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2015-05-24 Our Faith in Action


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00:00:00.000 | I
00:00:02.000 | Lehman and I'm gonna be reading from verse 4 through 10 filemen verse 4 through 10
00:00:11.340 | Reading out of the ESV
00:00:21.760 | I thank my God always when I remember you in my prayers because I hear of your love and of the faith that you have
00:00:26.600 | Toward the Lord Jesus and for all the Saints and I pray that the sharing of your faith may become effective for the full knowledge
00:00:32.240 | Of every good thing that is in us for the sake of Christ
00:00:34.920 | For I have derived much joy and comfort from your love my brother because the hearts of the Saints have been refreshed through you
00:00:42.100 | Accordingly though I am bold enough in Christ to command you to do what is required yet for love's sake
00:00:48.520 | I prefer to appeal to you. I Paul an old man and now a prisoner also for Christ
00:00:53.360 | I appeal to you for my child onesimus whose father I became in I became in my imprisonment. Let's pray
00:01:00.480 | Gracious and loving father we thank you so much for this morning
00:01:07.440 | We asked Lord God that what proceeds from this pulpit would be your words
00:01:12.920 | That your children would hear your voice and follow you
00:01:17.360 | Protect us Lord God from wrong thinking
00:01:21.320 | That we may have right application. I
00:01:24.020 | Pray that through this time your church may be sanctified that your word may be preached and Christ may be exalted
00:01:31.240 | We pray for your blessing and your presence with us in Jesus name. We pray. Amen
00:01:35.320 | Yeah, as you guys know
00:01:38.200 | Like we talked about last week
00:01:40.120 | you know the book of Philemon is a powerful book not because it has an exposition of the gospel or
00:01:46.320 | Or tells us the details about what propitiation is and all of these things are very essential to our faith
00:01:51.360 | But at the core of it it is the proof of the power of the gospel
00:01:56.000 | You know we can talk about
00:01:58.920 | How precious Jesus is and we can exposit scripture and know what the verses mean and and all the systematic theology
00:02:05.240 | But if there is no power all it becomes after a while just religious talk
00:02:09.560 | It doesn't have any practical effect in our lives
00:02:12.620 | It doesn't affect the way that we make decision or we raise our children. The gospel was meant to be powerful
00:02:19.360 | Not just something to be regurgitated not just something for us to hold on to for security blanket
00:02:25.160 | But to challenge us to flip our world upside down
00:02:29.040 | That's what Philemon is Philemon is a testimony of how the gospel has changed the lives of these particular these three men
00:02:37.880 | Now we know the author Paul he's writing this letter in prison
00:02:42.440 | and
00:02:43.580 | You know we try to
00:02:45.580 | Sociologists always try to explain why the Christianity grew so fast and why so many people embrace Christianity
00:02:52.300 | 2,000 years ago, and they'll try to put a psychological sociological
00:02:55.720 | Economical spin to it say maybe the poor people are attracted because Jesus promised riches
00:03:02.580 | You know maybe maybe the people who had nothing it was a way Avenue for them to gain something
00:03:08.420 | But you look at Paul's life. It doesn't fit any of that
00:03:12.000 | Paul is a man who was made possibly a member of the Sanhedrin
00:03:15.800 | leaders of one of the Senate's
00:03:18.400 | senators
00:03:19.560 | He was already come from a very rich family
00:03:22.140 | it was a Roman citizen and he lost all of that because he became a Christian and
00:03:26.520 | Now he's sitting in prison and instead of worrying about himself
00:03:31.460 | He's not writing a letter concerned about this runaway slave that he may be restored back to his former master as a brother
00:03:40.060 | So again, you look at the life of Paul and in the very author of this letter
00:03:44.940 | You see the power of the cross in his life. You see on estimates a runaway slave
00:03:50.300 | you know, he became a Christian as
00:03:52.780 | Apostle Paul sitting in prison and continue to share the gospel with him and
00:03:56.800 | For him to go back to where he came from. I mean he escaped
00:04:01.040 | Imagine he risked his life. He risked everything to leave behind all of that and then he came out now
00:04:07.320 | Because he met Christ he's going back
00:04:10.040 | now
00:04:11.760 | Philemon had every legal right to put him in prison to beat him to to to mark him as a runaway slave
00:04:18.840 | Telling everybody the whole world. This is a this is a man that you cannot trust
00:04:22.480 | and so only reason why
00:04:25.440 | Onesimus would even return is because he'd been deeply affected by the cross
00:04:29.980 | Same thing with Philemon. Why would this man who who lost a great deal because of this runaway slave?
00:04:37.940 | We even receive him
00:04:39.940 | What did he have to gain for doing this?
00:04:42.020 | So Philemon even though it's a very short letter only have 25 verses
00:04:46.660 | It is a powerful testimony of what happens when people are affected by the cross
00:04:52.200 | Basically Philemon is a letter about forgiveness
00:04:57.420 | It's about forgiving those who's trespassed against you
00:05:01.100 | The idea of forgiving somebody is not natural to us
00:05:06.460 | You know how often have you fantasized?
00:05:10.020 | Like somebody in the past who've wronged you maybe they said something to you. Maybe they cheated you in business
00:05:15.980 | You know how often have you thought and fantasize man if I were to go back in time and and if I was to do
00:05:22.740 | Something differently how often they have he's fantasized about taking vengeance on that person and and seeking justice. We rarely sit around
00:05:29.460 | Fantasizing about being gracious. You know I go back and I should have been more gracious in that situation
00:05:36.700 | I think that's why if you look at majority of the action movies at the core of the action movies
00:05:42.380 | There is this idea of vengeance
00:05:44.380 | right
00:05:46.380 | You just going out and blowing up stuff isn't fun. You have to blow up people who wronged you so
00:05:52.620 | Usually the action movie begins by somebody being wronged
00:05:56.700 | Right your family is killed or something's taking you know like somebody's taking hostage or something happens whether it's personal or whether it happens
00:06:05.660 | As a government level and then the rest of the movie is trying to pay back
00:06:09.660 | Right and I think there was a movie called payback, right?
00:06:13.820 | Think about some of the movies maybe some of I don't know to me. This is new and fresh
00:06:19.300 | So - I don't know if it is to you, but gladiator
00:06:22.020 | V for vendetta is this new
00:06:26.100 | Kill Bill, I just looked up online to see okay count of Monte Cristo
00:06:32.900 | I don't I didn't see that but I read it and it was about vengeance
00:06:35.900 | quantum solace
00:06:37.940 | by James Bond movie
00:06:39.780 | Man on fire and I can go on and on and on if you basically Google and look at action movies the basic you know the
00:06:46.500 | The outline of it is somebody is wrong, and then they're gonna pay them back right. That's a natural human response
00:06:53.380 | to ask somebody to forgive somebody and
00:06:57.100 | to get nothing back
00:06:59.620 | it's
00:07:01.100 | It's not natural because that's not how we function
00:07:03.900 | In fact just yesterday
00:07:06.700 | I was
00:07:07.460 | driving my car in a parking lot
00:07:08.820 | you know and I was putting air my tire and then I was in a hurry to get out of the parking lot and and
00:07:13.420 | I made a left turn and this guy it's kind of stepped out and he wasn't he wasn't right in front of the car
00:07:20.100 | I would say the distance was probably from here to maybe about that door and I saw him come out and so I could have
00:07:25.580 | Easily just kind of went by him, but I stopped the car and I waved toward I was being gracious. It's like okay
00:07:30.900 | You know go you know and I'll wait for you so as he was crossing. He was mumbling something
00:07:37.100 | So I thought in my mind. I was like oh, he's saying. Thank you. Thank you for being gracious and letting me go
00:07:41.860 | But as as I was going he was saying something that I cannot repeat
00:07:47.260 | He was looking straight at me. He was cursing me out, and I was like what?
00:07:50.900 | You know I just I was so gracious to let him go
00:07:54.620 | And I remember as he was passing by I was watching like what why would you be what I don't get it
00:08:00.740 | Like I was just letting you pass and and somehow I don't know what the miscommunication was but something was
00:08:07.260 | Miscommunicated and he got mad and he started cussing at me
00:08:11.660 | And then he walked into the store and as I was driving off. I was thinking what just happened here I
00:08:16.660 | Was allowing him to pass by and then I got cussed out for it
00:08:21.340 | And the whole way that I was going to I was going to the girls softball tournament and the whole drive down
00:08:26.320 | I was thinking what is wrong with this guy
00:08:29.300 | You know and I just I tried to like we are gonna listen to sermon and turn on Christian radio
00:08:33.660 | But I just couldn't get it out of my head. What is wrong with this guy right?
00:08:37.500 | You know in the back of my mind. I'm thinking man if I wasn't a pastor
00:08:40.700 | What should I what would I have done if I wasn't a pastor?
00:08:42.580 | If I wasn't a Christian what if I got out of my car and scared this guy?
00:08:46.420 | I'm thinking that all this scenario and even all the way down to softball
00:08:51.100 | I was thinking like Peter you're Christian calm down tomorrow. You're gonna be talking about forgiveness
00:08:57.580 | You better calm down
00:08:59.580 | It's just humanly speaking
00:09:01.860 | That's not natural our natural response isn't forgiveness
00:09:05.260 | and that's why when God says to nation of Israel I for an eye tooth for tooth is not a
00:09:10.820 | Formula to carry out vengeance is to withhold our vengeance
00:09:14.760 | Because our natural response if you take my eyes, I'm gonna rip your head off
00:09:18.860 | Right you can teach you never to mess with me
00:09:23.940 | See this letter here in Philemon what Paul is asking Philemon to do is supernatural
00:09:30.180 | Because what he's asking him to do is here's this runaway slave at the minimum was financially
00:09:36.440 | He robbed from him at the minimum. It may have been may have been embarrassing for him
00:09:41.660 | You know imagine what that would have done
00:09:43.940 | Maybe I don't know if he did it before he was a before Philemon became a Christian or not
00:09:47.540 | But whatever it was it's clear that he was the one who was wronged
00:09:53.620 | and on estimates was the one who wronged him and
00:09:56.700 | Paul is not saying if you receive him back, you know, he's gonna pay you back
00:10:02.980 | You know, he wronged you maybe he owes you a hundred grand
00:10:06.020 | He's gonna work his tail off and he's gonna give you everything that he has if you can forgive him
00:10:10.420 | Paul's not asking any of that Paul says forgive him
00:10:13.380 | In other words he's saying just drop it just humanly speaking
00:10:19.220 | Just drop it. In fact, not only just drop it you lost him as a runaway slave, but now would you please receive him as
00:10:26.980 | a brother in Christ
00:10:29.700 | To love him like you are loving the other brothers in the church
00:10:32.700 | Humanly speaking it's impossible. How can we possibly even dare to ask somebody expect that of somebody?
00:10:40.060 | But at the core of what you and I believe is about forgiveness
00:10:46.420 | At the very core of why we are here. It's about forgiveness
00:10:51.060 | Ephesians 4 32 says be kind to one another tender-hearted forgiving one another as God in Christ forgave you
00:10:59.340 | In essence, that's that's the core of the gospel
00:11:04.580 | Because he forgave us
00:11:07.660 | Now you forgive each other
00:11:11.580 | Again in Colossians 3 13 is his bearing with one another if one has a complaint against another forgive each other as the Lord has
00:11:19.020 | Forgiven you so you also must forgive
00:11:21.500 | We all know love that passage in Romans 5 8
00:11:25.700 | Where it says God demonstrates his own love toward us while we were yet sinners Christ died for us
00:11:32.020 | In a part of the reason why it's so difficult for us to forgive is
00:11:38.220 | Because we tend to see other sins other people's sins greater than ours, you know, we always say well
00:11:45.900 | You know, I'm not perfect but that guy and that's usually when somebody says I'm not perfect
00:11:50.260 | But that guy that's kind of a setup to like I'm justified in hating that person. I know I'm not perfect, but that guy deserves this
00:11:57.900 | You know, I think part of the reason why
00:12:01.320 | athletic superstars don't make good coaches is
00:12:05.460 | Because they're superstars and they can't stand mediocrity, you know
00:12:10.100 | And so because they function at such a high level when they're coaching other people who are kind of on the average
00:12:15.700 | You know, they don't have the patience or the grace to to build them up
00:12:19.540 | So you don't perform this up to here. I can't have you
00:12:22.980 | But here's a problem
00:12:26.220 | Spiritually, there's not one Michael Jordan
00:12:29.420 | No, Kobe Bryant's
00:12:33.260 | The scripture says all have sin and fall short in the glory of God
00:12:36.460 | but the problem is
00:12:39.300 | We don't really see that the gravity of what it is that Christ has saved us from
00:12:44.580 | Because the motivation and the power to forgive others comes from understanding the forgiveness that Christ has given us
00:12:54.540 | So when we don't understand the gravity of where we stood before God and where we are without him
00:13:00.420 | It is difficult to be forgiving
00:13:03.020 | Because it just sounds like take it
00:13:05.500 | Just forgive just drop just drop it
00:13:09.180 | One of the scripture says that while we were yet sinners Christ died for us, you know, typically, you know
00:13:16.620 | If you've been at a Bible teaching church for a while
00:13:19.000 | You know that the most common word for sin is hamartian and what does hamartian mean?
00:13:24.240 | Yeah, I hear mumbling but I hear
00:13:28.700 | to miss the mark right and again if you've been a Christian for all you already know that the basic meaning of
00:13:34.900 | Sin means to miss the mark
00:13:37.860 | But in and of itself we don't get the gravity of what that word means because it just sounds like you know
00:13:43.860 | We were shooting at something and we missed
00:13:45.860 | It doesn't sound too bad
00:13:48.620 | Right. It's kind of like when you were at school
00:13:51.220 | you tried so hard to get an a and you stayed up all night and you worked and you studied and you
00:13:57.220 | Turned in your paper on time and you got a B
00:13:59.620 | It doesn't sound that bad
00:14:02.180 | It's just we just couldn't do it like I was trying to stay on this path
00:14:04.620 | But I fell asleep and I just kind of fell off and I missed the mark
00:14:08.160 | See we have to understand what mr
00:14:11.540 | Mark is in a context of what the scripture says about what sin is
00:14:15.100 | In fact, if you look at scripture, there are more than 40 different words used to describe sin
00:14:20.780 | The most common word is hamartian in the Greek
00:14:24.980 | But when we examine these words
00:14:27.580 | It gives us a broader and deeper picture of what it is that we have been saved from
00:14:32.780 | And I'm just gonna go over a few words with you because we're not gonna sit here and go through all 40
00:14:38.140 | In Hebrew, there's a word called Raha, which means wicked or evil
00:14:43.420 | anything that goes against God's nature is
00:14:46.940 | Raha or
00:14:49.460 | Avon it means to be crooked or twisted and the root word means to be perverted
00:14:54.740 | It doesn't it doesn't just mean that we shot for something and we missed it. It means that there's a perversion
00:15:01.420 | There's something crooked inside of who we are for sure. The word means to rebel
00:15:07.020 | It's not just somebody who was walking the narrow path and then just stepped on something or tripped over something
00:15:14.460 | It is a willful rebellion to shake your fist at God's a I don't want you
00:15:19.580 | That's the word for sure
00:15:22.540 | another word a sham to be offensive
00:15:25.740 | To offend him. We didn't just mr
00:15:28.940 | Mark, we didn't just live up to a certain standard that he had the scripture says that we were offensive the word ha ha
00:15:36.560 | In Hebrew, it means to deliberately deceive to hide
00:15:41.580 | Because we want to go this path and God says to go here and so we would deceive
00:15:46.720 | Deceive ourselves deceive others and deceive God
00:15:50.080 | See that in Hebrew the word for sin is not simply we just missed the mark. It means there's wickedness
00:15:57.940 | There's badness corruptness in our nature. There's perversion. There's a willful rebellion
00:16:03.860 | There's offensiveness to this God and we deceive to hide all of this
00:16:08.940 | In the Greek the word Martian again to mr. Mark
00:16:12.420 | But perhaps basis basis is to violate something
00:16:17.620 | Whenever somebody is wronged, you know was L we've been sinned against but when it's when it's been really perverted when it was really deep
00:16:25.720 | And offensive we say that person has been violated
00:16:29.000 | Well, that's the word in Greek
00:16:31.820 | another word for sin to violate a
00:16:34.860 | Sabia
00:16:36.740 | ungodly
00:16:39.580 | Ponras diseased
00:16:41.580 | Corrupted in nature Kakos depraved
00:16:46.540 | Adhikas
00:16:50.060 | unjust
00:16:52.060 | anomos
00:16:53.340 | To have no law lawlessness plana to go astray
00:16:57.500 | These are some of the words that describe sin and when the scripture says all have sin and fall short of the glory of God
00:17:04.260 | He's not just saying that we tried but we couldn't make it
00:17:08.380 | The Bible describing a willful rebellion against God. I don't want you as my God
00:17:13.340 | I'd rather experience this pleasure now than to submit myself to you
00:17:19.140 | Deliberately rebelling deliberately offensive
00:17:22.980 | disease in our nature and
00:17:25.820 | That's why Romans chapter 3 verse 10 when it says no one seeks God. No one does good
00:17:32.180 | It seems like an exaggeration but in reality, that's what the scripture says we were
00:17:37.940 | when we don't understand the degree of
00:17:40.580 | Sin that we were seeped in that he saved us from that's why the Bible describes us
00:17:46.360 | It describes us as dead in our trespasses not just sick not just corrupted but dead in our trespasses
00:17:54.060 | There's nothing that we could have done to move out of there. It was it was a we're so deep into this quicksand
00:18:00.500 | There was nothing that we could have grasped by ourselves that we could have come out
00:18:04.380 | He says so when the scripture says God demonstrates his own love toward us in that while we were yet
00:18:10.220 | sinners yet depraved yet
00:18:12.740 | Wicked yet in rebellion
00:18:16.000 | Christ died for us. I
00:18:19.580 | Think the more we live
00:18:23.780 | You know what it means to grow as a as a Christian is to recognize what it is that we have in Christ
00:18:33.180 | And the deeper we recognize what we have in Christ
00:18:35.900 | We give a reasonable response. So everything that we give to God is a response
00:18:41.980 | It's not something that we we muster up within
00:18:45.820 | It's not something that if we meditate enough if we memorize scripture
00:18:49.140 | It is simply a reaction towards some seeing something and experience something
00:18:53.780 | Beyond ourselves and that's why Romans chapter 12 in view of God's mercy. It says
00:19:01.060 | Presents your body as a living sacrifice
00:19:03.060 | You know Luke chapter 18 11th 14, you know that password Jesus is basically rebuking the Pharisee for his self-righteousness
00:19:10.100 | And this is what he says
00:19:12.380 | The Pharisee standing by himself prayed thus God. I thank you that I am NOT like other men
00:19:17.240 | extortioners unjust adulterers or even like this tax collector
00:19:22.000 | Before we judge the Pharisee too quickly
00:19:25.480 | Everything he said was true in this passage. He didn't extort
00:19:29.980 | He he was not an extortioner
00:19:32.300 | He was an obeyer of the law. He kept it so precisely
00:19:36.940 | He memorized scripture
00:19:40.380 | Jesus said that they would travel miles and miles just to proselytize people
00:19:45.180 | He prayed and he gave and he was at the temple constantly
00:19:49.860 | So on the surface everything he says was true. He was not an extortioner. He was not unjust
00:19:56.380 | He wasn't he was not an adulterer and he wasn't like the tax collector. He didn't betray his country
00:20:02.300 | He wasn't going around and taking money from people unjustly
00:20:05.220 | so on the surface
00:20:07.780 | He can look at it. We can look at that and says yeah, I mean what he's saying is true
00:20:11.260 | He but the corruption is much deeper than that
00:20:14.860 | You look at this tax collector in verse 12 is I fast twice a day or he he himself the Pharisee said I face twice
00:20:22.660 | I said that I give tithes all that I get in verse 13, but the tax collector standing far off
00:20:27.260 | Would not even lift up his eyes to heaven but beat his breast saying God be merciful to me a sinner
00:20:34.500 | Our relationship with God begins when we recognize that that's me
00:20:41.100 | That's me. I'm that sinner
00:20:44.340 | I'm the one who rebelled against God
00:20:47.300 | I'm the one who's constantly wanting to deceive. I'm the one who's going astray
00:20:53.140 | I'm the one who was not deserving of this grace and
00:20:55.940 | He forgave me
00:20:59.300 | Peter asked a question in Matthew 18 21 to 35
00:21:04.140 | Peter says
00:21:06.980 | Lord, how often will my brother sin against me and I forgive him as many as seven times?
00:21:12.920 | Now, I know you guys know that passage. I
00:21:15.580 | don't think Peter was asking a
00:21:18.740 | hypothetical question I
00:21:22.140 | Think he was wronged now. I don't know who it might have been James. It might have been John maybe Judas
00:21:27.500 | You know, it might have been maybe people from the outside, but I think Peter was genuinely wronged
00:21:33.100 | And he was probably thinking to himself
00:21:36.100 | I'm not gonna be stepped on anymore
00:21:38.740 | How can I possibly just let this go probably Jesus kept on telling him like what do I do with this guy this guy?
00:21:44.700 | You know every time we cook fish we come back and he eats all of it, you know
00:21:50.700 | Like this guy this guy is just so insensitive
00:21:53.180 | You know the things that he says all the time
00:21:56.500 | He's not aware of what he's saying what he's doing
00:21:58.580 | and so Peter was probably wrong and he was probably asking this question because
00:22:02.500 | Every time he came to Jesus Jesus said to him forgive him
00:22:06.740 | So I believe it's in that context not knowing
00:22:10.700 | Exactly what it was
00:22:13.300 | He's actually a personal practical question
00:22:17.380 | How often do you really expect me to forgive them?
00:22:20.700 | All right. So again, it was not hypothetical. He's not asking a broad theological question
00:22:25.940 | He's just asking do you really expect me to forgive them this many times and Jesus says and he says seven times again seven times
00:22:33.180 | Being like, okay, you know, I've already given them forgiving them three times because you kept on telling me up to seven times
00:22:38.680 | That's not human, but you're the Messiah. So we're gonna live a higher standard, but seven times
00:22:45.900 | Jesus's response to him said I do not say to you seven times but 70 times seven
00:22:50.780 | It doesn't record for us Peter's response
00:22:55.260 | But you could imagine what Peter was probably thinking
00:22:58.940 | You know up to seven time. Okay, I said seven because you know, I'm already I'm already up to here with this guy, you know
00:23:06.340 | Three times four times. Okay, seven times maybe because you're from God. You're the Messiah, you know, but 70 times seven
00:23:16.380 | It doesn't say anything there's there's no response from Peter and he probably was dumbfounded
00:23:21.620 | But Jesus responds to him in that answer and he gives him the why this is reasonable
00:23:30.180 | Completely unreasonable in any other circumstance to expect any of you who've been wrong to forgive seven times
00:23:37.620 | Completely unreasonable. I would never ask that of you, but that's exactly what Jesus says and then he gives a reasoning behind it
00:23:45.080 | And you know the parable he gives a story about his this man who old this King
00:23:50.720 | 10,000 talents and he could not possibly pay this back
00:23:55.620 | So he begs for mercy and so the king decides to show mercy to him and he allows him to go
00:24:02.280 | completely free and
00:24:04.840 | Then he goes back home and then here's another servant that comes to him and he owes him a hundred denarii and he same situation
00:24:12.880 | Except this this time. He's the one who was wrong and he asked for forgiveness
00:24:17.520 | He said how can I forgive you you have to pay me back?
00:24:20.840 | And if you don't I'm gonna put you in jail and that's what he practices in it end of it
00:24:25.080 | Jesus says you wicked servant
00:24:27.080 | You've been forgiven ten thousand talents and you couldn't forgive him a hundred denarii
00:24:33.160 | Now in order to understand the gravity of what he is saying, you have to understand the amount that he's talking about
00:24:40.760 | He's not talking about ten thousand talents like what he he forgave you ten thousand dollars and this guy only if only have a hundred
00:24:48.080 | dollars a
00:24:49.880 | Single talent was equivalent to 20 years of an average laborers pay
00:24:55.840 | Okay, 20 years
00:24:58.560 | Average laborers pay now. I'm not gonna do the math
00:25:01.600 | Okay, cuz I'm gonna be mocked for it at the end no matter how hard I work
00:25:05.480 | I it's probably not gonna come out right you do the math. Okay, it comes out to somewhere near in
00:25:10.800 | hundreds of millions
00:25:13.080 | Okay
00:25:14.520 | Maybe a billion
00:25:16.520 | But it's a ridiculous amount of money for an average worker. Imagine if one talent is 20 years of pay
00:25:23.400 | At minimum even if he's getting a little bit
00:25:27.440 | We're talking in the millions versus a denarii one denarii is one day's pay
00:25:35.160 | So he owes a hundred denarii
00:25:37.160 | Right, so we're talking about
00:25:39.520 | 20 years times
00:25:43.840 | 10,000 okay
00:25:46.680 | 20 years of pay times
00:25:48.960 | 10,000 10,000 times 20. Okay, you do the math
00:25:52.320 | Okay, I I think it's in it's in the hundreds of millions possibly in the billions of dollars
00:25:58.160 | And here's this guy a few thousand bucks, right? Why does Jesus use this analogy?
00:26:04.560 | I mean, it seems like an exaggeration say, you know, the early early Jews at that time were very temperamental
00:26:09.800 | So instead of instead of saying he owed a couple hundred thousand and then and a few thousand
00:26:14.200 | He said a billion dollars and a few thousand dollars
00:26:18.120 | Was he simply exaggerating? I
00:26:21.560 | Don't think he was for the purpose of exaggeration I
00:26:25.720 | Think Jesus was trying to teach Peter
00:26:29.160 | You don't understand the debt that has been forgiven you
00:26:34.280 | Because you don't recognize the debt that has been forgiven you you have a difficult time for even the debt that others have on you
00:26:42.520 | Everything that we talked about
00:26:48.120 | The violation the ungodliness that disease that depraved the unjust the lawless go going astray
00:26:54.640 | Every part of this is a description of who we are
00:26:57.040 | And that's why universalism is so so offensive to God
00:27:02.040 | I mean you can we can understand why it would be so offensive if there was any other possible way
00:27:07.440 | That a sinner could pay his debt to enter into heaven. Would he have sent his only begotten Son?
00:27:14.000 | Wouldn't he have allowed you to at least at least give it a try
00:27:19.240 | The only reason why the Son of God would come was so that because the debt was so big
00:27:29.280 | That another human being could not possibly pay that debt
00:27:32.280 | My life could not possibly pay for your life
00:27:35.980 | My debt could not be canceled by yours
00:27:39.640 | Only way that this debt could have been paid if the Son of God
00:27:44.960 | Absorbed all of it upon himself
00:27:48.240 | Think about the magnitude of
00:27:51.480 | How deep our sin must have been?
00:27:54.920 | that the God of the universe that everything was created by him and for him and
00:28:00.080 | Everything is sustained by him. Look at the size of this universe that he who created all of this
00:28:06.400 | Did not consider equality with God something to be grasped and came and became nothing for what?
00:28:13.400 | to pay our debt
00:28:16.400 | God demonstrates his own love toward us in that while we were yet sinners
00:28:20.960 | Christ died for us
00:28:25.280 | It is because we do not recognize what it is that we have in Christ we have such a hard time
00:28:31.760 | With forgiving others. That's why Jesus says I'm telling you seven times seventy
00:28:36.440 | Because you don't realize what was has been done for you seven times seventy doesn't begin to describe what you have in Christ
00:28:44.760 | Not seven times seventy seven thousand times seven thousand would not describe
00:28:52.840 | What the God of the universe did for us
00:28:54.840 | See Paul is not telling this to file a man because file a man was not a good Christian and he wasn't practicing grace
00:29:01.880 | In fact Paul described file a man as a great man
00:29:05.680 | practicing great love file a man
00:29:08.320 | Verse five because I hear of your love and of the faith that you have toward the Lord Jesus and all the Saints
00:29:14.280 | Again in verse seven for I have derived much joy and comfort from your love my brother
00:29:18.640 | Because the hearts of the Saints have been refreshed through you
00:29:22.600 | So he's not telling this to file a man because he wasn't a good Christian. He wasn't practicing this grace
00:29:27.000 | He said you need to practice some of this grace
00:29:29.000 | Says no, just like he says to find the Philippines 1 9 and it is my prayer that your love may abound
00:29:35.400 | more and more with knowledge and all discernment
00:29:39.680 | More and more
00:29:43.840 | Wait, I don't know about you. But when I read that and skim through it and I say I know you're practicing love
00:29:48.880 | But it's not enough that you practice more and more
00:29:51.720 | I mean, oh my gosh, it sounds like you know
00:29:55.520 | Your child is working hard and he came home with an a and he says I'm thankful that you're getting an a but a plus
00:30:02.600 | a plus
00:30:04.600 | You come up with the four point three GPA. He's like the four point five
00:30:08.080 | four point five is your goal, right and
00:30:11.640 | That's what it may sound like if you don't really understand what he is saying
00:30:16.360 | He says it again in Thessalonians 4 9 through 10. Here's this model church
00:30:21.780 | Concerning brotherly love you have no need for anyone to write to you for you yourselves have been taught by God to love one another
00:30:29.260 | For that indeed is what you are doing to all the brothers throughout Macedonia, but we urge you brothers to do this more and more
00:30:37.340 | You know almost kind of like hey Paul back off
00:30:41.060 | These guys are being persecuted
00:30:44.780 | They're sacrifice. They've already sacrificed so much and they're model Christians
00:30:48.460 | And he says your love is being proclaimed all throughout Macedonia when they talk about a church that loves one another they talk about you
00:30:56.540 | But Paul says it is not enough to do this more and more
00:31:02.460 | Now again if we leave it right here it says okay go do it
00:31:06.940 | Right, whatever you have whatever you bro, whatever righteousness that you think you have whatever love and grace you're practicing great
00:31:13.420 | We commend you for it, but do more and more
00:31:16.020 | We need to understand what he is saying first of all, he says Thessalonians
00:31:22.020 | I don't have I don't have a need to tell you this because God himself is teaching you this
00:31:26.300 | He's not I don't think he's saying that they had some special
00:31:29.580 | Revelation that the other churches didn't have that God was audibly speaking to them
00:31:33.340 | That the other Christians were not hearing
00:31:36.220 | When he says I don't need to teach you about this because God has already taught you he's talking about their own salvation
00:31:44.260 | At the very nature of what we proclaim every song that we sing every passage that we read
00:31:51.540 | It's about his great love for us
00:31:54.620 | That's why John says in John 1st John 3 1 see what kind of love the Father has given us
00:32:01.700 | That we should be called the children of God and that's what we are
00:32:05.340 | In some of you in a NASB translations
00:32:08.740 | It says behold, you know because the word seed just kind of sees like I see this I see that but really is
00:32:14.620 | the word really
00:32:16.900 | captures to take a minute to take a look and
00:32:20.380 | examine
00:32:22.300 | behold
00:32:24.180 | What manner of love is this?
00:32:26.180 | That we will be called the children of God and that's exactly what we are
00:32:30.940 | How often have you fantasized
00:32:35.060 | About being Bill Gates son or daughter
00:32:38.620 | All right. I think I can use Bill Gates because
00:32:41.380 | Most of this crowd is younger, right?
00:32:44.060 | Thinking if I was Bill Gates son, I could fly to Europe anytime I want
00:32:49.940 | You know, I
00:32:52.500 | Could go to the Himalayas. I don't have to go to school. I have to wake up to go to work
00:32:56.860 | How many times have you fantasized every time you didn't want to go to work?
00:32:59.500 | And I only if he was my father
00:33:03.020 | You know, I could do this and I could do that and
00:33:05.500 | Yet the scripture says
00:33:09.020 | Behold take a look
00:33:11.860 | What manner of love is this that we are called the children of the Almighty God?
00:33:16.940 | How foolish and short-sighted are we that we would sit and fantasize about being a
00:33:23.500 | son of somebody who has riches that will fade
00:33:27.020 | When we have the riches of heaven
00:33:30.220 | waiting for us in eternity
00:33:33.540 | That's why he says behold what manner of love is this it is not any special revelation that the Thessalonians God
00:33:39.900 | It was a revelation that every Christian has
00:33:42.300 | Every single Christian who confesses Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior behold
00:33:48.020 | What manner of love is this that you are here and able to understand what is being preached this morning
00:33:54.860 | Behold what manner of love is this that you can pray and the God of the universe listens to you
00:34:01.260 | Why does he listen to you?
00:34:03.260 | Why does he care about you? Why does he care about me? What manner of love is this?
00:34:09.540 | Because we have potential because we were better looking
00:34:13.540 | While we were yet sinners he did this for us
00:34:17.140 | Ephesians 3 17 19 says that you being rooted and grounded in love
00:34:22.580 | May have strength to comprehend with all the saints that what is the breadth and length and height and depth and to know the love
00:34:29.940 | Of Christ that surpasses knowledge that you may be filled with all the fullness of God
00:34:33.980 | You know again on the surface may look like yeah, that's great but he wants us to do more and more at what point do we
00:34:41.700 | Get to rest
00:34:43.340 | Well, I what point is it enough? I name it was already practicing all this but he says do more more
00:34:48.380 | Again, if we understand it superficially we make we may actually leave burdened by this
00:34:53.980 | but look what he says in verse 6 and
00:34:56.860 | I pray
00:34:59.140 | That the sharing of your faith may become effective for the full knowledge of every good thing that is in us for the sake of
00:35:05.020 | Christ I used to think that when he says the sharing of your faith may become effective. I thought he's talking about evangelism
00:35:11.580 | But in reality the word sharing here in Greek is corn on Nia where we get the word partnership or fellowship and in the context
00:35:21.100 | He's not talking about evangelism
00:35:22.380 | He's not all of a sudden talking about forgiving your brother practicing love and then say now evangelism. All right, it wouldn't fit the context
00:35:29.460 | What he is saying is as a Christian to practice the faith that you profess
00:35:35.780 | The love that Christ poured out upon you when you are practicing this grace and you are practicing this love
00:35:42.660 | That it may be effective powerful
00:35:45.980 | For the full knowledge look at here. I want you to pay attention to this because this is the key
00:35:51.700 | That you would practice this grace and this love
00:35:56.500 | So that it may become effective for the full knowledge of every good thing that is in us for the sake of Christ
00:36:03.460 | The word for full knowledge here is not talking about something study that you go to seminary and you study about
00:36:10.220 | The gospel you study about some knowledge. He's talking about experientially
00:36:14.700 | The full knowledge and understanding of what it is that you have in Christ when you are practicing this love
00:36:23.060 | And I can honestly tell you that the most difficult thing about
00:36:27.020 | Ministry has not been money
00:36:30.860 | You know somebody say I've you've been on pass. It must be hard financially
00:36:34.860 | I mean, I don't know too many pastors who come into ministry thinking I'm gonna be rich
00:36:38.860 | Right, and if they are they stand out like a sore thumb, you know right away
00:36:43.940 | You can tell and not to say that there isn't temptation for it
00:36:46.940 | But I don't know too many people coming into ministry thinking that they're gonna make money
00:36:51.100 | So when we have financial hardship, it's you know, we were prepared for that
00:36:55.700 | The hardest part of our ministry is loving people. That's hard to love and
00:37:00.260 | That to be honest
00:37:03.220 | Ministry forces you to but that's not about that's not ministry. That's just being a Christian
00:37:07.900 | Ministry just have extra because people are watching
00:37:11.620 | You know, you're a pastor you have to
00:37:14.500 | Even as I was preparing for this, you know, I have to think about it
00:37:18.020 | What am I think I'm struggling with you know that make sure that I don't come up here as a hypocrite
00:37:22.220 | So this is extra accountability for me, you know
00:37:24.760 | But the practice of love and grace and forgiveness is not human
00:37:34.220 | It's not something that I search deeper than go to the closet and really like, you know
00:37:40.500 | Practice yoga and tap into this inner being and then when I tap into it, it's like I love everybody
00:37:47.420 | You know
00:37:48.940 | The deeper I dig the more vengeance I want
00:37:51.820 | The more I think about it the more undeserving these people are
00:37:56.340 | the deeper I dig
00:37:59.100 | It causes me to come before the Lord and recognize
00:38:02.880 | If it's this hard to love a fellow brother
00:38:07.900 | A fellow sister and
00:38:11.540 | It wasn't it's not even that offensive. It's just it doesn't take a sinful human being
00:38:16.820 | It doesn't take much to trigger us
00:38:18.820 | Right all in all I said, oh they said they said what about me what?
00:38:24.060 | They didn't like my tie what?
00:38:26.900 | You
00:38:29.340 | Cook some food and they thought it was too salty what?
00:38:31.620 | That guy it doesn't take much for us to do if it's this hard for me to love
00:38:38.220 | another brother in Christ
00:38:41.100 | How much did it take for God of the universe
00:38:47.060 | To have pity on me
00:38:49.060 | That he would leave a whole of that to come walk among us in this filth
00:38:56.540 | So that while we were yet sinners not because we were running to him
00:39:01.620 | Not because we were running to him and he was trying to catch us. He jumped into the mud
00:39:06.660 | that we were unwilling to come out of
00:39:09.860 | And that's why he says
00:39:14.660 | See the sharing of your faith the practice of this faith this grace this love
00:39:20.140 | That he would become effective so that you would have the full knowledge of every good thing that you have in Christ
00:39:26.780 | And the more we practice this love
00:39:29.620 | The more we recognize what it is that we have in Christ and the more we recognize what we have in Christ
00:39:35.980 | The more we're able to practice this grace and the more we have
00:39:39.580 | able to practice this grace the more we're able to know his love and this cycle goes on and on and it gets us deeper
00:39:46.180 | And deeper in understanding of what it is that we have in Christ
00:39:48.980 | So you may say thank you today and you may say thank you tomorrow
00:39:52.860 | But the thank you that you say every single year is deeper and deeper and deeper
00:39:57.980 | Because we recognize just how far we are without him
00:40:05.620 | When I first got saved I loved I loved the fact that he loved and he died for me
00:40:09.940 | I'm who wouldn't love this guy
00:40:11.940 | But every year that I live I
00:40:14.380 | See the darkness in this world. I
00:40:17.420 | See how difficult it is for human beings to just have
00:40:21.260 | Relationships
00:40:24.820 | How easily we misunderstand each other how easily we point fingers at each other?
00:40:30.060 | It's a miracle that human relationships last for a long period of time
00:40:35.940 | And how all of that is inside of me
00:40:38.860 | Despite all of that
00:40:42.620 | He gave himself
00:40:44.620 | He's in first John 4 12. No one has ever seen God if we love one another God abides in us and his love is
00:40:50.380 | perfected in us
00:40:52.820 | See practice of his grace and love
00:40:55.980 | It's not simply to burden us
00:40:59.460 | It's to free us
00:41:02.700 | It's just free us from our own sins
00:41:04.700 | And when Jesus says I have come to give life and to give this life abundantly this abundant life is in his love
00:41:12.060 | and if you're in a habit of
00:41:15.660 | Giving into your rage. Yeah. I mean that's that's how we are
00:41:21.020 | I mean if what when we're misunderstood when we feel like somebody's not on our side, you know
00:41:25.180 | It's our natural response to to seek justice
00:41:30.420 | If you're in a habit of giving into that you'll never fully comprehend
00:41:35.540 | The love that Christ has for you
00:41:39.620 | Just how difficult it is
00:41:43.340 | What he must have gone through that I can speak to him that I can come here and worship him
00:41:49.460 | As we again as we look upon this testimony of the power of the cross upon their lives
00:41:56.940 | I pray that we would not just look through this as oh, yeah, I know what Philemon is about
00:42:00.620 | But I pray that the power of the cross would affect you so deeply
00:42:05.180 | That our worship may simply be a response
00:42:08.580 | That we're not just singing songs
00:42:11.580 | We're praising him for his goodness
00:42:13.780 | We're not just crutchingly forgiving
00:42:16.300 | That we would forgive with all our hearts and that would be our act of worship because you forgave me I forgive him
00:42:25.220 | Because you've been gracious to me. I'm gonna be gracious to him not because they deserve it
00:42:29.900 | Because you gave me a love that I did not deserve
00:42:33.340 | so I will practice love that they don't deserve and
00:42:37.660 | That is why Paul is able to say so boldly
00:42:42.580 | to this man
00:42:45.660 | Forgive him
00:42:48.100 | Because he's been affected
00:42:50.380 | Would you close your eyes with me this morning as you come before the Lord?
00:42:55.700 | Are there people in your heart that you've been holding grudges against and as a result of that your walk with God has been strained
00:43:02.740 | You're living with this
00:43:06.020 | Toxic
00:43:08.420 | Hatred or bitterness in your heart and God wants you to wants you to be freed from that
00:43:14.180 | To recognize
00:43:17.700 | Just how great of a love he's shown us
00:43:19.980 | Behold what manner of love is?
00:43:23.900 | That we are called the children of God
00:43:25.900 | What does it mean for you to worship God this morning? What did it take for you to be here this morning?
00:43:31.100 | To have this communion with God
00:43:33.420 | Well, let's take a few minutes as our praise team comes up to take some time to pray and ask God Lord
00:43:38.580 | Help me to forgive help me to recognize that what I have in you that I may give a reasonable response
00:43:45.060 | Let's take some time to pray