get to know the people so i tell them have people over your house get to their house go in their house and get them to your house so my wife for our entire ministry has sunday morning we always have a big group over we ask two questions how'd you get saved tell us how you met got married and by the time they leave several hours later we've got some indecisible into them and they will say to us i've heard this i know over a hundred times we've never been in a minister's home before that's sort of a problem but anyway get to know the people and john macarthur made this statement i totally agree with it don't go preach on romans or hebrews start someplace simple when you start that is non-controversial where people get to know you and they remember we're shepherds and the sheep don't trust the shepherd unless he sees the shepherd uh quite often and then they'll follow so we have to the people have to get to know us and that's our job Bye.