:49:15.980 | And you're just kind of, eh, whatever, you know?
00:49:18.300 | Correcting somebody even in a casual setting is hard.
00:49:20.900 | Going through the process of excommunicating somebody,
00:49:23.660 | why do that?
00:49:24.900 | 'Cause he's teaching us.
00:49:26.820 | A little bit of yeast, a little bit of leaven,
00:49:28.540 | leavens the entire dough.
00:49:30.140 | Ruins the whole batch, right?
00:49:32.740 | I want us to think about what he's saying
00:49:35.800 | and specifically also think about
00:49:37.520 | the seriousness of sexual immorality.
00:49:39.680 | If you notice, in the next couple passages,
00:49:45.800 | let's take a look at section four,
00:49:48.240 | or the next section, in verses nine through 13.
00:49:51.300 | It says here, I wrote you in my letter
00:49:55.280 | not to associate with immoral people.
00:49:58.240 | I did not at all mean with the immoral people of this world
00:50:01.680 | or of the covetous and swindlers and idolaters,
00:50:03.860 | for then you would have to go out of the world.
00:50:06.380 | But actually I wrote to you not to associate
00:50:09.340 | with any so-called brother if he is an immoral person
00:50:13.920 | or covetous, idolater, reviler, drunkard, or swindler,
00:50:17.720 | not even to eat with such a one, okay?
00:50:21.520 | I'm gonna read the next verses a little bit in a moment,
00:50:24.340 | but I want us to take a moment in this occasion
00:50:27.040 | as we're talking about sexual immorality
00:50:29.040 | to think about sexual immorality.
00:50:31.300 | Apostle Paul, in his perspective about sexual immorality,
00:50:36.000 | in this portion, he is classifying sexual immorality
00:50:41.000 | as just as wicked and vile as the idolaters,
00:50:46.640 | revilers, drunkards, and swindlers, isn't he?
00:50:49.040 | Not only that, take a look at verse eight.
00:50:54.000 | In verse eight he says,
00:50:55.040 | therefore let us celebrate this feast not with old leaven,
00:50:59.560 | nor with the leaven of malice, wickedness,
00:51:03.240 | but with the unleavened bread of sincerity and truth.
00:51:06.240 | So how would Apostle Paul, in challenging this specific sin,
00:51:10.920 | see the sin of sexual immorality?
00:51:13.360 | He would think it as same as malice and wickedness.
00:51:17.400 | He would see it as same as insincerity and falsehood.
00:51:21.940 | You see my point?
00:51:23.680 | Now the reason why I wanna talk about this a little bit
00:51:26.200 | is because we have definitely become a culture
00:51:29.200 | that has desensitized sexual sin,
00:51:32.380 | diminished the weight of sexual sin.
00:51:34.900 | Now, the specific case that we're looking at
00:51:39.200 | in this chapter is incest.
00:51:41.220 | But, but, although as kind of like vile
00:51:48.120 | and disgusting that is in our eyes,
00:51:51.600 | sexual immorality is sexual immorality.
00:51:54.360 | And in an age and culture where sexual,
00:51:56.880 | like physical intimacy has been so romanticized,
00:52:00.920 | I definitely think that in the way that Christians
00:52:04.880 | and young people think about sexual immorality,
00:52:07.900 | it hasn't equated to biblical standards.
00:52:11.560 | What do I mean by that?
00:52:12.880 | 'Cause I feel like even for me when I was younger,
00:52:15.380 | there's a sense in which
00:52:19.200 | if you crossed boundaries with a girl,
00:52:22.600 | you would call it that.
00:52:23.800 | I crossed boundaries with a girl, I'm sorry.
00:52:26.000 | If you lusted, you would call it
00:52:30.340 | just kind of like I lacked self-control.
00:52:33.240 | If you had a girlfriend or a boyfriend
00:52:35.220 | and you were involved in sexually immoral behavior,
00:52:38.780 | you might think that as like,
00:52:40.280 | oh, that was just being romantic with each other.
00:52:43.000 | You might think that as just being intimate with each other.
00:52:45.900 | You might think that as just building up
00:52:47.640 | your companionship with each other.
00:52:49.440 | But what I'm saying is,
00:52:51.880 | that's not the way Apostle Paul would see it.
00:52:54.560 | You know what I'm getting at?
00:52:56.640 | One of the things that Apostle Paul is doing
00:52:58.480 | in this section is he is trying to address them
00:53:02.740 | and having them think differently about what's happening.
00:53:05.840 | First, think differently about their own attitudes
00:53:08.040 | towards the person, but think differently
00:53:09.920 | about the sin itself as well, right?
00:53:13.440 | Apostle Paul's like, I want you to worship
00:53:16.360 | with sincerity and in truth.
00:53:18.600 | The existence of a sin is complete contrary to that.
00:53:21.900 | So, for us, the question is, are we seeing sin
00:53:28.280 | with the same kind of weight and same perspective
00:53:31.780 | that we need to be?
00:53:32.720 | Do we see sin as truly destructive to me and my church?
00:53:38.640 | Or do I see sin as like, yeah,
00:53:41.520 | but amongst dating people this happens,
00:53:43.180 | or amongst guys this happens, amongst girls this happens,
00:53:45.960 | amongst X, Y, and Z, this just happens.
00:53:48.820 | Right?
00:53:51.240 | We have to challenge our perspective on the sin.
00:53:53.680 | It's not just romance.
00:53:57.200 | It's not just, oh, I felt strongly,
00:53:59.440 | all this kind of stuff is not right.
00:54:02.200 | And I wish that I would, you know,
00:54:04.960 | as a, for me, when I was younger and stuff like that,
00:54:07.320 | I wish I had this kind of conviction,
00:54:08.700 | even at an early age.
00:54:10.560 | I feel like this is the kind of stuff
00:54:11.840 | that we should teach and convict people at an early age
00:54:16.040 | to accurately portray sin the way it ought to be.
00:54:21.040 | Right?
00:54:22.080 | 'Cause our minds are always playing tricks
00:54:23.520 | to diminish it.
00:54:25.080 | Okay.
00:54:26.200 | So, in thinking about that, we have that said.
00:54:29.300 | Now, in verse nine through 13,
00:54:31.180 | in verse 12, he says this question.
00:54:34.280 | For what have I to do with judging outsiders?
00:54:37.480 | Do you not judge those who are within the church?
00:54:41.640 | And I remember asking you this question
00:54:44.600 | as part of your homework and your discussion
00:54:46.600 | at the beginning.
00:54:47.880 | Are we to treat and judge outsiders differently
00:54:52.520 | or equally as insiders?
00:54:54.720 | And why would you say what you say?
00:54:58.280 | What did you guys discuss and say?
00:55:01.920 | (water dripping)
00:55:04.680 | What did you guys discuss?
00:55:19.120 | Let's see.
00:55:19.960 | I'm calling on girls' table.
00:55:21.320 | How about Mel, Christine, Carrie, or Jessica?
00:55:31.000 | What did you guys discuss about,
00:55:32.600 | are we supposed to judge and deal differently
00:55:34.840 | with outsiders versus insiders?
00:55:36.440 | - I would say yes, to the answer.
00:55:42.040 | - Okay, why?
00:55:43.160 | - He said, within the church,
00:55:46.040 | it's, there's an accountability there.
00:55:48.640 | And especially within the world of church,
00:55:50.480 | if you're signing on to the church,
00:55:52.320 | you have to ask for accountability in that sense.
00:55:55.360 | It's more of a, it's more of a discipline.
00:55:57.960 | And the work that's been done within the church
00:56:01.280 | or outside of the church, ultimately,
00:56:03.720 | there's a sense of they don't really know
00:56:07.400 | what the standard is.
00:56:08.920 | So the level of the standard is different
00:56:12.440 | outside of the church.
00:56:14.280 | And ultimately, both groups are accountable to that,
00:56:19.280 | but especially the non-believers,
00:56:22.640 | because in a sense, they don't know what is the standard.
00:56:27.680 | So, like the way that,
00:56:30.080 | I just don't know what judgment,
00:56:34.160 | in regards to factors, should look completely different.
00:56:38.000 | - Right, okay, good.
00:56:39.400 | So she says yes, should look completely different.
00:56:42.960 | Different accountability, different standards,
00:56:44.720 | different resources, everything, right?
00:56:47.600 | Yes?
00:56:48.800 | - This is a question I've been meaning to ask,
00:56:50.480 | it's a follow up from what you just said.
00:56:52.680 | - Okay.
00:56:53.520 | - This whole Supreme Court ruling
00:56:54.960 | that make this applicable.
00:56:56.920 | - Yeah.
00:56:57.760 | - The whole Supreme Court ruling
00:56:58.680 | that seems to discourage,
00:57:00.720 | should Christians, should us Christians be,
00:57:03.000 | how should we respond?
00:57:05.080 | According to this past story.
00:57:09.400 | - Yeah.
00:57:10.240 | - Christians don't know the standard.
00:57:13.160 | - Yeah.
00:57:14.000 | So he just kind of asked,
00:57:16.520 | how should we respond to recent political news?
00:57:20.080 | It was a huge kind of momentous decision.
00:57:24.320 | How should we respond?
00:57:26.720 | Obviously I can't give a thorough answer to that,
00:57:29.720 | but I think definitely,
00:57:33.360 | both parts.
00:57:36.560 | One, I think we all should care a lot.
00:57:40.080 | And actually we should all voice our opinions a lot.
00:57:42.320 | Why?
00:57:43.200 | Because you live here.
00:57:45.120 | Because you have the privilege.
00:57:48.000 | So exercise your privilege.
00:57:49.640 | Thank God we don't live in a country
00:57:52.160 | where the government says, be quiet,
00:57:53.800 | we're gonna do what we do, you can't say anything.
00:57:56.000 | But we live in a country where actually the opinion,
00:57:59.760 | vote, and the perspective of the people matter a lot.
00:58:03.160 | One person asked me,
00:58:05.720 | oh no, but there's separation of church and state,
00:58:08.200 | and you can never cross boundaries and stuff.
00:58:11.160 | And it's like, that's foolish.
00:58:13.360 | Because to tell you honestly,
00:58:14.960 | the vast majority of the laws
00:58:16.880 | are laws that are simply, in my mind,
00:58:21.040 | dependent upon what's enforceable.
00:58:25.440 | Every law is moral, every law is ethical,
00:58:28.440 | and one of the major factors as to why it exists
00:58:31.360 | or doesn't exist is the question of,
00:58:32.840 | is it enforceable or not?
00:58:34.160 | So in either case, so that's one side.
00:58:37.880 | But the other side is, the Bible taught us
00:58:40.720 | we don't wage war against flesh and blood.
00:58:42.820 | Our battle is spiritual.
00:58:46.920 | Our battle is truly a battle of eternal trajectory.
00:58:51.920 | There's a battle for the glory of the Lord.
00:58:55.400 | And so we have to keep those two things in balance.
00:58:59.800 | Where I don't think that,
00:59:01.200 | do I think that you should give up your careers
00:59:05.040 | and go fight this battle
00:59:06.080 | just on the grounds of homosexuality?
00:59:08.520 | No, I think you're wasting your life.
00:59:10.720 | Because again, our battle is spiritual.
00:59:13.220 | That's a brief summary, I think, of what I would say.
00:59:15.880 | But obviously there's so much more to be said about it.
00:59:19.880 | But in line with that,
00:59:23.840 | actually what does matter is I've been reading
00:59:25.600 | a lot of articles about that subject to Christians.
00:59:30.120 | Where some people have written articles and said,
00:59:32.920 | hey Christians,
00:59:33.760 | the world's gonna do what it's gonna do,
00:59:37.760 | but how come you're celebrating this?
00:59:40.520 | Right?
00:59:43.200 | I think that's a legitimate question.
00:59:45.080 | A letter addressing the Christians,
00:59:47.720 | like how come you don't have an opinion?
00:59:50.240 | How come you haven't thought about it?
00:59:51.480 | How come you don't care about it?
00:59:52.620 | Or how come you are on their side?
00:59:55.360 | Right?
00:59:56.360 | 'Cause that's kind of the gist
00:59:57.800 | of what this passage is saying, huh?
01:00:00.080 | It's like, now,
01:00:02.480 | Apostle Paul obviously has taught this church before
01:00:06.640 | and said, you need to be pure.
01:00:09.600 | Your church needs to be holy, you know?
01:00:12.920 | And he has said, don't associate with these pagan people
01:00:16.360 | who drink all the time, who celebrate in pagan ways,
01:00:19.800 | who swindle people, who are covetous
01:00:22.560 | and are adoratrous and all that kind of stuff.
01:00:25.240 | And then he says, let me clarify your responsibility.
01:00:27.680 | So that's the way I titled section four.
01:00:30.360 | Let me clarify your responsibility, okay?
01:00:33.340 | He says, you're responsible for your church.
01:00:37.960 | You're responsible for your brothers and sisters, right?
01:00:41.620 | So there's a sense in which I ask you this question
01:00:46.280 | in the section four, like,
01:00:48.320 | what does he mean by I don't associate
01:00:50.200 | and what's the overall command here?
01:00:53.000 | How would you summarize his overall command?
01:00:55.240 | How about,
01:01:12.800 | I'm gonna call on
01:01:16.640 | Hannah Michelle.
01:01:21.920 | (Hannah laughs)
01:01:24.580 | Okay, don't associate with the so-called brother
01:01:32.960 | who is an immoral person.
01:01:34.280 | Think about that for a moment, okay?
01:01:37.640 | This is truly a challenge.
01:01:42.960 | You know, I'm gonna admit to you guys,
01:01:45.080 | I am not a confrontational person.
01:01:48.520 | I always lean on the side of being patient with people,
01:01:52.200 | giving them time to come around,
01:01:54.520 | understanding their situation, and that's all necessary.
01:01:57.740 | But Apostle Paul is so concerned
01:02:01.360 | with the righteousness and holiness of the church.
01:02:05.380 | He says, if there's an individual
01:02:08.200 | who calls on the name of the Lord
01:02:09.440 | and considers themselves Christian,
01:02:11.800 | then what is he saying?
01:02:15.360 | You need to go to the extent of not associating with them.
01:02:18.720 | Like, whoa, is that not a kind of like a wake-up call for us?
01:02:24.760 | For me, it is.
01:02:26.160 | He says, if a brother, so-called brother,
01:02:30.000 | is sexually immoral, greedy, idolatrous,
01:02:32.040 | slanderous, drunkard, or swindler,
01:02:34.920 | he says, don't associate with that person.
01:02:37.760 | And you guys understand what don't associate
01:02:40.720 | with that person means.
01:02:41.680 | It's like, don't have regular fellowship,
01:02:43.720 | don't just shoot the breeze with that person,
01:02:45.280 | don't have social just like, oh, let's have fun together,
01:02:47.520 | that kind of stuff, right?
01:02:48.880 | But at the tail end of it,
01:02:52.200 | he would even give an extent over in verse 11.
01:02:56.640 | Don't even eat with such a one.
01:02:59.120 | Don't even sit down and do what is so common,
01:03:02.980 | you do three times a day, eat, right?
01:03:06.700 | And so, this is the part where I do wanna talk
01:03:11.400 | a little bit about church discipline,
01:03:12.880 | because this is actually one of the longest segments
01:03:15.480 | in the Bible about church discipline.
01:03:18.160 | Casting someone out, removing them from your fellowship,
01:03:21.400 | okay, this is a passage that has so many implications
01:03:24.000 | about how we practice church.
01:03:25.800 | In order for us to say, hey, leave us,
01:03:28.680 | there has to be a us, and that's part of the reason
01:03:30.880 | why we practice membership, right?
01:03:32.800 | And the way we practice membership,
01:03:34.840 | we have committed here at Berean
01:03:36.760 | that we will do everything that the Lord commands
01:03:39.200 | to the extent that we will cast out somebody
01:03:42.360 | and go all the way to the point of excommunication, right?
01:03:45.940 | Well, in this, he says, what that looks like is,
01:03:51.760 | if you come to a point where you have
01:03:53.360 | to excommunicate somebody, don't even eat with such a one.
01:03:56.800 | There was a time in our church history
01:03:59.640 | where we had to go through this entire process,
01:04:02.720 | for those of you who are new at our church,
01:04:04.680 | we have done this process at our church, you know?
01:04:07.600 | And we had to encourage the church to be strong in this,
01:04:11.160 | to have the right perspective in this,
01:04:12.640 | to have a redemptive, corrective,
01:04:15.360 | transformative agenda with this.
01:04:19.400 | But we also had to challenge people,
01:04:21.480 | but don't take this lightly either.
01:04:23.400 | Don't be like, oh, yeah, the church excommunicated you,
01:04:26.640 | but do you wanna watch a movie on Thursday?
01:04:29.560 | You can't do that.
01:04:31.320 | Why?
01:04:32.160 | Let me read you a passage here in 2 Thessalonians,
01:04:34.840 | chapter three, verse 15.
01:04:36.800 | We hear that some among you are idle.
01:04:38.960 | There are people who are not working,
01:04:40.800 | who are just bumming it.
01:04:43.400 | They are not busy, they are busybodies.
01:04:45.200 | Such people we command and urge in the Lord Jesus Christ
01:04:47.800 | to settle down and earn the bread they eat.
01:04:50.680 | And as for you, brothers, never tire of doing what is right.
01:04:53.740 | If anyone does not obey our instruction in this letter,
01:04:56.920 | take special note of him.
01:04:58.580 | Do not associate with him in order that he may feel ashamed.
01:05:03.040 | Okay, so he says here,
01:05:09.080 | do this practice of not associating with that individual
01:05:12.480 | so that he might feel ashamed.
01:05:15.200 | He has to feel things are not right.
01:05:18.160 | He has to recognize I am not right with God
01:05:22.080 | and I'm not right with God's people.
01:05:24.280 | Does that make sense?
01:05:25.680 | But if a church says, hey, church, congregation,
01:05:29.200 | membership, we're gonna get together,
01:05:31.000 | we've prayed about this, we've talked to the individual,
01:05:32.960 | we've gone through the process,
01:05:34.440 | we're excommunicating this individual,
01:05:36.440 | and members of the church are like,
01:05:37.680 | yeah, that's what the leaders are saying,
01:05:39.080 | but he's my friend and I'm gonna go hang out with him.
01:05:41.760 | We're gonna go play golf.
01:05:43.620 | We're gonna go bowling.
01:05:44.880 | You can't do that because what you're saying is
01:05:49.480 | the spiritual reality that does not matter.
01:05:52.020 | That's what you're saying.
01:05:55.920 | So again, I don't wanna belabor this point
01:05:58.720 | because we're not in the process right now,
01:06:00.820 | but the whole idea is,
01:06:03.120 | in thinking about the weight of sin
01:06:06.840 | and all that we've, oh, I just realized
01:06:09.480 | I've gone really long, all right.
01:06:11.560 | In thinking about this whole idea,
01:06:15.400 | you just realize the weight behind it, right?
01:06:18.720 | To call every single member in the church
01:06:21.000 | to adhere to this, to call every single member
01:06:23.860 | in this church to be careful in how you interact
01:06:25.880 | with that person, you just realize the weight of sin, right?
01:06:29.440 | The other passage that we have to read
01:06:32.320 | because it's so important to us is this in Matthew 18.
01:06:35.800 | If your brother sins against you,
01:06:37.440 | go and show him his fault just between the two of you.
01:06:41.520 | And so there is that principle.
01:06:42.740 | You always wanna keep it as small as possible.
01:06:45.320 | Why?
01:06:46.160 | Because if the person repents, you've won him over.
01:06:48.980 | You don't need to go tell everybody.
01:06:50.280 | You don't need to go overly shame the guy
01:06:52.680 | when he's repentant.
01:06:54.160 | So keep it in the smallest possible, just the two of you.
01:06:57.020 | If he listens, you have won your brother.
01:06:59.080 | But if he will not listen, take one or two others along
01:07:04.360 | so that every matter may be established
01:07:06.280 | by testimony of two or three witnesses.
01:07:08.560 | If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church.
01:07:11.600 | And if he refuses to listen to each,
01:07:13.560 | even to the church, treat him as you would
01:07:15.520 | a pagan or a tax collector.
01:07:17.640 | I tell you the truth, whatever you bind on earth
01:07:19.640 | will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth
01:07:21.880 | will be loosed in heaven.
01:07:23.340 | Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth
01:07:25.720 | agree about anything you ask for,
01:07:27.960 | it will be done for you by my Father in heaven.
01:07:30.560 | For where two or three come together in my name,
01:07:33.400 | there am I with them.
01:07:36.080 | Okay?
01:07:37.360 | So, in this passage, we just think about,
01:07:42.360 | in talking about like, what needs to take place
01:07:45.920 | in the church, I wanna say something to you guys
01:07:49.840 | as an important application.
01:07:51.320 | Sin is just as bad now as it was in the days of Moses.
01:07:57.320 | Think about that, okay?
01:08:02.200 | I read to you guys passages where someone sinned,
01:08:05.720 | and because of their sin, they were stoned
01:08:08.600 | outside the camp by people's, essentially, hands.
01:08:12.520 | People picked up stones and they actually partook
01:08:16.440 | in the judgment of that sin.
01:08:18.640 | The execution of the punishment for that sin.
01:08:21.520 | But you realize, just because we're in the New Testament,
01:08:26.880 | it has not diminished the severity of sin.
01:08:29.700 | Because, literally, Apostle Paul is quoting
01:08:32.620 | Old Testament scripture and saying,
01:08:34.300 | remove the wicked man from yourselves.
01:08:37.440 | And so, if you go with me in your Bibles
01:08:39.520 | to, let's say, Deuteronomy chapter,
01:08:40.960 | just let's do a quick run through
01:08:42.880 | of some of these passages.
01:08:44.860 | I'm gonna wrap up here with this.
01:08:46.500 | If you look at Deuteronomy 17, verse seven,
01:08:50.660 | he talks about this.
01:08:53.800 | Verse six, actually, he says, well, I'll start from
01:08:59.500 | those first five.
01:09:00.340 | "Then you shall bring out that man or that woman
01:09:03.080 | "who has done this evil deed to your gates,
01:09:05.200 | "that is, the man or the woman,
01:09:06.700 | "and you shall stone them to death.
01:09:09.100 | "On the evidence of two witnesses or three witnesses,
01:09:11.540 | "he who is to die shall be put to death.
01:09:13.560 | "He shall not be put to death on the evidence
01:09:15.520 | "of one witness.
01:09:16.620 | "The hand of the witness shall be first against him
01:09:18.860 | "to put him to death, and afterward, the hand of who?
01:09:22.100 | "All the people.
01:09:23.020 | "So you shall," what?
01:09:24.060 | "Purge the evil from your midst."
01:09:27.860 | That's repeated in the next verses.
01:09:29.860 | I'm gonna, let's go over to chapter 21, verse 21.
01:09:32.460 | And it says here, I'm gonna start reading from verse 20.
01:09:42.280 | "They shall say to the elders of the city,
01:09:44.000 | "this son of ours is stubborn and rebellious.
01:09:46.840 | "He will not obey us.
01:09:47.820 | "He is a glutton and a drunkard.
01:09:49.540 | "Then all the men of his city shall stone him to death,
01:09:52.200 | "so that you shall remove the evil from your midst,
01:09:54.760 | "and all Israel will hear it and fear."
01:09:58.920 | And fear, okay?
01:10:02.100 | There is a sense in which, at our church,
01:10:08.240 | in any Christian church, we shouldn't create
01:10:10.980 | an environment where people are afraid
01:10:14.060 | to be open and vulnerable, to be real and honest, right?
01:10:18.220 | But also, we shouldn't create an environment
01:10:21.900 | where people are not afraid to sin.
01:10:24.620 | Right?
01:10:27.940 | We should not create an environment when people,
01:10:29.860 | if they sin, they're too afraid to come out with it
01:10:32.300 | because you're just gonna destroy them
01:10:34.400 | and plaster them on the wall with rebuke and embarrassment.
01:10:37.400 | But neither should you create a community
01:10:42.420 | where it's so lax, they're not afraid to sin anymore.
01:10:45.420 | And so anybody who comes into our church,
01:10:50.340 | if they are dedicated to their sin,
01:10:52.500 | they should not feel okay being at our church.
01:10:54.800 | We should care so much about their well-being
01:10:59.280 | that they should realize it's just not okay.
01:11:01.320 | I don't feel comfortable with these people
01:11:03.400 | if they're committed to their sin.
01:11:06.040 | But if they're committed to change,
01:11:08.480 | if they're committed to transform,
01:11:10.080 | if they're committed to be sanctified,
01:11:12.240 | then they should feel absolutely,
01:11:14.240 | like perfectly fitting into this community.
01:11:16.760 | Does that make sense?
01:11:18.500 | So today we're thinking about this topic,
01:11:21.120 | Apostle Paul is addressing a scenario
01:11:23.800 | where there was sin in the church
01:11:25.200 | and the sin was heinous and he was upset.
01:11:29.020 | But he was also livid about the way
01:11:31.160 | that people were so insensitive,
01:11:33.840 | they did nothing about it.
01:11:35.200 | It's a challenge for us that we care enough
01:11:38.800 | about the standard of God and God's holiness
01:11:41.300 | that regardless of the way we make people feel,
01:11:43.760 | God's standard might be upheld.
01:11:45.800 | What's more, we should love the brother so much,
01:11:49.460 | we should mourn with him in his sin.
01:11:51.440 | This is our sin, this is our pain.
01:11:53.620 | Any questions about this passage
01:11:56.520 | or the process of discipline and stuff?
01:11:58.640 | Yes.
01:11:59.480 | - I have one.
01:12:00.840 | So when you pick a church discipline,
01:12:03.240 | it's clear what happens with somebody who's a member.
01:12:07.080 | What happens hypothetically with somebody
01:12:09.400 | who is involved in the church
01:12:11.600 | but doesn't go through the membership process yet
01:12:14.120 | and then they leave because somebody
01:12:16.800 | confronts them about a sin?
01:12:18.880 | - Yeah.
01:12:19.720 | - So in your perspective, is that still
01:12:23.680 | more or less the same situation
01:12:25.500 | in terms of like there's such a person
01:12:27.000 | who do not even eat?
01:12:28.240 | - Right.
01:12:29.080 | - So he professes to be a Christian,
01:12:31.920 | they just didn't go through the membership process.
01:12:34.040 | - Yeah.
01:12:34.880 | So two parts.
01:12:37.960 | One, because if that person is coming into the church
01:12:42.320 | as a visitor or someone who's a regular attender
01:12:45.040 | and says that they're a Christian,
01:12:47.980 | there's still our responsibility.
01:12:50.040 | So we should still go and address the individual.
01:12:52.980 | And maybe even go to the extent of saying,
01:12:55.280 | I don't know if you are a Christian,
01:12:57.600 | and help that person think through it.
01:12:59.320 | And let's say they just bounce to another church.
01:13:02.520 | Our elders have talked about this and said,
01:13:04.080 | you know it's our responsibility to contact that church
01:13:06.960 | if we find out.
01:13:07.940 | And so we have to tread carefully
01:13:11.680 | because when you talk about people and stuff like that,
01:13:16.040 | it's always kind of touchy, you know?
01:13:18.100 | So we're trying our best to again,
01:13:19.460 | to keep that principle of people who kind of need to know
01:13:22.500 | and should know and care enough to know.
01:13:24.500 | And then, but typically then it's the leaders
01:13:27.260 | of the next church that they've gone to.
01:13:29.180 | And continue just to follow up on that person
01:13:31.020 | if at all possible.
01:13:32.560 | So, but obviously we can't like practice
01:13:34.860 | that kind of excommunication.
01:13:36.540 | If the sin itself happened to be so detrimental
01:13:39.860 | that we felt like, so case by case,
01:13:42.660 | we felt like we had to address that to the church,
01:13:45.100 | then we would, yeah.
01:13:47.500 | So, yeah.
01:13:49.580 | Other questions or?
01:13:52.380 | - I have a quick question. - Yeah.
01:13:53.220 | - You know how like there's a whole positive church
01:13:55.500 | discipline for someone who like after meeting up with them,
01:13:58.780 | like they still don't turn away from the person
01:14:01.820 | that you're still living with,
01:14:02.660 | but they don't see a problem in it.
01:14:04.220 | And you're saying to like not even associate, right?
01:14:07.260 | - Yeah.
01:14:08.100 | - Through like not hanging out with them at all.
01:14:10.060 | And the purpose of that is so that they can,
01:14:13.260 | they'll be ashamed and so that ultimately
01:14:15.180 | maybe that will be restored, right?
01:14:17.980 | But, so are you, I guess in that situation,
01:14:22.500 | are you saying like to kind of just leave them alone
01:14:24.100 | so they kind of deal with it themselves,
01:14:26.220 | that you're not allowed to like support them
01:14:27.700 | or give them like, I don't know,
01:14:31.220 | just like pray for them or?
01:14:33.020 | - Oh, okay.
01:14:33.980 | So his question is like, so let's say he's gone
01:14:36.980 | through the whole process of church discipline.
01:14:39.100 | What does that leave him alone look like?
01:14:40.700 | Does that mean just like literally just leave him alone
01:14:42.660 | and hope that he comes around?
01:14:44.100 | So the whole idea of that individual being excommunicated
01:14:51.340 | is that he cannot partake in the life
01:14:54.580 | of the church anymore.
01:14:56.020 | So that person can't just come into service.
01:14:58.500 | That person can't just come into Bible study.
01:15:00.800 | And when we have church fellowship and stuff like that,
01:15:03.340 | that person is not just, hey, come on in,
01:15:05.820 | we're gonna have dinner together, right?
01:15:07.620 | So what's kind of expected of the church members
01:15:11.980 | is that if they have contact with that person,
01:15:14.300 | since the goal is redemptive,
01:15:16.720 | that the church member then continues to try to instruct
01:15:21.540 | and win that person over.
01:15:22.900 | I'm pleading with you, man, just humble yourself and repent.
01:15:27.900 | Like, I don't know why you're being so defensive, you know?
01:15:30.820 | And just talk with the individual, plead with them.
01:15:32.980 | Like, I'm not sure if you feel it,
01:15:35.220 | but you're hardening yourself and, you know,
01:15:37.420 | look at all the consequences and stuff like that, you know?
01:15:40.500 | So, yeah.
01:15:42.220 | Yes.
01:15:43.060 | Sure.
01:15:45.260 | Yeah.
01:15:55.500 | Yeah.
01:16:06.060 | Yeah.
01:16:06.900 | All right, okay.
01:16:21.900 | All righty, then I hope you guys
01:16:24.460 | have a good discussion time.
01:16:25.940 | I just try to think of some questions here about,
01:16:28.620 | you know, was there anything that was convicting and stuff?
01:16:31.760 | Just to kind of explain one of the questions,
01:16:34.780 | I kind of phrased funny.
01:16:36.980 | It's the, when do you warn a brother
01:16:38.580 | or reason with him as a parent
01:16:40.140 | or treat as a pagan or tax collector?
01:16:43.300 | So, what's really interesting, obviously, is like,
01:16:47.540 | like, yes, it does matter at what process
01:16:54.960 | of church discipline you're at,
01:16:56.960 | but also the Bible kind of teaches us,
01:17:00.060 | it's like in different scenarios and circumstances,
01:17:02.040 | you just like talk to people differently.
01:17:04.420 | So, how do we exercise wisdom to say,
01:17:07.460 | hey, in what context do I become harsh,
01:17:10.900 | not harsh, but like strong, and say,
01:17:12.940 | hey, I'm treating you like,
01:17:14.300 | I'm talking to you like you're an unbeliever,
01:17:15.860 | like we're not on the same page,
01:17:17.560 | or at what times do we warn them as a brother
01:17:19.780 | and stuff like that, okay?
01:17:21.260 | So, that's what I mean, it's just like,
01:17:23.020 | there's different scenarios that we function
01:17:26.460 | or try to win them over differently, okay?