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Reclaiming Your Power: Saying No Without Apology


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"Are you an asshole or not?" It's in the eye of the beholder. If you're bad in your mind, that's the biggest problem. If you're not allowed, it goes against your, I call this your personal bill of rights. You might not have a right to say, "No, I'm not available for that." You might not have a right to not respond to all the emails.

And as long as you don't have that right, 'cause you haven't claimed it, you're gonna feel guilty, you're gonna feel stressed. So in my personal bill of rights, I have a right to not respond to all emails. I'll reply to a lot of some of the emails of my clients.

I'll try to get back to a lot of them, but not everybody, not all the time. So someone out there sometimes might think that is E's guy, he's an asshole 'cause he didn't do X for me. And you know what? That's okay. So really finding that permission to not do the things that you truly don't wanna do.