What is the secret to having an incredible vacation? Look, I've planned thousands of vacations for hundreds of people. And I'll tell you that it all boils down to one thing. Is this trip choosing you or are you choosing this trip? How organized are you for the trip that you want to have?

Is this something you've been dreaming about for years? You've thought about, or is this a spontaneous pop-up that maybe you didn't have planned for, but you're going to go on it anyway, because the flights worked out or there's a great hotel or you're going to stay with friends or whatever, and you're just going along for the ride.

Are you in control? And if you've planned this thing and you've been meticulous about it, or are you deciding, Oh, Hey, this sounds fun. Let's go do this. When people set out to do something and they go accomplish that trip that they've been thinking about dreaming about for years, whether it's a honeymoon or a bucket list trip or whatever, then it's incredible.

But there's also this openness for spontaneity and the opportunity that comes with, Oh yeah, this sounds like this could be pretty cool. Let's do this too. And that can be an incredible pathway too.