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2015-05-17 Introduction to Philemon


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00:00:00.000 | chapter 1 and I'm going to be reading verse from 1 through 7 this morning.
00:00:09.000 | Philemon chapter 1, actually it's only one chapter, Philemon 1 through 7.
00:00:14.240 | Okay.
00:00:16.760 | Philemon 1 through 7, "Paul prisoner for Christ Jesus and Timothy our brother to
00:00:23.840 | Philemon our beloved fellow worker and Aphia our sister and Archippus our
00:00:28.400 | fellow soldier in the church in your house. Grace to you and peace from God
00:00:32.360 | our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ. I thank my God always when I remember you
00:00:36.500 | in my prayers because I hear of your love and of the faith that you have
00:00:39.720 | toward the Lord Jesus and for all the saints. And I pray that the sharing of
00:00:43.920 | your faith may become effective for the full knowledge of every good thing that
00:00:47.600 | is in us for the sake of Christ. For I have derived much joy and comfort from
00:00:51.840 | your love my brother because the hearts of the saints have been refreshed
00:00:55.360 | through you." Let's pray.
00:00:59.080 | Gracious and loving Father we thank you so much for this morning. We thank you
00:01:05.760 | for your provisions. We thank you for health. We thank you Lord God the freedom
00:01:11.480 | that we have to worship you in this country. And we ask Lord that you would
00:01:16.080 | help us never to take any of these things for granted and we know that
00:01:19.160 | there are brothers and sisters all around the world who are being
00:01:22.800 | persecuted and it's such a privilege Lord God for them to even gather
00:01:27.320 | together. So we pray Father that as we wrestle not against flesh and blood that
00:01:34.400 | you would equip us, challenge us, renew us, and fill us with your spirit Lord God
00:01:39.360 | that your power may be evident in your church. So we pray for your grace for the
00:01:44.760 | rest of this time in Jesus name we pray amen. All right so we're gonna be in the
00:01:50.560 | book of or the letter of Philemon for the next maybe about a month or so and
00:01:54.640 | I am I've been kind of wrestling with where to jump to after second Timothy
00:01:59.240 | and I am for the most part committed to the book of Romans for the most part and
00:02:06.480 | we've studied the book of Romans several times in different avenues and that was
00:02:11.120 | kind of like the book that we spent I think the first two three years of Bible
00:02:14.080 | study on Friday night. So there's a few of you who was with us during that
00:02:17.400 | period and I really was wrestling should I jump to the Old Testament should I go
00:02:22.600 | through another book and and I before I jump to the Romans I wanted to spend
00:02:27.240 | some time in Philemon because it is a short letter and I the subject matter
00:02:31.800 | that we're gonna be talking about I think is will be beneficial for us and
00:02:35.520 | then once we get to Romans we're gonna be in there for a while but I really
00:02:38.200 | want to wrestle through the text and and see what we have how it's gonna affect
00:02:42.960 | our church as we go through it but Philemon on the surface may look like
00:02:48.160 | you know if you if you've ever read Philemon you may end at the end of it
00:02:51.720 | ask yourself why is this even in the Bible you know because there's no major
00:02:56.000 | doctrines exposited in this text there's not it's not an instruction for pastoral
00:03:00.560 | ministry it's there's no advice about how to run the church or you know any
00:03:06.880 | any of this stuff so we may just kind of read it and then say well okay it's a
00:03:11.400 | very personal letter it's almost like right reading a letter that was written
00:03:14.600 | from one person to another person just kind of a third person reading it but I
00:03:18.840 | really believe that Philemon is is a powerful letter because it gives us a
00:03:24.480 | glimpse of the early church we know a lot of issues and problems that the
00:03:30.720 | early church had and obviously Paul and the other Apostles were writing to
00:03:34.320 | address these issues but really this letter gives us the life of what at
00:03:40.160 | least one aspect of the life of the early church and you know I know that
00:03:43.760 | in the last maybe about five six years there's been a movement that kind of you
00:03:47.720 | know went across on it and I think we're still in the midst of it this gospel
00:03:51.040 | centered movement some of you guys may be aware of it some of you may not be
00:03:53.880 | but this gospel centered movement if you go to the bookstore almost every book
00:03:58.040 | new books is coming out is gospel centered parenting gospel centered
00:04:01.760 | church gospel centered prayer gospel centered marriage I mean everything is
00:04:05.800 | just gospel centered and I think core of it is fantastic because gospel ought to
00:04:11.440 | be the foundation gospel should be the reason why we worship and gospel should
00:04:16.320 | be the cornerstone in which we build any church but if we're not careful the
00:04:22.960 | gospel center movement can easily become just vocabulary now instead of saying
00:04:27.440 | Christ centered we say gospel centered instead of saying loving God we say we
00:04:31.800 | love the gospel right instead of saying we've been impacted by the cross we say
00:04:36.160 | impacted by the gospel so if we're not careful all it will become is just the
00:04:41.800 | way we express our faith is different well you know he says it the right way
00:04:45.640 | or he uses the right vocabulary if it is truly gospel centered it must be
00:04:52.320 | evident in the life of the people not just vocabulary not just how you feel in
00:04:57.240 | a room but the power not when Paul says I am NOT ashamed of gospel for it is the
00:05:02.280 | power of God unto salvation how has the gospel shaped your life does it brought
00:05:08.600 | you to your knees how has the gospel shaped your evangelism have you been
00:05:14.280 | more convicted or is it just a security blanket see the power of the gospel
00:05:21.240 | power of the cross I think the greatest evidence of that is in a changed life
00:05:26.160 | the Apostle Paul here's a man riding to a predominantly Gentile city the Colossae
00:05:32.200 | which is where our the recipient of this letter is from Philemon and here's a man
00:05:38.000 | who at one point hated the Gentile he was probably one of those people that
00:05:42.360 | would travel an extra day just to get around Samaritan Samaria because he
00:05:46.760 | thought that that land was tainted he was a Pharisee among Pharisees and here
00:05:51.920 | now he's sitting in prison and he's writing to a group of probably most
00:05:56.480 | likely a Gentile Church trying to restore this runaway slave to his former
00:06:01.920 | master see that the early church I think the greatest evidence to me of the
00:06:08.000 | resurrection of Jesus Christ is the impact that it made not on the
00:06:13.020 | individual but on the culture of the early church imagine Jews and Gentiles
00:06:19.480 | hated each other for hundreds maybe thousands of years they hated each other
00:06:23.560 | and all of a sudden you find them calling each other thousands of them
00:06:28.640 | brothers and sisters in the same church you see people who are former Pharisees
00:06:35.000 | sitting with former tax collectors and the tax collectors are instructing them
00:06:39.960 | about how to be right with God like what happened and it didn't happen in in a
00:06:44.400 | matter of three four five hundred years instantaneously these people were saying
00:06:48.400 | because Christ was resurrected that it changed them that powerfully a former
00:06:54.520 | slave and a runaway slave and former slave owner would be brothers and
00:07:01.440 | sisters in the church sharing and breaking bread together clearly
00:07:06.160 | something powerful happened this was not you know no matter how much you try to
00:07:09.960 | psychoanalyze this and say you know sociologically maybe because the poor
00:07:14.640 | were attracted to the gospel because of the promises that it made I mean no
00:07:18.080 | matter how much you try to dissect why the Christianity took off no amount of
00:07:24.080 | analyzing and dissecting really will explain this powerful change that took
00:07:28.240 | place all like instantaneously other than the cross itself you know a few
00:07:35.080 | years ago I was contacted by a friend of mine that I haven't seen since high
00:07:38.720 | school so it's you know on the first service I was in the calculation it was
00:07:41.880 | about almost 29 years I haven't I haven't seen him and so I got in contact
00:07:46.520 | he somehow found me through a mutual friend and he wanted to become a my
00:07:51.000 | Facebook buddy so I said man I haven't seen this guy in years so we finally got
00:07:54.560 | together and you have to you have to realize that the last time I saw this
00:07:59.240 | guy he got kicked out of Kennedy High School I think it's in Artesia for
00:08:03.600 | selling drugs and so obviously I had friends who were you know running in
00:08:09.520 | that same kind of crowd and so we met each other and the last time I remember
00:08:13.600 | him was getting drunk with with beer and whatever alcohol in the back of his
00:08:18.320 | trunk in some parking lot and I forgot why we drifted apart but that's the last
00:08:22.320 | memory I have of him and he has of me and so when we met together I was
00:08:26.680 | thinking like man I'm a pastor now you know and I was kind of curious what our
00:08:32.120 | conversation was gonna be like you know he's probably gonna say remember when we
00:08:35.840 | did this and we did that so I'm a pastor now you know I don't do that you know
00:08:41.240 | but we finally met together and found out that he had a huge conversion
00:08:47.120 | experience he actually had double cancer and he was beating that he just kind of
00:08:53.320 | came out of chemotherapy and and even prior to that how God radically changed
00:08:59.680 | him and he's a deacon at the church down the street here Bethel he's a he's a
00:09:04.000 | fop so he's in the Korean side right and so he was sharing with me about his
00:09:08.760 | testimony and about how he came to know the Lord and he goes to morning prayer
00:09:13.080 | every single day he's involved with the mission program there he's always you
00:09:16.480 | know flying over to Turkey and to Hong Kong and to China and to Korea and and
00:09:20.320 | to to help with the missions program and his life goal right now is to is to be
00:09:26.800 | able to support missionaries after they retire so that they can come home and
00:09:30.440 | retire and to take care of them because he realized so many missionaries have a
00:09:33.840 | hard time when they retire and he's a very successful businessman so so you
00:09:39.560 | know he actually has the means to be able to do that so you know I'm blown
00:09:43.200 | away because last time I remember him was again just getting drunk and then he
00:09:48.360 | would tell me a story he's like hey so what's going on with you so I'm a church
00:09:51.520 | down here in the street you know over here and he actually came visit a couple
00:09:55.320 | years ago and so every once in a while we still meet up and we have
00:10:00.000 | time of fellowship and every time I talk with him it's just I'm just blown away
00:10:03.760 | you know in the last 20 some years that I haven't seen this guy like what this
00:10:08.280 | guy became so every once in a while I get tempted to bring that bring up our
00:10:12.480 | old past but it's just kind of awkward now you know what I mean because he's
00:10:16.560 | we're talking about missions and all of a sudden a minute you got drunk you know
00:10:22.200 | I mean I think the power of the testimony of the gospel of Jesus Christ
00:10:27.400 | has changed lives no matter how much we say you know this is what the gospel is
00:10:32.000 | this is what Jesus is and we share all of that if there isn't the testimony of
00:10:36.440 | how it affected our lives it becomes impotent it's powerless the true core of
00:10:42.880 | the gospel movement has to change the church it has to change our prayer life
00:10:47.600 | it has to change our fellowship it has to change the way we live what we pursue
00:10:51.920 | what we value it can't be just change of vocabulary see in the early church not
00:10:58.760 | only is do you see the effects of the gospel in an individual's life but you
00:11:02.560 | see it immediately in the book of Acts you know a positive Paul alpha so Peter
00:11:07.880 | preaches the gospel in front of the same people who crucified Jesus most likely
00:11:12.680 | at the end of it 3,000 people come to Christ and then right after that it
00:11:17.960 | describes what this community looked like in the early church now I want you
00:11:22.760 | to I want you to follow along with me you don't need to turn there but I want
00:11:25.920 | you to listen to how it's described they were asked to 42 to 47 they devoted
00:11:32.760 | themselves to the Apostles teaching and fellowship to the breaking of bread and
00:11:36.840 | the prayer and all came upon every soul and many wonders and signs were being
00:11:42.720 | done through the Apostles and all who believe were together and had all things
00:11:46.800 | in common and they were selling their possessions and belongings and
00:11:50.200 | distributing the proceeds to all as any had need and day by day attending the
00:11:55.440 | temple together and breaking bread in their homes they received their food
00:11:58.880 | with glad and generous hearts praising God and having favor with all the people
00:12:03.600 | and the Lord added to their number day by day those who are being saved now I
00:12:08.720 | know you probably read this before and you look at this is like oh I mean you
00:12:12.360 | know this is nothing new do you know how much discipleship and work and labor
00:12:18.080 | would go into building a community that looks like this I can imagine like a
00:12:24.000 | church of maybe a hundred and twenty all of a sudden have three thousand people
00:12:29.040 | being baptized and part of that church like just just organizing like how are
00:12:34.640 | we gonna eat on Sunday you know I remember when our church was smaller and
00:12:39.280 | we had about a hundred people every Sunday you know we had lunch and we'd be
00:12:43.680 | together and after a while we realized like oh that's too much work let's go
00:12:46.360 | out and then we would go to you know some fast food joint and we would shut
00:12:50.400 | that down and then you know the UTC where the college students hang out we
00:12:54.800 | used to actually go there on Sundays and shut that whole place down you know then
00:12:58.680 | we grew a little bit after that it's like well we can't do that anymore so
00:13:01.440 | we'll do lunch at the church again but let's do it every other week and then
00:13:05.240 | every week every month and then now it's like man even once a month is it's too
00:13:09.280 | much of a headache right how we're gonna do Bible study we used to fit everybody
00:13:13.040 | in my house and then when that overflowed we had Wednesday and Friday
00:13:16.920 | and then we have to offer I mean it just I can't imagine a church going from 120
00:13:21.680 | to 3,000 overnight in my mind it's like oh my gosh I mean that's just too much
00:13:27.200 | we're not gonna find enough leaders we're not gonna be able to disciple
00:13:30.160 | people fast enough but yet we have a community here instantaneously was
00:13:36.720 | devoted to the teaching breaking of bread fellowship they were actually very
00:13:41.200 | generous selling their possession giving it to one another they were enjoying the
00:13:45.960 | favor when I mean this is an ideal perfect church but it happened
00:13:50.560 | instantaneously it wasn't because of years of discipleship and years of
00:13:56.160 | modeling and years of systematic teaching it just happened now does a
00:14:03.320 | Bible teach about discipleship yes does the Bible teach us about modeling yes
00:14:07.080 | are all those things necessary part of building a healthy church yes but at the
00:14:12.680 | core of what makes a healthy church is people who have been affected by the
00:14:17.520 | cross people who have been deeply affected see the power of the cross
00:14:25.000 | isn't simply that you didn't go to church and then now you attend church it
00:14:29.040 | changes everything about what we value what we are entertained by how we find
00:14:34.880 | encouragement what we consider to be a blessing in a secular world if you get a
00:14:41.200 | good job and you make a lot of money you say well I've been blessed but as a
00:14:45.720 | Christian we know that that shouldn't be our perspective because there's many
00:14:50.120 | Christians who lose their jobs because they've been blessed by God many
00:14:53.880 | Christians can't meet together with their families because they've been
00:14:58.000 | blessed by God I think the greatest testimony of the power of the cross has
00:15:04.920 | changed lives not how well the church is organized not how awesome the praise
00:15:10.800 | that is but change lives the greatest testimony of our of our lives a greater
00:15:17.160 | witness is your radically changed lives because of the cross see Philemon on the
00:15:26.680 | surface seems like just a you know an average letter you know of an apostle
00:15:33.800 | the pastor is concerned about his disciple and he's writing a letter hey
00:15:37.120 | you know would you receive him but I believe that it is a powerful testimony
00:15:42.720 | of the effects of the cross in the early church
00:15:47.560 | Philemon was probably a leader in Church of Colossae it says that those churches
00:15:54.760 | meeting at his house his wife the FIA is probably his wife archipis is his son
00:15:59.320 | and his and he's actually mentioned in Colossians 417 as a fellow companion of
00:16:04.480 | Apostle Paul so here is a prominent member in the Colossian Church most
00:16:08.600 | likely a wealthy man because they probably had a large enough house and
00:16:12.560 | said well what we're gonna meet is that well his house is probably the best
00:16:14.920 | house to meet and he probably had more than one slave several slaves you have
00:16:20.360 | to understand in order to really appreciate the letter that immediately
00:16:24.080 | when you hear the term slave we we attach to it all the negative evils of
00:16:28.800 | slavery that we know of in the last hundred years but understand that the
00:16:34.320 | system of slavery during this period was not considered an evil institution it
00:16:39.200 | was actually a part of their economy when somebody would be indentured or
00:16:44.360 | somebody with old money and they couldn't pay it back they would actually
00:16:47.920 | become an indentured servant for a period and then once it's paid off they
00:16:52.200 | would earn their freedom and in some instances finding a godly or a gracious
00:16:58.480 | master would have been the best way for that family to be protected and provided
00:17:03.000 | they couldn't do this on their own they didn't have a lot of rights so it's not
00:17:08.080 | the institution in itself was evil it's you had evil slave masters and sometimes
00:17:13.040 | you had evil slaves but if the institution in and of itself wasn't evil
00:17:19.360 | but it's in that context where Philemon decided you know what I'm gonna I'm just
00:17:24.320 | gonna take off and he we don't know the background story we don't know what
00:17:28.440 | kind of harm that he did maybe he stole certain things when he left but Philemon
00:17:32.640 | or Onesimus this runaway slave by the grace of God as Paul's of Paul is
00:17:38.280 | sitting in prison runs into him and he shares the gospel you know you would
00:17:42.520 | think that you know if you're laboring hard that if you get captured and you're
00:17:46.360 | sitting in prison you say okay timeout you know you know I've been running hard
00:17:51.080 | but why did God put me in here but that never stopped the pause of Paul he wrote
00:17:54.840 | you know he wrote letters he sent disciples he was still evangelizing in
00:17:59.240 | fact he was even thanking God that as a result of him being in chains that it
00:18:04.120 | was affecting other brothers to share the gospel even more and even the people
00:18:08.400 | who he was chained to can you imagine those Roman guards how many times they
00:18:12.000 | must have heard the gospel from this guy you know I mean he's writing the gospel
00:18:16.080 | and he said hey do you know what I'm you know so he never stops so even as he is
00:18:22.480 | chained to the Roman guard he's concerned about this runaway slave that
00:18:26.720 | again apparently may in the eyes of the world is completely insignificant and
00:18:33.800 | you see the power of the effect of the cross on all three of these people on
00:18:38.560 | Paul again sitting in prison if anybody had any right to say timeout you know
00:18:46.120 | I'm gonna take a break kind of like what we do we may be working hard but you
00:18:51.240 | know maybe something happens at your work or maybe you get sick or maybe one
00:18:55.080 | of your kids that could get sick and say timeout timeout right
00:18:59.040 | Apostle Paul had any right any anybody had any right to say that was a possible
00:19:04.200 | and he's labored he was beaten right stone thinking that he's dead and you
00:19:09.800 | know he's stone he's with a Roman guard chained 24/7 and yet he's writing this
00:19:16.080 | intimate letter to his fellow worker to receive him not not as a former slave
00:19:22.520 | but as your brother here's this you know previous slave you have to understand
00:19:28.920 | for him to even go back to where he came from legally he could have been
00:19:34.000 | executed for what he did they could have just said you know what you ripped me
00:19:38.080 | off and you hurt me and they could have just dragged him and by by legally they
00:19:42.600 | would have been justified to simply get rid of him so for him to even go back
00:19:48.240 | you could clearly see there was there was a power behind him he was affected
00:19:54.000 | by the cross and then for Philemon himself after all the things that he may
00:19:58.380 | have lost I mean just financial loss a slave running away and how he maybe he
00:20:04.600 | was a good slave owner and say you know he was treated him well and all of a
00:20:07.560 | sudden he just takes off like that and for him to even receive him none of this
00:20:12.160 | is he is humanly even imaginable if it wasn't the effects of the cross if the
00:20:18.920 | power of the gospel was not affecting every single one of these people this
00:20:21.800 | letter would not be here see the reason why this letter is so important because
00:20:26.160 | it reveals to us not only the power of the cross but it reveals to us God's
00:20:32.480 | tender heart for sinners you know you've probably read again in Psalm 8 3 to 4
00:20:41.240 | where David says who am I you know why are you so mindful of him he said this
00:20:46.480 | is what he says in Psalm 8 3 to 4 when I look at your heavens the work of your
00:20:51.200 | fingers the moon and the stars which you have set in place when I imagine who you
00:20:56.800 | are when I recognize that you are a all-powerful all-sovereign God and then
00:21:02.920 | he says considering who you are what is man that you are so mindful of him and
00:21:08.920 | the Son of Man that you care for him I think the reason why Christians
00:21:14.480 | sometimes get into this rut of why God why don't you do this and why didn't you
00:21:20.280 | answer my prayer is because we forget we forget who he is and we forget who we
00:21:26.960 | are considering who he is considering that he created the universe who are you
00:21:35.800 | and who am I to come before God and say why didn't you why don't you see what
00:21:43.360 | David says is the attitude that every Christian should have considering who
00:21:49.800 | you are considering what you have done why would you care why would you care
00:21:57.840 | why would you care about this runaway slave who's insignificant I mean you got
00:22:03.720 | the bigger world to worry about why disco why stop and give attention to
00:22:08.240 | this sinner see in Psalm 144 144 verse 4 it says man is like a breath his days
00:22:18.880 | are like passing shadow we're just a mist that comes and we disappear
00:22:24.080 | consider how insignificant we are in the light of the universe in light of
00:22:28.480 | eternity how much of our relationship is turned sour because we forget how
00:22:35.960 | insignificant we are how much of this church fellowship becomes tainted
00:22:41.840 | because we forget how insignificant we are we are a miss it's because we're we
00:22:48.760 | consider ourselves more important than we really are and we try so hard to
00:22:53.520 | elevate ourselves even just a little bit and it's that it's that process of
00:22:59.560 | wanting to be better than the next guy wanted to be elevated than the next
00:23:03.280 | person that is causing all this conflict he says who are we in light of who you
00:23:11.600 | are why would you even know my name why would you even know my name see every
00:23:20.480 | Christian the starting point in our relationship with God begins there and
00:23:26.800 | again in a culture where everybody's trying to all you know we weren't
00:23:30.280 | concerned about your self-esteem you know you're so low you're so great
00:23:33.920 | you're so awesome you know but the beginning point in our worst you know
00:23:37.680 | walk with God is you are nothing I said I got a jerk you know and come to be
00:23:45.440 | uplifted life is hard enough as it is but this that's what the scripture so I
00:23:50.440 | mean forget forgive the scripture just think logically have you seen how big
00:23:58.200 | this universe is how big this galaxy is we're smaller than a dust and we're
00:24:06.080 | trying so hard to be something you know he said knowing in light of who you are
00:24:11.600 | why would you even care why is this letter here why do you even think of us
00:24:17.040 | why do you even listen to us but the amazing thing about the gospel is he
00:24:23.320 | does I can't explain to you why because I don't know but he does in fact it's
00:24:30.560 | not even just a New Testament that is his nature that's who he is
00:24:34.960 | Deuteronomy 24 19 to 22 again if you just read it in passing like you're
00:24:40.720 | reading that you know like you're gonna read through the Bible and in in one
00:24:43.840 | year you just kind of read it it's one of those passages that you're not gonna
00:24:47.360 | really stop and think but I think one of the most amazing passages in the Old
00:24:52.720 | Testament is passages like this okay this is what it says Deuteronomy 24 19
00:24:57.760 | 22 it's about harvesting in the law of harvesting when you reap your harvest in
00:25:03.440 | your field and forget a sheaf in the field you shall not go back to get it
00:25:07.920 | it shall be for the sojourners the fatherless and the widows that the Lord
00:25:12.720 | your God may bless you in all the work of your hands I know on the surface it's
00:25:18.800 | like okay says drop it don't pick it up right but think about what he is saying
00:25:24.800 | is it as you are harvested you worked hard and you're harvesting if you drop
00:25:29.080 | something don't turn around to pick it up keep going leave that for the
00:25:34.840 | sojourners of foreigners who have no way to eat leave that for the fatherless
00:25:39.160 | leave that for the widows and if you really want to be blessed do that and
00:25:43.800 | then he continues on when you beat your olive trees you shall not go over them
00:25:47.320 | again it shall be for the sojourners the fatherless and the widows when you're
00:25:51.800 | harvesting the olive trees and you don't get all of it leave it it's for the
00:25:57.920 | people that can't get it on their own 21 when you gather the grapes of the
00:26:02.240 | vineyard you shall not strip it afterward it shall be for the
00:26:05.680 | sojourners the fatherless and the widows you shall remember that you were a slave
00:26:09.600 | in the land of Egypt therefore I command you to do this what is he saying don't
00:26:16.400 | forget that you were the fatherless don't forget at one point you were the
00:26:21.280 | widows don't forget at one point you were a foreigner and so as I've been
00:26:28.000 | gracious to you be gracious to them see God has always been this God and again
00:26:37.400 | we get caught up and when we when we come into church and worship with that
00:26:41.320 | mentality is that you're supposed to love me God so if you love me I want you
00:26:46.440 | to love me this way I want you to answer this prayer and I want you to answer it
00:26:49.040 | this way this is what I want this is what blessing to me means and then when
00:26:53.760 | it doesn't happen that way we spend the rest of our time saying why why don't
00:26:58.960 | you do this for me why didn't you answer my prayer why didn't you give me this
00:27:03.880 | why didn't you give me health but every Christian who genuinely believes that
00:27:11.440 | Jesus Christ died for you even if the rest of our lives looks like Job's at
00:27:19.240 | the end of our life every single person is obligated to say thank you for saving
00:27:23.720 | my soul every single person must be able to say and and should say and natural
00:27:31.760 | response should be when I look at the heavens when I look at the stars your
00:27:36.440 | fingers your power and all that you are who am I that you would even know my
00:27:42.640 | name why would you care for me see that it's not just the Old Testament that's
00:27:50.000 | not just a God of the Old Testament you look in the New Testament first
00:27:53.160 | Corinthians 12 21 26 he said this is the identity of the community in the New
00:27:57.440 | Testament the eye cannot say to the hand I have no need of you nor again the head
00:28:03.280 | to the feet I have no need of you on the contrary the parts of the body that
00:28:07.320 | seem to be weaker are indispensable and on those parts of the body that we think
00:28:12.120 | less honorable we'd be so greater honor and our armors that aren't presentable
00:28:16.640 | parts are treated with greater modesty which are more presentable parts do not
00:28:22.000 | require but God has so composed the body giving greater honor to the part that
00:28:25.800 | lacked it that there may be no division in the body but that the members may
00:28:29.480 | have the same care for one another if one member suffers all suffer if one
00:28:33.200 | member is honored all rejoice together is that the power of the gospel
00:28:39.320 | community is a community that's been affected by the cross so deeply that we
00:28:44.940 | don't honor people who are honorable in the world but it's the fatherless it's
00:28:50.520 | the widows it's the people who are in need to be gracious to them because God's
00:28:54.160 | been gracious to us that the greatest reflection of the power of the cross in
00:28:59.320 | us is not our ability to speak is not our ability to organize it's our ability
00:29:04.320 | to reflect that grace in us to people who don't deserve it that's that's the
00:29:12.000 | foundation in which God calls us to stand to preach the gospel is not how
00:29:17.600 | well it's organized and how much theology we have and how much knowledge
00:29:20.440 | we can disseminate is how deeply have we been affected by the cross that's why
00:29:27.480 | Jesus asked it's no it's not good enough to say this is what my church believes
00:29:31.600 | it's not good enough to say that this is what evangelical Christians believe
00:29:35.480 | this is what Calvin believed this is what Piper believes what do you believe
00:29:41.920 | sometimes we can get caught up that our relationship with God is always just
00:29:49.000 | piggybacking off of somebody else it's not enough to say that loving God is
00:29:55.880 | most important how about you are you convinced that God loves you because the
00:30:03.800 | scripture tells us and again the reason why I want to spend some time in this
00:30:08.160 | book in this letter is because it is a it is a testimony of how the cross
00:30:15.760 | affects even the lowliest person a former Pharisee and a former slave owner
00:30:23.080 | how they became brothers in Christ and how God brings them together to build a
00:30:29.960 | church how insignificant people do you know that that God loves you not the
00:30:41.920 | church not simply the world but you see you know when I when I was a younger
00:30:50.640 | Christian in college I remember doing Bible study with one of my former Bible
00:30:55.200 | study leaders and he I remember him saying the greatest commandment of the
00:31:00.360 | scripture is love the Lord your God with all your heart soul mind and strength
00:31:03.120 | and love your neighbor as yourself these are the two greatest commandment and I
00:31:07.760 | was really wrestling with that because I can say I love the image of God like the
00:31:12.640 | idea of a God who gave his only begotten Son I love that you know I love the idea
00:31:18.200 | of a church built upon his sacrifice I love that I love the fact that the door
00:31:23.080 | has been opened that now I have I have access to God I love all of that but do
00:31:29.600 | you love God do you love God not the idea of God not the image of God not the
00:31:35.880 | theology of God but do you love God and I couldn't honestly say yes because I
00:31:42.200 | love everything about God but to love God I'm not sure and so I started asking
00:31:49.440 | if that's the greatest commandment that should be my greatest pursuit right
00:31:52.280 | right before like I want to share the gospel I'm gonna do all this like do I
00:31:56.360 | love God and I couldn't honestly say yes as committed as I was and so I started
00:32:04.200 | asking how do you do that what do you do to love God so you know I got all kinds
00:32:08.840 | of answers like say I love you God a hundred times and if you say it enough
00:32:13.600 | in the closet then you're gonna see your heart change and and even when I heard
00:32:17.840 | it it's like that doesn't sound right but I'll do it and you know so I tried
00:32:21.080 | it you know and I tried it a lot I wouldn't can I every time I get
00:32:25.320 | frustrated in prayer I was I love you I love you I love you I love you I love
00:32:27.920 | you God he said a hundred times so I gotta make sure it's a hundred times you
00:32:30.600 | know I love you guys I'm good and at the end of it's like this can't be it right
00:32:35.720 | this can't be it and I was really wrestling with that like how do I Lord I
00:32:40.120 | want to love you but I can't honestly say that right I don't know if I love
00:32:44.720 | you like I love my mom or my family and then you know it's just like to have
00:32:49.640 | that kind of affection for him that do I get offended when people offend his name
00:32:53.960 | like I would be offended by if somebody offended somebody I love and I don't
00:32:57.160 | know if I could say that well early on in college you know I had to I had to
00:33:03.200 | work and I got this job at Hughes Aircraft and I was working from from I
00:33:08.480 | think five to about two in the morning and I was completely isolated for about
00:33:13.360 | eight eight and a half hours a day and I would get a dinner break and I would
00:33:18.640 | deliberately go to Pioneer Chicken in that area just so that I can be around
00:33:23.440 | people because I was I was cleaning out bungalows you know it basically is
00:33:28.120 | everybody went home it's dark and I would pick up trash and all that and it
00:33:31.840 | was probably the most loneliest period of my life you know I'm a pretty social
00:33:35.280 | person but there was a long period of time probably about a year year and a
00:33:39.720 | half where I had very little interaction with people and when I say very little
00:33:43.920 | I mean I mean I'm almost none I wasn't living at home so my my you know I
00:33:48.960 | didn't even see my family and so I'll go to work from five to two and then you
00:33:53.880 | come home and then I'll get up and then go to school and I just had very little
00:33:58.520 | contact and I remember there was this one time I was thinking that if I died
00:34:04.520 | here or if I just disappeared if I just walked away I wonder how long it would
00:34:08.640 | take before somebody realizes that I'm gone it was I mean it was pretty
00:34:15.440 | depressing you know and right in the middle of that I remember having a
00:34:19.280 | birthday and I forgot how old I think I was about 18 or 19 and the whole day I
00:34:23.640 | knew that I wasn't gonna run into anybody you know eventually I would
00:34:27.480 | probably go home and then my family would celebrate it but you know but that
00:34:30.800 | particular day I was walking around and and I was like nobody knows I mean and
00:34:34.840 | I'm not a priest I'm not like a necessarily sentimental like what was me
00:34:38.440 | type of guy but that day it was pretty depressing you know it's like I wonder
00:34:42.480 | if anybody would know and I remember it right in the middle of all of that you
00:34:46.120 | know I was in the closet and I was doing my devotions and I was I was I was
00:34:51.040 | praying and I was going through scripture and it just kind of hit me
00:34:53.520 | again if I disappeared here I wonder how long it would take before somebody would
00:34:59.480 | recognize that I'm gone and so in my mind I'm thinking two months maybe you
00:35:03.360 | know two months and then my mom's gonna hey where's Peter you know I would think
00:35:07.200 | my mom would be the first one that would look for me and then the next he would
00:35:11.280 | probably send my older brother come look for me because that's usually the
00:35:13.960 | pattern you know and then I said I would talk about that's the pattern then it
00:35:18.440 | just hit me like a ton of bricks right he who did not spare his own son how
00:35:26.160 | will he not along with him give you everything if God knew you enough that
00:35:31.480 | to send his only begotten son do you not think that he knows you're here he
00:35:36.200 | counts every hair on your head he loves you more than you can possibly imagine
00:35:41.560 | it just broke me in the closet you know it's like and it was like what was me
00:35:47.080 | I'm so lonely you know nobody knows where I am and it's just like I know you
00:35:53.920 | I love you and I can honestly tell you it was probably the hardest period of my
00:36:03.600 | life because I was so isolated for such a long time during that period but God
00:36:09.800 | isolated me and he he became so real to me you know it says in first John we
00:36:17.600 | love because he first loved us and I realize when you're not convinced of his
00:36:24.120 | love for you we go through the mechanics because we think that's the right thing
00:36:29.560 | to do but it's not your joy it's not what brings life you do it because
00:36:36.880 | you're supposed to do it but when you're in love that's where the greatest joy
00:36:43.160 | comes from that's where you feel the most alive when you're the nearest to
00:36:49.640 | Christ when somebody who loves you that much and he's that powerful and is that
00:36:57.120 | that knowledgeable and is that caring and then he's for you what can possibly
00:37:04.080 | happen in this life that would cause us to say why God you see Paul writes this
00:37:12.680 | letter and he begins a letter by saying Paul a prisoner for Christ Jesus in
00:37:18.560 | almost every other letter he says Paul an apostle of Jesus Christ he he brings
00:37:23.120 | his authority because he needs to speak to them with authority I'm speaking on
00:37:27.840 | behalf of Christ here's wrong things here's wrong behavior that needs to be
00:37:31.320 | fixed but in this letter he humbles himself as a lowly prisoner and the
00:37:37.920 | reason why he does that is because he says he explains in finally even eight
00:37:42.160 | and nine says according accordingly though I am bold enough in Christ to
00:37:46.360 | command you to do what he is what is required yet for love's sake I prefer to
00:37:51.960 | appeal to you I Paul an old man and now a prisoner also for Christ Jesus I'm not
00:37:59.880 | gonna command you even though I have the authority I'm not gonna shake my fist
00:38:04.520 | and say how can you possibly do this is that I'm a prisoner I lost all things
00:38:10.160 | for the sake of Christ I'm sitting in prison because of Jesus and now you as
00:38:19.360 | Christ has called me now you I appeal to you as a humbled brother in prison would
00:38:26.760 | you forgive your brother would you receive him not as a slave but as your
00:38:31.720 | brother I appeal to you in the power of the cross that's an appeal to every
00:38:37.840 | single one of us in light of what he has done for us forgive your brother forgive
00:38:45.280 | your sister in light of what he has done for us that the greatest fruit of his
00:38:54.800 | power his cross in us is that we would also be gracious people so I pray that
00:39:02.000 | the time that we spend in the book of Philemon that we would not simply learn
00:39:05.200 | about well here's a possible here's what slavery looked like in the early church
00:39:08.520 | here's what Colossae looked like here's this man of God that behind all of this
00:39:13.320 | that you would see a tender loving God who cares for insignificant people
00:39:19.640 | that's you that's me and that we would not simply declare his love in our songs
00:39:25.520 | but that we can honestly say that we love Jesus that this is a God worth
00:39:33.880 | following this is a God worth sacrificing this is a God worth loving
00:39:40.000 | and worshiping so I pray that behind all of this that we would fall love fall in
00:39:44.800 | love with Christ let's pray
00:39:47.960 | I want to encourage you as our worship team comes up and again that we would
00:39:57.960 | take time that I know there's there's things that on your mind you have you
00:40:03.280 | know work you have paper you have responsibilities but in the midst of all
00:40:07.880 | of this that we would take a step back and say Lord I want to love you with all
00:40:13.720 | my heart I've drifted away and it's been a long
00:40:17.360 | time so I've been impacted by your grace I want to confess my love to you that it
00:40:22.680 | would not just be words to take some time to come before the Lord and just
00:40:27.240 | confess Lord help me help me to recognize your great love for me that I
00:40:33.400 | would have a reasonable response in loving you let's take some time to pray
00:40:36.760 | as our worship team leads us
00:40:40.840 | (music)