John Street - God’s Design for Wives

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Summary of John Street’s Marriage Seminar

Main Points

1. 00:00:25 Three things for a godly husband: learner, lover, leader
2. 00:01:03 Marriage became a battleground of the sexes after the Fall
3. 00:05:30 Biblical submission is misunderstood in modern culture
4. 00:36:35 Three things for a godly wife: submission, suitable helper, selflessly reverent

Arguments

1. 00:07:00 Submission doesn’t mean inequality, as demonstrated by the Trinity
2. 00:13:56 Submission doesn’t mean intellectual stagnation or being a doormat
3. 00:15:11 Submissive people can be highly influential, like Jesus
4. 00:33:38 A wife’s primary ministry should be her husband
5. 00:42:43 Respecting and honoring a husband has a humbling effect, not an ego-boosting one

Bible Verses

1. 00:00:50 Genesis 3:16 - Explains the curse and its effect on marriage
2. 00:06:18 Ephesians 5:22-24 - Instructions for wives to submit to their husbands
3. 00:27:59 1 Peter 3:1-6 - How wives should live with unbelieving husbands
4. 00:32:57 1 Timothy 2:13-15 - Explains the basis for submission in creation order
5. 00:41:32 Ephesians 5:33 - Summary verse on husband’s love and wife’s respect

Practical Applications

1. 00:19:47 Wives should use their intellect to complement their husbands and further the marriage
2. 00:29:56 Wives should win over unbelieving husbands through conduct, not words
3. 00:31:27 Focus on inner beauty rather than external adornment
4. 00:44:59 Find admirable qualities in your husband and focus on them
5. 00:45:29 Let the Holy Spirit convict your husband; don’t try to be his personal Holy Spirit

Overview

John Street’s marriage seminar focuses on the biblical roles of husbands and wives, emphasizing the concept of submission within marriage. The central message revolves around the idea that following God’s design for marriage leads to harmony and happiness, while deviating from it results in conflict and misery.

Street uses various Bible verses to support his arguments, primarily drawing from Ephesians, 1 Peter, and 1 Timothy. He presents a complementarian view of marriage, where husbands and wives have distinct roles that work together for the good of the relationship. The seminar addresses common misconceptions about submission and argues that it is not demeaning or oppressive when properly understood and applied.

Throughout the seminar, Street emphasizes the importance of wives respecting and honoring their husbands, while also encouraging wives to use their intellect and abilities to complement their husbands. He presents a view of marriage where the husband is the leader, but the wife plays a crucial role as a “suitable helper” and influential partner.

Recurring Themes

1. The importance of following God’s design for marriage
2. Misconceptions about biblical submission
3. The influence of cultural feminism on modern marriages
4. The role of wives in supporting and respecting their husbands
5. The transformative power of living according to biblical principles in marriage