John Street - God’s Design for Marriage

Conference
Marriage
God
John Street
Author

Lawrence Wu

Published

August 14, 2024

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Summary of John Street’s Marriage Seminar

Main Points

  1. 4:44 God designed marriage, not humans
  2. 31:56 Marriage is given by God as a covenant relationship
  3. 34:51 Marriage is not to compete with human options or substitutes
  4. 39:38 The primary purpose of marriage is companionship, not procreation
  5. 53:01 The parent-child relationship is intended to be temporary, while the husband-wife relationship is permanent

Arguments

  1. 15:02 Contemporary societal views on marriage (e.g., trial marriages, contract marriages) contradict God’s design
  2. 26:30 Adam’s naming of the animals demonstrates his loneliness and need for a suitable companion
  3. 46:58 The foundation of marriage should be commitment, not romantic feelings
  4. 56:58 Becoming “one flesh” involves unity in all aspects of life, not just physical intimacy

Bible Verses

  1. 26:09 Genesis 1:26-27 - Discusses the creation of man and woman in God’s image
  2. 36:36 Genesis 2:18 - “It is not good for man to be alone”
  3. 50:27 Genesis 2:24 - Describes leaving, cleaving, and becoming one flesh in marriage
  4. 50:43 Proverbs 2:17 and Malachi 2:14 - Referenced to describe marriage as a covenant

Practical Applications

  1. 57:56 Prioritize the spouse over children in daily life (e.g., serving food, opening car doors)
  2. 59:52 Base marriage on commitment rather than feelings or what the other person brings to the relationship
  3. 1:07:53 Work towards unity in all aspects of life (e.g., parenting philosophy, finances, spiritual views)
  4. 1:05:34 Understand that losing some individuality in marriage is positive, leading to true companionship

Overview

John Street’s marriage seminar presents a biblical perspective on the institution of marriage, emphasizing its divine origin and purpose. The central message is that God designed marriage as a covenant relationship primarily for companionship, not procreation or personal fulfillment. Street argues against contemporary societal views that undermine the permanence and sanctity of marriage, using Scripture to support his points.

Throughout the seminar, Street uses biblical passages, particularly from Genesis, to illustrate God’s intentions for marriage. He contrasts these with modern concepts like trial marriages and robotic companions, arguing that these deviate from God’s design. The seminar emphasizes the importance of commitment over feelings, the permanence of the marital relationship compared to the temporary nature of the parent-child relationship, and the concept of “becoming one flesh” in all aspects of life.

Street’s approach to marriage is deeply rooted in biblical teaching, presenting a conservative, traditional view of marital roles and purposes. He challenges modern cultural norms and encourages couples to base their marriages on God’s design rather than societal trends or personal desires.

Recurring Themes

  • The divine origin of marriage
  • The primacy of the marital relationship over all other human relationships
  • The importance of commitment and covenant in marriage
  • The contrast between biblical marriage and contemporary societal views
  • The comprehensive nature of marital unity (“one flesh”)